A Declaration to Myself of where my Heart will be
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As I've listened to all of the stewardship speakers who have
preceded me, I've been thinking "OH YEAH! THAT'S IT!! THAT'S
WHY I PLEDGE!!" But rather than follow through with that impulse and
stand here to say "yeah, what they said," I should probably tell you
instead what came to my thought when Robert first asked me to share my reasons
for pledging.
Now first, in a confessional vein, I have to share with you
that when I was in my twenties, I cringed with discomfort at that point in the
service when, after a transcendently beautiful anthem from the choir, we sang
the doxology and raised toward the heavens a velvet-lined plate of cold hard
cash. This offended my college-honed knee-jerk liberal sensibilities, calcified
religion into materialism, and to me felt like the pride of the Pharisees.
It's worth noting that at this point I DIDN'T pledge - I was
a graduate student who struggled to make the rent (so I told myself), I gave my
time abundantly to the outreach ministries (so I told myself), what I could
spare for the offering plate was enough (so I told myself) and so I trusted
"those people with means" to be the supporters and grown-ups.
So my thirties rolled around, and I did pledge. Why? For the same reason I support
public radio: because it's beautiful, it's important, and it's not free.
I gave, out of a sense of citizenship.
Some things have happened since then: I've married the love of my life and had
children, I've studied and worshipped with a different denomination and then
returned to my Episcopal home, I've lost my father and have begun to face my
mother's Alzheimer's disease. And now I
pledge because I believe that the way I use my resources provides a map of the
desires of my heart. As Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount, "where
your treasure is, there your heart will be also." (Matt. 6-21) In making
a pledge I make a declaration to myself of where my heart will be, and by
fulfilling that pledge I walk my heart back to that place every time it
wanders.
So now I look forward to the point in the service when we
raise the offering plate. We're elevating our commitments, taking notice
of our material sacrifices, and asking a blessing on the desires of all our
hearts. We ask that what we give freely be sanctified.
With love,
Carol Burden
Trinity parishioner
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God invests in me 100%
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Why do I pledge to Trinity?
When
Robert Hurlbert asked me to help with the Stewardship Campaign by leading the
Thank You committee, I said "yes" and thought to myself, "We need to get our
pledge card in." Later he asked me to
talk to you about why I pledge, I said "Sure, I can do that" and thought "now
we really need to get our pledge card in." Robert is quite persuasive and persistent and
I hope to be so too.
So
why do I pledge?
I pledge because
investing in God is simply the best investment I have ever made. God invests in me 100% and only asks for
10% in return.
God has given me
everything, 100%; a wonderful family, a good job, a comfortable home, best
friends...the works. God has given me
all of this freely.
God invests in me
100%. He loves me and cares for me. He guides me and inspires me. And He forgives me when I fall well
short of investing in Him.
That
is why I pledge; there is no greater good, no more important priority and no
better investment than God.
So
why then do I pledge to Trinity?
I
pledge to Trinity because this is where I feel closest to God.
When
we moved to New Jersey from Michigan over a year ago, we didn't know
anyone here. We first came to Trinity on
Father Paul's first Sunday. The church
was packed; there was no place to sit.
We started to leave when an usher found us a few chairs tucked in this
transept behind the organ. When the
opening hymn started and choir kept pouring into the chancel, I got
chills. I heard Father Paul's enthusiasm
and message of welcome. He sounded like
Garrison Keillor and he even looked like him.
I thought to myself, "This is the place we need to be". After the service we met Tom Scott,
Christina and many of you who now are our family here.
That
is why I pledge to Trinity; it is where I feel closest to God and closest to
our new family.
So
during this Stewardship campaign, I would ask you to ask yourself:
What is the
best investment I have ever made?
What investment
has given me everything, unconditionally?
And finally, where
else do I feel closest God than right here with my family at Trinity?
Mark HamiltonTrinity Parishioner
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Keep going! 283 pledges in! $$832,300 raised, as of Wednesday, October 28TH
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Elly
Matsil, our finance staff member, reports that we have 283 pledges in
so far, including 20 new pledges and 105 pledges that have increased
from last year. If you need a pledge sheet (not cards this year),
please email her at matsile@trinityprinceton.orgThank you to everyone who has pledged so far:
Mary Alden,
Joyce Alexander, Claire Anderson, Ildiko Antal, James Armstrong, Mary Jane
& William Augustine, Angeline Austin, Edward & Kelly Avosso, Betty
Ayers, Eric & Kathy Baldwin, Lloyd & Barbara Banks, Barbara &
Michael Barnett, Daniel & Jennifer Bartell, Paul & Holly Becker,
