Trinity Church E-Pistle November 5, 2009
When you know better,
you do better

I love the quote "When you know better, you do better" and I believe you'll soon understand why.
 
I was raised Episcopalian.  I have vivid memories of my father, dressed in a suit, slipping our church envelop into his breast pocket before we headed to church.  Usually my Dad would place the envelope into the velvet lined collection plate but he would always give us change from his pocket so
we could contribute too.
 Fitzgeralds family photo
Although this was our ritual, it was never discussed. As a matter of fact, as a child I viewed the offering as "extra", change you found in your pocket, whatever you had on hand the church would be grateful to receive.  I never even thought about what was in the envelope and it certainly never represented money to me.
 
Now fast forward to about 15 years ago when Doug and I started to attend Trinity.  Of course I wanted the envelopes because that was such a part of my fabric.  I was still under the guise that the collection was just for
"extra" money.  No commitment, no purpose, just extra money and the church was grateful for whatever you contributed.  I remember forgetting the envelope on occasion and Doug and I would panic.  He would reach for his
wallet and show me all of our options.  Then, with my eyes bugging out of my head I would intimate "$20, are you crazy???"
 
Now fast forward to about 4 years ago when we started to get much more involved in the church.  We saw where our dollars were needed and where they were being used. That was my "Ah ha moment"...I realized then that I was the beneficiary of most of what Trinity offered...
  • All 4 of my children were baptized right here at this altar
  • How could we have attended services without Sophie and Sophia in the toddler daycare?
  • All my children attend Sunday school
  • Our family loves to attend Shrove Tuesdays pancake supper
  • I sat in these pews many days when the sermon spoke right to my heart
  • The clergy consoled me 5 years ago when my father passed away and again in December when my mother passed too
  • AND, I'm afraid to let you all in on Trinity's best kept secret, but Compline is amazing
So by now, we started to catch on and we started giving more...Remember what I told you in the beginning, When you know better, you do better.
 
Fast forward one last time to 2008.  In September I asked Anne Marie to explain tithing to me and it became our long term goal.   Then October hit and the bottom fell out of the financial markets. My husband is in the financial industry and the stress in our house was unbelievable.  No one's employment was secure and my husband was no exception.  And then came the letter from Trinity asking us to increase our pledge. Doug and I discussed it and came to some very important conclusions. We are incredibly grateful to God for all of our blessings and our cup runneth over.  We agreed then to double our pledge.  It was a really scary decision given the economic environment but we did so with complete faith in God and with a tremendous love for Trinity Church.

We are currently at about 5% and I proudly say..."When you know better you do better"   and I am still learning.

Beth Fitzgerald
Parishioner

The Fitzgerald family.

A thank you to the stewardship team for Striving for Tithing
Robert Hurlbert by AER

The Stewardship team THANKS the entire Trinity Community!  Our Community has clearly demonstrated how important Trinity is to all of us!  

Many families volunteer to assist with Stewardship, and we would not be where we are today without so many involved from Our Community.

Thank you to the following team of Stewardship volunteers:

Bill Hackett, Bob & Reaney Kunkler, Bruce Woodger, Carol Burden, Charles & Daphne Jones, Charlie & Julie Chesebrough, Chris & Holly Schade, Beth Fitzgerald, Eric Brown & Terri Hassett, Jeffrey & Amy Miller, Kevin & Michelle Davidsen, Mark & Liz Hamilton, Nancy Metcalf, Peter Nalen, Richard & Linda Werner, Spencer & Abby Reynolds, and Tom & Anne Mavis .

Thank you to our operations team of Alison Roth, Annie Thomas, and Elly Matsil for all the great work you do to support Stewardship.  

Finally, thank you to Father Paul and the Vestry, who continually provide incredible support and focus on making Trinity a better Community for all of us.  

We are on our way, as we are
Striving for Tithing!

Peace,
Robert Hurlbert

Stewardship Chairman
Keep going!
332 pledges in!
$952,540 raised, as of Wednesday, November 4th
Elly Matsil, our finance staff member, reports that we have 27 new pledges and 120 pledges that have increased from last year. If you need a pledge sheet (not cards this year),  please  email her at
matsile@trinityprinceton.org

Thank you to everyone who has pledged so far:

