UU News
Monthly Newsletter of
The Unitarian Universalist Church of Greensboro
An Intentional Liberal Religious Community October, 2012
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Greetings!,
| Welcome to the October edition of our church Newsletter! It is fall and there are wonderful opportunities for everyone to participate in at the UUCG this month..
If you have any submissions for the newsletter or questions for the editor, please send them to commuucg@bellsouth.net.
Please note that Vance Archer is taking over for Katie Klod as editor. Although Katie is staying on as Co-Chair of the Communications Team, I will serve as editor and chair and remove this yoke from Katie's shoulders.
Thank you, Katie for all you have done for the UUCG and the Communications Team.
Vance Archer Newsletter Editor
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Liberal Religious Community
| ALL ARE WELCOME IN THIS CHURCH
Distinctions of power, privilege, and estate, which apply outside these doors, do not apply within them. Women, men, and children; persons of any color, culture, age, ability, economic status, or affectional orientation; skeptics and those pursuing common or unorthodox religious paths...
All Are Welcome Here!
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Sunday Mornings |
October 7
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Coming Out Stories
| Rev. Eric Posa (w/ GLBTQ Group)
| October 14
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Spritual Window Shopping
| Rev. Eric Posa
| October 21
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The Journey Home
| Rev. Eric Posa | October 28
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Our Chanting Spirit
| Wynn Perkins |
Please join us on October 28th as we will honor the Pagan roots of the upcoming Samhain holiday by setting our usual worship service to music and singing along. No prior experience or exceptional voices are needed. Just come with an open heart and a playful spirit! Also, just as we did last year, please bring photos or mementos of lost loved ones from this year to place on the altar. This is the time of year we take a moment to remember the souls (human or not) that have passed beyond the veil since last Samhain.
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From Rev. Posa |
As an interim minister, one of the developmental tasks I work with congregations to engage in is "committing to new directions in ministry." Here at UUCG this year, that task has evolved in a different way than it might at some other churches. Budget limitations and the challenges of forming a Ministerial Search Committee prevent us this year from entering a full search for a settled minister.
(I would add, those struggles with our budget, and with forming a search committee, seem symptomatic of deeper issues which may have hindered UUCG from forming the hoped-for bond with a new settled minister. I believe we have made positive progress on some of these deeper issues in the last 6 months since they rose to the surface, and I remain hopeful that positive work will continue. However, there is still more good work we can do together, to make this good church even better.)
There are, however, alternative options, which your board has considered carefully over the last few months. At the Sept. 18, 2012 UUCG Board meeting, your Board voted to recommend to the congregation hiring a Developmental Minister for a 3-5 year period starting about August 2013. This is a new model for ministry in the UUA; more info can be found in this article - http://www.uua.org/interconnections/interconnections/198411.shtml - from "Interconnections," the UUA's online newsletter for lay leaders. (This article discusses several changes to the process of searching for ministers; the discussion of Developmental Ministry is toward the end of the article.) I concur wholeheartedly with this recommendation, and see several positive aspects of this ministry model for UUCG:
- A developmental minister maintains focus on a particular, systemic issue (or set of issues) of long-term importance to the congregation; the issue is identified in advance by church leadership.
- The UUA's Transitions Director, a professional with much information about the available ministers, and about our congregation (including the focus issue identified by UUCG leaders), will select the minister who offers the best match with our needs (though the UUCG board retains the authority to accept or decline this choice).
- If the developmental minister and the congregation chooses, the developmental minister can be called as the settled minister, following the developmental ministry period. The congregation gets to know the minister before selecting them as the settled minister.
The congregation will be asked to vote to affirm this recommendation at a specially-called congregational meeting, to take place in our sanctuary on Sunday, October 21, shortly following worship. Also, the board will hold an informational forum in the sanctuary after worship on Sunday, October 7, to answer more questions about this option. We hope you will join us in this important dialogue about the new direction for professional ministry at UUCG.
In faith,
Rev. Eric Posa |
From Cindy Dillard |
As my first month at UUCG draws to a close, I would like to extend my heartfelt gratitude to everyone who has made me feel so welcome.
Thanks to those of you who were at the August 19 service, who so warmly welcomed me both during and after the service.
Thanks to Eric, Mark and Julie for their gentle guidance over the past few weeks (and in the coming weeks) as I get my "sea legs."
Thanks to the adults who have invested their time and passion for liberal religious education by serving on the RE committee and attending meetings regarding our RE model.