Mellick & Betsy Belshaw, Stephanie & Andrew Benjamin, David &
Phyllis Billington, Gypsy Birdseye, Carol Blount, Brett & Lisa Boal, Sheila
Bodine, Raju & Lindsey Bohra, Bill Bolger, Peter Bonette & Judy Buster,
Henry & Michele Bowden, Glenn & Jane Brewer, Ted & Barbara Bromley,
Whip & Sally Buck, Andrew & Karen Bucklee, Agnes & Phil Burch,
Carol Burden, John & Margaret Burger, Bill & Judy Burks, Greg & Lee
Burnham, John & Anne Burns, Rob
& Kristen Callahan, Juan & Ramona Carlile, John & Gail Caruso, Jean
Cary, Christopher Cavanaugh & Bruce Stewart, Charles & Julia
Chesebrough, Drew & Catherine Chintala, Linda Clark, David & Wendell
Collins, Jim Collins & Joan Reilly, Tom & Loretta
Cooper, Elizabeth Cooper, Doris Cowan, Joseph & Donna Crafford,
Jonathan Craig, Joanne Crain, Ted & Jean Crane, Louis & Lisa Crocker,
Russell & Gay Culin, Randy & Heidi Currier, Helene Davies, Van & Lynne Davis, Lauren Davis, Alice Davison, Anthony
& Laurie De Lio, Jason & Jennifer DeBord, Trey & Hillary Delaney,
Jane Delung, Julie Denny Clark, Merlynn Dixon, David & Rosemarie Earley,
Verena Edwards, Robbie & Shawn Ellsworth, Gail Farkas, Jim Faus, Brian
& Brooke Fitzgerald, Doug & Beth Fitzgerald, Dick & Midge Fleming,
Evelyn Flory, Grant & Lindsey Fraser, Rob & Liddy Fraser, Jean
Frederick, Mary & Douglas Fries, Lisa & Michael Froncek, Richard &
Mary Funsch, Kirk & Connie Garber, Sarah Gaventa, Mike & Lor Gehret,
Anthony & Beverly Genetta, Aristides Georgantas, Albert & Patricia
Gerbig, Victor & Jacqueline Gibbs, Edward & Nannette Gibson, Sophie
& Curtis Glovier, David & Joanne Golann, John & Judy Golden, Jean
Gorman, Terry Grabar, Joe Greer, Tom & Marion Griffith, Bob & Wanda
Gunning, Bob & Lee Gunther-Mohr, John & Andrea Hagaman, Gano &
Catharine Haley, Mary Margaret Halsey, Sam Hamill, Mark & Liz Hamilton,
Jack & Meg Hanington, Helen Hannan, Janet Haring, David Hart, Christine
Hart, Donald Hartz, Dan & Nell Haughton, Jeanne-Louise Haviland, Dick &
Edna Hawkins, Bill & Aline Haynes, Rob & Nancy Hearne, Irene Hechler,
Eileen Henlotter, Mary Henry, Neal & Cynthia Hesterberg, Nan Hewson, Kit
Hildick-Smith, Marsha Hirschman, Eric & Sarah Hockings, Alison Horsburgh,
Bob & Mary Hulme, Jean Huntington, Robert & Rhonda Hurlbert, Katharine
Huston, Steve Isham, Edythe Jackson,
Gretchen & Ted Jaeckel, Stephen & Marilyn Jardin, Paul & Christina
Jeanes, Esther Jenkins, Jens & Blanche Jenson, Hallett & Melon Johnson,
Charles & Daphne Jones, George Jones, Ted Kane, Ted & Elizabeth Karns,
Belrena Kelemen, Allan & Helen King, Henry & Lanny King, Lewie
Kingsford, Michael & Louise Kingston, Charles & Janet Klaveness, Tracey
Knerr, Margaret Kopliner, Janet Kuenne, Sue Kugler, Robert & Reaney
Kunkler, Mary Laity, Rob & Cynthia Lanchester, Bill & Martha Lashbrook,
Peter & Dede Lawson-Johnston, Owen & Beverly Leach, Bernard & Joan
Lechner, Richard & Lily Leonard, Bill & Nancy Lifland, James &
Leslie Linnehan Clint Lyle, Fred & Bev Lynk, Michael & Sheila Maita,
Don & Cordelia Mann, Donald & Beth Margeson, Janet Martin, Dave &
Kitty Martin, Carolyn Massad, Ernest Mathews, John & Verna Matthews, Sally
& David McAlpin, Robert & Linda McClellan, Mark McConnell, Maureen
McCormick & Phil Unetic, Brian & Leah McDonald, Art & Kim McGinnis,
John & Ann McGoldrick, Juliana McIntyre, Joan & Ed McKeon, Alan
McMichael & Melinda Roberts, Terry Merrick, Marc & Tina Marie Mitchell,
Edmund Moeller, Lloyd & Dorothy Moote,
Perry Morgan, Donald & Dot Morin, Alexander & Elaine Moskwa, Clive
& Dulcie Muncaster, Burt & Rita Myrick, Peter & Lisa Nalen, Ronald
& Adelaide Novak, Rick & Carol Ober, Polly O'Donoghue, Kim &
Terrance O'Malley, Frank Ordiway, Stephen & Susan Paneyko, Costa & May
Papastephanou, Sarah Parker, Dee Patberg, Diane & Suresh Paulsell, John
& Jan Pell, Florence Peters, Tod & Elizabeth Peyton, Audrey &
Robert Pfeilsticker, Jim Phillips, Dean & Marte Pierson, Frank & Susan
Pizzi, Charles & Sue Plambeck, David Prescott, Frances Preston, Lockie
Proctor, Gil & Camille Quinton, Paul & Robert Raeder, John Rassweiler, Wendy Rayner, Elizabeth Read, Carl & Anne Reiss,
Spencer & Abigail Reynolds, Virginia Reynolds, Ed & Kadri Rhodes, Anne
Marie & Brook Richards, Claire Roberts, Robert Ross & Susan Easton,
Alison & David Roth, Ralph & Barbara Rubano, Rosemary Rutherford,
Rachel Sagebien, Kari Saltin, Susan Sanford, Chris & Holly Schade, Jane Ann
Schade, Bill & Lisa Schmid, David & Molly
Schneider, Bill &
Jane Schowalter, William & Joan Schreyer, James & Ruth Scott, Tom &
Melissa Scott, Robert & Michele Seass, Leslie Shear, John & Doris Shea,
Marc & Sharon Sibilia, J B &
Betsy Smith, Stephen & Jean Snyder, Tom & Margaret Southerland, James
& Monica Stahl, Bradley States, Daniel States, Michael & Jody Stebbins,
Charlie & Liz Stenard, Jean Stephens, William Stephenson, Philip Stevenson,
Will & Joanna Storrar, Barney & Barbara Straut, Harriet Stuart, John
Sully & Kathy Rohrer, Bill Sweeney, Sandi Tatnall, Don Taylor, Sylvia Temmer, Jovi & Nancy Tenev, Glyn & Annie Thomas, Carol Thomas, Trisha Thorme & John
Meier, Ruth Thornton, Daphne Townsend, Charlie Townsend, Bill & Judy Vogt,
Veronica Vybiral, Art Wagner, Deborah & Erik Walson, Ed & Carol Weiss,
Richard & Linda Werner, David & Fausta Wertz, Connie White, John White,
Tom Whittemore, Betsy Whittlesey,
Joan Windsor-Valcin, Mary Ann Winter, Bruce Woodger, Stuart & Winifred
Woody, Eudora Wright and Lucien & Anne Yokana.
