Anthony Venn-Brown - Author - Professional Coach - Speaker

Greetings!

Have you done it this year yet?

Sydney fireworks

I usually try and do it as close to New Years Day as possible. 

Last year I did it while I was having a break in Singapore. 

For several years I've done it at the Park Hyatt in the Rocks, Sydney.

One year I was a bit tight financially, so I did it in a local park. 

This year though I was back to the Park Hyatt for one of the most important nights of the year.

My most important night of the year

People who know me, know that the first opportunity I get in January, I set aside for an annual ritual. I have a date with a special person in my life. Quality time devoted to the most important relationship I will ever have. The one I have with myself.

On this date I do two things.

1. I write down all my achievements over the previous 12 months and congratulate myself. (Hence the special meal and premium glass of chardonnay)

2. I write down my goals and dreams for the coming year.

 It's fascinating to look back at the previous year's list. I can check off so many things. Those that haven't been accomplished go on the New Year list again if I still want them to happen. One that I have on my list for several years (my autobiography becoming a feature film) took another step closer a few weeks ago. Writing down everything that has happened in the previous 12 months can be extremely encouraging and empowering once you begin to list them all. Try it!  I'm sure you'll find more than you realise.

Initially I thought I hadn't achieved as much in 2009 as I did in 2008. As I began to reflect, I realized that much of what I had accomplished had been behind the scenes and supporting others. There were 45 things on that list. Some were small things like, got through a bout of depression (maybe not all that small). Others were very significant like being voted One of the 25 Most Influential Gay and Lesbian Australians for the second time. Others were great achievements in community work.

The next thing I did was write down my goals and dreams for 2010. This year I categorised them and came up with 32. One has already happened; to be on an ABC TV show. We filmed last Sunday and will go to air in the next couple of weeks. Very exciting.

 

These are the categories for my 2009 goals.

  • Business/career
  • Financial
  • Family
  • Health
  • Community
  • Personal
  • Outrageous. Yes I have a section to put things down that are wild, crazy dreams. Just one or two. If they happened it would be amazing. Is this realistic you ask? Well in previous years some of the outrageous things I wrote down actually happened so I never leave that section out now. I'm now glad I dreamed big!

So if you haven't done this yet for the year I'd encourage you to try it. It's worked for me ever since I became a serious goal setter. Email me your list if you like and I'll make a note to send you an email at the end of the year to see how you've gone.

 

Dream both realistically and dream big.

 

Believe in yourself and your ability to grow beyond what you have known before.

 

And have a great 2010.


Anthony Venn-Brown

Any questions? Feel free to email me anthony@anthonyvennbrown.com

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After conducting months of extensive due diligence on the coaching process overall, on coaches that fitted my needs, and on Anthony himself as a coach, I admittedly still approached coaching with some level of scepticism that it might exist somewhere between scented candles, crystal therapy and dolphin rebirthing.  Should this have eventuated I was prepared to chalk coaching up to a life experience, quickly move on, and write the investment off as a bad debt.
 
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s an internationally accredited coach (ACC ICF), Anthony has worked with a broad range of clients and over the last nine years gained many 1,000's of coaching hours experience.
Anthony's background includes 30 years in a variety of educational settings, establishing successful businesses and creating exceptional sales results. He has presented to audiences of up to 5,000 and appeared on national television and radio programs numerous times. His award winning autobiography 'A Life of Unlearning,' is now in its second print.

Richness in life experience is what makes Anthony stand out as a coach. His proven ability to negotiate challenging situations, pioneer new opportunities, and commitment to the best possible outcomes, enables him to connect insightfully with clients. By providing an objective sounding board, Anthony's clients gain the clarity and necessary tools to create the career, performance or internal transformation they desire.

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