Dear Harlan,

I recently found a girl I really like, but I'm new to the dating/relationship game (I've never been in a relationship). I have no idea if she likes me at all. A few days ago I took her out to dinner, and we have even planned to go to a concert later this month. I want to make sure she actually likes me before I pursue this any further. What is the best way to accomplish this?

 

Inexperienced

Dear Inexperienced,

You don't need my help. You're a stud. You already took her out to dinner (nice move). Then you asked her to the concert and she accepted (nice move again). So, she either likes you or likes food and music. Go to the concert and see how it feels. Tell her that you like hanging out with her and see what she says. If she kisses you, assume she's into you. If she's not clear, ask her if she wants to go out again. In other words, keep doing what you're doing and don't be afraid to talk to her. If she's not into you, better to find out now so you can take out one of the countless other women who would love to share dinner and a concert with you.

 

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