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| Worship & Education
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Sunday, November 1st, 2009 All Saints' Day
Click here for this Sunday's Lessons 8:00 a.m. - Holy Eucharist, Rite I (Traditional Language, no choir)
Sunday morning childcare, for infants to 3-year olds, is available upstairs in the Nursery in Room 202 from 8:45 a.m. until the conclusion of the 11:00 a.m. service.
9:00 a.m. - Holy Eucharist (Rite II) & Baptism (Contemporary Language with choir) The
9:00 a.m. service is perfect for families with children! Children join in the opening procession and hymn and head upstairs to the Children's Chapel (Room 201). At the Peace, the children return to their families as everyone prepares for Eucharist. If you prefer to worship together as
a family, children of all ages are always welcome in church.
10:00 a.m. - Christian Education for all ages! Immediately following the 9:00 a.m. service children have choices based on their age:
children lead the dismissal at the 9am service, and the process out the transept door and report to their classrooms for Sunday School. Rite 13 ( grades 7-8) meet in room G18
J2A students (grades 9-10) gather in room G09 .
Sr. High students (grades 11 - 12) meet in room 111 (aka, the parlor). Please read the story below on the opposite column on our YAC program.
For Adult Forum Hour, please enjoy coffee and tea, and choose from:
- In Pierce Hall, Anne Marie Richards will give an overview of the outreach ministries of the parish.
- Bible Study continues in the Library;seminarian Matt Bollinger will lead a Lectionary study
- In the George Thomas room,enjoy relaxed conversation and meet and greet fellow parishioners
And please make sure to sign up outside Pierce Hall to have your picture taken for our Parish Photo Directory. 11:00 a.m. - Choral Eucharist (Rite II) & Baptism (Contemporary Language with choir)
The
11:00 a.m. service offers a slightly more classic liturgy, with Mass
settings sung by our gifted choirs. If you enjoy the rich traditions
of Anglican worship, this service is for you. Please note that incense will be used at this service.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009 12:10 p.m. Holy Eucharist with homily.
Wednesday, November 4, 2009 5:30p.m. Holy Eucharist with prayers for healing
Weekday Evening Prayer 5:00 p.m. Transition from your day at work or school to your evening at home by joining us for Evening Prayer, an intimate, daily, twenty minute service of readings and prayers. 5:00 PM Monday-Friday, in the chancel.
The church is open from 8:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. weekdays for meditation and prayer. |
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| Worship Leaders
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November 1st
8 a.m.
Reader: Tim Munoz
Acolyte: Irving Newlin
Chalicists: Curtis Hoberman, Jim Phillips, Guy Pierson
Ushers: Lynne Davis, Van Davis, Ed Metcalf
9 a.m.
Reader: Beverly Leach
Intercessor: Eric Garner
Ushers: Caswell Cooke, Randy Currier, Anne Elliott, Robert Fraser, John Tomasulo
Chalicists: Anne Burns, Louise Dunham, Jim Phillips, Sylvia Temmer
Acolytes: Maddie Schade, Christian Schade, Jack Patterson,
Verger: James Scott
Audio: Brett Boal
11 a.m.
Reader: Rob Lanchester
Intercessor: John Sully
Verger: James Scott
Ushers: Noreen Duncan, Jim Faus, Michael Gehret, Robert von Zumbusch
Chalicists: Eric Baldwin, Denise Gordon-Miller, Donna Laessig, Bruce Woodger
Acolytes: Julia Saltsman, Slater Nalen, Jolanis Alexandre
Audio: Art Martin
Evensong 4p.m.
Reader: Donna Laessig
Ushers: Daphne Townsend
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Come share in the ministry of Eucharistic Visitors November 3rd at 7pm
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Training for
Eucharistic Visitors set for Tuesday, November 3rd at
7pm. If you would like to
be trained to take the sacrament to those who are unable to make it to church on
Sunday, please be in touch with Bev Scollay (bscollay@aol.com) and plan to attend the
class.
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Free defibrillator training on November 14th
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Defibrillator
Training in Room 206 at 9:00am Saturday, November
14th.
Come and
be trained to use Trinity's Automatic External Defibrillator. We will be
starting another AED/CPR training sessions on Saturday, November 14th at 9 AM,
and we hope to train, or recertify, enough people so that someone can cover each
of our worship services and Sunday School. We know that some of you have already
indicated an interest in this, and you will be contacted with details.
Questions? Please email Bill Sweeney waswmd@mac.com
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| November Calendar for Junior and Senior High School students
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 On November 4th and January 2nd, all are welcome
to join the Rite 13, J2A, and the Senior High Youth Group to cheer on the Nets. On November 4th they play the Denver Nuggets at 7:30 PM. Tickets are $25.00 and proceeds from
your ticket will be donated to humanitarian efforts in Liberia. Contact Michael
Lovaglio for tickets and further information. lHurry! Tickets are limited!
November 8th: A Christmas Carol in IMAX 3-D; Meet at Trinity at 1pm.
November 14th: Princeton vs. Yale Football game. Meet at Trinity at 11:30AM
November 15th: An Evening with Broad Street Ministry. Meet at Trinity at 4:30pm
November 21st: Pie baking; all proceeds will support our friends at Broad Street Ministry. Meet at 1pm.
Questions? Please call Michael Lovaglio, Trinity Youth Director, at 631-747-1409 or email lovagliom@trinityprinceton.org |
Tom Whittemore's State of the Music Program Report |
Tom
Whittemore's State of the Music Program, given on October 25th, 2009's Forum Hour:
Much has
happened in the five years since I arrived at Trinity. We have seen Leslie Smith and Frank
Strasburger retire and Jim Sell come and go after doing great work in our
community. We have had to deal with mold and other serious building issues
involving mortar and ties. We have
incurred debt and, as a result, have had to face extraordinary staff
reductions. Coming as they did in such
quick succession, these changes and challenges were dramatic and difficult.
