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Keeping YOU in the Frame
February 2008
In This Issue
Development of Self Workshop
Mentoring Group
Psychotherapy & Gender Transition
The Knowledge Community
New Gay Men's Therapy Group
Group for ex-Boarders
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Well January went quickly didn't it?  I've barely caught my breath this month.  We've had the start of our Essentials course, plus I've run a day on the Supervision of Sexual Minority Therapy.

Our Introduction to Psychosexual Therapy weekend is probably full (but get in touch NOW if you want to be put on a waiting list in case of cancellations).  We lost, and then replaced a trainer for the workshop on The Role of Psychotherapy in Gender Transition and have secured a massive discount on a new therapy textbook (see coupon at end of newsletter).

I'm also preparing myself for some international training working with therapists in Latvia where there is very little in the way of service provision for sexual minorities.  In fact there are only two out gay male therapists and one out bisexual woman therapist in the whole country (no helplines, support groups. Nothing)! 
The Development of the Self and the Function of the Therapeutic Alliance    23rd February
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How do we get a self? What do we mean by 'having a sense of self?' How secure or insecure do we feel about who we are and our connections to others? How is our sense of self shaped in a homophobic, gendered culture?

This workshop will explore the idea that, from the beginning of life, we construct our 'senses of self', including our sexual and gendered selves, from our experiences of being in interaction with others. We will look at some ideas about the relational nature of the 'self', drawn from contemporary approaches to psychoanalytic psychotherapy. Using concepts from attachment theory, we will think about how our sense of ourselves develops initially within the context of our early relationships with others, and continues to emerge and change through our interactions with significant others throughout life.

Judy Yellin is a relational psychoanalytic psychotherapist working in private practice with clients of all sexualities and genders. She teaches at the Centre for Attachment-Based Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy conducting seminars on Freud and on relational psychoanalysis, and provides training and seminars at a number of other therapy training institutes . She is a member of the International Association for Relational Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy (IARPP), and a founder member the Relational School. Judy is also a Clinical Associate of Pink Therapy. Click here for more details
 
Mentoring Group with Charles Neal or Dominic Davies
Charles NealBoth Dominic and Charles (editors of the Pink Therapy trilogy of textbooks) are offering a mentoring experience this year.  It will be a small closed group, comprising four meetings over the course of a year. 

They plan to focus on helping you develop your therapeutic practice with gender and sexual minority clients. There will be some guided reading, case discussion and space for you to share your dilemmas and successes!   Charles' group will be in Hastings on a Monday and Dominic's will be in Soho on a Friday.  The project is called Thinking it Over (click the link to download a flyer for more information).

Charles is away for February, and will respond to his emails on his return.
The Role of Psychotherapy in Gender Transition
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This workshop will examine the controversial role of mental health treatment for individuals undergoing gender transition, and explore the relevance of therapeutic support throughout and beyond physiological realignment. The overall aim will be to open the way to making positive therapeutic connections and developing good practice with clients who have Gender Dysphoria / Gender Identity Disorder (transsexualism) or who are Trans-historied.

Participants will gain insight into the relevance of counselling with people pre-, during, and post- transition, as well as those who do not transition full-time, through exploration and discussion of contemporary perspectives and the issues arising.

We are grateful to Tina Livingstone who has agreed to step in at short notice after the unexpected withdrawal of Kenneth Demsky. 

Tina has had a long involvement with trans clients and with Pink Therapy. She is a Pink Therapy Accredited Sexual Minorities Therapist working in the Person Centred Approach. A member of The Gender Trust, the Gender Identity Research and Education Society, and the Organisation Intersex International she has specialised in counselling sexual and gender minorities since 1999.   For further details about the workshop click here

 
Knowledge Community Resources
There is a section of the Knowledge Community (KC) dedicated to the LGBT communities. This is a ever growing resource of material relevant to people working with LGBT people which is supported by the NHS and maintained in a large part by Jan Bridget. Anyone can join the KC and add their own resources and the topics are pretty varied and include: black and minority ethnic LGBT's, disabled LGBT's, homophobic and transphobic hate crimes, older lgbt's, regional lgbt's, transgender issues, young lgbt's, alcohol and drugs, education, health, the law, mental health, sexual health and religion.  New headings get added and the resources get updated regularly. Please check it out. It's expecially useful for people working in various lgbt projects and organisations and those involved in training.   http://www.csip.org.uk/lgbt

New Gay Men's Therapy Group at London Friend
2_pintsLondon Friend is setting up  a Gay and Bisexual Men's 12 week Therapy group running for 2 hrs on Wednesday Eves (7.30-9.30) from 9th April to 25th June inclusive. Cost is �120 with a sliding scale for those on limited income.

