HELP ME, HARLAN!
'SEXTING' FLING LEADS TO SORE FINGERS AND BROKEN HEART
 Dear Harlan,
I had a huge crush on my manager at work for the entire summer. We talked a lot and constantly flirted and stared at each other. He left the store in October, and we kept in contact through texting. One night he texts me and tells me how attracted he's always been to me, and I reciprocated. We ended up "sexting" (as they like to call it these days), and it's been going on for six months now. As much as we talk about how much we want to hook up with each other, I still haven't seen him since he left in October. Every time I ask him to hang out with me, he says yes initially and then cancels, or he says he's too busy. I called him on it and told him if he wasn't really interested, then he should let me know so I can stop wasting my time. He got mad and said he was just really busy. So I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt and stopped bothering him about it. Later, I found out that one night he went to a club with a mutual acquaintance of ours, got drunk and made out with her. I guess he's too busy to hang out with me, but not with some other chick. If he's not interested in hooking up, then why keep this going for so long? Why not just ignore me? Rejected
Dear Rejected,
Why keep it going? He knows he can disrespect you. You've set the boundaries. He started sexting you and you sexted back. He blows you off and you're still interested. You're allowing him to waste your time. You're also opening yourself up to having your sexting conversations exposed to the world. There are thousand of men out there. Demand respect and you will command respect. Don't demand respect and you will not get much respect. Instead, all you'll get are sore fingers and a broken heart. |
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