Jonathan & Bonnie Adams, Mary Alden, Joyce Alexander, Claire Anderson, Ildiko Antal, James Armstrong, Mary Jane & Bill Augustine, Angeline Austin, Edward & Kelly Avosso, Betty Ayers, Eric & Kathy Baldwin, Emilienne Baneth & Laurent Nouailhetas, Lloyd & Barbara Banks, Barbara & Michael Barnett, Dan & Jenny Bartell, Paul & Holly Becker, Mellick & Betsy Belshaw, Stephanie & Andrew Benjamin, Merrill Biancosino, David & Phyllis Billington, Gypsy Birdseye, Carol Blount, Brett & Lisa Boal, Sheila Bodine, Raju & Lindsey Bohra, Bill Bolger, Peter Bonette & Judy Buster, Henry & Michele Bowden, Glenn & Jane Brewer, Ted & Barbara Bromley, Eric & Terri Brown, Whip & Sally Buck, Andrew & Karen Bucklee, Agnes & Phil Burch, Carol Burden, John & Margaret Burger, Bill & Judy Burks, Greg & Lee Burnham, John & Anne Burns, Rob & Kristen Callahan, Juan & Ramona Carlile, John & Gail Caruso, Jean Cary, Christopher Cavanaugh & Bruce Stewart, Charles & Julia Chesebrough, Drew & Catherine Chintala, Linda Clark, David & Wendell Collins, Jim Collins & Joan Reilly, Jeanne Conerly & David Venturo, Caswell & Mary Cooke, Tom & Loretta Cooper, Elizabeth Cooper, Doris Cowan, Joseph & Donna Crafford, Jonathan Craig, Joanne Crain, Ted & Jean Crane, Louis & Lisa Crocker, Rick & Bonnie Crowley, Russell & Gay Culin, Randy & Heidi Currier, Helene Davies, Van & Lynne Davis, Lauren Davis, Alice Davison, Anthony & Laurie De Lio, Guy & Vicky Dean, Jason & Jennifer DeBord, Trey & Hillary Delaney, Jane Delung, Julie Denny Clark, Merlynn Dixon, Annette Duvall, David & Rosemarie Earley, Verena Edwards, Robbie & Shawn Ellsworth, Joanne & Paul Epply-Schmidt, Barbara Evans, Gail Farkas, Jim Faus, Anne Faynberg, Dee Fenton, Brian & Brooke Fitzgerald, Doug & Beth Fitzgerald, William Flagg, Dick & Midge Fleming, John & Joan Fleming, Evelyn Flory, Grant & Lindsey Fraser, Rob & Liddy Fraser, Jean Frederick, Mary & Douglas Fries, Lisa & Michael Froncek, Richard & Mary Funsch, Kirk & Connie Garber, Sarah Gaventa, Mike & Lor Gehret, Anthony & Beverly Genetta, Aristides Georgantas, Al & Pat Gerbig, Victor & Jacqueline Gibbs, Edward & Nannette Gibson, Sophie & Curtis Glovier, David & Joanne Golann, John & Judy Golden, Jean Gorman, Bob & Elizabeth Gorman, Terry Grabar, Joe Greer, Tom & Marion Griffith, Peter Gruen & Anne Elliott, Bob & Wanda Gunning, Bob & Lee Gunther-Mohr, John & Andrea Hagaman, Gano & Catharine Haley, Mary Margaret Halsey, Sam Hamill, Mark & Liz Hamilton, Jack & Meg Hanington, Helen Hannan, Janet Haring, David Hart, Christine Hart, Donald Hartz, Dan & Nell Haughton, Jeanne-Louise Haviland, Dick & Edna Hawkins, Bill & Aline Haynes, Rob & Nancy Hearne, Irene Hechler, David Lenihan & JoAnn Heisen, Scott & Wendy Heiser, Eileen Henlotter, Mary Henry, Neal & Cynthia Hesterberg, Nan Hewson, Kit Hildick-Smith, Marsha Hirschman, Aaron & Lora Hobart, Curtis Hoberman, Eric & Sarah Hockings, Alison Horsburgh, Bob & Mary Hulme, Jean Huntington, Robert & Rhonda Hurlbert, Katharine Huston, Marc & Stephanie Ippolito, Steve Isham, Edythe Jackson, Gretchen & Ted Jaeckel, Stephen & Marilyn Jardin, Paul & Christina Jeanes, Esther Jenkins, Jens & Blanche Jenson, Hallett & Melon Johnson, Charles & Daphne Jones, George Jones, Ted Kane, Ted & Elizabeth Karns, Belrena Kelemen, Joyce Kelleher, Allan & Helen King, Henry & Lanny King, Lewie Kingsford, Michael & Louise Kingston, Charles & Janet Klaveness, Tracey Knerr, Margaret Kopliner, Janet Kuenne, Sue Kugler, Robert & Reaney Kunkler, Drew & Donna Laessig, Mary Laity, Rob & Cynthia Lanchester, Bill & Martha Lashbrook, Leighton & Ann Laughlin, Peter & Dede Lawson-Johnston, Owen & Beverly Leach, Bernard & Joan Lechner, Richard & Lily Leonard, Bill & Nancy Lifland, James & Leslie Linnehan, Judy Lowry, Clint Lyle, Fred & Bev Lynk, Tracy & Susan MacGregor, Michael & Sheila Maita, Don & Cordelia Mann, Donald & Beth Margeson, Janet Martin, Dave & Kitty Martin, Art Martin, Carolyn Massad, Ernest Mathews, John & Verna Matthews, Sally & David McAlpin, Robert & Linda McClellan, Mark McConnell, Maureen McCormick & Phil Unetic, Brian & Leah McDonald, Lindsay & Maricris McDowell, Art & Kim McGinnis, John & Ann McGoldrick, Scott McGoldrick & Linda Noel, Juliana McIntyre, Joan & Ed McKeon, Alan McMichael & Melinda Roberts, Terry Merrick, Marc & Tina Marie Mitchell, Edmund Moeller, Lloyd & Dorothy Moote, Perry Morgan, Donald & Dot Morin, Alexander & Elaine Moskwa, Craig & Ann Muhlhauser, Clive & Dulcie Muncaster, Burt & Rita Myrick, Peter & Lisa Nalen, Bertrand & Lauren Navarrete, Edward & Sarah Nelson, Ronald & Adelaide Novak, Rick & Carol Ober, Polly O'Donoghue, Kim & Terrance O'Malley, Frank Ordiway, Joel Pacheco, Stephen & Susan Paneyko, Consta & May Papastephanou, Sarah Parker, Dee Patberg, Diane & Suresh Paulsell, John & Jan Pell, Florence Peters, Tod & Elizabeth Peyton, Audrey & Robert Pfeilsticker, Jim Phillips, Dean & Marte Pierson, Frank & Susan Pizzi, Charles & Sue Plambeck, David Prescott, Frances Preston, Lockie Proctor, Gil & Camille Quinton, Joseph & Barbara Racich, Paul Raeder & Robert Holley, John Rassweiler, Wendy Rayner, Elizabeth Read, Carl & Anne Reiss, Spencer & Abby Reynolds, Virginia Reynolds, Ed & Kadri Rhodes, Anne Marie & Brook Richards, John Wynne Jr & Juliet Richardson, Claire Roberts, Harriet Robertson, Robert Ross & Susan Easton, Peter & Scottie Rossmassler, Alison & David Roth, Ralph & Barbara Rubano, Rosemary Rutherford, Raymond & Andrea Sacchetti, Rachel Sagebien, Kari Saltin, Susan Sanford, Chris & Holly Schade, Jane Ann Schade, Bill & Lisa Schmid, David & Molly Schneider, Bill & Jane Schowalter, William & Joan Schreyer, James & Ruth Scott, Tom & Melissa Scott, Robert & Michele Seass, Dianne & Robert Senko, Leslie Shear, John & Doris Shea, Michael & Jane Shillaber, Marc & Sharon Sibilia, J B & Betsy Smith, Steve & Jean Snyder, Tom & Margot Southerland, Mary Spence, James & Monica Stahl, Bradley States, Daniel States, Mike & Jody Stebbins, Charlie & Liz Stenard, Robert & Pegi Stengel, Jean Stephens, Bill Stephenson, Philip Stevenson, Carol Stewart, Will & Joanna Storrar, Barney & Barbara Straut, Harriet Stuart, John Sully & Kathy Rohrer, Bill Sweeney, Sandi Tatnall, Don Taylor, Kevin & Susan Taylor, Sylvia Temmer, Jovi & Nancy Tenev, Glyn & Annie Thomas, Carol Thomas, Trisha Thorme & John Meier, Ruth Thornton, Daphne Townsend, Charlie Townsend, Bill & Judy Vogt, Robert von Zumbusch, Veronica Vybiral, Art Wagner, Deborah & Erik Walson, Ed & Carol Weiss, Richard & Linda Werner, David & Fausta Wertz, Connie White, John White, John & Sue White, Tom Whittemore, Betsy Whittlesey, Joan Windsor-Valcin, Mary Ann Winter, Bruce Woodger, John & Diane Woodside, Stuart & Winifred Woody, Eudora Wright and Lucien & Anne Yokana.

