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TN Adoption Support and Preservation's monthly e-newsletter

December, 2009
 
 
Adoption Support and Preservation (ASAP) provides support for Tennessee's adoptive families. To make a referral, call toll-free 1-888-848-2727, or visit
www.tnasap.org.
 
ASAP Regional Coordinator Contact Information
 
East TN:  Contact the Resource Center, 1-888-848-2727
Middle TN:  Jan Clifton - Catholic Charities, (615) 352-3087; jclifton@cctenn.org
West TN:  Michael McDonald - Agape, (901) 323-3600; michael.mcdonald@agapemeanslove.org

 
 
 
 
Equine Assisted Psychotherapy:  A Powerful New Tool
 
 
boy feeding horse
 
 
 
 
As family therapists, we know that ASAP is a vitally important resource for the children and families we serve.  ASAP is able to provide families in need with support, understanding, intensive therapy when indicated, and general knowledge about issues of adoption.  Over the years of ASAP's development, our staff has gained knowledge in many different areas that has allowed us all to grow as clinicians.  With this knowledge, we are able to provide outstanding services and to reach children and families on many different levels.  This growth is always a work in progress.  Now, once again, ASAP has embraced yet another tool for us to utilize in helping our families - a resource that might reach a child in a way that no talk therapy can.  What is this tool, you ask?
 
In October, staff from the ASAP and FOCUS programs had the opportunity to become certified in Equine Assisted Psychotherapy, or EAP.  EAP includes the use of horses in therapy.  The original founder of Equine Assisted Psychotherapy, Greg Kersten, of the OK Corral Series, conducted a special seminar for our staff, teaching us a unique and highly effective new way to help the children and families that we serve.  Participants learned EAP exercises, activities, and approaches for safety, therapy, teambuilding, inspiring confidence, and building emotional strength.  By using the skills of observation, knowledge, and communication, EAP can help children and parents reconnect with the positive attributes of their families.
 
The relationship between horses and humans is thousands of years old, and the power of the horse has long been a source of inspiration and innovation for people throughout the world.  The process of utilizing animals to facilitate healing in people also has a long history, and recognition of the tremendous benefits of Equine Assisted Psychotherapy has grown exponentially in the last several years.  Horses are social creatures.  They are curious, interactive, and have a need for attachment.  Horses perform specific roles within their herds, and their natural behaviors as part of a herd mimic the way that humans interact in families.  This provides a great opportunity to develop metaphors, observe behavior patterns, and create an arena for positive growth and change in families.  In addition, horses communicate with each other, and with people, through body language, which allows for great discoveries in how family members communicate and connect with one another.
 
EAP is an experiential therapy, meaning that families gain insight by participating in activities with the horses, and then by processing the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that they experienced.  This experiential component can be especially effective with issues of attachment, and thus, EAP is particularly relevant to many of our ASAP families.
 
We eagerly anticipate the addition of this unique mode of therapy to ASAP's already broad range of services.  For more information about Equine Assisted Psychotherapy, please visit Greg Kersten's OK Corral Series, and stay tuned for more details as ASAP incorporates this exciting tool into our service delivery.
 
 
Sarah Collins, LPC-MHSP, NCC
Kimberly Liberatore, M.Ed., Ed.S.
 
 
 
 
 
 
Finding Our Children Unconditional Support (FOCUS)
 

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Each month, ASAP's e-newsletter features a child who is in full guardianship of the state of Tennessee.  There are hundreds of unclaimed children in Tennessee who currently have no prospect of a forever family.  Our calling is to find families willing to open their hearts and homes to these children.  To view this month's featured child, click here. (3.5 minutes in length).
 
What makes adopting in Tennessee unique?  Our Adoption Support & Preservation program - ASAP - is a gift of comprehensive counseling and support services.  We will walk with you through the challenges and joys adoption can bring.  Will you be the promise of family for one of these children?  Please visit www.parentachild.org to learn more about other waiting children in Tennessee.
 
