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Excavating Your Life
February 2008 
In This Issue
Welcome
Excavate Yourself
Books I Recommend
Excavive Client Success
The Evolve Column
Excavive Speaking Engagements
Welcome to Excavating Your Life
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Jennifer M. Blair
Life Coach
Speaker
Writer


 Jennifer@excavive.com
Greetings!

It's hard not to notice Valentine's Day right now. When I go into Starbucks every morning, there are mugs with hearts on them and cute gift cards for that special someone.  I have received my annual mailing from Godiva enticing me with photos of the beautiful boxes of chocolate. My children have already asked me what night we are having our annual candlelight "Heart Dinner"- everything is shaped like a heart (Heart-shaped hamburgers, heart shaped pasta, the heart cake for dessert and the good-for-your-heart broccoli.) It's a tradition I love with them. And, one of my friends is having a couples Valentine's Day cocktail party that I plan to attend.

I love Valentine's Day and what it represents- the idea of having full permission to express your feelings for someone you care about, appreciate, have a crush on or just want to get to know a little better. It can be a partner (or potential mate), a friend, a child or even yourself. And, I wonder, why wait until a certain time of year to find the courage, have an excuse, let down barriers or even just get in touch with those feelings of love, passion and romance? Why not embrace love, passion and romance all of the time, every day?

I want to fully love all the people I care about with appreciation, love and respect. I want to find common connection and feel alive by taking the time to play in my passions. That is something I do through inspiring others to own their magnificence; deeply connecting with others; expressing my creativity through coaching, writing and speaking; and creating beauty in my external and internal worlds. And as for romance, I have to fully admit that I love the small, tender moments and expressive words that create openness, intimacy, laughter, fun and pleasure. I am a sappy romantic at heart!

So, what better time than now to experience and express love, romance and passion? What do you need to say or do, who do you need to say it to and what result do you want to create?  I challenge you to express your love to others now and each and everyday.


Excavate Yourself and Your Relationships through Life Coaching

Announcing the NEW Excavive Coaching Club

Receive the benefits of life coaching in a small, synergistic and safe group setting with this series of three group coaching sessions plus one individual 30-minute coaching session by phone. Session topics include:

  • February 26 Creating Life Balance
  • March 11    Excavating Your Values
  • March 25   Designing Inspired Action Items

Click here for more information. This can also be offered as a tele-class for those interested or I can bring the Coaching Club to a group already in existence such as if you belong to a book club, writer's circle, church group or any other existing small group that desires inspiration and group coaching. 

Relationship Coaching Sessions offer an opportunity to identify the areas of a relationship that are working and then create balance and strategies for the areas that are not. Communication tools are also emphasized. $175


Call 502.893.9589 or e-mail jennifer@excavive.com for more information on pricing.
VISA and MasterCard accepted.

Books I Recommend for Relationships:

My life love of reading and expanding myself has led me to create a wonderful tool for you -
My Reading List. The following books are excellent choices for this month:
  • The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
  • Eat Chocolate Naked by Cam Johnson
  • Finding True Love and True Love by Daphne Rose Kingma
  • Freeway of Love by Jan Latiolais-Hargrave
  • The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz
  • Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg
See my full Excavive Reading List for even more ideas.

Excavive Client Success:

"Jennifer is an insightful life coach.  She asked probing questions which helped me to identify what was important to me.  Through her values discovery process I was able to determine what drives me and to clarify my goals.  My goals now align with my values and strengths and I am able to follow through on them."

                                            - Mary Beth*, Life Coach

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Used with her permission, Excavive client Mary Beth Uberti was featured last month in the January Issue of Today's Woman magazine. Click here to read more about her success as a Life Coach and Speaker.

Coming Soon: Read more about Mary Beth and her work here.
                                                                                          
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This month's Evolve column in Underwired Magazine is called Make-up or Break-up, Either Way, Create a Life to Go Toward in the February Break Up issue, read it here. I continue to provide life coaching "tips" and "Jennifer Blair-isms," for expanding your thinking, your happiness and hopefully your success in all parts of your life.

"Excavating Deeper" Live Call-IN
In February, I am starting a live call-in, discussion on each month's column. The format will include an interview, as well as Q&A. To evolve more with a discussion on break-ups and how to create a life to go toward, join me for a free, LIVE 30-minute call-in, on Wednesday, February 20th at Noon EST. Contact
info@excavive.com for the call-in details.

The Wired and Inspired speaker series for 2008 kicked off on January 24th with great food, fun and friendships. My discussion on "Energizing Yourself for 2008" and how to set soulful goals was inspiring and useful. If you missed this one, the next presentation on abundance is in April. See the flier for more details. Bring a friend and enjoy a "Girls Night Out."


Excavive Speaking Engagements

Join me at the following events as I share my insight with others:
  • Davis Jewelers' Embrace Your Brilliance  Speaker Series, "Spark Your Inner Passion," February 7th
  • Underwired's Wired and Inspired Speaker Series, "Mint Your Abundance: Cultivate Prosperity," April 17th
I have been asked to speak to the following group:
  • St. Margaret Mary's MOMS group February 13th Meeting, "Bringing Balance and Passion to your Everyday Life"

If you would like for me to speak to your organization or company, please e-mail me at jennifer@excavive.com

I also have more opportunities for you to hear me speak in 2008, click here for more information.

Thank you for exploring "Excavating Your Life." I look forward to hearing your comments and suggestions for future issues.

All the Best,

Jennifer M. Blair
Life Coach  Speaker  Writer