Trinity Church E-Pistle October 29, 2009
A Declaration to Myself of where my Heart will be
Carol Burden family                            

As I've listened to all of the stewardship speakers who have preceded me, I've been thinking "OH YEAH!  THAT'S IT!!  THAT'S WHY I PLEDGE!!"  But rather than follow through with that impulse and stand here to say "yeah, what they said," I should probably tell you instead what came to my thought when Robert first asked me to share my reasons for pledging.
Now first, in a confessional vein, I have to share with you that when I was in my twenties, I cringed with discomfort at that point in the service when, after a transcendently beautiful anthem from the choir, we sang the doxology and raised toward the heavens a velvet-lined plate of cold hard cash.  This offended my college-honed knee-jerk liberal sensibilities, calcified religion into materialism, and to me felt like the pride of the Pharisees.
It's worth noting that at this point I DIDN'T pledge - I was a graduate student who struggled to make the rent (so I told myself), I gave my time abundantly to the outreach ministries (so I told myself), what I could spare for the offering plate was enough (so I told myself) and so I trusted "those people with means" to be the supporters and grown-ups.
So my thirties rolled around, and I did pledge.  Why?  For the same reason I support public radio: because it's beautiful, it's important, and it's not free.  I gave, out of a sense of citizenship.
Some things have happened since then:  I've married the love of my life and had children, I've studied and worshipped with a different denomination and then returned to my Episcopal home, I've lost my father and have begun to face my mother's Alzheimer's disease.  And now I pledge because I believe that the way I use my resources provides a map of the desires of my heart.  As Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount, "where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." (Matt. 6-21)  In making a pledge I make a declaration to myself of where my heart will be, and by fulfilling that pledge I walk my heart back to that place every time it wanders.
So now I look forward to the point in the service when we raise the offering plate.  We're elevating our commitments, taking notice of our material sacrifices, and asking a blessing on the desires of all our hearts.  We ask that what we give freely be sanctified. 

With love,
Carol Burden

Trinity parishioner


God invests in me 100%
Mark Hamilton

Why do I pledge to Trinity?
When Robert Hurlbert asked me to help with the Stewardship Campaign by leading the Thank You committee, I said "yes" and thought to myself, "We need to get our pledge card in."  Later he asked me to talk to you about why I pledge, I said "Sure, I can do that" and thought "now we really need to get our pledge card in."  Robert is quite persuasive and persistent and I hope to be so too.
 
So why do I pledge?

I pledge because investing in God is simply the best investment I have ever made.  God invests in me 100% and only asks for 10% in return.  
God has given me everything, 100%; a wonderful family, a good job, a comfortable home, best friends...the works.  God has given me all of this freely.
God invests in me 100%.  He loves me and cares for me.  He guides me and inspires me.  And He forgives me when I fall well short of investing in Him.
That is why I pledge; there is no greater good, no more important priority and no better investment than God.
 
So why then do I pledge to Trinity?
I pledge to Trinity because this is where I feel closest to God.
 
When we moved to New Jersey from Michigan over a year ago, we didn't know anyone here.  We first came to Trinity on Father Paul's first Sunday.  The church was packed; there was no place to sit.  We started to leave when an usher found us a few chairs tucked in this transept behind the organ.  When the opening hymn started and choir kept pouring into the chancel, I got chills.  I heard Father Paul's enthusiasm and message of welcome.  He sounded like Garrison Keillor and he even looked like him.  I thought to myself, "This is the place we need to be".    After the service we met Tom Scott, Christina and many of you who now are our family here.
 
That is why I pledge to Trinity; it is where I feel closest to God and closest to our new family.
 
So during this Stewardship campaign, I would ask you to ask yourself:

What is
the best investment I  have  ever    made?      

What investment has given me everything, unconditionally?

And finally, where else do I feel closest God than right here with my family at Trinity?


Mark Hamilton
Trinity Parishioner
Keep going!
283 pledges in!
$$832,300 raised, as of Wednesday, October 28TH
Elly Matsil, our finance staff member, reports that we have 283 pledges in so far, including 20 new pledges and 105 pledges that have increased from last year. If you need a pledge sheet (not cards this year),  please  email her
at
matsile@trinityprinceton.org

Thank you to everyone who has pledged so far:

Mary Alden, Joyce Alexander, Claire Anderson, Ildiko Antal, James Armstrong, Mary Jane & William Augustine, Angeline Austin, Edward & Kelly Avosso, Betty Ayers, Eric & Kathy Baldwin, Lloyd & Barbara Banks, Barbara & Michael Barnett, Daniel & Jennifer Bartell, Paul & Holly Becker, Mellick & Betsy Belshaw, Stephanie & Andrew Benjamin, David & Phyllis Billington, Gypsy Birdseye, Carol Blount, Brett & Lisa Boal, Sheila Bodine, Raju & Lindsey Bohra, Bill Bolger, Peter Bonette & Judy Buster, Henry & Michele Bowden, Glenn & Jane Brewer, Ted & Barbara Bromley, Whip & Sally Buck, Andrew & Karen Bucklee, Agnes & Phil Burch, Carol Burden, John & Margaret Burger, Bill & Judy Burks, Greg & Lee Burnham, John & Anne Burns, Rob & Kristen Callahan, Juan & Ramona Carlile, John & Gail Caruso, Jean Cary, Christopher Cavanaugh & Bruce Stewart, Charles & Julia Chesebrough, Drew & Catherine Chintala, Linda Clark, David & Wendell Collins, Jim Collins & Joan Reilly, Tom & Loretta Cooper, Elizabeth Cooper, Doris Cowan, Joseph & Donna Crafford, Jonathan Craig, Joanne Crain, Ted & Jean Crane, Louis & Lisa Crocker, Russell & Gay Culin, Randy & Heidi Currier, Helene Davies, Van & Lynne Davis, Lauren Davis, Alice Davison, Anthony & Laurie De Lio, Jason & Jennifer DeBord, Trey & Hillary Delaney, Jane Delung, Julie Denny Clark, Merlynn Dixon, David & Rosemarie Earley, Verena Edwards, Robbie & Shawn Ellsworth, Gail Farkas, Jim Faus, Brian & Brooke Fitzgerald, Doug & Beth Fitzgerald, Dick & Midge Fleming, Evelyn Flory, Grant & Lindsey Fraser, Rob & Liddy Fraser, Jean Frederick, Mary & Douglas Fries, Lisa & Michael Froncek, Richard & Mary Funsch, Kirk & Connie Garber, Sarah Gaventa, Mike & Lor Gehret, Anthony & Beverly Genetta, Aristides Georgantas, Albert & Patricia Gerbig, Victor & Jacqueline Gibbs, Edward & Nannette Gibson, Sophie & Curtis Glovier, David & Joanne Golann, John & Judy Golden, Jean Gorman, Terry Grabar, Joe Greer, Tom & Marion Griffith, Bob & Wanda Gunning, Bob & Lee Gunther-Mohr, John & Andrea Hagaman, Gano & Catharine Haley, Mary Margaret Halsey, Sam Hamill, Mark & Liz Hamilton, Jack & Meg Hanington, Helen Hannan, Janet Haring, David Hart, Christine Hart, Donald Hartz, Dan & Nell Haughton, Jeanne-Louise Haviland, Dick & Edna Hawkins, Bill & Aline Haynes, Rob & Nancy Hearne, Irene Hechler, Eileen Henlotter, Mary Henry, Neal & Cynthia Hesterberg, Nan Hewson, Kit Hildick-Smith, Marsha Hirschman, Eric & Sarah Hockings, Alison Horsburgh, Bob & Mary Hulme, Jean Huntington, Robert & Rhonda Hurlbert, Katharine Huston, Steve Isham, Edythe Jackson, Gretchen & Ted Jaeckel, Stephen & Marilyn Jardin, Paul & Christina Jeanes, Esther Jenkins, Jens & Blanche Jenson, Hallett & Melon Johnson, Charles & Daphne Jones, George Jones, Ted Kane, Ted & Elizabeth Karns, Belrena Kelemen, Allan & Helen King, Henry & Lanny King, Lewie Kingsford, Michael & Louise Kingston, Charles & Janet Klaveness, Tracey Knerr, Margaret Kopliner, Janet Kuenne, Sue Kugler, Robert & Reaney Kunkler, Mary Laity, Rob & Cynthia Lanchester, Bill & Martha Lashbrook, Peter & Dede Lawson-Johnston, Owen & Beverly Leach, Bernard & Joan Lechner, Richard & Lily Leonard, Bill & Nancy Lifland, James & Leslie Linnehan Clint Lyle, Fred & Bev Lynk, Michael & Sheila Maita, Don & Cordelia Mann, Donald & Beth Margeson, Janet Martin, Dave & Kitty Martin, Carolyn Massad, Ernest Mathews, John & Verna Matthews, Sally & David McAlpin, Robert & Linda McClellan, Mark McConnell, Maureen McCormick & Phil Unetic, Brian & Leah McDonald, Art & Kim McGinnis, John & Ann McGoldrick, Juliana McIntyre, Joan & Ed McKeon, Alan McMichael & Melinda Roberts, Terry Merrick, Marc & Tina Marie Mitchell, Edmund Moeller, Lloyd & Dorothy Moote, Perry Morgan, Donald & Dot Morin, Alexander & Elaine Moskwa, Clive & Dulcie Muncaster, Burt & Rita Myrick, Peter & Lisa Nalen, Ronald & Adelaide Novak, Rick & Carol Ober, Polly O'Donoghue, Kim & Terrance O'Malley, Frank Ordiway, Stephen & Susan Paneyko, Costa & May Papastephanou, Sarah Parker, Dee Patberg, Diane & Suresh Paulsell, John & Jan Pell, Florence Peters, Tod & Elizabeth Peyton, Audrey & Robert Pfeilsticker, Jim Phillips, Dean & Marte Pierson, Frank & Susan Pizzi, Charles & Sue Plambeck, David Prescott, Frances Preston, Lockie Proctor, Gil & Camille Quinton, Paul & Robert Raeder, John Rassweiler, Wendy Rayner, Elizabeth Read, Carl & Anne Reiss, Spencer & Abigail Reynolds, Virginia Reynolds, Ed & Kadri Rhodes, Anne Marie & Brook Richards, Claire Roberts, Robert Ross & Susan Easton, Alison & David Roth, Ralph & Barbara Rubano, Rosemary Rutherford, Rachel Sagebien, Kari Saltin, Susan Sanford, Chris & Holly Schade, Jane Ann Schade, Bill & Lisa Schmid, David & Molly Schneider, Bill & Jane Schowalter, William & Joan Schreyer, James & Ruth Scott, Tom & Melissa Scott, Robert & Michele Seass, Leslie Shear, John & Doris Shea, Marc & Sharon Sibilia, J B & Betsy Smith, Stephen & Jean Snyder, Tom & Margaret Southerland, James & Monica Stahl, Bradley States, Daniel States, Michael & Jody Stebbins, Charlie & Liz Stenard, Jean Stephens, William Stephenson, Philip Stevenson, Will & Joanna Storrar, Barney & Barbara Straut, Harriet Stuart, John Sully & Kathy Rohrer, Bill Sweeney, Sandi Tatnall, Don Taylor, Sylvia Temmer, Jovi & Nancy Tenev, Glyn & Annie Thomas, Carol Thomas, Trisha Thorme & John Meier, Ruth Thornton, Daphne Townsend, Charlie Townsend, Bill & Judy Vogt, Veronica Vybiral, Art Wagner, Deborah & Erik Walson, Ed & Carol Weiss, Richard & Linda Werner, David & Fausta Wertz, Connie White, John White, Tom Whittemore, Betsy Whittlesey, Joan Windsor-Valcin, Mary Ann Winter, Bruce Woodger, Stuart & Winifred Woody, Eudora Wright and Lucien & Anne Yokana.
Worship & Education
Sunday, November 1st, 2009
All Saints' Day

Click here for this Sunday's Lessons
8:00 a.m. - Holy Eucharist, Rite I
(Traditional Language, no choir)

Sunday morning childcare, for infants to 3-year olds, is available upstairs in the Nursery in Room 202 from 8:45 a.m. until the conclusion of the 11:00 a.m. service.