But I
have to say that since the arrival of Paul Jeanes as our new rector, I have
been filled with excitement. He brings
boundless energy and enthusiasm to our community. His positive attitude is
infectious, his humor contagious and his talent formidable. His "can-do" spirit is an inspiration to us
all. As I look around, I see growth in
just about every area of our parish life but most rewardingly of all, in our
common life of worship. As your parish musician, this is very important to me.
We are seeing increased numbers in the pews. More people are volunteering.
Membership is up. Pledging is
increasing.
This
growth is evident in the Music Program as well.
In August 2004, I inherited a program with a membership of 72. This number
had been brought up from 52 during the previous year, thanks to Jim Litton's
fine work as Interim Director of Music. We now find our program membership at
just over 100. The majority of this growth has been in the adult and girls'
sections of the program, especially the high school girls. These devoted
choristers give an average 5.5 hours of their time per week for rehearsals and
services.
What the
Trinity Choir offers is completely counter cultural. It requires standard-a high standard, just as our faith requires standard. This high
standard embraces musicianship of course but it goes much further, into the
spheres of responsibility, commitment and community. It requires hours of work to learn and then
polish a skill. At a time when so many things in our culture are of the "quick
fix" or "fast food" mentality, the Trinity Choir program requires much
more. For a third grade girl entering
the choir it can take two years to develop the skills with which she can experience
full musical participation in the program. But with patience, nurturing,
encouragement and an understanding that in time she will be rewarded for her
diligence, she can expect to experience something magical by singing in worship
with adults, at their level...and, truth be told, often times at a higher level
than an adult!
The
Choirs have participated in some exciting musical events over the past few
years. In 2007 we traveled to England,
performing the large psalm anthems of Edward Elgar with the Blackburn Cathedral
Choir and the Northern England Chamber Orchestra. We also performed a concert
in St. John's College Chapel in Cambridge
with the Choir of Clare College Cambridge and in Eton,
with the Eton College Choir. Our tour
culminated with the Choir singing Evensong, in residence, at St.
Paul's Cathedral, London.
In July
2010 we look forward to returning to the UK where we expect to be in
residence for a week at both St. Mary's Cathedral Edinburgh and at Yorkminster,
singing the daily service of Evensong. This will be an opportunity for
choristers of all ages to learn about the musical roots of the Anglican choral
tradition and to sing some of the great choral works composed for these
magnificent spaces.
The girls
and adults have been hired to perform with the American Classical Orchestra in
NYC twice in two years. This is one of the top three period instrument
orchestras in the USA.
Last February, they performed Haydn's Mass
in Time of War in a churchnear Lincoln Center.
This coming April they will be performing Handel's Coronation Anthems and Beethoven's 9th Symphony at the Cathedral of St. John the Divine. To
be clear, the choir is being paid to do these engagements. The costs are not
coming out of the parish budget.
However, the inestimable value of this kind of opportunity is what it
brings to us in the way of recognition.
This is what builds choirs.
For the
last four years the Choir has been singing the service of Compline once a
month, on Sunday evening. This offers a
beautiful, contemplative and introspective style of worship-a wonderful way to
end the day and the week.
A new choir tradition was begun in the summer of 2005 with
the inauguration of Choir Camp for our teenaged and younger singers and Adult
Choir Retreat. We stay at Holiday House
in Cape May, working on some of the more
challenging music for the coming year but also playing hard and simply having
fun at the shore! It has been a great
opportunity for bonding and building community.
The most pleasing progress for me has been this growth in
our sense of community. Trinity Choirs
are happy. Our singers enjoy one another at work and at play. They are a supportive and positive force in
each other's lives. In good times and in
sad times, they are there for one another-old and young alike. I, too, have benefited recently from this
care and compassion. At the end of the
day, while the quality of the music is important, it is the quality of people
and the sense of community that form the foundation of the Trinity Choirs. Come, be a part of us. Everyone is welcome.
While much is going very well in Trinity's music program,
there are also significant challenges that we face. The boys' choir is at death's door. In the near future I will be asking for your
help in recruiting boys for the Trinity Choir but this will be no easy task. We
are all aware, in this profession, of a major cultural shift that doesn't
encourage boys to sing. The American
Boychoir is down to 38 boys from the traditional 81 (with a waiting list of 15)
and even the Vienna Boy Choir is now opening its doors to girls because they
cannot attract sufficient numbers of male recruits.
The second major challenge we face is money. It's that
simple. Why are we facing this challenge? Is the parish leadership not giving
the music program a big enough piece of the pie? This is actually not the case. In fact, the Rector, Wardens and Vestry have
seen fit to give the music program exactly
what it should receive as outlined by the Association of Anglican Musicians in
conjunction with the National
Church. The problem is
not whether music is getting its fair share of the pie-it is! The problem is
that the size of the pie is not large enough to sustain the music program that
the parish said it wants, values and expects (based on survey responses
collected during our search for a new rector).
(Click here for attachments for details of what it costs to run
Trinity's Music Program.)
Financial support for the music program has, in fact, been
shrinking for years. Before our nation's
economic crisis began in September 2008, the music program was
underfunded. Before the dramatic staff
cuts of January 2007, the music program was underfunded. Even in 2006, there was no fat on the bone. At this point, we are scraping the bone. This is now a program run mostly on good
will.
We have less than half of the Staff that the music program
had in the 1990s, yet the responsibilities and activities of the Choir have
actually increased. We have four fewer paid singers in the program, yet
expectations have not been lowered.
What can we do?
1. We can give of
our time and talent. Becca Olsson, our
Music Administrator from December of 2004 through June of 2009, saw her
position disappear because we didn't have sufficient funds to pay her.
Wonderful adult volunteers in our choirs have taken on all of Becca's
responsibilities and more in terms of program administration. I especially want
to thank Ann Laughlin and Jenny Tuffy for co-chairing this team of devoted
volunteers.
2. We all can dig
more deeply into our pockets. I have
been giving 5% of my salary to Trinity since I arrived. (I give another 5% to
other charities. However, it is clear,
given our overall parish budget needs, that this is not enough. Therefore, I plan to increase my pledge to 6%
of my salary. This won't be easy but I
know that it is something that I must do, because the Trinity community is my
greatest priority. I urge you all to
join me in digging more deeply...even to the point that it is a bit
uncomfortable. I promise you that once you have reached that point, you will
experience the real joy in giving.