The only criteria is that participants identify as Gay or Bisexual and we invite self referrals and referrals from other therapists or organisations.

The group will be run by two experienced therapists who already work for London Friend
Jonathan Rosen and Igor Vidovic.

To make a referral or for further information please contact office@londonfriend.org.uk
Or phone 020 7833 1674. There are more details of the group on the website www.londonfriend.org.uk
Coming Home: a group for ex-boarding school pupils

Marcus Gottlieb is a humanistic psychotherapist who has been running workshops for Ex-Boarding School Pupils about their experiences.  He is now planning to run a group where the first scheduled date is April 22 and it will take place on 12 Tuesday evenings and 3 Sunday daytimes.   

If you have clients who are former boarding school pupils who'd like to work on some of the shared emotional and psychological issues this experience has left them with, then please tell them about the group and give them Marcus' contact info: 020 7243 6752, 07973 322819 or marcusgottlieb@gmail.com

Trans Non-Monogamies
Christina Richards has sent us this request:

I am writing a chapter in the upcoming book by Barker & Langdridge 2009: "Understanding Non-monogamies". Non-monogamy is any way in which people form an intimate relationship, which may or may not include sex, with more than one person; for example, polyamory, swinging, open relationships, poly fidelity etc. My chapter will be examining and reporting the way in which trans identities disrupt heteronormative discourses which explicitly or implicitly present the 'opposite-sex' dyad as 'natural.
 
I would be delighted to hear from anyone who identifies as trans, in whatever way: transsexual, gender queer, transvestite etc, who has some experience of non-monogamy in order that I can include as many different views and narratives as possible in my work. Barker & Langdridge have stated that they are not seeking work that pathologises open non-monogamy or focuses on 'infidelity', which is why I am happy to contribute. If you would like to contribute to my work please feel free to fill in the form online http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=zUj8XfgAz_2bn40NHS_2bPEsaA_3d_3d or contact me at christina@christinarichards.co.uk.

CALL FOR CONTRIBUTIONS
New Book:  Queer(y)ing Psychology? Promises, Problems, and Possibilities
Editors: Dr. Darren Langdridge, Dr. Peter Hegarty & Dr. Meg Barker

Why has 'queer theory' affected psychology less than other perspectives?
What would a queer psychology look like?
What does psychology have to offer queer theory?
Does queer psychology differ from LGBT psychology?
Has the straight story of psychology's history obscured queer pasts?
Can psychological models of sexuality afford to accommodate queer theory challenges to the concept of normality? Can they afford not to?
Is there something queer about psychologists' fetish for methodology?
Can queer theory be a resource for psychologists concerned with social justice?
What is the relationship between international and UK-based 'queer' perspectives?
Can and should we queer psychotherapy?
What is queer about psychology's relationship to psychoanalysis?
What are the pitfalls of queer theory for psychology?

Darren Langdridge, Peter Hegarty and Meg Barker invite articles (maximum 6000 words) and commentaries (maximum 1500 words) that address these questions and others within the scope of the proposed book. The deadline for abstract submissions is 17/03/08 (full chapters by 01/12/08 - provisional date tbc). Please send all abstract submissions to Darren Langdridge. Informal enquires and submissions may be sent to any one of the editors:

Dr. Darren Langdridge, Faculty of Social Sciences, The Open University, Walton Hall, Milton Keynes, MK7 6AA. 01908 652126 (Email: d.langdridge@open.ac.uk)
Dr. Peter Hegarty, Department of Psychology, University of Surrey (Email: P.Hegarty@surrey.ac.uk)
Dr. Meg Barker, Department of Psychology, London South Bank University (Email: barkermj@lsbu.ac.uk)

 
Thanks for your continued interest, and please continue to keep us informed of relevant developments in your area.
Dominic Davies
Director
Pink Therapy
 
Save 50%safe sane and consensual book image You may recall last month our mentioning a rather excellent new textbook edited by Darren Langrdige and Meg Barker on BDSM.  After negotiation with the publishers, Palgrave have agreed to offer  a 50% discount of the cover price of �50. 

This means the book will now be �25 - which is a bargain for anyone who is interested in and working with members of the kink community. A description of the book is on the link below.

To receive the discount, order:
Online - Enter the reference code WPINK2008a into the promo box on the checkout page when ordering on www.palgrave.com
By phone - Quote the reference code WPINK2008a when you call to order, Palgrave Macmillan Orders (+44) (0) 1256 302866.

Meg and Darren will be running a workshop on Understanding Kink and BDSM for Pink Therapy on May 10, 2008.