Memories of Years Gone By

TAM Graduates in Their Own Words

 We asked our graduates over the last 20 years to send us their stories, anecdotes, and memories. 

We hope you enjoy this sampling, as we approach the Banquet:

The beauty of the new building now shines, but the old one is still ingrained in our minds...

Every morning Mrs. Rauch would stand at the door and greet each grumpy tired face with a cheerful smile and happy "good morning!" no matter the response she received.

I would listen in class to the words that you taught

(Or sometimes space out till back to earth I was brought)

Hello, Shannna'le dear I know you are here

"Our Rashi, or Kli Yakar is so exciting!" you'd cheer

Learning in shul - Kramers for lunch

Practicing dances for an engagement brunch

Graduated cylinders in Mrs. Jona's lab

Mrs. Rauch's car - our local cab

Wild goose chase in Adar sends Mrs. Rauch around town

Parking lot, CVS upstairs and down

Chaya's motto to succeed you only need one cake a day

Rabbi Torem teaching us the Kosher way   

In Parshas B'Haaloscha it says, "V'haish Moshe anav me'od"- and the man, Moshe, was very humble".  What is 'anava', humility?  The Chazon Ish states that anava does not mean denying your strengths and good deeds.  Anava is not saying, "I am worth nothing."  True humility is when a person does not want or expect kavod, honor, or respect for his actions.  The antithesis of anava is gaava, haughtiness, the desire for kavod.  It seems to be human nature to desire honor.  But, why?  It appears that the problem is rooted in the fact that people do not believe in their own self-worth and, therefore, rely on the assurance of others to express their greatness.

            The Steipler Gaon said that a person needs to recognize that his abilities and talents are all a gift from Hashem.  They combine to make us capable and worthy people.  However, these gifts were given to us, not to gloat, but rather to assist in reaching our potential, achieving our goals in serving Hashem.  If one approaches self-worth in this manner, he will be the ultimate anav, humble person.  He will not expect honor for his actions, yet he will appreciate how special and unique he is.