9:00 a.m. - Holy Eucharist (Rite II) & Baptism
(Contemporary Language with choir)
The 9:00 a.m. service is perfect for families with children!  Children join in the opening procession and hymn and head upstairs to the Children's Chapel (Room 201). At the Peace, the children return to their families as everyone prepares for Eucharist. If you prefer to worship together as a family, children of all ages are always welcome in church.

10:00 a.m. - Christian Education for all ages!
Immediately following the 9:00 a.m. service
children have choices based on their age:
  • children lead the dismissal at the 9am service, and the process out the transept door and report to their classrooms for Sunday School.
  • Rite 13 ( grades 7-8) meet in room G18
  • J2A students (grades 9-10) gather in room G09 . 
  • Sr. High students (grades 11 - 12) meet in room 111 (aka, the parlor). Please read the story below on the opposite column on our YAC program.
For Adult Forum Hour, please enjoy coffee and tea, and choose from:
  • In Pierce Hall, Anne Marie Richards will give an overview of the outreach ministries of the parish.
  • Bible Study continues in the Library;seminarian Matt Bollinger will lead a Lectionary study
  • In the George Thomas room,enjoy relaxed conversation and meet and greet fellow parishioners
And please make sure to sign up outside Pierce Hall to have your picture taken for our Parish Photo Directory.

11:00 a.m. - Choral Eucharist (Rite II)
 & Baptism
(Contemporary Language with choir)
The 11:00 a.m. service offers a slightly more classic liturgy, with Mass settings sung by our gifted choirs.  If you enjoy the rich traditions of Anglican worship, this service is for you.
Please note that incense will be used at this service.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009
12:10 p.m. Holy Eucharist with homily.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009
5:30p.m.  Holy Eucharist with prayers for healing

Weekday Evening Prayer
5:00 p.m. Transition from your day at work or school to your evening at home by joining us for Evening Prayer, an intimate, daily, twenty minute service of readings and prayers.  5:00 PM  Monday-Friday, in the chancel.

The church is open from 8:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. weekdays for meditation and prayer.

Worship Leaders
November 1st
8 a.m.
Reader: Tim Munoz
Acolyte: Irving Newlin
Chalicists: Curtis Hoberman, Jim Phillips, Guy Pierson
Ushers: Lynne Davis, Van Davis, Ed Metcalf
9 a.m.
Reader: Beverly Leach
Intercessor: Eric Garner
Ushers: Caswell Cooke, Randy Currier, Anne Elliott, Robert Fraser,  John Tomasulo
Chalicists: Anne Burns, Louise Dunham, Jim Phillips, Sylvia Temmer
Acolytes: Maddie Schade, Christian Schade, Jack Patterson,
Verger: James Scott
Audio: Brett Boal
11 a.m.
Reader: Rob Lanchester
Intercessor: John Sully
Verger: James Scott
Ushers: Noreen Duncan, Jim Faus, Michael Gehret, Robert von Zumbusch
Chalicists: Eric Baldwin, Denise Gordon-Miller, Donna Laessig, Bruce Woodger
Acolytes: Julia Saltsman, Slater Nalen, Jolanis Alexandre
Audio: Art Martin
Evensong 4p.m.
Reader: Donna Laessig
Ushers: Daphne Townsend

Come share in the ministry of Eucharistic Visitors
November 3rd at 7pm
Lay Eucharistic visitors

Training for Eucharistic Visitors set for Tuesday, November 3rd at 7pm. If you would like to be trained to take the sacrament to those who are unable to make it to church on Sunday, please be in touch with Bev Scollay (bscollay@aol.com) and plan to attend the class.

Free defibrillator training on November 14th
Defib. up close

 
Defibrillator Training in Room 206 at 9:00am Saturday, November 14th.
Come and be trained to use Trinity's  Automatic External Defibrillator. We will be starting another AED/CPR training sessions on Saturday, November 14th at 9 AM, and we hope to train, or recertify, enough people so that someone can cover each of our worship services and Sunday School. We know that some of you have already indicated an interest in this, and you will be contacted with details. Questions? Please email Bill Sweeney
waswmd@mac.com

November Calendar for Junior  and Senior High School students
   
NJ Nets logo
On November 4th and January 2nd,
all are welcome to join the Rite 13, J2A, and the Senior High Youth Group to cheer on the Nets. On November 4th they play the Denver Nuggets at 7:30 PM. Tickets are $25.00 and proceeds from your ticket will be donated to humanitarian efforts in Liberia. Contact Michael Lovaglio for tickets and further information. lHurry! Tickets are limited!

Christmas Carol 3DNovember 8th:
  A Christmas Carol in IMAX 3-D; Meet at Trinity at 1pm.

November 14th: Princeton vs. Yale Football game. Meet at Trinity at 11:30AM
 
November 15th:  An Evening with Broad Street Ministry. Meet at Trinity at 4:30pm

November 21st:  Pie baking; all proceeds will support our friends at Broad Street Ministry. Meet at 1pm.
 

Questions? Please call Michael Lovaglio,
Trinity Youth Director, at 631-747-1409 or email
lovagliom@trinityprinceton.org                                     
Tom Whittemore's
State of the  Music Program Report
Tom Whittemore, Music Director 
 
Tom Whittemore's State of the Music Program, given on October 25th, 2009's
Forum Hour:
 
Much has happened in the five years since I arrived at Trinity.  We have seen Leslie Smith and Frank Strasburger retire and Jim Sell come and go after doing great work in our community. We have had to deal with mold and other serious building issues involving mortar and ties.  We have incurred debt and, as a result, have had to face extraordinary staff reductions.  Coming as they did in such quick succession, these changes and challenges were dramatic and difficult.
 
But I have to say that since the arrival of Paul Jeanes as our new rector, I have been filled with excitement.  He brings boundless energy and enthusiasm to our community. His positive attitude is infectious, his humor contagious and his talent formidable.  His "can-do" spirit is an inspiration to us all.  As I look around, I see growth in just about every area of our parish life but most rewardingly of all, in our common life of worship. As your parish musician, this is very important to me. We are seeing increased numbers in the pews. More people are volunteering. Membership is up.  Pledging is increasing.
 
