Tuesday, October 06, 2009  

Coalition News
 
Seeking A Place to Call Home
Ar’Mondre is a soft-spoken 12-year-old who likes to cook, build things, and recently discovered a musical talent—playing the clarinet!  Ar’Mondre has a strong sense of loyalty and desire to protect those he cares about which may be one of the reasons he wants to be a police officer when he grows up. Ar’Mondre longs for a loving family to call his own, and would do best in a two parent family, with a strong male role model, who provides consistency, structure, and clear expectations. If you would like more information about Ar’Mondre, please contact Dawn Milburn at  800.FOSTER.3 (314.367.8373).
 
Reading Tutors Available  
Volunteer Tutors are trained and ready to be matched with a foster or adopted child to help improve his/her reading skills.  One-on-one tutoring would take place twice a week for 1-hour.  You must be willing to transport your child to and from one of the following public libraries two times each week for tutoring:  Brentwood, Central, Headquarters, Kirkwood, Machacek, Maplewood, Meramec Valley, Marketplace, Oak Bend, Richmond Heights, Rockhill, Schlafly, Tesson Ferry, Thornhill, University City, or Valley Park.  Please contact Leslie Lewis for additional information at 800.FOSTER.3 (314.367.8373) x37.
 
Referrals Needed for "A Place to Call Home"
A partnership with KSDK NewsChannel 5 which features the hardest-to-place children (older youth and sibling groups) who are legally available for adoption during weekly broadcasts.   For more information on referring a youth in foster care, please contact Sheila Suderwalla, Director of "A Place to Call Home", at 800.FOSTER.3 (314.367.8373).
 
Holiday Wishes Registration
Thank you for your patience.  The Holiday Little Wishes registration site is now up. To register your foster/adopted child, click here.  As a reminder, your Coalition Caregiver ID can be found above your address on the outside of the latest News You Can Use newsletter.  Due to the inconvenience, the deadline will be extended to Thursday, October 22nd, 2009
 
St. Louis City Educational Advocates
Did you know that the Coalition now has a second Educational Advocate?  If you have a youth located in St. Louis CityDell Vinson is available to help foster parents, adoptive parents, case managers and other professionals understand the special education process.  She is able to discuss issues with you, attend meetings, and provide assistance in any way regarding your child’s education.  Services and advocacy are free.  Please call 314.552.2427 if you have questions or need any educational assistance.
  
Coalition Events
 
 
Older Youth Support Group
10.06.09 / 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. 
God's Grace Church, 10308 Lackland Rd, 63114 
Topic:  Why ME? (Reason for adoption) - Having a greater understanding as to why they were placed for adoption and clarify information about their adoption story. To register, please contact Kimberly Knox at 800.FOSTER.3 (314.367.8373) x35.
 
Register Today for 10th Annual Family Ties
11.28.09 / 6:30 p.m. / Florissant Civic Center
To kick off the Holiday Season, the 10th Annual Family Ties event features a live children’s theatre production of a children’s favorite:  “If You Take a Mouse to School."  Family Ties is a FREE event held on Saturday, November 28th.  NEW this year – a special activity just for your TEENS.   They will have the opportunity to learn how to “spin and scratch” from an expert – DJ AFlex.   To register your family, call 800.FOSTER.3 (314.367.8373).
  
KidStore News
 
314.773.KIDS
Tyler Place Presbyterian Church
2109 S. Spring Street, 2nd Floor,  63110
Hours of Operation: 1st and 3rd Wednesday, and every Saturday (except Holidays) from 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. 
The KidStore is a small resale shop open exclusively to children in foster care.  Visit www.foster-adopt.org/kidstore for more information.
 
October:
· Black or orange clothing items 1/2 off
 
KidStore & Parents Classifieds
The KidStore Classifieds is a section that allows foster parents to see what we have to offer at our KidStore.  The Parents Trade Classifieds allows parents to exchange items amongst themselves.
  
Advocacy Corner
 
Leslie Lewis, Director of Educational Advocacy, has over 30-years experience, and can help you with IEPs, tutoring, and a variety of other educational concerns.  Requests can be e-mailed or discussed by calling 800.FOSTER.3 (314.367.8373) x37. 
 
Hot Topic of the Month
Topic: Special Education:  So Much to Know
Do you have a son or daughter who has been identified, or you think should be evaluated by your local school district, as a child with a disability as defined by the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act?...
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Community News
 
National Transracial Adoption Study Needs Your Help
The University of Maryland Dept. of Family Sciences and The Center for Adoption Support and Education are working together to facilitate a national study of transracial adoptive families and need YOUR help. The specific focus of this study is to examine the impact of family characteristics on the overall adjustment, self-esteem and racial identity of minority youth adopted by Caucasian parents.  If you are a white adoptive parent of at least one minority child who was placed or adopted by the age of 4, and who is now between the ages of 14-18, please call 301.405.4011 or email today.
 