For I am sure: The Diocese of New Jersey Gathers this Sunday, November 8th in Ocean Grove
diocese logo




You are invited to join in a celebration of God's ever faithful and unchanging care for us. In these hard times of economic trouble and cultural change and conflict, all members of the Diocese of New Jersey are encouraged to join together for an uplifting worship experience happening on 8 November 2009 at 4 pm. "For I am sure . . ." taken from Romans 8, reminds us that nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ.

What, Where and When
A service of Festive Jazz Vespers with
The Reverend Dr. Francis Wade as guest preacher and Bishop George Councell as officiant.

Held at the delightful Tabernacle at Ocean Grove on NJ's beautiful shore.

On Sunday, November 8th, our songs will be boisterous, our prayers courageous, and our fellowship wonderfully warmed!

 
Worship & Education
Sunday, November 8th, 2009
The Twenty-third Sunday after Pentecost. Proper 27

Click here for this Sunday's Lessons
8:00 a.m. - Holy Eucharist, Rite I
(Traditional Language, no choir)

Sunday morning childcare, for infants to 3-year olds, is available upstairs in the Nursery in Room 202 from 8:45 a.m. until the conclusion of the 11:00 a.m. service.

9:00 a.m. - Holy Eucharist (Rite II)
(Contemporary Language with choir)
The 9:00 a.m. service is perfect for families with children!  Children join in the opening procession and hymn and head upstairs to the Children's Chapel (Room 201). At the Peace, the children return to their families as everyone prepares for Eucharist. If you prefer to worship together as a family, children of all ages are always welcome in church.

10:00 a.m. - Christian Education for all ages!
Immediately following the 9:00 a.m. service
children have choices based on their age:
  • children lead the dismissal at the 9am service, and the process out the transept door and report to their classrooms for Sunday School.
  • Rite 13 ( grades 7-8) meet in room G18
  • J2A students (grades 9-10) gather in room G09 . 
  • Sr. High students (grades 11 - 12) meet in room 111 (aka, the parlor). Please read the story below on the opposite column on our YAC program.
For Adult Forum Hour, please enjoy coffee and tea, and choose from:
  • In Pierce Hall, our rector Paul Jeanes wishes to meet YOU, and discuss parish life at Trinity Church.
  • Bible Study continues in the Library;seminarian Matt Bollinger will lead a Lectionary study
  • In the George Thomas room,enjoy relaxed conversation and meet and greet fellow parishioners
And please make sure to sign up outside Pierce Hall to have your picture taken for our Parish Photo Directory.

11:00 a.m. - Choral Eucharist (Rite II)
(Contemporary Language with choir)
The 11:00 a.m. service offers a slightly more classic liturgy, with Mass settings sung by our gifted choirs.  If you enjoy the rich traditions of Anglican worship, this service is for you.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009
12:10 p.m. Holy Eucharist with homily.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009
5:30p.m.  Holy Eucharist with prayers for healing

Weekday Evening Prayer
5:00 p.m. Transition from your day at work or school to your evening at home by joining us for Evening Prayer, an intimate, daily, twenty minute service of readings and prayers.  5:00 PM  Monday-Friday, in the chancel.

The church is open from 8:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. weekdays for meditation and prayer.

Worship Leaders
November 8th
8 a.m.
Reader: Phyllis Billington
Acolyte: Peter Brennan
Chalicists: Donna Laessig, Nancy Metcalf, Catie Newcombe
Ushers: Lewie Kingsford, Guy Pierson
9 a.m.
Reader: Mark McConnell
Intercessor: Tom True
Verger: Juliet Richardson
Ushers: John Burns, Dan Haughton, Rob Hearne, Verna Matthews, Costa Papastephanou
Chalicists: Connie Brown, Peter Nalen, Ken Turi, Ann Zultner
Acolytes: Kadri Kallikorm-Rhodes, Matthew Burns
Audio: Charles Anene
11 a.m.
Reader: Judy Lowry
Intercessor: Don Mann
Verger: Juliet Richardson
Ushers: Terri Brown, Stuart Duncan, Jim Newcombe, Bruce Woodger
Chalicists: Ildiko Antal, Mary Cullen, Noreen Duncan, Don Mann
Acolytes: Julia Saltsman, Ann Laughlin, Rosemary Parish
Audio: Brook Richards

 
Thinking about your Thanksgiving Menu? So are the clients at Crisis Ministry
 
Thanksgiving Food Drive
Sunday, November 22nd
Pick up your bag this week!
 
Each year Trinity Church does a major food drive the Sunday before Thanksgiving. This year will be no different. You'll get an empty grocery bag at church this week, and you'll be asked to return it, full to the brim, on Sunday, November 22nd. Have you ever wondered about who gets the food we share? As we think about our own Thanksgiving feasts, consider some of the people who look to Crisis Ministry for their daily bread. We'll feature some of their stories (not using their real names) in the coming weeks...