As Paul said in his sermon two weeks ago, we can do
anything. We are not poor. We are,
however, at a significant crossroads.
What is most important to us?
What do we value? We can no
longer afford to be complacent or expect other people to pick up the financial
slack. Just as our choristers so
admirably demonstrate their commitment and responsibility week after week, so
too must each and every one of us now do our part, for the future of our
community.
O thou, who camest
from above, the fire celestial to impart, kindle a flame of sacred love upon
the altar of my heart.
There, let it for
thy glory burn with ever-bright, undying blaze, and trembling to its source
return in humble prayer and fervent praise.
Jesus, confirm my
heart's desire to work, and speak, and think for thee; still let me guard the
holy fire and stir up the gift in me.
Still let me prove
thy perfect will, my acts of faith and love repeat, till death thy endless
mercies seal, and make the sacrifice complete.
Prayer by Charles Wesley
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Pastoral Care Commission welcomes Helen Bowerman as chairperson
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Are you interested in being part of the
newly forming Pastoral Care Commission? Helen Bowerman (hbowerman@msn.com) has agreed to chair the
commission, and now we need to build a team of active workers. The first two
priorities to be tackled are home & hospital visitations and Eucharistic
visitations. These are wonderful ways to live out our baptismal promises to
serve Christ in one another-and beyond that, visiting and chatting with fellow
parishioners is really fun! Please email Helen right away if you would
like to serve in this important ministry.
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Trinity Knitters, time to get clicking for the St. Nick Bazaar
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Please email Alison Roth rotha@trinityprinceton.org for free yarn, patterns,needles and ideas. All knitting sales benefit our Trinity outreach work.
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Yamato on November 6th at McCarter for Crisis Ministry
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Looking for an easy and entertaining way to support The Crisis Ministry? Come to their fabulous benefit on Friday, November 6th!
Annual Fall Benefit will
celebrate and support the Crisis Ministry
A Special evening featuring YAMATO

Friday, November 6
McCarter Theatre, Princeton, NJ
Lobby reception at 6:30 pm
Performance by YAMATO at 8 pm
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| Another Fabulous Youth Retreat!
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 Fall Youth Event Justice for All - Christianity, Poverty, and the Road to Jericho
When: November 6-8, 2009 (registration deadline: November 3, 2009)
Where: Camp Lebanon, Lebanon, NJ (a lovely, not too long drive from Princeton) Who: 6-12 graders and their adult sponsors (yes, we do need adults to come along as chaperones!) Cost: $75.00 Coordinators: Jennifer Short from Grace, Merchantville, and Brook Richards from Trinity, Princeton (hey, we know that guy!). Musician: Anna Hutto (From Atlanta, Georgia-she rocks)
And, between fun, games, and fabulous worship (did we mention that Trinity's Associate Rector Anne Marie Richards is serving as chaplain?), what will be learning about, and working on? When Jesus tells the story of the good Samaritan, he not only wants us to help those in need, he wants us to change "the whole road to Jericho" - a road that was a dangerous place where many people were hurt and abused. Today in our world, billions of people live in poverty and are subject to multiple forces that keep them in poverty. In this country alone there are many among us who have to make tough choices every day because they live in poverty. As Christians, how do we live out our baptismal covenant to "love our neighbor as ourselves"? How can we change our "roads to Jericho" that keep so many people in poverty and desperation? Come explore the reality of choices in poverty. Find how we as Christians can respond with determination and compassion to our brothers and sisters.
Join us for a meaningful and fun-filled weekend of thoughtful discussion, engaging activities, inspiring worship, fantastic music, and (of course) playful games!
Register online today by clicking here, and then email Michael Lovaglio to let him know you are going so he can coordinate chaperones and transportation
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Gordon Graham on this week's All Saints lectionary readings |

The Revised Common Lectionary that we use operates on a
three year cycle. For the Feast of All Saints (which falls on a Sunday this
year) the lessons are different each year, but the themes remain the same -- the
poor and oppressed, the dead, and life after death. In many ways, these are the
topics that most Christians find most important. Just what is the Good News
that the Gospel promises people who are poor and suffering? Where, if anywhere,
are 'those we have loved but see no more'? What will happen to us when we die?
In wrestling with these questions it is crucial that we avoid the kind of
simpleminded belief that skeptics have often dismissed as 'pie in the sky when
you die'.
The lessons help us in this. They teach that the life after
death for which we ought to hope is not 'more of the same only better'. From
first to last it is life in the Kingdom
of God. Such life does
not begin with death, and dying is no guarantee of obtaining it. It begins now
- if we accept it. 'The Kingdom of God is among you' Jesus says, and the
lesson from Revelation tells us that 'the
home of God is among mortals. He will dwell with them as their God'. These are
truths that it is easy to ignore, or be indifferent to, even for regular church
goers whose hearts can as easily fix on worldly goals as anyone else's.
In the same passage
God declares 'I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end'. God
gave us our beginning in life. That much we must agree. When it comes to what
we make of it -- the ends of life - He
gave us the freedom to look to our own devices, or devote ourselves to a way of
life whose ultimate focus is the Glory of God. "Did I not tell you that if you
believed, you would see the glory of God?" Jesus asks Mary of Bethesda in
today's Gospel passage. That glorious Kingdom, though, is one in which God will
'make all things new' and thereby surpass and surprise by the things that turn
out to be important and the things that get left behind. That it is still the
best thing both rich and poor can long for, is what the faith of the Saints
affirms.
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You are invited to join in a celebration of God's ever faithful and unchanging care for us. In these hard times of economic trouble and cultural change and conflict, all members of the Diocese of New Jersey are encouraged to join together for an uplifting worship experience happening on 8 November 2009 at 4 pm. "For I am sure . . ." taken from Romans 8, reminds us that nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ.
What, Where and When A service of Festive Jazz Vespers with The Reverend Dr. Francis Wade as guest
preacher and Bishop George Councell as officiant.
