Beloved Training
Beloved Issue #17
How Love Songs Can Tell You What You're Attracting
September 22, 2008
Greetings!

So many goodies for you wonderful Goddesses! The information and gems seem to be flowing faster and faster these days!!!

In my Manifesting Your Beloved Intensive, we have Declarations that we make to the Universe that help to align the personality with what I call the Beloved within. And one of these statements is "I pay attention only to Media that inspires me."

Women often tell me how hard it is to carry through with this promise when there is so much negativity in the media. And it's unfortunate because if media was to be fair about the representation of what good is happening currently vs. what bad is happening, the bad would actually be a tiny blip on the radar screen. That's how distorted our media is.

The same is true in the way the media reflects love. Flipping through the radio station, I'll often land on a channel to discover the lyrics to be almost criminal (and sometimes flat out criminal, people killing one another etc) in it's representation of love. And over the years, I've noticed that I am less and less in vibrational acceptance with media that resonates on the "negative" part of the emotional scale. But there are times when a certain song will be so catchy that I can't stop singing it, or that I'll be attracted to something negative and not know why. Sound familiar?

In this Issue, find out how love songs can reveal not only what you are attracting but also which ones can help you to attract the romance you want.

And for those of you who have been asking about when the next Manifesting Your Beloved 2 Day Intensive is coming. We have the LAST ONE in 2008 scheduled for December 6 & 7!

Do you want to go another year without this beautifully transformational experience? 

Although we are no longer offering scholarships there is a very special EARLY BIRD discount and highly desirable bonus if you register before OCTOBER 31, 2008. Click here to find out more!

Also, I am so proud to announce that I'm no longer the only Beloved Trainer. Gorgeous Beloved Coach and Trainer Laura Rice. will be helping me to launch a wonderful new and (no cost) 2 hour Manifesting Your Beloved Orientation which we'll be holding at different locations in the Bay Area. You can read more about it below.

Last and certainly not least, I'm featuring a very Special Guest this Thursday night Shakti Wilson, owner of LIfe Solutions, SEPTEMBER 25, 2008 at 6 PM PST. She is an amazing healer who has a super quick method of helping people to release subconscious blocks about love, health, and wealth issues that is unlike anything I've ever seen. Please join me with questions for this extraordinary woman. To register click here.

All my love,
Bella
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She'll be giving us an introduction to the Spiritual Response Technique and you may be able to experience a sample of her work!

Just a few testimonials of Shakti's work:

"Shakti's results have been 100% Her technique is quicker than my years of therapy. For years, I had not had a pleasant vacation with my dysfunctional family. I am now able to have a pleasant vacation. I do not seem as vulnerable. There are no verbal attacks, no vicious arguments, or withheld love. Also, road trips with my husband are now more enjoyable." - Nicole CA

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"I can honestly say I received more from one hour with Shakti than all my years of therapy." - Christina, MD

"Finally my personal blocks released and I have healed myself. I am living my dreams. [Shakti] has given me a new path on a joyous life." - Andrea, ID

"SEE" YOU ON THE CALL!
-Love Bella
"How Love Songs Tell You What You're Attracting"

HAVE YOU EVER FOUND YOURSELF singing a song over and over and over again, especially one that is emotional, during a break up maybe?

It's cathartic, allowing us to fully feel and express our emotion before we choose to move and release it to the Universe. Right?

Well, it depends on how you use it.

One of the largest breakthroughs I've had in understanding the Law of Attraction has been around re-framing what emotions are and how they work.

I'm sure you've heard the expression, "don't be so emotional", or "get a grip on your emotions", or that women are "overly emotional."

During my childhood I was always labeled as overly emotional, but now I've come to understand why that was, and also how once you understand the true nature of Emotions, your emotional sensitivity is actually your largest asset!

As it turns out, emotions are not creative.

I repeat EMOTIONS ARE NOT CREATIVE.

The beliefs that underlie an emotion are.

Emotions are simply INDICATORS.

They indicate what you believe about a particular subject.
And what you believe is what you attract into your experience.