Thanks to our RE teachers: Cindy Williams, Fred Lehman, Ian Perkins, Julie Potts, Kevin Houck, Lauren Houck, Marty Ward, Michele Giorgi, Michelle Lee, Rissa Tuttle, Rob Hamilton, Sharin Francis and Steve Pearsall. If you run into any of these folks-our terrific volunteer teachers-please thank them too.
And finally, a thank you to the families who entrust us with your children. Thanks to those who are able to get to church earlier than accustomed for the 9:30 RE classes. And thanks to those who join us for our new all-ages worship model at 11:00.
What cannot be mistaken is that UUCG clearly has a commitment to Religious Education-for its children and its youth and its adults. While the resources of time and wo/manpower are currently limited, your desire and goodwill fill me with optimism as we begin the church year. As a recent RE meeting was winding down-and many ideas had been floated, but not necessarily fleshed out-I suggested that if we don't dream it, it won't even be up for discussion. I look forward to some hearty dreaming and discussing in the days and months to come.
Cindy Dillard
RE Coordinator
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From the Vice President - Karen Madrone |
The Coordinating Council is continuing a discussion of a standard report format for all of the teams and committees to use. The report format is being discussed because each committee and team was submitting very different types of information in different ways. We are working towards having a standard form so that all committee and team reports address the same questions. In addition, the Coordinating Council began the discussion of how much information should be kept in the official archives and what format it should be in. This conversation will continue next month. The Coordinating Council has begun the work of creating a behavioral covenant. Rev. Posa engaged the members of the Coordinating Council in a group brainstorming discussion of words and ideas that address how we should interact with each other. At our October meeting we will continue creating the covenant and discuss how it will be implemented at our meetings. In board news, after months of research and discussion the board voted to adopt a developmental ministry format to be effective in August 2013. The developmental ministry model will allow us to focus on specific issues, help us develop a strong identity and help us continue to put in place the government structure we voted on at the May congregational meeting. With this model, the UUA Transitions Office recommends a minister with the skills to assist us through this process. The developmental ministry time period is from three to five years and the congregation has the option to call this minister as our settled minister at the end of that timeframe. The board feels that this is the best option for our church at this time. In order to make the congregation fully aware of what is entailed in the developmental search process and why the board chose this model, there will be a Search Information Forum on October 7th after worship. The congregation will be asked to affirm the board's recommendation at the congregational meeting on October 21st after worship. Please make every effort to attend the congregational meeting. This is our church and our future together. We need everyone in the boat rowing the same direction! |
Expressions and Pot-Luck
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Expressions is back! Join us as we explore the connections between art and spirituality. 7pm every Wednesday.
Oct 3 - Steve Andrews - Guitar /Vocals
Oct 10 - TBA
Oct 17.- Mike Conners Celtic Harp
Oct 24 Hard Times Band- Guitars,Piano, Vocals
Oct 31 - Barbara Hands - Humor with Music
Each Wednesday at 6pm, please also join us for a pot-luck dinner. Bring a dish to share and your own plates and flatware.
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Adult Religious Education |
This fall at UUCG we will have a several Adult Religious Education offerings Sunday mornings and Thursday nights. The Sunday classes, beginning on September 16 and running until November 21, will start at 9:30 and last about an hour. Thursday night's classes, September 20 through November 15, will begin at 7:00 and last about 90 minutes.