This growth is evident in the Music Program as well.  In August 2004, I inherited a program with a membership of 72. This number had been brought up from 52 during the previous year, thanks to Jim Litton's fine work as Interim Director of Music. We now find our program membership at just over 100. The majority of this growth has been in the adult and girls' sections of the program, especially the high school girls. These devoted choristers give an average 5.5 hours of their time per week for rehearsals and services.
 
What the Trinity Choir offers is completely counter cultural.  It requires standard-a high standard, just as our faith requires standard. This high standard embraces musicianship of course but it goes much further, into the spheres of responsibility, commitment and community.  It requires hours of work to learn and then polish a skill. At a time when so many things in our culture are of the "quick fix" or "fast food" mentality, the Trinity Choir program requires much more.  For a third grade girl entering the choir it can take two years to develop the skills with which she can experience full musical participation in the program. But with patience, nurturing, encouragement and an understanding that in time she will be rewarded for her diligence, she can expect to experience something magical by singing in worship with adults, at their level...and, truth be told, often times at a higher level than an adult!
 
The Choirs have participated in some exciting musical events over the past few years.  In 2007 we traveled to England, performing the large psalm anthems of Edward Elgar with the Blackburn Cathedral Choir and the Northern England Chamber Orchestra. We also performed a concert in St. John's College Chapel in Cambridge with the Choir of Clare College Cambridge and in Eton, with the Eton College Choir.  Our tour culminated with the Choir singing Evensong, in residence, at St. Paul's Cathedral, London.
 
In July 2010 we look forward to returning to the UK where we expect to be in residence for a week at both St. Mary's Cathedral Edinburgh and at Yorkminster, singing the daily service of Evensong. This will be an opportunity for choristers of all ages to learn about the musical roots of the Anglican choral tradition and to sing some of the great choral works composed for these magnificent spaces.
 
The girls and adults have been hired to perform with the American Classical Orchestra in NYC twice in two years. This is one of the top three period instrument orchestras in the USA. Last February, they performed Haydn's Mass in Time of War in a churchnear Lincoln Center. This coming April they will be performing Handel's Coronation Anthems and Beethoven's 9th Symphony at the Cathedral of St. John the Divine. To be clear, the choir is being paid to do these engagements. The costs are not coming out of the parish budget.  However, the inestimable value of this kind of opportunity is what it brings to us in the way of recognition.  This is what builds choirs. 
 
For the last four years the Choir has been singing the service of Compline once a month, on Sunday evening.  This offers a beautiful, contemplative and introspective style of worship-a wonderful way to end the day and the week.
 
A new choir tradition was begun in the summer of 2005 with the inauguration of Choir Camp for our teenaged and younger singers and Adult Choir Retreat.  We stay at Holiday House in Cape May, working on some of the more challenging music for the coming year but also playing hard and simply having fun at the shore!  It has been a great opportunity for bonding and building community.
 
The most pleasing progress for me has been this growth in our sense of community.  Trinity Choirs are happy. Our singers enjoy one another at work and at play.  They are a supportive and positive force in each other's lives.  In good times and in sad times, they are there for one another-old and young alike.  I, too, have benefited recently from this care and compassion.  At the end of the day, while the quality of the music is important, it is the quality of people and the sense of community that form the foundation of the Trinity Choirs.  Come, be a part of us.  Everyone is welcome.
 
While much is going very well in Trinity's music program, there are also significant challenges that we face.  The boys' choir is at death's door.  In the near future I will be asking for your help in recruiting boys for the Trinity Choir but this will be no easy task. We are all aware, in this profession, of a major cultural shift that doesn't encourage boys to sing.  The American Boychoir is down to 38 boys from the traditional 81 (with a waiting list of 15) and even the Vienna Boy Choir is now opening its doors to girls because they cannot attract sufficient numbers of male recruits.
 
The second major challenge we face is money. It's that simple. Why are we facing this challenge? Is the parish leadership not giving the music program a big enough piece of the pie?  This is actually not the case.  In fact, the Rector, Wardens and Vestry have seen fit to give the music program exactly what it should receive as outlined by the Association of Anglican Musicians in conjunction with the National Church. The problem is not whether music is getting its fair share of the pie-it is! The problem is that the size of the pie is not large enough to sustain the music program that the parish said it wants, values and expects (based on survey responses collected during our search for a new rector).
 
(Click here for attachments for details of what it costs to run Trinity's Music Program.)
 
Financial support for the music program has, in fact, been shrinking for years.  Before our nation's economic crisis began in September 2008, the music program was underfunded.  Before the dramatic staff cuts of January 2007, the music program was underfunded.  Even in 2006, there was no fat on the bone.  At this point, we are scraping the bone.  This is now a program run mostly on good will.
 
We have less than half of the Staff that the music program had in the 1990s, yet the responsibilities and activities of the Choir have actually increased. We have four fewer paid singers in the program, yet expectations have not been lowered.
 
What can we do?
 
1.  We can give of our time and talent.  Becca Olsson, our Music Administrator from December of 2004 through June of 2009, saw her position disappear because we didn't have sufficient funds to pay her. Wonderful adult volunteers in our choirs have taken on all of Becca's responsibilities and more in terms of program administration. I especially want to thank Ann Laughlin and Jenny Tuffy for co-chairing this team of devoted volunteers.
 
2.  We all can dig more deeply into our pockets.  I have been giving 5% of my salary to Trinity since I arrived. (I give another 5% to other charities.  However, it is clear, given our overall parish budget needs, that this is not enough.  Therefore, I plan to increase my pledge to 6% of my salary.  This won't be easy but I know that it is something that I must do, because the Trinity community is my greatest priority.  I urge you all to join me in digging more deeply...even to the point that it is a bit uncomfortable. I promise you that once you have reached that point, you will experience the real joy in giving.
 
As Paul said in his sermon two weeks ago, we can do anything. We are not poor.  We are, however, at a significant crossroads.  What is most important to us?  What do we value?  We can no longer afford to be complacent or expect other people to pick up the financial slack.  Just as our choristers so admirably demonstrate their commitment and responsibility week after week, so too must each and every one of us now do our part, for the future of our community.
 
