|  The Business Side of Co-Parenting an excerpt from Kids First Next Step Program: Putting Conflict Aside
 
 Kids First frequently refers to the need for parents in the process of a divorce or separation, especially in high conflict situations, to try to treat their co-parenting communications as business discussions.  In other words, on the phone or in person, stick to the facts and avoid getting too personal.  Though to some this may seem like a "cold" approach to dealing wth the other parent of your child, for many it provides just the right level of detachment to allow for true resolution of sticky issues while avoiding the emotional entanglements that frequently end in expletives and slammed phones/doors.
 Guidelines for Your Business Discussions:
 
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 LOCAL FAMILY COURT JUDGES PUBLISH BOOK ON DIVORCE  Judges Andrew Horton and John David Kennedy have presided over more than 10,000 trials or other courtroom events in Maine family law cases.  Horton and Kennedy recently published "Do Your Divorce Right: Straight Talk from Family Court Judges."  The book helps readers understand how to find and keep a lawyer, how to avoid a trial and how to achieve closure and peace. See their recent interview on 207   | 
            
            
            |  MARCH 2012     CALENDAR OF EVENTSSaturday, 8:30am - 12:30pm March 3 - Portland (761-2709)March 10 - Topsham (761-2709)
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 March 10 - Belfast (338-2200 x109)
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 March 17 - Portland (761-2709)
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 (similar program) March 3 - Rockland (596-0014) (similar program) March 10  - Bangor (942-9329)       Next Step Program: Putting Conflict Aside Mondays, 6:00 - 9:00pm March 5 - March 26    Separation, Divorce & Dads Tuesday, 6:30 - 8:00pm March 6 - Portland (761-2709)     Group II (4th - 6th grades) Wednesdays, 4:00 - 5:30pm   March 7 - April 11Group III (7th - 9th grades) Wednesdays, 5:45 - 7:15pm   March 7 - April 11Group IV (10th - 12th grades) TBD      *save the date:  Gala/Auction coming up on May 17, 2012!   Sponsors/Items needed
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