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A Thought On Parshas Shemos
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"...va'yigarshum va'yokam Moshe va'yoshian..." "...and they chased them away but Moshe got up and saved them..." (2:17) The incident at the well is intriguing. Fugitive Moshe stopped near a well where the seven daughters of Yisro hoped to water their sheep. Rival shepherds came and chased them away but Moshe protected them and helped the girls tend to their flock. The Rambam (Moreh HaNevuchim 2:45 and Sanhedrin 2:7) writes that the path to Divine insight and to prophecy begins with a person feeling impelled within himself, on his own, to act with zeal and consciousness in doing what is right and good. "Rescuing the pious from the plot of the wicked, protecting a great person, bestowing positive influence on the many, and being alert to worthy and noble causes through which to actualize one's self constitutes "a heavenly spirit" driving a person to do good. Moshe Rabbeinu displayed this early on when he stopped the Egyptian taskmaster, when he admonished the Jew who struck his friend...even when Moshe was a fugitive and a frightened stranger passing through Midian, he could not tolerate others oppressing the weak. He could not restrain himself from doing what is right." A person needs to do what is right because it is right. There are situations when we are in the minority or are newcomers or are outnumbered by belligerent others. The value of doing what is right is not, according to the Rambam, a matter of being foolhardy or of needing to "make a point" or of being compulsive and unemotional in behaving according to standard. The spiritual ideal is in one having a perspective that when someone is in trouble or in need then we cannot tolerate the presence of oppression and cruelty. We act with zeal because that constitutes goodness and embodies a Divine-like attribute. An example of this may be the Talmudic adage (Yevamos 79a) that a Jew can be identified by three qualities: we are compassionate, we are modest and we are kind. There are poskim who write that this is not merely a "nice saying" or an ideal, but is rather a halachic axiom. If a stranger appears and claims to be a Jew but has no evidence to prove it, the local rabbi might put him under "surveillance" and observe how he adapts as he visits the community. A Jew, even a stranger, will not allow an opportunity to do good "slip by." Even though he may be only passing through town, he will do what is right when the need arises. Many years ago, my family was in Israel for the summer and I was here alone. I still marvel at how a newcomer to the area, a rebbe in one of the yeshivos, met me and although he had just moved in himself in order to take a job at the school, he invited me for a Shabbos meal. I observed to him at the time that this was an illustration of that gemara's essence. He was a stranger in town yet the chance to be machnis orech, to invite a guest, was a chance that he jumped at. That is the path of Enlightenment. * * * * * The Rosh is interested in the grammar in our verse. Va'yigarshum. And they drove them away. While seemingly this refers to the rival shepherds chasing away Yisro's daughters, the word is written in the masculine. Just as the later word va'yoshian "and he saved them" is in the feminine form, our word here should say va'yigarshun. The Rosh writes that his father taught him that the word takes on a very different meaning. It does not mean that "they chased them away" but it means "the well waters were obstructed" (compare Yeshaya 57:20). The shepherds blocked access to the well so that the girls could not use the water. When Moshe approached the well, the waters rose and spilled over that boundary. Foiled, the shepherds then pursued the girls to harass them but again Moshe arose and fought them off. It was this report - that Moshe did not hesitate to do what was right and that his deeds seemed accompanied by Divine grace and intervention - that convinced Yisro that this was no ordinary man. This was a person who was a descendant of Yakov who was always prepared to do what was right. The "pious spirit" is escorted by Divine providence and those who protect others are protected by HaShem. With HaShem's help, my next three parsha emails will be sent from Jerusalem.
Good Shabbos. D Fox |
Reader's Question: May a frum (orthodox) family attend a Jewish wedding that is officiated by a Conservative Rabbi? If not, can they attend a wedding where there is one Orthodox Rabbi and One Conservative Rabbi in attendance; the Orthodox Rabbi doing the Ketuba and the Conservative Rabbi doing the ceremony?
Answer: If a conservative rabbi is the one officiating (mesader Kidushin), a frum person my not be at such a wedding. If an orthodox rabbi is officiating, there is no prohibition to be there, but it should be avoided unless absolutely necessary to be there. If this wedding is taking place inside their temple (Bais HaKnesses) it could be more problematic, and the orthodox rabbi may not even be allowed to go and officiate. A Rav must be consulted for Halacha L'Ma'aseh. It doesnt matter who reads the kesuba. The main piece of information that is the deciding factor is who is officiating. (Mesader Kidushin) (See Shu"t Igros Moshe Even HaEzer Vol. 2 Siman 17 and Vol.4 Siman 16)
Reader's Question: Can you please explain were it says a person isn't suppose to whistle. Answer: I know that there is a "legend" that says that whistling is prohibited due to its summoning of Sheidim (demons). However, there is no source for this in Halacha, and I have yet to find a reference to this even being a problem according to Kabbalah. In fact, the Rama Siman 338:1 and Mishna Berura 338:3 clearly rule that whistling on Shabbos is permitted, even if one whistles a tune. This is true as well if the fingers are used to produce the whistling. (See Aruch HaShulchan 338:7) If there would have been a problem with whistling, wouldnt the Poskim mention it, rather than simply ruling that it's permitted? Of course, it isn't a refined, Jewish thing to crudely whistle in public. But, pleasant whistling to enhance a niggun, seems to be OK and can even be used to enhance Avodas Hashem. If you come across any sources that forbid it, please be so kind as to let me know, as I have been researching this for a while.
A Torah a Minute
Women and the blessings of Baruch Sheamar and Yishtabah
Are women permitted to say the Berachoth (blessings) connected with the Pesuqei DeZimra, of Baruch Sheamar and Yishtabbah?
Women are exempt from all Miswoth SheHazeman Gerama (commandments which are dependent upon time). The Pesuqei DeZimra which are part of the morning Shaharith prayer must be read by a specific time -- before the Shaharith 'Amidah -- which means no later than four hours into the day. If a man reads them after this time he may not recite the blessings. As such, this is a Miswah dependant upon time and women are exempt from praying the Pesuqei DeZimra.
This is as far as their obligation is concerned. However, if they wish to read it, including reciting the complete Berachoth (blessings) of Baruch Sheamar and Yishtabah, they are permitted to do so and will get a reward for doing it. This is a time-honored tradition even among Sephardim.
(See Ohr LeSion 2, 5: 3. Kaf Hahayim (Kaf Hachayim) 70, Oth 1, concerning the prayer from the Aqedah till the end)
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