Sunday mornings Reverend Posa will lead a series of classes on the history of Unitarian Universalism in America. Each week class will open with a short video introduction leading to discussion. Compassionate Communication will have practice sessions monthly on Sundays and Thursdays. Our September Compassionate Communication practices will center around Expressing Anger Fully. Sessions start at 9:00 on Sundays and 7:00 on Thursdays.Participants for these sessions should have already completed an introduction to Compassionate Communication. If you are interested in learning more, or plan on attending the practice, please contact Sue Beck. Thursday nights a team consisting of Steve Pearsall, Wynn Perkins, Ken Knight, and Lauren Houck will rotate leading a series of classes using Spirit of Life as their unifying theme. The Spirit of Life program is part of the Tapestry of Faith program series for adults. As a whole and in each of its individual programs, the Tapestry of Faith series weaves Unitarian Universalist values, principles, and sources together with four strands of religious growth: faith development, spiritual development, ethical development, and Unitarian Universalist identity. The workshops in Spirit of Life address all of these strands, yet the program focuses primarily on Unitarian Universalists' spiritual development. The nine week class consists of: - Spirit Of Life: Exploring Spirituality for Unitarian Universalists
- Sing In My Heart: Celebrations and Rituals
- The Stirrings Of Compassion: Caring For One Another
- Blow In the Wind, Rise In The Sea: Nature And Spirit
- Move In the Hand: Living Our Spirituality in Our Day-To-Day Lives
- Giving Life the Shape Of Justice: The Spirituality Of Working For Change
- Roots Hold Me Close: Tradition, Teachers, and Spiritual Formation
- Wings Set Me Free: Hopes, Dreams, and Expanding Vision
- Come To Us: Closing and Continuing On
If you are interested in the Thursday night class and would like childcare, please contact Steve Pearsall so we can plan appropriately. In addition to these two classes, our leadership training series will continue with a half day class on Saturday November 10 from 9:00-1:00. The workshop is a combination of two workshops taken from the Tapestry of Faith program entitled Harvest the Power. Power and Authority:This workshop distinguishes between power and authority, and between leadership and management. The group explores the implicit and explicit expectations of a congregational leader. followed byTurning Points and Moments of Grace: This workshop introduces the idea of turning points, or moments of grace-times when events or circumstances lead one's life in a new direction. After identifying personal turning points, participants consider conditions that can lead a congregation to a turning point. the program for the morning. Please let the Leadership Training Team (Rev. Posa, Lonnie Houck, Katie Klod, Marty Bergman, Steve Pearsall) know if you are interested in the leadership class. |
Compassionate Communication by Sue Beck
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 My early experiences in life taught me to be guarded with those I didn't know well, to play the games women play, to disrespect authority, to suspect the motives of others--in short, to hide my Self. Before I learned to be guarded, I was often hurt, bewildered, anxious, and sad. My true Self, I believed, needed to be kept under wraps. I could relax only with my family and closest friends. Although I loathed "two-faced" people, I came to understand that I was two-faced myself! Compassionate communication shows me a way to enrich my life, to be compassionate with my Self and others and to connect in mutual peace and joy. I'm learning a new language of love and compassion that helps me to see the beauty in our shared humanity. I've been able to come out of my shell because I no longer need it. As I continue to practice compassionate communication, my life is opening up to new friends, deeper relationships, and a commitment to sharing Rosenberg's ideas with everyone. I invite you to join one of our compassionate communication classes and learn Rosenberg's process for enriching your life.
New Compassionate Communication Class
Compassionate communication "leads us to give from the heart, connecting us with ourselves and with each other in a way that allows our natural compassion to flourish." These words, by Marshall Rosenberg, invite us to a spiritual practice which deepens and enriches our relationships. Our next class, using Rosenberg's DVD seminar, will meet on Saturday, October 27 from 1 to 5 pm at church. Everyone is invited to attend. A signup sheet is on the bulletin board next to the kitchen. Scrumptious snacks will be available. Contact Sue Beck (336-580-4581) if you have questions.
October Compassionate Communication Practices
This month our Practices will be on Thursday, Oct. 4th at 7 pm and Sunday, Oct. 14th at 9 am. (We are skipping Sunday, Oct. 7th because of Columbus Day weekend). This month we will be playing a card game called GROK! The GROK games are designed for understanding, listening, connection, and fun! We will play with two decks of cards, deck #1 contains feeling words, deck #2 contains needs and values words. There is no homework to prepare and nothing to bring for this class. Everyone is invited to join in the fun!
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Special Concert
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Friday, October 12th at 7pm 
UUCG has the privilege of offering a unique concert experience to our members and the wider community on Friday, October 12th from 7:00-9:00. Come hear Knut Erik Jensen share an (almost) all-Norwegian concert via piano, accordion, and voice.
His program will include works by Grieg, Tveitt, Donaudy, Nordqvist, Frosini, Kholmanov, Scriabin, Gershwin, Wild, Horowitz, and Bizet, plus his own original compositions. In lieu of an entrance fee, a love offering will be collected. Come and bring your friends!!
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Carolina Haunts Tour |
Saturday October 13 at 8pm
Ghost stories are NOT just for Halloween anymore.
Join the Fellowship team on a candlelit tour of downtown Greensboro
Saturday October 13, 2012 at 8:00p.m.
Please arrive 15 minutes early to check in.
Tours leave promptly at designated time.Tours are approximately 90 minutes.
For groups of 6 or more the price is $12.00 per person
A sign-up sheet is located on the bulletin board by the kitchen.
