INSPIRATION
Learning to Listen
I'm feeling STUCK. It's still the New
Year,
and I'm not feeling the "brand new
beginning", "fresh
start" thing. In part it's due to the
season, the inward
nature of winter (see previous
newsletter if
you missed
out). But I realize it's also my GRAND
EXPECTATIONS that have been holding me
back. Do you ever have goals/expectations
that are so big you don't know where to
start?
So yet again, I've come back to this place of
needing to slow it down...even though
it already seems as if I'm going slow; I
mean, hello?! I'm not getting anything done!
Counter-intuitive (especially in our go go go
culture) but in order to get anything done, I
need to slow down the
expectations & break down the steps.
The best way for me to do that is through
HONESTY & AUTHENTICITY. Here I am, apparent
image of health, allowing myself to be
totally candid with you, saying 'ughh,
something isn't working for me...actually, I'm
saying I FEEL LIKE CRAP! :) '. But
yes, SAYING WHAT'S TRUE FOR ME IS
FREEING! It releases the expectation of
me to be the perfect image of health...and
guess what? in saying that... I already feel
healthier. Ahh the irony...
So what can you come clean
about? What
façade are you hiding behind or where are you
feeling stuck? GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION to
be true to yourself...to express your fears
in order to move beyond them. Give yourself
permission to JUST BE YOU...rather
than 'just DO IT.' Scary? Yes. Hard? No.
Because it's the suppressing of
feelings that is hard, and the letting go
and moving forward that makes things easier &
allows you to go with the flow.
I counsel people about food, but ultimately
the work I do, is about helping people to
LISTEN to what their bodies say. Our bodies
are so smart - they
don't miss a beat (literally). They tell you
when something's wrong, and when something is
right. So ARE YOU LISTENING, or are you
trying to hide your true feelings?
Unclear about your true feelings? Eating
good clean food helps to clean the mind so
you can see more clearly, and listen more
closely. Eating grounding foods also help
you to get centered and focused. (See below
for good grounding food).
My wish for you is to be clear & true to
yourself. Are you on that path? Consider
confiding in a journal, a friend, or a
consultation with me to help get you
there. You have all the answers.
Others just get to help you discover
them.