O thou, who camest from above, the fire celestial to impart, kindle a flame of sacred love upon the altar of my heart.
 
There, let it for thy glory burn with ever-bright, undying blaze, and trembling to its source return in humble prayer and fervent praise.
 
Jesus, confirm my heart's desire to work, and speak, and think for thee; still let me guard the holy fire and stir up the gift in me.
 
Still let me prove thy perfect will, my acts of faith and love repeat, till death thy endless mercies seal, and make the sacrifice complete.
 
                Prayer by Charles Wesley

Pastoral Care Commission welcomes Helen Bowerman as
chairperson
hospital caring

 Are you interested in being part of the newly forming Pastoral Care Commission? Helen Bowerman (hbowerman@msn.com) has agreed to chair the commission, and now we need to build a team of active workers. The first two priorities to be tackled are home & hospital visitations and Eucharistic visitations. These are wonderful ways to live out our baptismal promises to serve Christ in one another-and beyond that, visiting and chatting with fellow parishioners is really fun! Please email Helen right away if you would like to serve in this important ministry.
Trinity Knitters, time to get clicking for the St. Nick Bazaar
knitting







Please email Alison Roth
rotha@trinityprinceton.org
for free yarn, patterns,needles and ideas. All knitting sales benefit our Trinity outreach
work.
Yamato on November 6th
at McCarter for Crisis Ministry
Crisis Ministry logo
 
Looking for an easy and entertaining way to support The Crisis Ministry? Come to their fabulous benefit on Friday, November 6th!

Annual Fall Benefit will
celebrate and support the Crisis Ministry

A Special evening featuring YAMATO

Celebrate and support the missio of the Crisis Ministry at our Annual Fall Benefit

Friday, November 6
McCarter Theatre, Princeton, NJ
Lobby reception at 6:30 pm
Performance by YAMATO at 8 pm

Another Fabulous Youth Retreat!

Fall Youth Event
Fall Youth Event

Justice for All - Christianity, Poverty, and the Road to Jericho


When:
November 6-8, 2009
(registration deadline: November 3, 2009)

Where: Camp Lebanon, Lebanon, NJ
(a lovely, not too long drive from Princeton)
Who: 6-12 graders and their adult sponsors
(yes, we do need adults to come along as chaperones!)
Cost: $75.00
Coordinators: Jennifer Short from Grace, Merchantville, and Brook Richards from Trinity, Princeton (hey, we know that guy!).
Musician: Anna Hutto
(From Atlanta, Georgia-she rocks)

And, between fun, games, and fabulous worship (did we mention that Trinity's Associate Rector Anne Marie Richards is serving as chaplain?), what will be learning about, and working on?
When Jesus tells the story of the good Samaritan, he not only wants us to help those in need, he wants us to change "the whole road to Jericho" - a road that was a dangerous place where many people were hurt and abused.  Today in our world, billions of people live in poverty and are subject to multiple forces that keep them in poverty.  In this country alone there are many among us who have to make tough choices every day because they live in poverty.  As Christians, how do we live out our baptismal covenant to "love our neighbor as ourselves"?  How can we change our "roads to Jericho" that keep so many people in poverty and desperation? Come explore the reality of choices in poverty.  Find how we as Christians can respond with determination and compassion to our brothers and sisters.

Join us for a meaningful and fun-filled weekend of thoughtful discussion, engaging activities, inspiring worship, fantastic music, and (of course) playful games!

Register online today by clicking here, and then email Michael Lovaglio to let him know you are going so he can coordinate chaperones and transportation

 
Gordon Graham on this week's All Saints lectionary readings
Gordon Graham
 

The Revised Common Lectionary that we use operates on a three year cycle. For the Feast of All Saints (which falls on a Sunday this year) the lessons are different each year, but the themes remain the same -- the poor and oppressed, the dead, and life after death. In many ways, these are the topics that most Christians find most important. Just what is the Good News that the Gospel promises people who are poor and suffering? Where, if anywhere, are 'those we have loved but see no more'? What will happen to us when we die? In wrestling with these questions it is crucial that we avoid the kind of simpleminded belief that skeptics have often dismissed as 'pie in the sky when you die'.

 

The lessons help us in this. They teach that the life after death for which we ought to hope is not 'more of the same only better'. From first to last it is life in the Kingdom of God. Such life does not begin with death, and dying is no guarantee of obtaining it. It begins now - if we accept it.  'The Kingdom of God is among you' Jesus says, and the lesson from Revelation tells us that 'the home of God is among mortals. He will dwell with them as their God'. These are truths that it is easy to ignore, or be indifferent to, even for regular church goers whose hearts can as easily fix on worldly goals as anyone else's.

 

In the same passage God declares 'I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end'. God gave us our beginning in life. That much we must agree. When it comes to what we make of it -- the ends of life -  He gave us the freedom to look to our own devices, or devote ourselves to a way of life whose ultimate focus is the Glory of God. "Did I not tell you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?" Jesus asks Mary of Bethesda in today's Gospel passage. That glorious Kingdom, though, is one in which God will 'make all things new' and thereby surpass and surprise by the things that turn out to be important and the things that get left behind. That it is still the best thing both rich and poor can long for, is what the faith of the Saints affirms.


For I am sure: The Diocese of New Jersey Gathers on November 8th in Ocean Grove
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You are invited to join in a celebration of God's ever faithful and unchanging care for us. In these hard times of economic trouble and cultural change and conflict, all members of the Diocese of New Jersey are encouraged to join together for an uplifting worship experience happening on 8 November 2009 at 4 pm. "For I am sure . . ." taken from Romans 8, reminds us that nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ.

What, Where and When
A service of Festive Jazz Vespers with
The Reverend Dr. Francis Wade as guest preacher and Bishop George Councell as officiant.

Held at the delightful Tabernacle at Ocean Grove on NJ's beautiful shore.

And something quite special...
The bishop will distribute the Fermentum, an ancient practice of demonstrating unity. In the earliest centuries of the Church, bishops would share communion bread among other bishops and all the churches in their charge. At the service on 8 November, each parish will receive unconsecrated bread for use in the next week's service. The bread will be shared not only with parishioners, but should be used in the communion elements administered to the the ill, the infirm, and the homebound, in each parish in the Diocese of New Jersey. In this way, we are all reminded that we are one bread, one body.