Michael works full-time and is raising his two children while living with his mother.  He earns $1800 net income per month and his mother is charging him $600 per month for rent.  He is trying to save money for first months rent and a security deposit so he can move out.  He comes to our Princeton office for food assistance to help stretch his income toward his goal of independence.
 

Esperanza has four elementary school aged children and her husband works in landscaping.  During the winter there is less work and she needs help feeding her family.  She comes to the Crisis Ministry.
 
Never forget that everyday our partners at Crisis Ministry see workers from Princeton University, Princeton Medical Center, Princeton Public Schools, and many area businesses. They come in for food or financial assistance.  These are the people who receive your generous gifts--your neighbors, your brothers and sisters in Christ. Your gifts of food and cash are crucial to our neighbors in need.

Fall Clean-up on Halloween was a real Treat!
May Papastephanou at Fall cleanup











Fall Cleanup Day was a fun and productive success!!! Thanks to all who came out, worked, and shared some good times:  Randy and Kyle Currier,  Lynne and Van Davis, Hillary and Trey Delaney, Robbie Ellsworth, Barbara Evans, Janet Haring, Andrea Hyde, Beverly Leach, Judy Lowry, Jean Mahoney, Nancy and Ed Metcalf, May Papastephanou, Jan and John Pell, Andrea Sacchetti, Carol Thomas, and John White. Our energetic Rector also pitched in, along with his sister-in-law Leslie Ecklund, and sons John Paul and Luke Jeanes. And sextons Roberto and Enrique worked tirelessly with us and even after we'd all gone home. The Grounds Committee hopes to see everyone again in the spring!


Enjoy the photographs outside Pierce Hall by May Papastephanou (and someone else, because there's a photo of May to see) of this event.
Learn how to use this difibrillator on November 14th
Register by November 11th
Defib. up close
 
Volunteers for Defibrillator Training Needed!

We'll again be offering Red Cross training in the use of our AED (Automatic External Defibrillator)and CPR (Cardio Pulmonary Resuscitation) on Saturday, Nov. 14th from 9AM to 1:30PM in the parlor at Trinity.

There will be a charge of $20 for the session, and it will result in certification by the Red Cross.

The only physical requirement is that you be able to kneel on the floor. We need at least 6 volunteers to make the training worthwhile. We can accommodate 12 trainees. Please let us know as soon as possible.

Ready to sign up? Still have questions? Please email Bill Sweeney waswmd@mac.com

The above defibrillator is located outside Flemer Library
November Calendar
for Junior  and Senior
High School students
   

Christmas Carol 3DNovember 8th:
  A Christmas Carol in IMAX 3-D; Meet at Trinity at 1pm.



November 14th:
Princeton vs. Yale Football game. Meet at Trinity at 11:30AM
 
November 15th:  An Evening with Broad Street Ministry. Meet at Trinity at 4:30pm

November 21st:  Pie baking; all proceeds will support our friends at Broad Street Ministry. Meet at 1pm.

Questions? Please call Michael Lovaglio,
Trinity Youth Director, at 631-747-1409 or email
lovagliom@trinityprinceton.org                                     
Gordon Graham on this week's lectionary readings

  Gordon Graham

 

This week's combination of readings - whether in the continuous track or the thematic track - seems somewhat random. Both the Old Testament lessons are about women in need of protection and support. The Epistle continues the Hebrews theme of Christ's priesthood, while the Gospel from Mark recounts the episode known as 'the widow's mite'. This is the occasion when Jesus praises a widow woman who has given a tiny sum of money to the synagogue in preference to the wealthy people he had seen give far larger sums.

There is an obvious lesson we can draw from this brief episode. Since it seems so plain that generosity is relative to the resources of the giver, it is indeed odd that human beings are so impressed by 'big bucks'. We always hear about huge philanthropic gifts - from Carnegie, Rockefeller, Bill Gates and so on - even though we know that these have cost them nothing by way of personal sacrifice, while we don't hear much about the small philanthropic gifts that are possible only because the givers have forgone things that they wanted. Generosity can never be measured by the size of the gift, and this is a truth worth repeating again and again.

Still, important though this lesson is, it does not take us to the heart of the Gospel. This impoverished woman is giving all that she has to live on to the treasury of the Temple Jerusalem. She thereby demonstrates the depths to which faith in God can go  -- a sharp contrast to the shallowness of 'showy' religion on which Jesus comments in the preceding verses. Yet the hypocrites he condemns do indeed get worldly acclaim, while the poor widow remains in her poverty. That is why her case presents us, as it did Jesus' hearers,  with a real counter-cultural challenge. Which, in all honesty, do we prefer - the kind of success that the world in which we live undoubtedly favors (and which church going can sometimes help along), or the spiritual depth and simplicity that brings us closer to God?


