Christopher Dorris - Author, Speaker And Mental Toughness Trainer
 
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WISHING VS. DECIDING 
 
 
Let's spend a minute or two on a really important distinction...
 
 
 (feel the energy of these photos)
 
 
Wishful thinking: 
 

Make a wish!

Make a wish!

Make a wish!

Make a wish!

Make a wish! 

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(now feel the energy of THESE photos)

DECISIVENESS: 

A Bold Decision! 
 
 
 A Bold Decision!
 
 
A Bold Decision Maker!
Rosa Parks - A Bold Decision Maker!
 
 
A Bold Decision Maker!
 
 
A Bold Decision Maker!
 
 
Feel the difference?
 
The distinction between wishing and deciding is that wishing is weak and deciding is powerful. Wishing is nice and fluffy, and sweet. Deciding is determined, perseverant and committed.
 
We're conditioned to hope, to try, to wish for our desires. As if there's some force outside of ourselves that's going to bestow upon us, or grant us something. Wishing is woven into our rituals: "Make a wish before you blow out the candles", "Look, there's a shooting star! Make a wish!"
 
But results don't come from wishing alone. Results come from the intent + right action. And from where does right action come? From making a decision! From deciding that you will make it so, no matter what.
 
It's amazing what we can do when we have to. When we have to, we decide to, and there's no more curiosity about whether or not it will get done. When the boy leaps off the rocks, there's no more hoping. He's leapt. See the phrase in the Gandhi picture? "BE the change you wish to see in the world." BE. Don't wish. Be what you wish. Decide. And let's not wait until we have to.
 
When I'm in a state of hoping, I've got a chance. Likely a weak one, but still a chance.
 
When I've made a decision, it's still not a guarantee that I'll get what I want - but what IS guaranteed is that I will take right action, and SOMETHING miraculous will result.
 
Decide. And create miracles.
Announcements
I'm happy to announce that recording is underway for my new Creating Your Dream Audio Program! Once I stopped "wishing" I had an audio program to offer folks, and I made the decision to create it, it started flowing. I'll keep you posted on that. 
 
 
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With Love,
 Christopher Dorris
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