CHANGE YOUR MIND!!!
I use a lot of mantras in my life and in my coaching practice. And one of my favs is...
"The Outer World is a Reflection of
The Inner World."
When you completely get what that means, you're psyched. You're pumped because it's great news. It means that my entire life -everything that's going on in it - is the result of what's going on in my mind. Everything. No exceptions.
If there's chaos in your life, it's because your mind is chaotic. If you're experiencing peace and success, it's because you're creating peace and success in your mind.
What we're talking about here is The Creator Mentality, or The Ownership Mentality. If I choose to operate from this perspective, I own the fact that what goes own in my life is my own creation. (CHOOSE being one of the operative words there, because it's not like you either inherited the "Owner" or the "Victim" gene, it's a choice).
The Victim Mentality, on the other hand, is defined by choosing to believe that what goes on in my life is the result of circumstance. That's a very popular belief. And a very unintelligent one because it always results in misery and struggle. Always. Without exception.
Here's a simple rule of thumb...
Stuff not going your way? (Victim)
Change your mind! (Creator)
In other words, if you don't like what's going on in your life, own the fact that you're creating it. Whatever it is. And then start to change it by changing the way you're thinking.
CHANGE YOUR MIND!!!