Volunteer Opportunities with Crisis Ministry
The Crisis Ministry-Trenton Food Store

The Crisis Ministry, one of Trinity Church's Outreach Ministries, is seeking weekday morning volunteers in our Trenton location to do intake in the food store.

Volunteers will work one-on-one with clients, welcoming them to Crisis Ministry and updating their files on our very user friendly computer system.  One morning a week from 8:50 a.m. to noon, with the first week of each month off. Contact our volunteer coordinator Elizabeth Ferguson at cmvolunteer@gmail.com
 
The Crisis Ministry is also seeking volunteer tax preparers for our Free Tax Prep/Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC0 program.  Volunteers work one-to-one with clients to fill out and electronically file tax returns on Thursday and Friday afternoons or Saturdays starting in February 2010.  Please contact Yak-Fa Cheung at afkayafkay@gmail.com Training and supervision is provided. 
 

 
Texas Death Row chaplain to speak in Princeton November 10th & 11th
The Rev. Carroll Pickett

Texas' Death Row Chaplain, The Rev. Carroll Picket will speak on the subject of his chaplaincy with death row inmates. 

On Tuesday, November 10th, at 7:00PM he will speak at Princeton University, in McCormick 101.  Among the sponsors of this event are New Jersyseyans for Alternatives to the Death Penalty and New Jersey Association on Corrections.
 
On the evening of Wednesday, November 11th, Rev. Pickett will appear at Sheidi Hall, Gambrell Room (2nd Floor) for a discussion of the Death Penalty and Prison Ministry.  This will be at the Princeton Theological Seminary.

November 15th
Annual Meeting
and Vestry Election
Church and Admin Wing
 
The Parish Annual Meeting will take place on Sunday, November 15, in the Church immediately following the 9 AM Service.  The Parish will elect 5 new Vestry members and 2 wardens.  All parishioners 16 and older are eligible to vote. You must be present to vote; sorry, no absentee ballots.

An additional agenda item this year is a proposed amendment to the Parish certificate of incorporation to reduce the size of the Vestry from 15 to 12, or 4 members for each Vestry class, to be phased in starting with the class to be elected next year in November 2010.  The Rector and the Vestry have proposed this change because of our increased emphasis on parish committees and the opportunity that they, together with the Parish Council of committee chairs, present for leadership.  The Vestry will continue its historic leadership role in finance, personnel, stewardship, and long range planning.  We believe that the smaller Vestry will be able more efficiently to focus on its core mission.

There will be no 11am service on November 15th

Candidates for election at the Annual Meeting
November 15th

For Senior Warden
Van Davis

For Junior Warden
Dianne Paulsell

For Vestry
Julia Denny Clark
Mary Cooper
Mark Hamilton
Terri Hassett
Robert Kunkler
Juliet Richardson
Ruth Thornton
John White

View the candidates' profiles three ways:

TOMORROW
"The Boy in the
 Striped Pajamas"
the November 6th
First Friday Faith in Film

Boy in the Striped Pajamas
10 am at Trinity; please bring a bag lunch and rsvp to Paul Jeanes
if you will attend.
jeanesp@trinityprinceton.org
Sign up NOW
for St. Nick Bazaar
Workshop Spaces
gingerbread house
The St. Nick's Bazaar can use your help!
 
Do you like to bake? 
Do you have items to donate to Jr. Shoppers?
Could you attend a workshop?
 
Please contact the following people to help:
 
        Bake Sale - Morgan O'Connell (princetonmoc@hotmail.com) and Courtney Stephenson (csasts@aol.com)
 
        Gingerbread Houses - Diane Senko (dlsenko@comcast.net)
Contact Diane for the recipe for the Gingerbread!
 
       Junior Shoppers - Leslie Linnehan (pellola@aol.com) and Aline Haynes (haynesaline@gmail.com)
Items can be left on the table in room G3 (lower level).
 
