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Greetings!
Hello Beloved Ones,
Have you ever wondered why humans resist and struggle so much?
I certainly have. As I have manifested so many beautiful things in my life, I also have found that as I reach new levels of expansion, and light that whatever has held me back in the past tends to show up. And never is it more apparent then when I'm about to make a breakthrough. Sound familiar?
And I always notice this as people register for the Manifesting Your Beloved 2 Day Intensive. (We're having our first one in LA this weekend!!)
At every event, there are usually a handful of people I've seen register and then cancel, register and then cancel, sometimes upwards of 5 or 6 times. And then they finally come and they are so relieved. It's always fascinating to watch the flurry of activity when we are preparing the registration list, people saying both yes! last minute and backing out last minute.
I understand, I've done it myself. Much as we love the idea of our dreams coming true, the voices within that are (always trying to serve us-albeit sometimes from an expired point of view) can keep us spinning in circles. Find out in this issue, the value of resistance, as well how to differentiate when it is an empowering voice or one that keeps you apart from your well-being!
All love,
Bella
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Manifesting Your Beloved 2 Day Intensive for the first time in Los Angeles THIS WEEKEND!
Spots are still available and no we don't know when we're going to be back in the area ; )
Imagine:
- Breaking through old emotional resistance (with lightening speed and a hilarious new method)
- Discovering Your Divine Relationship Blueprint - so that you can immediately see if the person in front of you is a "key" (to your Beloved) or a keeper (the Beloved himself)
- Anchoring into your body your Divine Feminine essence (the source of easy creation, abundance, beauty and ecstasy) and know how to access it instantly, always!
- Learning how to receive and practice divine guidance. Participate in a live demonstration of synchronicity and learn how to use it to guide you.
- Freeing yourself from all negative beliefs about men and relationships.
Listen to what women have had to say:
"I met my beloved about 3 weeks after I attended the workshop."
"When
I attended Manifesting Your Beloved workshop with Bella I had already
done a lot of work and I didn't expect a whole lot but it really blew
me away...I experienced a lot of connection with myself and a new
vibrancy. My creativity was sparked and I had a billion ideas I'm still
nurturing months later and the best part is that I met my beloved
about 3 weeks after I attended the workshop. I get chills as I say
that. If you're hesitating and you want to meet your beloved just do
it. Thank you Bella!"
~ Jen Aly, Happily Ever Now Coaching, Santa Cruz
"Bella's grasp of the subject matter was truly awesome, plus the way she teaches is dynamic and fun. She gave so much useable, practical info that I am using right now! I feel much more sure that I can manifest wonderful relationships with men NOW, not 5 years from now." - Tori Coto, Restorative Resources
"I
have attended many workshops, classes, etc. on manifesting the
relationships of your life, so to speak and this workshop was so
different, so unique-truly a spiritual as well as practical process.
I'm both impressed and grateful to and for Bella who has such a
unique and clear method of teaching. What a blessed weekend!"
-Lucy Fassbinder Speech & Language Pathologist
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August 30 & 31, 2008 in Los Angeles
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"Why do we resist love?
There's a beautiful book by Gyorgy Dozci called the Power of Limits. And in this book, the author illustrates how all matter and form has limits, edges, and boundaries. In order to define different aspects of creation, there must be limits. Limits of height, weight, speed. Definition of colors, of shapes, of how flowers blossom, trees climb, webs are woven all depend on the power of limits.
Simple concept and yet very profound.
As spiritual beings, I'm sure many of us have wondered why we can't just instantly fly, apparate and disapparate like in the Potter books (not to say you can't but in most cases, we don't) Through the course of my life as I have marveled at the exquisiteness of creation on this planet, I have come to understand that it is often through its limitations that much beauty and pleasure can be experienced.
For example, a delicious meal is more delicious because of the limitations and definitions of the plate, the coloring of the food, the contrast of something light and something heavy (ie: Chocolate Souffle with ice cream), the souffle being light of course!
And when you think of dancers, it's the way that gravity limits them that gives rise to the oohs and ahs when the are able to fly across the stage, or dance on the very tips of their toes as if it required no effort at all.
So friction, gravity, traction, resistance is often necessary for the contrast needed for creativity.
And in the realm of human relationships this is also true. To value a relationship where communication, purpose, commitment, empowerment, honoring, tenderness, respect, devotion, remembering, marveling, excitement, mystery, romance, surprise can occur, the opposite needs to exist as well.
It's impossible to recognize something you truly want without having understood what you don't want. And that is why I find there can be resistance when it comes to people having a beautiful relationships.
People have been acrueing so many experiences that they don't like that they start to believe that it doesn't get any better. What people do not realize is that your bank account of experiences has created its opposite. That "jerk"
of a boyfriend, or girlfriend, that betrayal, that ugly remark, that
lack of attention, that unkindness has given rise to desiring and
appreciating its opposite.
And so how does it come? I've seen it come fastest when people "get" this concept, and relax into the knowingness that the joy that is coming in has come from their individual experiences, and preferences that they have honed and developed through the living of contrast.
So resistance is valuable when you resist the neigh-saying voices,the voices that say oh yeah, things never change, or what if I get hurt again, that defines itself with "nevers, shoulds", guilt, blame, or judgment.
Because the truth is that through our experience of life, we tell the universe what we want and it gives it to us.
And I have been astounded by the physical aspect of this truth in watching the Beijing Olympics.Michael Phelps breaking the record with 8 gold medals (a few of them won on pure desire 1/100th of a second), human evolution continues to stretch the boundaries of limits, new Olympic records are always being set. if you watch how Usain Bolt broke the world record in the 100m race, this year at the Olympics in slow motion, you'll see that we are beginning to fly.
For some fun links of how fast we evolve and shift in what is possible check out this video on a new kind of innercity sport:
Parcours
Bella Shing is a Spiritual Love Coach who helps people who believe in the Law of Attraction to Manifest their Beloveds by understanding first and foremost how to be that for themselves.
She publishes the monthly "Beloved Training" Ezine where you'll get Tips, Resources, and Inspiration on how to be the Beloved all the time. Get your Free subscription at: www.manifestingyourbeloved.com
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A group of Beloved Women at the Manifesting Your Beloved 2 Day Intensive
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