 
 
 
  
 
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By Claudia Fletcher
NACAC Adoptalk

 
 
 
young teen girl
 
 
".... a fundamental truth: relationship reciprocity and bonding expectations for a child during the first year of an adoptive placement must be the same as those for a newborn. To heal and thrive, older adoptees must be able to retrace, with their new family, developmental steps they missed early on."
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
  
 
by Mary Hopkins-Best
excerpted from the book,
 
 
 
crying child
 
 
"Toddlers whose needs have not been met learn to mistrust. Most toddlers who have experienced rejection respond by becoming rejecting. While some of these toddlers react similarly negatively to all adults, many selectively reject their parents. Similarly, while some toddlers who are adopted into a two-parent family resist both adoptive parents' attempts to get close to them, many react much differently to one parent than to the other."
 
 
 
 
 
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ASAP Family Support Groups
Meeting in January, 2010
 
Knoxville:  January 14, 2010, 6:00 - 7:30 pm
First Baptist Church of Fountain City - 2801 Holbrook Drive, Knoxville, TN
Activities provided for all family members.  Light meal provided.

Gray:  January 21, 2010, 6:00 - 7:30 pm
Crossroads Christian Church - 1300 Suncrest Drive, Gray, TN
Activities provided for all family members.  Light meal provided.
 
Cleveland:  January 12, 2010, 6:00 - 7:30 pm
Wesley Memorial United Methodist Church - 3405 Peerless Road NW, Cleveland, TN
Activities provided for all family members.  Light meal provided.
 
Hendersonville:  January 14, 2010, 6:00 - 7:30 pm
Our Lady of the Lake Catholic Church - 1729 Stop 30 Road, Hendersonville, TN
Activities provided for all family members.  Light meal provided.
 
Brentwood:  January 21, 2010, 6:00 - 7:30 pm
Fellowship Bible Church - 1210 Franklin Road, Brentwood, TN
Activities provided for all family members.  Light meal provided.
 
Lawrenceburg:  January 19, 2010, 6:00 - 7:30 pm
Lighthouse Baptist Church - 2350 Highway 43 South, Lawrenceburg, TN
Activities provided for all family members.  Light meal provided.
 
Memphis:  January 12, 2010, 6:00 - 7:30 pm
White Station Church of Christ; 1106 Colonial Road, Memphis, TN
Activities provided for all family members.  Light meal provided.
 
Jackson:  January 25, 2010, 5:00 - 8:00 pm, Parents' Night Out
Campbell Street Church of Christ; 1490 Campbell Street, Jackson, TN
 
For more information about ASAP Adoptive Family Support Groups in your area, contact:
 
East Region:  Ashley Jordan, ASAP Resource Center -
(865) 273-4469
 
Mid Region:  Brenda McElyea, ASAP Family Advocate -
(615) 352-3087
 
West Region:  Anna Dempsey, ASAP Family Advocate -
(901) 634-8199
 
 
 
 
 
Meet ASAP's Staff
 

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Sarah Collins, LPC, NCC is an ASAP Family Therapist and Clinical Supervisor in the East Tennessee region.  Sarah received her Master's degree in Counseling from the University of Tennessee and a Bachelor's degree in Psychology from Tusculum College.  She is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Tennessee, as well as a Nationally Certified Counselor.  Prior to joining the staff at Harmony Adoptions, Sarah worked for Frontier Health as an outpatient therapist, where she treated children, teens, and adults, specializing in substance abuse disorders.  She is a native and resident of Greeneville, Tennessee, where she lives with her husband, her son, and their German Shepherd.  Sarah's hobbies include beading, singing, fishing, and watching and participating in sporting events.
 
 
 
 
 
 
What is ASAP?
 
ASAP is designed to create and maintain a seamless state-wide system of pre- and post-adoption services in Tennessee. ASAP is an innovative program that supports children and families as they create and maintain connections and access services that support permanency. ASAP is working to develop the capacity of communities across Tennessee to better nurture their adoptive families.
 
ASAP seeks to increase the availability and accessibility of adoption support services in Tennessee, and to decrease the incidence of disrupted or dissolved adoptions. Motivated by the needs of families and children in all stages of the adoptive process, ASAP offers a comprehensive and coordinated continuum of services.
 
ASAP is a collaborative project of Harmony Adoptions of East Tennessee, Catholic Charities of Middle Tennessee, and AGAPE Child and Family Services of West Tennessee. ASAP is partnered with DCS for the cooperative implementation and further development of our program.
 
 
 
 
   
 
ASAP's toll-free Helpline: 
1-888-848-2727