A Gifted Child in Foster Care: A Story of Resilience
Author:  Dr. Grace LaJoy Henderson
From Dr. LaJoy's terrifying accounts of how her and her siblings were abandoned, to the endearing anecdotes about her foster mother, A Gifted Child in Foster Care shows the reader what it's like to grapple with paramount life issues.  This book offers words of encouragement and empowerment for both youth and parents. Youth discover that they can succeed and impact the lives of others even in the face of adversity, while parents learn specific steps to help their youth recognize and utilize their gift(s).
  
Community Events
 
FREE Drama Workshop
Tuesdays, 10.20.09 - 11.24.09 / 6:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.
9445 Litzsinger St. Louis, MO 63144
Children's Home Society (CHS) with the help of Metro Theater Company, is offering a special six-week drama workshop free for foster/adopted children ages 11-15.  Studies support theater activity as a powerful intervention strategy to heal past trauma and to foster non-violent behavior in youth.  Led by CHS staff and Metro’s Teaching Artists, participants in this unique drama experience will explore activities that focus on collaboration, inclusion and building non-verbal communication skills.  Thanks to the support of the Boeing Foundation, we are able offer this opportunity at no cost to families. 
 
Beyond Consequences Parent Support Groups
Tuesdays, 10.13.09 - 12.01.09 / 6:30 - 9:00 p.m.
Group explains how understanding and love-based techniques are applied in everyday situations to help families find stability and healing.  To find out the location or to register, contact Debbie Clark at 314.732.6557.
  
Other Trainings
 
Parenting the Second Time Around: 
A workshop for relatives in the role of parents
Thursdays, 10.08.09 - 11.12.09 / 9:30 - 11:30 a.m.
Children’s Home Society, 9445 Litzsinger, 63144
Approved for 2 Training Hours
Raising grandchildren and children of relatives present unique emotional, physical, financial and legal issues for caregivers.  This workshop will cover discipline, planning for the future, connecting with community programs, internet safety, and feelings about new roles and relating to your adult child or relative.  To register, call Rachel or Sarah at 314.968.2350.
 
Understanding the Effects of Sexual Abuse
10.07.09 & 11.14.09 / 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.
Children’s Home Society, 9445 Litzsinger, 63144
Approved for 2 Training Hours
Parenting a child with a history of sexual abuse can be frightening - from responding to the child's acting out behavior to dealing with your own emotions.  Come share with other parents and participate in discussions of the best ways to minimize the trauma and help your child heal.  To register, call 314.968.2350 x223.
 
Mental Health Diagnosis & Medication Management
10.13.09 / 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.
Non-Profit Development Ctr, 425 Spencer Rd, 63376
Approved for 2 Training Hours
St. Charles County Chapter of Missouri Foster/Adopt Association is proud to present Child Psychiatrist, Dr. James Edwards.  If you are licensed by another agency, please contact your licensing worker for approval.  To register, please contact Diane Bueneman at 636.928.2198.
 
Understanding Asperger Syndrome
Tuesdays, 10.13.09 & 10.20.09 / 9:00 - 11:00 a.m.
SSD Admin Office, 12110 Clayton Road (Rm.57)
Not Approved for Training Hours
Identify and understand the social, communication, sensory and behavioral characteristics of Asperger syndrome and gain an awareness of effective, practical strategies that will support your child in being more successful at home and school.  There is no cost for training.  To register, call 314.989.7807 (TTY: 314.989.8552) or register on-line at www.solutionwhere.com/ssd.
 
Help Your Child Learn Anger Management
Tuesdays, 10.13.09 - 11.17.09 / 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m.
SSD Admin Office, 12110 Clayton Road (Rm.57)
Not Approved for Training Hours
This 6-week training is designed to help parents reduce impulsive and aggressive behavior.  Help your kids learn to get along by understanding others' points of view.  Your kids can learn to open up, acknowledge feelings and learn that anger is OK.  To register, call 314.989.7807 (TTY: 314.989.8552) or register on-line at www.solutionwhere.com/ssd 
 
Special Education Orientation & IEP Process
10.14.09 / 9:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.
SSD Admin Office, 12110 Clayton Road (Rm.57)
Not Approved for Training Hours
This orientation is designed to provide an overview of special education services and how they are provided through SSD.  All participants will receive a Parent Handbook and an IEP Guide for Parents. There is no cost for training.  To register, call 314.989.7807 (TTY: 314.989.8552) or register on-line at www.solutionwhere.com/ssd
  

 

 
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