Held at the delightful Tabernacle at Ocean Grove on NJ's beautiful shore.
And something quite special... The bishop will distribute the Fermentum, an ancient practice of demonstrating unity. In the earliest centuries of the Church, bishops would share communion bread among other bishops and all the churches in their charge. At the service on 8 November, each parish will receive unconsecrated bread for use in the next week's service. The bread will be shared not only with parishioners, but should be used in the communion elements administered to the the ill, the infirm, and the homebound, in each parish in the Diocese of New Jersey. In this way, we are all reminded that we are one bread, one body.
On Sunday, November 8th, our songs will be boisterous, our prayers courageous, and our fellowship wonderfully warmed!
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Women at the Well
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Wednesdays at 12 Noon-1:30
in Flemer Library As in Biblical times, when women met at
the well to draw water from hidden depths, our weekly gatherings aim to fill
hearts thirsty for the "water" of the Spirit. This welcome oasis in the midst of
our 'busy-ness' offers a stimulating yet calming and safe place to explore both
who we are and whose we are as we celebrate our journey as Christian women in
God's world.
Because we are diverse in ages, talents, interests and
life styles, discussions are imbued with a wonderfully wide-ranging energy.
The current focus is on J. Philip Newell's latest book Christ of the
Celts.
Newell, an inspirational voice and teacher, is a former director of the historic
Iona abbey in the far west of Scotland.
So do bring a bag lunch to
Flemer as we enter in silence during the initial ten-minute meditation.
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Daylight Savings time ends this weekend! Change your clocks BACK by 1 hour
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You get an extra hour of sleep!
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November 15th Annual Meeting and Vestry Election
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The Parish
Annual Meeting will take place on Sunday, November 15, in the Church immediately
following the 9 AM Service. The Parish will elect 5 new Vestry members and 2
wardens. All parishioners 16 and older are eligible to
vote. An additional
agenda item this year is a proposed amendment to the Parish certificate of
incorporation to reduce the size of the Vestry from 15 to 12, or 4 members for
each Vestry class, to be phased in starting with the class to be elected next
year in November 2010. The Rector and the Vestry have proposed this change
because of our increased emphasis on parish committees and the opportunity that
they, together with the Parish Council of committee chairs, present for
leadership. The Vestry will continue its historic leadership role in finance,
personnel, stewardship, and long range planning. We believe that the smaller
Vestry will be able more efficiently to focus on its core
mission.
There will be no 11am service on November 15th
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Dianne Paulsell nominated for election as Junior Warden |
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My vision for Trinity
Church is a faith
community that enthusiastically welcomes all who seek Christ, engages in active
ministry, and in all ways seeks to follow Jesus' teachings of hope and reconciliation.
I began attending Trinity in 2000 and enrolled in the Education for Ministry
(EFM) program in 2001. I have been serving as Trinity's EFM co-mentor since
2003. I have also taught first, fourth, and fifth grade Sunday school and J2A.
I was elected to the Vestry in 2007. I have also served on the Discernment
Committee (rector search committee) and the Committee on Ministry.
I was confirmed at Trinity Church
in 2003. Before joining Trinity, I was a member of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ)
denomination and attended Park Avenue Christian Church in New York City. I served as chair of the Outreach Committee
and on the Disciples' Commission on Ministry for the northeast region. I also
served on a denomination-wide committee that developed study materials to help
congregations dialogue about the full participation of gay and lesbian Christians
in the life of the church.
I work at Mathematica Policy Research as an Associate
Director of Human Services Research, where I conduct policy analysis and
program evaluations of early childhood education programs for low-income
families and children. I live in Princeton
with my 13-year old son Theo and husband Suresh Paul.
Diane Paulsell
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Vestry candidates for election at our Annual Meeting on November 15th
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Julia Denny Clark
Mary Cooper
Mark Hamilton
Terri Hassett
Robert Kunkler
Juliet Richardson
Ruth Thornton
John White
Next week watch for photographs and background information on our candidates.Congratulations and thank you to all our candidates for standing for election. |
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THIS SUNDAY is All Saints Sunday Incense will be used at the 11am service
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This Sunday, November
1st is All Saints' Sunday. On this day we make special remembrance of all
those dear souls who have died since All Saints last year, and at the same time
we welcome the newest members of the body of Christ through the sacrament of
Baptism. (We will have Baptisms at both 9:00 and 11:00am.)
Please note that incense will be used at the 11am service next
Sunday.
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THIS SUNDAY is Hunger Sunday Please leave groceries in the red wagon in the narthex
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Our Trinity children appear healthy and well-nourished, sitting in and around the red wagon with The Rev. Jarrett Kerbel, executive director of The Crisis Ministry, but this photo reminds us that not all children are so fortunate.
Sunday, November 1st is HUNGER
SUNDAY. The
weather has turned cold, winter is approaching and income will be directed to paying heating bills, not
food, for low-income families in Mercer
County. Next Sunday, November 1st, please bring
in bags of groceries to fill the red wagon
in the Narthex for the Crisis Ministry
of Princeton and Trenton.
Think nourishing, heart-healthy food - rice, pasta, peanut butter, beans, tuna
- in cans and boxes, please. Click here for a longer list and to learn more about poverty in your town.
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THIS SUNDAY Trinity Church Asbury Park Choir to sing with our Trinity England Tour Choir at Evensong on November 1st at 4pm
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"Done in a Day" committee to meet THIS SUNDAY at 12:15pm in Flemer Library
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"DONE IN A DAY" Planning Committee (part of our
Outreach) needs volunteers to help with organizing future events. First planning meeting scheduled for this Sunday,
Nov. 1st at 12:15 (or right after the 11 o'clock service) in the
library. All are welcomed. If unable to attend and have ideas for future
Done in a Day activities, please contact: Aline Haynes haynesaline@gmail.com As you will see
on the newly designed bulletin board near Pierce Hall, we had a wonderful and
very successful "Done in a Day" at TASP earlier this month. So come and join us to plan our next day,
it's fun!!!
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Mystery Wine Grab Bag at this year's St. Nicholas Bazaar December 4th Preview Party
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Thank you. So many of
you have already stepped up and given us some wonderful donations for the St.