On Sunday, November 8th, our songs will be boisterous, our prayers courageous, and our fellowship wonderfully warmed!

 
Women at the Well
women at well, collecting water

Wednesdays at
12 Noon-1:30
in  Flemer Library
             
    
As in Biblical times, when women met at the well to draw water from hidden depths, our weekly gatherings aim to fill hearts thirsty for the "water" of the Spirit. This welcome oasis in the midst of our 'busy-ness' offers  a stimulating yet calming and safe place to explore both who we are and whose we are as we celebrate our journey as Christian women in God's world.  

Because we are diverse in ages, talents, interests and life styles, discussions are imbued with a wonderfully wide-ranging energy.
The current focus is on J. Philip Newell's latest book Christ of the Celts.  Newell, an inspirational voice and teacher, is a former director of the historic Iona abbey in the far west of Scotland.

So do bring a bag lunch to Flemer as we enter in silence during the initial ten-minute meditation.
         

Daylight Savings time ends
this weekend!
Change your clocks BACK
by 1 hour

Daylight savings time clock
You get an extra hour of sleep!
November 15th
Annual Meeting
and Vestry Election
Church and Admin Wing
 
The Parish Annual Meeting will take place on Sunday, November 15, in the Church immediately following the 9 AM Service.  The Parish will elect 5 new Vestry members and 2 wardens.  All parishioners 16 and older are eligible to vote. 

An additional agenda item this year is a proposed amendment to the Parish certificate of incorporation to reduce the size of the Vestry from 15 to 12, or 4 members for each Vestry class, to be phased in starting with the class to be elected next year in November 2010.  The Rector and the Vestry have proposed this change because of our increased emphasis on parish committees and the opportunity that they, together with the Parish Council of committee chairs, present for leadership.  The Vestry will continue its historic leadership role in finance, personnel, stewardship, and long range planning.  We believe that the smaller Vestry will be able more efficiently to focus on its core mission.

There will be no 11am service on November 15th

Dianne Paulsell
nominated for election as
Junior Warden

Diane Paulsell
My vision for Trinity Church is a faith community that enthusiastically welcomes all who seek Christ, engages in active ministry, and in all ways seeks to follow Jesus' teachings of hope and reconciliation. I began attending Trinity in 2000 and enrolled in the Education for Ministry (EFM) program in 2001. I have been serving as Trinity's EFM co-mentor since 2003. I have also taught first, fourth, and fifth grade Sunday school and J2A. I was elected to the Vestry in 2007. I have also served on the Discernment Committee (rector search committee) and the Committee on Ministry.
 
I was confirmed at Trinity Church in 2003. Before joining Trinity, I was a member of  the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) denomination and attended Park Avenue Christian Church in New York City.  I served as chair of the Outreach Committee and on the Disciples' Commission on Ministry for the northeast region. I also served on a denomination-wide committee that developed study materials to help congregations dialogue about the full participation of gay and lesbian Christians in the life of the church. 
 
I work at Mathematica Policy Research as an Associate Director of Human Services Research, where I conduct policy analysis and program evaluations of early childhood education programs for low-income families and children. I live in Princeton with my 13-year old son Theo and husband Suresh Paul.
 
Diane Paulsell

Vestry candidates for election at our Annual Meeting on November 15th
Julia Denny Clark
Mary Cooper
Mark Hamilton
Terri Hassett
Robert Kunkler
Juliet Richardson
Ruth Thornton
John White

Next week watch for photographs and background information on our candidates.Congratulations and thank you to all our candidates for standing for election.

THIS SUNDAY is
All Saints Sunday
Incense will be used
at the 11am service
church incense

This  Sunday, November 1st is All Saints' Sunday. On this day we make special remembrance of all those dear souls who have died since All Saints last year, and at the same time we welcome the newest members of the body of Christ through the sacrament of Baptism. (We will have Baptisms at both 9:00 and 11:00am.)

Please note that incense will be used at the 11am service next Sunday.

THIS SUNDAY
 is Hunger Sunday
Please leave groceries in the red wagon in the narthex
Our Trinity children appear healthy and well-nourished, sitting in and around the red wagon with The Rev. Jarrett Kerbel, executive director of The Crisis Ministry, but this photo reminds us that not all children are so fortunate.

Sunday, November 1st is  HUNGER SUNDAY. The weather has turned cold, winter is approaching and income will  be directed to paying heating bills, not food, for low-income families in Mercer County. Next Sunday, November 1st, please bring in bags of groceries to fill the red wagon in the Narthex for the Crisis Ministry of Princeton and Trenton. Think nourishing, heart-healthy food - rice, pasta, peanut butter, beans, tuna - in cans and boxes, please. Click here for a longer list and to learn more about poverty in your town.

THIS SUNDAY
Trinity Church Asbury Park Choir to sing with our
Trinity England Tour Choir at Evensong
on November 1st
at 4pm

musical notes

"Done in a Day" committee
to meet THIS SUNDAY at 12:15pm
in Flemer Library



"DONE IN A DAY" Planning Committee (part of our Outreach) needs volunteers to help with organizing future events.  First planning meeting scheduled for this Sunday, Nov. 1st at 12:15 (or right after the 11 o'clock service) in the library.     All are welcomed.  If unable to attend and have ideas for future Done in a Day activities, please contact:
 Aline Haynes
haynesaline@gmail.com
As you will see on the newly designed bulletin board near Pierce Hall, we had a wonderful and very successful "Done in a Day" at TASP earlier this month.  So come and join us to plan our next day, it's fun!!!

