Guidance for Positive Change Newsletter  Oct. 5, 2009 
Kay Greetings Friend and Welcome! 
in this issue
:: Turn up the Volume in Your Relationships
:: Become Tobacco Free with EFT
:: Powerful Affects by Integrating EFT with Fingerprint Analysis
:: About Affirmations and your Thinking
:: Seven Days out of the Womb
Turn up the Volume in Your Relationships
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One of  the most effective ways I've found to connect with a friend, family member or partner is to understand their preferred style of relating.  Coming at the relationship soley from our own perspective won't provide positive results.  Imagine the benefits of knowing how the other person likes to be treated and communicated to in the relationship.  This isn't about selling out and bending over backwards to accomomodate another person, this is about truly seeing another as well as yourself from an emotional standpoint.
 
Emotions are tricky business.  Water rules the emotions.  Think of how difficult it is to control water.  It forms to any container it's in otherwise it runs-amuck.  Engineering, materials and man-power are required to build a dam - all in attempt to manage its contents.  Compare a bucket of sand to a bucket of water.  Which is heavier?  Read more... 
Q&A 
How do you integrate Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) with Hand and Fingerprint Analysis?

 
Since June 2007 I've been observing the responses I receive from clients regarding the root cause of their emotional and physical issues.  Through answering a quick series of questions, a person is able to tap into their core issue or belief that is blocking and sabotaging their success.  Most often, this core issue is directly related to the persons life lessons, based on their fingerprint patterns.  As this correlation appears, I present effective and clearly identifiable antidotes to address the core issue while tapping on various pressure points near the surface of the skin. 
 
Together we release the gripping hold of the intensity, see from a new perspective and gracefully more forward.  The life lessons never go away, but the strength they bring will become much more apparent and enriching!  Our life lessons are to be embraced as allies.  EFT expedites the ability to get into the game with the lessons and win!!   More Q&A
"Don't limit your challenges.  Challenge your limits." - Anonymous
 
Thinking about Becoming Tobacco Free?
Free Seminar
 
Have you or a friend been wanting to quit or reduce the use of tobacco and are ready to get serious about it?  If yes, then come to a FREE 1-Hour Seminar to learn about and experience the use of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) to reduce cravings for cigarettes and chew.
 
Thursday Oct. 22, 2009
5:30 to 6:30pm
Three Rivers, CA
Limited Seating -Call to reserve your seat
559-561-4490 or to request information about my coaching program to quit for good! 
 
Over the phone one-on-one coaching is available and can also be very effective.
About Affirmations
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In every conversation, both internally and externally, you are affirming the substance of the dialogue.  Are you paying attention before, during and after your 'talks'?
 
What is an affirmation?  Synonyms include: statement, assertion, confirmation, pronouncement, declaration, verification, reinforcement and expressing dedication to.
 
In essence, you're firming up what you're thinking. 
 
Let's look behind the words to the thoughts, beliefs, intentions and perceptions.  When you hold on to a particular perception, you express dedication to that view whether positive or negative. Affirmations are often considered a positive thing, but as you can see from the list of synonyms, it's about what you're 'giving power to'. Read more...
 
7 days out of the womb 
Baby Tallus

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New born Tallus has a deep seeker line and that's a good thing.  His Mom and Dad are adventurers of the world.
 

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Thank you for joining me today.  See you next time!  I'd love to hear from you if you have any questions or feedback on this issue. Just reply to this message or contact me through Facebook. You have the option to unsubscribe to this mailing at any time by clicking on the link below.
 
Warmly,
 

Kay
559-561-4490
Private sessions in person or over the phone 
 
"Each man's character shapes his fortunes." - Latin proverb 
   
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