Nick's Preview Party Auction but we still need so much more. We can always use gift certificates from a
restaurant or retail shop or for a relaxing massage of other luxury. Perhaps you have a lovely bottle of wine
which you would donate to help launch our new mystery wine grab bag (more on
that below).
Remember this is your chance to make the 2009 Auction
something very special because without each of us making donations there would
not be a 2009 Auction to benefit Trinity's many outreach programs.
Again, thank you and please contact Lynne Davis, Gretchen Jaeckel or Jen Bartell (please see contact info below).

Wine Grab Bag
Mystery Wine Grab Bag:
help make the St. Nick's Preview Party Auction a resounding
success. We are going to have a wine
grab bag event. For a modest ticket price you will have the right to select a
mystery wine which could be worth twice as much as the price of your
ticket. Go to your cellar or cabinet
and pull out one of those bottles you have been saving and donate to the
mystery wine grab bag. Please note that
we can only accept bottles of wine that have a value over $25 for the mystery
wine grab bag. You may contact Lynne
Davis, Jennie Bartell or Gretchen Jaeckel should you wish to donate a bottle of
mystery wine.
Contacts:
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Jennie Bartell 609-987-9019 jrsbart@comcast.net
Gretchen Jaeckel 609-275-6014 lardie@comcast.net
This year's bazaar is Saturday, December 5th, from 9am- 1pm. The Preview Party is Friday, December 4th, and it begins at 7pm and ends when we all go home!
To volunteer for the bazaar, please call or email either: Liz Hamilton 908-431-5424 lizhamie@comcast.net or Jennifer Hayden 609-466-3992 mhayden500@comcast.net
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THIS SATURDAY Children's Halloween Party October 31st, 3pm-5pm at Trinity
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Here are the details on the activities: Pumpkin Carving contest, bobbing for apples, egg on a spoon race, toss a sponge at the Rector's face, three-legged races, Trick or Treating!.
There will be pizza and subs.
There will be prizes such as candy, bubbles, sticky hands, Halloween pencils, bouncy balls, paddle balls, stretchy ninjas, parachute monsters.... the list goes on and on.
There will also be Halloween gifts for all RTE13, J2A, and YAC students who are willing to volunteer their afternoon from 2-5:30.
The party is from 3-5, and if you know anyone who would be willing to donate their car for trick or treating that would be great! Please RSVP if your family is attending the party; and/or to volunteer, please email our youth minister Michael Lovaglio at lovagliom@trinityprinceton.org
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THIS SATURDAY Fall Clean-Up on October 31st from 9am-12noon (rescheduled from last Saturday)
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Join
our parish family (and bring your own) for a morning of fun as we
spruce up the church grounds. Please meet in the Trinity circle and
bring your favorite rake, trowel and gardening gloves. You can choose your gardening activity (digging bulbs, anyone?). Refreshments provided! The raindate is October 31st.
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NEW! Join the Party! Princeton-Yale Football Tailgate Party Saturday, November 14th
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Sign up at the parish receptionist's desk if you would like to join our Trinity tailgate party at 11:30 am (game time is 1pm) on Saturday, November 14th in the Princeton Tigers football stadium parking lot. We'll supply instructions so you can find the Trinity tailgate party spot! |
20-30 somethings luncheon THIS SUNDAY College students welcome
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Attention 20- and 30-somethings! Please join us for an informal time of food
and fellowship this coming Sunday, November 1, in the Thomas room. Lunch will
be served following the 11 am service every first Sunday of the month. College
students are welcome!
We are also looking for volunteers to provide
lunch! If you or your committee/group is interested in helping to provide a
meal, please contact Joanne Golann at jwgolann@gmail.com or (631) 707-3809.
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YAC+= Young Adults in the Church
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The Young Adults in the Church (YAC) program is open to all students who are in eleventh and twelfth grade as well as those students who have completed RTE13 and J2A. The YAC program meets on Sunday morning during forum between 10-10:45 and is intended to aid students in their transition into the church as adult critical thinkers. Both YAC instructors, Michael Lovaglio and Eric Garner, have a Princeton Seminary education and offer students a graduate level perspective of the biblical text. Currently, the YAC class is working it's way through the book of Exodus. For more information contact Michael Lovaglio at lovagliom@trinityprinceton.org or come by on Sunday morning for doughnuts and theology.
Eric Garner
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Keep scheduling those photographs for the 2010 Trinity Parish Directory
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Please make sure to get your picture taken for our Trinity family album
(aka. the directory). It won't be complete without YOU!. Thanks, Paul+
To schedule your FREE photo session, click www.trinityprinceton.org
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Here's more information: Photographs are taken in Pierce Hall. You get to choose the photograph for the directory, looking at your selection from a computer screen. If you decide to purchase any extra photographs, 10% of the purchase price is donated to Trinity Church. Questions? Please email Annie Thomas at thomasa@trinityprinceton.org
Victor and Jacqueline Gibbs, and their children David and Victoria, were in last week's photo in E-Pistle. We also have a display of parishioners' photos in the receptionist's area, including photographs of Dulcie and Clive Muncaster, Jean Huntington, Master Thomas Kunkler, and the Jeanes (above) and Gibbs family photos.
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Newcomers' Dinner on November 15th
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Are you new to Trinity Church? Would you like to meet other newcomers, your priests, and parishioners? Then come and join us for dinner, Sunday November 15th at 5:30 PM. We will be gathering in the George Thomas Room, next to the parish hall.
RSVP to Sarah Gaventa at gaventas@trinityprinceton.org
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Paul Jeanes to run Philly Marathon November 22nd for Back on My Feet
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Here's an Update: Paul Jeanes is past the $700 mark in raising $1,800 in his Philly Marathon run. All donations to "Back on my Feet" are tax-deductible. He thanks everyone for their support!