At a recent Abraham-Hicks workshop, someone asked them "what is thought" and "what is thinking". The answer was that "thought" was an offering of vibration and that "thinking" is simply what happens when you focus your attention on a thought long enough that it starts to attract like vibration or thoughts to it. There really is no process of thinking, there is only focus and magnetizing.

So how does this relate to feeling? Let's say your lover just broke up with you (which you did not want) and you try to understand what happened. You start to think, "I don't want this, I can't believe he doesn't love me." As you focus on this belief, other thoughts like it start to aggregate, like "there's something wrong with me, I'm too old, love is painful, etc. etc." And hence the feeling of sadness, even depression comes about and you find yourself belting out Bonnie Raitt's "I can't make you love me."

The emotional song just indicates what you are currently believing. And then, one day you find yourself sick of depression and revenge feels better than a forlorn song about losing a love. Why is that you think?

Because your belief is shifting. And believe it or not, if you started off feeling grief, revenge is actually a vibrational improvement, it is more empowering than depression. And anger is even more empowering than revenge.

This is not to say that one ought to stay at any of these beliefs for long or to take action on these feelings because they are still not in vibrational alignment with the truth of who you are, but rather that if Powerlessness/Grief are the bottom of our emotional scale (the point of most disconnection with the Truth of who you are), then you'll know that you are coming back to life when you move up the scale from anger>discouragement>blame> worry>doubt etc.

In fact, using Abraham-Hicks Emotional Scale as a reference, I've  matched up various love songs to the different emotions so that  you can discover where are you vibrating when it comes to love.

Seeing what song you're attracted to, you'll see where you are at on the emotional scale.

And once you discover what it is, you'll know what song to reach for next, because you'll find that people can't just jump from one end of the scale to another, the difference in frequency of vibration is too vast. However, you can move up incrementally, and you can even do it by listening to the songs that are right above where you are. Just make sure to GO UP THE SCALE!

ENJOY!

1. JOY- Love can move mountains - Celine Delion
2. PASSION Ain't No Mountain - Marvin Gaye, Vision of Love, Mariah Carey
3. ENTHUSIASM/EAGERNESS/HAPPINESS  These Words - Natasha Beddingfield, You Send Me - Sam Cooke, My Girl - The Temptations
4. POSITIVE EXPECTATION/BELIEF - Unwritten- Natasha Beddingfield,
5. OPTIMISM - Kind and Generous, Natalie Merchant
6. HOPEFULNESS - Believe - Cher, Cupid -Sam Cooke,
7. CONTENTMENT - Don't worry be Happy - Bobby McFerrin, Private Party - Indie Arie
8. BOREDOM - Are you having any fun?- Count Basie - Tony Bennett
9. PESSIMISM- What's Love Got To Do With It- Tina Turner
10. FRUSTRATION/IMPATIENCE- Hung Up - Madonna
11. OVERWHELM - This Love, Maroon 5
12. DISAPPOINTMENT- You don't bring me flowers-Barbara Streisand
13. DOUBT - Galileo - Indigo Girls
14. WORRY - Will you still love me tomorrow?
15. BLAME- Because of you - Kelly Clarkson
16. DISCOURAGEMENT - You're so gay- Katy Perry, Love is a Battefield - Pat Benatar
17. ANGER - I will survive- Gloria Gayor
18. REVENGE - Before He Cheats- Carrie Underwood, Wake up Call - Maroon 5
19. HATRED/RAGE - You're so vain, Carly Simon
20. JEALOUSY- Don't cha - Pussy Cat Dolls
21.  INSECURITY/GUILT - If I never see your face again - Maroon 5
22. FEAR/GRIEF/DESPAIR/ POWERLESSNESS - I Can't Make You Love Me - Bonnie Raitt

All love,
Bella

Bella Shing is a Spiritual Love Coach who helps people who believe in the Law of Attraction to Manifest their Beloveds by understanding first and foremost how to be that for themselves.

She publishes the monthly "Beloved Training" Ezine where you'll get Tips, Resources, and Inspiration on how to be the Beloved all the time. Get your Free subscription at: www.manifestingyourbeloved.com

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