Mystery Wine Grab Bag
at this year's
St. Nicholas Bazaar
December 4th Preview Party

Thank you.  So many of you have already stepped up and given us some wonderful donations for the St. Nick's Preview Party Auction but we still need so much more.  We can always use gift certificates from a restaurant or retail shop or for a relaxing massage of other luxury.  Perhaps you have a lovely bottle of wine which you would donate to help launch our new mystery wine grab bag (more on that below). 
Remember this is your chance to make the 2009 Auction something very special because without each of us making donations there would not be a 2009 Auction to benefit Trinity's many outreach programs.
Again, thank you and please contact
Lynne Davis, Gretchen Jaeckel or Jen Bartell (please see contact info below).
 
 wine bottles
Wine Grab Bag
 
Mystery Wine Grab Bag:  help make the St. Nick's Preview Party Auction a resounding success.  We are going to have a wine grab bag event. For a modest ticket price you will have the right to select a mystery wine which could be worth twice as much as the price of your ticket.   Go to your cellar or cabinet and pull out one of those bottles you have been saving and donate to the mystery wine grab bag.  Please note that we can only accept bottles of wine that have a value over $25 for the mystery wine grab bag.  You may contact Lynne Davis, Jennie Bartell or Gretchen Jaeckel should you wish to donate a bottle of mystery wine. 

Contacts:

Jennie Bartell
609-987-9019
jrsbart@comcast.net

Gretchen Jaeckel
609-275-6014
lardie@comcast.net

This year's bazaar is
Saturday, December 5th,
 from 9am- 1pm.

The Preview Party  is Friday, December 4th,  and it begins at 7pm and ends when we all go home!

To volunteer for the bazaar,
please call or email either:
Liz Hamilton
908-431-5424
lizhamie@comcast.net
or
Jennifer Hayden
609-466-3992
mhayden500@comcast.net



THIS SATURDAY
Children's
Halloween Party
 October 31st,
3pm-5pm

at Trinity
candy corn
Here are the details on the activities:
Pumpkin Carving contest, bobbing for apples, egg on a spoon race, toss a sponge at the Rector's face, three-legged races, Trick or Treating!.

There will be pizza and subs.

There will be prizes such as candy, bubbles, sticky hands, Halloween pencils, bouncy balls, paddle balls, stretchy ninjas, parachute monsters.... the list goes on and on.

There will also be Halloween gifts for all RTE13, J2A, and YAC students who are willing to volunteer their afternoon from 2-5:30.

The party is from 3-5, and if you know anyone who would be willing to donate their car for trick or treating that would be great!
Please RSVP if your family is attending the party; and/or
to volunteer, please email our youth minister Michael Lovaglio
at
lovagliom@trinityprinceton.org

THIS SATURDAY
Fall Clean-Up
on October 31st
from 9am-12noon

(rescheduled from last Saturday)

gardening tools

Join our parish family (and bring your own) for a morning of fun as we spruce up the church grounds. Please meet in the Trinity circle and bring your favorite rake, trowel and gardening gloves. You can choose your gardening  activity (digging bulbs, anyone?). Refreshments provided! The raindate is October 31st.

NEW!
Join the Party!
Princeton-Yale
Football Tailgate Party
Saturday, November 14th

Princeton-Yale game
Sign up at the parish receptionist's desk if you would like to join our Trinity
tailgate party at 11:30 am (game time is 1pm) on Saturday, November 14th in the Princeton Tigers football stadium parking lot. We'll supply instructions so you can find the Trinity tailgate party spot!
20-30 somethings luncheon
 THIS SUNDAY
College students welcome

20 & 30 year olds
Attention 20- and 30-somethings!  Please join us for an informal time of food and fellowship this coming Sunday, November 1, in the Thomas room.  Lunch will be served following the 11 am service every first Sunday of the month.  College students are welcome!

We are also looking for volunteers to provide lunch! If you or your committee/group is interested in helping to provide a meal, please contact Joanne Golann at jwgolann@gmail.com or (631) 707-3809.


YAC+= Young Adults in the Church
Eric Garner, seminarian
The Young Adults in the Church (YAC) program is open to all students who are in eleventh and twelfth grade as well as those students who have completed RTE13 and J2A. The YAC program meets on Sunday morning during forum between 10-10:45 and is intended to aid students in their transition into the church as adult critical thinkers. Both YAC instructors, Michael Lovaglio and Eric Garner, have a Princeton Seminary education and offer students a graduate level perspective of the biblical text. Currently, the YAC class is working it's way through the book of Exodus. For more information contact Michael Lovaglio at  lovagliom@trinityprinceton.org or come by on Sunday morning for doughnuts and theology.

Eric Garner
Keep scheduling those
photographs for

the 2010
Trinity Parish Directory

Jeanes family web size

Please make sure to get your picture taken for our Trinity family album (aka. the directory).
 It won't be complete without YOU!. Thanks,
Paul+

To schedule your FREE photo session,
  click www.trinityprinceton.org

Here's more information:
 Photographs are taken in Pierce Hall. You get to choose the photograph for the directory, looking at your selection from a computer screen. If you decide to purchase any extra photographs, 10% of the purchase price is donated to Trinity Church. Questions? Please email Annie Thomas
at
 
thomasa@trinityprinceton.org

 Victor and Jacqueline Gibbs, and their children David and Victoria, were in last week's photo in E-Pistle.
We also have a display of parishioners' photos in the receptionist's area, including photographs of Dulcie and Clive Muncaster, Jean Huntington, Master Thomas Kunkler, and the Jeanes (above) and Gibbs family photos.



Newcomers' Dinner on November 15th
Are you new to Trinity Church?  Would you like to meet other newcomers, your priests, and parishioners?  Then come and join us for dinner, Sunday November 15th at 5:30 PM.  We will be gathering in the George Thomas Room, next to the parish hall.

RSVP to Sarah Gaventa at
gaventas@trinityprinceton.org
 
Paul Jeanes to run
Philly Marathon
November 22nd

for
Back on My Feet
Philly marathon
Here's an Update:
Paul Jeanes is past the $700 mark in raising $1,800 in his Philly Marathon
run. All donations to "Back on my Feet" are tax-deductible. He thanks everyone for their support!

Father Paul
is running the Philly Marathon!! 
As a participant in the race you can "run for a purpose" and Paul will be running for Back on My Feet which promotes the self-sufficiency of Philadelphia's homeless population by engaging people in running as a means to build confidence, strength and self-esteem.  Visit their website to learn more
 (www.backonmyfeet.org) 

Paul is raising $1,800.00 to help
the homeless get back on
their feet.  To make a pledge of
support email Paul at
jeanesp@trinityprinceton.org
or
click here.
Thank you for your support!!
 