Father Paul is running the Philly Marathon!! As a participant in the race you can "run for a purpose" and Paul will be running for Back on My Feet which promotes the self-sufficiency of Philadelphia's homeless population by engaging people in running as a means to build confidence, strength and self-esteem. Visit their website to learn more (www.backonmyfeet.org)
Paul is raising $1,800.00 to help the homeless get back on their feet. To make a pledge of support email Paul at jeanesp@trinityprinceton.org or click here.
Thank you for your support!!

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"The Boy in the Striped Pajamas" the November 6th First Friday Faith in Film
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10 am at Trinity; please bring a bag lunch and rsvp to Paul Jeanes if you will attend. jeanesp@trinityprinceton.org
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NEW COURSE! More pies! Register NOW for the 2009 Trinity Turkey Trot
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We're very excited to announce the return of the 5K Trinity Turkey Trot Fun Run/Walk, benefiting the Crisis Ministry of Princeton and Trenton, on Thanksgiving morning at 8 a.m. We have a new course that begins and ends at Trinity, and loops around our gorgeous, famous and historic neighborhood around Mercer Street.
To register for the 2009 Turkey Trot, go to : www.trinityprinceton.org
This year, all registration for the Turkey Trot, for walkers and runners, needs to be completed online at the Trinity website. This year's entry fee is $25, with a $30 fee on Thanksgiving morning. Please remember, you have 1 hour to register on race day, from 6:30am- until 7:30am. Anyone late is welcome to follow the course, but they will not receive a t-shirt or be eligible to win prizes. (no cash on the day of the race; please make your checks out to 'Trinity Church'). All early entrants receive t-shirts; day-of entrants will receive t-shirts while supplies last. This year's prizes will include more home-baked pies made by Trinity parishioners. We will need volunteers ! Please consider
- to help distribute the t-shirts, food and water, e-mail Annie Thomas thomasa@trinityprinceton.org
- to distribute posters and flyers, please email Alison Roth
rotha@trinityprinceton.org
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Run with the Rector on Wednesday mornings at 9:30am
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Hurry! Before it gets too cold! No need to call, just check in at the receptionist's desk. Ladies and gentlemen, lace those sneakers and come on and run around the neighborhood with Paul Jeanes.
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Christmas Pageant for Children Sunday, December 20th at 4pm
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Following last year's
success, there will be a special Children's Christmas Pageant at Trinity on the
Sunday before Christmas (20th December) at 4pm in the afternoon. The
pageant is an opportunity for children to present the Christmas story in a
dramatic way with words, music and dance. Performers will be in two age groups.
There are more ambitious speaking and acting parts for children from Grades 5
to 8, and simpler singing and dancing parts for Pre-K to Grade 4. Please let Sarah Gaventa know of children who
would like to take part. It would be especially good to be able to identify
children who have special gifts/interests/experience e.g. acting experience,
playing an instrument, singing solos, dancing etc.
It is ESSENTIAL that ALL the performers are able to attend
the relevant rehearsals, so before signing up, PLEASE check out the schedule
below to see that this will be possible. Of course, children who cannot take
part as performers are warmly welcome to attend the pageant itself.
REHEARSAL SCHEDULE
Grades 5 through 8
Sunday 15th
November 1.30pm
Sunday 22nd
November 1.30pm
Sunday 29th
November 1.30pm (optional)
This
is the Sunday after Thanksgiving, and so people may be out of town. There will
be a rehearsal for those who can attend. Please let us know.
Pre-K through Grade
8
Sunday 6th
December 1.30pm
Sunday 13th
December 1.30pm
SATURDAY 19th
December 9.30am FULL DRESS REHEARSAL
Sunday, December 20th, 4.00pm CHILDREN'S CHRISTMAS PAGEANTIf your child would like to participate, contact The Rev. Sarah Kinney Gaventa no later than November 2nd.
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About our $100,000 Verizon bill...
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7,000
Computer Support
5,000
Hospitality Supplies
5,500
Office Supplies/Misc
4,800 Postage
7,500
Printing Supplies
5,500
Service Contracts/Office
Machines
29,500
Staff Support
1,000
Stewardship
5,000
Telephone & DSL 8,500
Vestry
1,500
Web Support
2,500
Communications System
Upgrade - Con. Endowed Par-Dues 1,250
Archives
2,000
Audit
6,000 _________ Sub-Total
92,550
The remaining $7,000 of our bill covers our administrative expenses.
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The above figures reflect a reference (see below) Peter Nalen made in a stewardship presentation on Sunday, October 11th.
"do
you pay a Verizon bill ? So do we, to the tune of $100K,
That's just for the phones, computers and printers, and their upkeep, not
for the personnel who actually use them."
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Rummage collection has begun!
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The 40th Annual Trinity Rummage Sale will be on Saturday, February 13th, 2010.
We would be very grateful if everyone could drop off their Rummage on THURSDAYS, because our rummage workers sort on Friday mornings. PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE RUMMAGE IN THE LOBBY. Rummage should be left on the bench outside Pierce Hall. We have tax receipts for donations at the receptionist's desk from 9am-4pm, weekdays. Thank you !
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Our Parish Office Hours are Monday-Thursday, 9am-5pm and Friday, 9am - 3pm
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You can always reach our clergy in an emergency by
calling them on their cell phones:
Paul Jeanes 609-851-6989
Anne Marie
Richards 609-651-3217
Sarah Kinney Gaventa 609-365-0419
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Would You Like a Trinity Name Tag?
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Please wear your name tag during church (all services, so we can recognize you and remember you at Evensong and Compline, as well as Sunday morning services. Please email parish administrator Annie Thomas if you would like to have a Trinity name tag!
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Deadline for the Next E-Pistle and Service Leaflet is WEDNESDAY, 10 Am
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Look for your next issue of E-Pistle on THURSDAY. Please keep sending your news for E-Pistle to Alison Roth. Not sure if your news goes into E-Pistle? No
problem! Send everything to Alison, who will direct your information to
the proper person, and keep reading E-Pistle to follow the parish life
of Trinity Church.
Trinity Church 33 Mercer Street, Princeton, New Jersey. Telephone 609-924-2277 Fax 609-924-9140 www.trinityprinceton.org
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Why not have it sent to a friend? Please send the email address to thomasa@trinityprinceton.org
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