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"There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

                                                      ~Albert Einstein
 
 
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Vuvuzelas and Forgiveness!  
 
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vuvuzela
 
 
As you know, the 2010 FIFA World Cup is well underway in South Africa. Exactly 4 years ago I took the trip of a lifetime there. And during each match I watch now, I'm reminded of the spectrum of emotions that I experienced while there in June of 2006.
 
(This message is NOT about the vuvuzelas in any way, by the way. I just happen to love those things and wanted to incorporate them somehow.)
 
South Africa has so much beauty. Some of the finest hotels and resorts I've visited on the planet. Some of the best cuisine. Wildlife safaris. Great white shark diving. Some spectacular golf courses. Wineries. Spirituality.  
 
It's also a confusing place these days, however.  It's an awkwardly recovering post-Apartheid culture struggling to re-establish freedom and equality amidst continued corruption and racism, rampant crime, inaccessible resources and education, the ongoing HIV epidemic and some of the world's largest and most impoverished communities - called townships (ghettos).
 
My friend Nancy Giles and I in one of the largest slums on Earth. Those are homes behind us - shacks.
Cape Town Shacks
 
 
 
Although this appeared in a museum, it's not so archaic.
White Persons only
 
 
 
12 people lived in this room
District 9 shack 
 
 
One of the things that amazed me most was that despite the disturbingly impoverished nature of this community, and the endless stories about racism and incomprehensible inhumane treatment for generations, so many people continued to choose joy amidst that chaos.
 
These children operate from "causeless joy"
Children of the Township
 
Abuvuki - an amazing musical group of 10 talented, entrepreneurial spirited young men - from the ghetto!
Abavuki
 
The will to experience joy despite conditions was inspiring to say the least. 
 
But what amazed me THE most was what I learned about Nelson Mandela. As you likely know, he was imprisoned for 26 years of his life for speaking out against Apartheid. For speaking up against racism. And the imprisonment was brutal.
 
For 18 of those 26 years he was in a puny cell on Robben Island - the Alcatraz of South Africa.
 
A Bold Decision Maker!
 
 
Here we are in that same space
Mandela's cell
 
 
 
Our Tour Guide - an inmate of Mandela's - holding the Warden's Master key. That key was the Holy Grail of the prison, and he almost teared up just talking about the fact that it was now in his hands.
Mandela's Inmate
 
What this man, our tour guide of the prison, a man who was an inmate of Mandela's, taught us about Mr. Mandela was mindblowing.
 
In the picture below, notice the grass patch off to the left, in the corner of this courtyard...
 
 
The prisoners' courtyard at the prison on Robben Island
Robben Island Courtyard
 
Our guide informed us that Mandela had begged the guards for years for permission to use that patch of soil - the only soil in the prison - to grow vegetables. These are the same guards that would regularly beat the inmates, without provocation, to a pulp, often breaking facial bones by kicking them.
 
Finally, after years, they gave in and granted him his wish. Once the vegetables grew and ripened, much to the shock of everyone, Mandela presented the vegetables as gifts to the guards to take home and to enjoy with their families.
 
So many of the inmates were outraged by this. And it was then that Mandela began teaching them that the most likely way for them to achieve the freedom and equality that they so desperately longed for was through FORGIVENESS.
 
Our guide, when a prisoner, was as committed to revenge as anyone. He was imprisoned for the same "offense" as Mandela. For speaking out against Apartheid. And he was beaten and broken many times by these guards. He thought Mandela was an idiot, as did many of the other inmates. A fool.
 
Mandela, however, through the awareness and consciousness he somehow discovered throughout his unjust and inhumane 3 decade long imprisonment, chose to prioritize forgiveness over revenge. Forgiveness over retaliation. Forgiveness over revolt.
 
On February 11, 1990, Mandela was courageously released by then President FW de Klerk (who won a Nobel Peace Prize in 1993). In 1994, Mandela assumed the Presidency of South Africa.
 
He remains today, at age 91, one of the icons of peace on our planet.
 
He chose forgiveness under the most challenging of imaginable conditions. He did so because he understood the power inherent within it.
 
As you hear the sounds of the World Cup matches being played, let yourself be reminded of the power of forgiveness. And issue it to those for whom you harbor resentment. It's a smart move - as Nelson Mandela's story continues to teach us.
 
 
Nelson Mandela Square, Johannesburg
Mandela Square
 
 K'naan, a Somalia born hip-hop artist wrote the 2010 World Cup Theme song. (Ironically, and disturbingly, 14 Somali teens were arrested last Sunday in Mogadishu for watching a World Cup match!)
 
 
Nelson Mandela World Cup
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For all you seafarers out there!!!
 
I'm organizing a personal transformation experience at sea. It's going to be a "DEEP SEE" voyage. Taking a thorough investigative look into your soul to solidly answer the question, "How do I most profoundly want to use my life?"
 
This one ain't for landlubbers. It'll be a week at sea. No coming back til the journey's done.
 
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