The dates for the St. Nick's Bazaar workshops are as follows:
 
Gingerbread Houses - Diane Senko  (dlsenko@comcast.net)
       Tues. evening, Dec. 1 at 6:00 and Wed. Dec 2 at 6:00
 
Boxwood Topiaries - Holly Schade (holschade@aol.com)
       Wed. morning, Dec. 2 from 9-12 and Thurs. Dec. 3 from 9-12
 
Wreaths - Ann Zultner (ann@zultner.com)
      Wed. evening, Dec. 2 from 7-9 and Thurs. Dec. 3 from 9am-9pm
 

Want to look as terrific as
Jean Huntington?
Keep scheduling those
photographs for

the 2010
Trinity Parish Directory

Jean Huntington

Please make sure to get your picture taken for our Trinity family album (aka. the directory).
 It won't be complete without YOU!. Thanks,
Paul+

To schedule your FREE photo session,
  click www.trinityprinceton.org

Here's more information:
 Photographs are taken in Pierce Hall. You get to choose the photograph for the directory, looking at your selection from a computer screen. If you decide to purchase any extra photographs, 10% of the purchase price is donated to Trinity Church. Questions? Please email Annie Thomas
at
 
thomasa@trinityprinceton.org

Jean Huntington


No Altar Guild Meeting
on November 11th


No Altar Guild Meeting this Wednesday November 11.  A training session will be held on Saturday, November 14 from 8 to no later than 10 am.  There will be no Eucharist.  Please do make every effort to attend and contact Donna Laessig at dlaessig@comcast.net or 908-874-3103 if you are unavailable.
 


Mystery Wine Grab Bag
at this year's
St. Nicholas Bazaar
December 4th Preview Party

Thank you.  So many of you have already stepped up and given us some wonderful donations for the St. Nick's Preview Party Auction but we still need so much more.  We can always use gift certificates from a restaurant or retail shop or for a relaxing massage of other luxury.  Perhaps you have a lovely bottle of wine which you would donate to help launch our new mystery wine grab bag (more on that below). 
Remember this is your chance to make the 2009 Auction something very special because without each of us making donations there would not be a 2009 Auction to benefit Trinity's many outreach programs.
Again, thank you and please contact
Lynne Davis, Gretchen Jaeckel or Jen Bartell (please see contact info below).
 
 wine bottles
Wine Grab Bag
 
Mystery Wine Grab Bag:  help make the St. Nick's Preview Party Auction a resounding success.  We are going to have a wine grab bag event. For a modest ticket price you will have the right to select a mystery wine which could be worth twice as much as the price of your ticket.   Go to your cellar or cabinet and pull out one of those bottles you have been saving and donate to the mystery wine grab bag.  Please note that we can only accept bottles of wine that have a value over $25 for the mystery wine grab bag.  You may contact Lynne Davis, Jennie Bartell or Gretchen Jaeckel should you wish to donate a bottle of mystery wine. 

Contacts:

Jennie Bartell
609-987-9019
jrsbart@comcast.net

Gretchen Jaeckel
609-275-6014
lardie@comcast.net

This year's bazaar is
Saturday, December 5th,
 from 9am- 1pm.

The Preview Party  is Friday, December 4th,  and it begins at 7pm and ends when we all go home!

To volunteer for the bazaar,
please call or email either:
Liz Hamilton
908-431-5424
lizhamie@comcast.net
or
Jennifer Hayden
609-466-3992
mhayden500@comcast.net



NEW!
Join the Party!
Princeton-Yale
Football Tailgate Party
Saturday, November 14th

Princeton-Yale game
Sign up at the parish receptionist's desk if you would like to join our Trinity
tailgate party at 11:30 am (game time is 1pm) on Saturday, November 14th in the Princeton Tigers football stadium parking lot. We'll supply instructions so you can find the Trinity tailgate party spot!
YAC= Young Adults in the Church
Eric Garner, seminarian
The Young Adults in the Church (YAC) program is open to all students who are in eleventh and twelfth grade as well as those students who have completed RTE13 and J2A. The YAC program meets on Sunday morning during forum between 10-10:45 and is intended to aid students in their transition into the church as adult critical thinkers. Both YAC mentors, Michael Lovaglio and Eric Garner, have Princeton Seminary educations and offer students a graduate level perspective of the biblical text. Currently, the YAC class is working it's way through the book of Exodus.

For more information email Michael Lovaglio or come by on Sunday morning for doughnuts and theology.


Eric Garner
Newcomers' Dinner on November 15th
Are you new to Trinity Church?  Would you like to meet other newcomers, your priests, and parishioners?  Then come and join us for dinner, Sunday November 15th at 5:30 PM.  We will be gathering in the George Thomas Room, next to the parish hall.

RSVP to Sarah Gaventa at
gaventas@trinityprinceton.org
 
Paul Jeanes
sails past $1,000
in reaching $1,800 goal for 
Philly Marathon
November 22nd

for
Back on My Feet
Philly marathon
All donations to "Back on my Feet" are tax-deductible. He thanks everyone for their support!