Back on my feet logo
"The Boy in the
 Striped Pajamas"
the November 6th
First Friday Faith in Film

Boy in the Striped Pajamas
10 am at Trinity; please bring a bag lunch and rsvp to Paul Jeanes
if you will attend.
jeanesp@trinityprinceton.org

NEW COURSE!
More pies!
Register NOW for the
2009
Trinity Turkey Trot
turkey trot 2009 logo
We're very excited to announce the return of the 5K Trinity Turkey Trot Fun Run/Walk, benefiting the Crisis Ministry of Princeton and Trenton, on Thanksgiving morning at 8 a.m.
We have a new course that begins and ends at Trinity, and loops around our gorgeous, famous and historic neighborhood
around Mercer Street.

To register for the
 2009 Turkey Trot, go to :
www.trinityprinceton.org

This year, all registration for the Turkey Trot, for walkers and runners, needs to be completed online at the Trinity website. This year's entry fee is $25, with a $30 fee on Thanksgiving morning.
Please remember, you  have 1 hour to register on race day, from 6:30am- until 7:30am. Anyone late is welcome to follow the course, but they will not receive a t-shirt or be eligible to win prizes. (no cash on the day of the race; please make your checks out to 'Trinity Church').
All early entrants receive t-shirts; day-of entrants will receive t-shirts while supplies last. This year's prizes will include more home-baked pies made by Trinity parishioners.
We will need volunteers !
Please consider
  •  to help distribute the t-shirts, food and water, e-mail Annie Thomas thomasa@trinityprinceton.org

  • to distribute posters and flyers, please email Alison Roth
rotha@trinityprinceton.org
Run with the Rector on Wednesday mornings at 9:30am
running shoes
Hurry! Before it gets too cold!
No need to call, just check in at the receptionist's desk. Ladies and gentlemen, lace those sneakers and come on and run around the neighborhood with Paul Jeanes.

Christmas Pageant for Children
Sunday, December 20th
at 4pm

2008 Christmas pageant group shot
   
Following last year's success, there will be a special Children's Christmas Pageant at Trinity on the Sunday before Christmas (20th December) at 4pm in the afternoon. The pageant is an opportunity for children to present the Christmas story in a dramatic way with words, music and dance. Performers will be in two age groups. There are more ambitious speaking and acting parts for children from Grades 5 to 8, and simpler singing and dancing parts for Pre-K to Grade 4.  Please let Sarah Gaventa know of children who would like to take part. It would be especially good to be able to identify children who have special gifts/interests/experience e.g. acting experience, playing an instrument, singing solos, dancing etc.
 
It is ESSENTIAL  that ALL the performers are able to attend the relevant rehearsals, so before signing up, PLEASE check out the schedule below to see that this will be possible. Of course, children who cannot take part as performers are warmly welcome to attend the pageant itself.
 
REHEARSAL SCHEDULE
 
Grades 5 through 8
Sunday 15th November 1.30pm
Sunday 22nd November 1.30pm
Sunday 29th November 1.30pm (optional)
This is the Sunday after Thanksgiving, and so people may be out of town. There will be a rehearsal for those who can attend. Please let us know.
 
Pre-K through Grade 8
Sunday 6th December 1.30pm
Sunday 13th December 1.30pm
SATURDAY 19th December 9.30am
FULL DRESS REHEARSAL

Sunday, December 20th, 4.00pm CHILDREN'S CHRISTMAS PAGEANT

If your child would like to participate, contact The Rev. Sarah Kinney Gaventa no later than November 2nd.
 

About our $100,000
Verizon bill...

Advertising                7,000
Computer Support      5,000
Hospitality Supplies     5,500
Office Supplies/Misc    4,800
 Postage                     7,500
Printing Supplies        5,500
Service Contracts/Office Machines   29,500
Staff Support              1,000
Stewardship                5,000
Telephone & DSL         8,500
Vestry                        1,500
Web Support               2,500
Communications System Upgrade        Con. Endowed Par-Dues 1,250
Archives                     2,000
Audit                          6,000
                             _________
Sub-Total                   92,550

The remaining $7,000 of our bill covers our administrative expenses.

************************

The above figures reflect a reference (see below) Peter Nalen made in a stewardship presentation on Sunday, October 11th.

"do you pay a Verizon bill ?  So do we, to the tune of $100K, That's just for the phones, computers and printers, and their upkeep, not for the personnel who actually use them."


Rummage collection has begun!
Rummage in the Parish Hall
The 40th Annual Trinity Rummage Sale will be on
Saturday, February 13th, 2010.

We would be very grateful if everyone could drop off their Rummage on THURSDAYS, because our rummage workers sort on Friday mornings. PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE RUMMAGE IN THE LOBBY. Rummage
should be left on the bench outside Pierce Hall. We have tax receipts for donations at the receptionist's desk from 9am-4pm, weekdays. Thank you !

Our Parish Office Hours

are Monday-Thursday,  9am-5pm and
Friday, 9am - 3pm
Fall leaves

  You can always reach our clergy in an emergency by calling them on their cell phones:

Paul Jeanes
609-851-6989

Anne Marie Richards 609-651-3217


Sarah Kinney Gaventa
609-365-0419

Would You Like a
Trinity Name Tag?
Trinity logo
Please wear your name tag during church (all services, so we can recognize you and  remember you at  Evensong and Compline, as well as Sunday morning services.  Please email parish administrator
Annie Thomas if you would like to have a Trinity name tag!
Deadline for the Next E-Pistle  and Service Leaflet is WEDNESDAY,
10 Am
reminder
Look for your next issue of E-Pistle on THURSDAY.  Please keep sending your news for E-Pistle to Alison Roth.  Not sure if your news goes into E-Pistle? No problem! Send everything to Alison, who will direct your information to the proper person, and keep reading E-Pistle to follow the parish life of Trinity Church.

Trinity Church
33 Mercer Street,

 Princeton, New Jersey.
Telephone 609-924-2277
Fax 609-924-9140
www.trinityprinceton.org


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