Father Paul
is running the Philly Marathon!! 
As a participant in the race you can "run for a purpose" and Paul will be running for Back on My Feet which promotes the self-sufficiency of Philadelphia's homeless population by engaging people in running as a means to build confidence, strength and self-esteem.  Visit their website to learn more
 (www.backonmyfeet.org) 

Paul is raising $1,800.00 to help
the homeless get back on
their feet.  To make a pledge of
support email Paul at
jeanesp@trinityprinceton.org
or
click here.
Thank you for your support!!
 

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Over 80 registered for
the 2009
Trinity Turkey Trot
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We're very excited to announce the return of the 5K Trinity Turkey Trot Fun Run/Walk, benefiting the Crisis Ministry of Princeton and Trenton, on Thanksgiving morning at 8 a.m.
We have a new course that begins and ends at Trinity, and loops around our gorgeous, famous and historic neighborhood
around Mercer Street.

To register for the
 2009 Turkey Trot, go to :
www.trinityprinceton.org

This year, all registration for the Turkey Trot, for walkers and runners, needs to be completed online at the Trinity website. This year's entry fee is $25, with a $30 fee on Thanksgiving morning.
Please remember, you  have 1 hour to register on race day, from 6:30am- until 7:30am. Anyone late is welcome to follow the course, but they will not receive a t-shirt or be eligible to win prizes. (no cash on the day of the race; please make your checks out to 'Trinity Church').
All early entrants receive t-shirts; day-of entrants will receive t-shirts while supplies last. This year's prizes will include more home-baked pies made by Trinity parishioners.
We will need volunteers !
Please consider
  •  to help distribute the t-shirts, food and water, e-mail Annie Thomas thomasa@trinityprinceton.org

  • to distribute posters and flyers, please email Alison Roth
rotha@trinityprinceton.org
Christmas Pageant for Children
Sunday, December 20th
at 4pm

2008 Christmas pageant group shot
   
Following last year's success, there will be a special Children's Christmas Pageant at Trinity on the Sunday before Christmas (20th December) at 4pm in the afternoon. The pageant is an opportunity for children to present the Christmas story in a dramatic way with words, music and dance. Performers will be in two age groups. There are more ambitious speaking and acting parts for children from Grades 5 to 8, and simpler singing and dancing parts for Pre-K to Grade 4.  Please let Sarah Gaventa know of children who would like to take part. It would be especially good to be able to identify children who have special gifts/interests/experience e.g. acting experience, playing an instrument, singing solos, dancing etc.
 
It is ESSENTIAL  that ALL the performers are able to attend the relevant rehearsals, so before signing up, PLEASE check out the schedule below to see that this will be possible. Of course, children who cannot take part as performers are warmly welcome to attend the pageant itself.
 
REHEARSAL SCHEDULE
 
Grades 5 through 8
Sunday 15th November 1.30pm
Sunday 22nd November 1.30pm
Sunday 29th November 1.30pm (optional)
This is the Sunday after Thanksgiving, and so people may be out of town. There will be a rehearsal for those who can attend. Please let us know.
 
Pre-K through Grade 8
Sunday 6th December 1.30pm
Sunday 13th December 1.30pm
SATURDAY 19th December 9.30am
FULL DRESS REHEARSAL

Sunday, December 20th, 4.00pm CHILDREN'S CHRISTMAS PAGEANT

If your child would like to participate, contact The Rev. Sarah Kinney Gaventa no later than November 2nd.
 


Our Parish Office Hours

are Monday-Thursday,  9am-5pm and
Friday, 9am - 3pm
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  You can always reach our clergy in an emergency by calling them on their cell phones:

Paul Jeanes
609-851-6989

Anne Marie Richards 609-651-3217


Sarah Kinney Gaventa
609-365-0419

Would You Like a
Trinity Name Tag?
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Please wear your name tag during church (all services, so we can recognize you and  remember you at  Evensong and Compline, as well as Sunday morning services.  Please email parish administrator
Annie Thomas if you would like to have a Trinity name tag!
Deadline for the Next E-Pistle  and Service Leaflet is WEDNESDAY,
10 Am
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Look for your next issue of E-Pistle on THURSDAY.  Please keep sending your news for E-Pistle to Alison Roth.  Not sure if your news goes into E-Pistle? No problem! Send everything to Alison, who will direct your information to the proper person, and keep reading E-Pistle to follow the parish life of Trinity Church.

Trinity Church
33 Mercer Street,

 Princeton, New Jersey.
Telephone 609-924-2277
Fax 609-924-9140
www.trinityprinceton.org


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