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UUCG / LEARNING PALETTE Garage Sale October 20 |
Saturday October 20th from 7 am to NOON.  The UUCG Coordinating Committee is co-sponsoring a Garage Sale with the Learning Palette on October 20. Here is a great chance to clean out your garage, basement and closets while helping our Ministry Teams and Committees finance their ministries. Bring your ready to be sold items by the church on Friday evening on Friday October 19, for a pre-event sale. Pricing Stickers and other instructions will be provided. We will need volunteers both Friday Evening and during the morning on Saturday. All unsold items will be donated to charity. Our sale coordinator is Suzanne Deering zanned@earthlink.com 336-882-9453 |
Annual Poinsetta Sale
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 The holiday season will soon be upon us, and you can be a part of it! Each year, the
Music Team
offers our congregants the opportunity to donate a poinsettia in honor or memory of a loved one. The foliage decorates the sanctuary and foyer during the month of December.
For $15 (three for $40), you can honor someone while bringing color and cheer to our church for the holidays. Starting near the end of October, you will be able to pick up an order form in the church foyer and give it, along with your check, to a member of the Music Team - Marilyn Clayton, Sue Sherwood, Beth Baker, Joyce Allen, Steve Andrews, Carol Michaelis, Mike Bridges, Mark Freundt - or place your order in the collection plate. Be sure to indicate "poinsettia" on the memo line of your check.
The poinsettia is yours to take with you after the Christmas Eve service. Funds collected from this effort will be used to subsidize future choir retreats, as well as support special musical events here at UUCG. Marilyn Clayton for the Music Team |
Peanut Butter Collection
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 Thanks!
Thanks to everyone at the Unitarian Universalist Church who contributed to the 40 pounds of peanut butter and nonperishable food
collected last month for the Greensboro Food Bank.
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Regular Events
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Feeding the Hungry at Urban Ministries, First Monday of each month
On the first Monday of each month a group of volunteers from our church shop for and cook a meal for the homeless at Urban Ministries. We are in the process of building a new team to carry out this important project. If you would like to be part of the action, contact Ken Knight at oldpeacenik@gmail.com or at 288-0103.
Men's Night Out, Monday, Second Monday each month
Join us at our next at Men's Night Out beginning at 6:00 p.m. at Mi Pueblo, 3911 Tinsley Drive in High Point at 6 p.m. for dinner and fellowship.
Ladies' Night Out, Last Monday each month
Ladies Night Out occurs the last Monday of the month at the Saigon Restaurant at the southwest corner of High Point Rd. and Merritt Drive. It's yummy Vietnamese cuisine with delightful and revealing conversation amidst lots of laughter. We meet at 6:30 pm. Newcomers are always welcome. Coordinators Mary Davis (586-0188) or Janet Plummer (294-6364) should be contacted before 5 pm is you plan to attend.
Men's Night Out 2, Last Monday each month
A second Men's Night Out is held the last Monday of each month. We will meet at Applebee's on Battleground Ave.
Healing Touch Circle
A new group calling itself the "Healing Touch Circle" will offer energy healing at the church on the first and fourth Wednesdays of each month for all who wish it. We will be available from 5:00 pm until 7:00pm
. All are welcome. Please contact Bill Haney, facilitator for an appointment.
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Food Lion food collection
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Another opportunity to help feed the hungry in Greensboro will occur on Saturday, October 13, 2012 at the Food Lion Store at 4652 West Market Street. The church will need 4 volunteers for 2 hour shifts to collect nonperishable groceries from 9a.m. to 5 p.m. for Greensboro Urban Ministry. Please contact Becky Floyd at 336-852-3592 or rfloyd2@triad.rr.com
to volunteer.
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UU Dinner Group |

Do you like to experiment with new recipes, explore novel cuisines, and share culinary discoveries with friends? If so, we encourage you to join members of the Dinner Group as we begin our third year. The Dinner Group is designed to bring together UUs with an interest in creating interesting dinners in collaboration with small groups of fellow UUs. Members gather four times a year in different homes to enjoy seasonal or themed dinners prepared by members themselves. In addition to the wonderful food, the 50 members of last year's group enjoyed good conversation and the opportunity to build closer friendships with other UUs. We hope to include more members this next year.
Each dinner will include eight people, or four pairs of cooks/diners; pairs can consist of spouses, partners or friends. One pair will host the dinner and provide appetizers, bread, and beverages (wine, tea and coffee); a second pair will provide the main course; a third pair will contribute salad and a vegetable side dish; and the fourth pair will make the dessert. Over the course of the year, participants will be assigned different responsibilities and will dine with a variety of group members.
To join the UU Dinner Group, contact Dottie Borei at drvborei@gmail.com.or 852-3608.She will send each interested member or friend a survey form on hosting preferences. (Continuing members have already received a survey form.) Please sign up as early as possible. The deadline is Sunday, September 15. Exact dates for dinners will be determined by the home host, based on availability of others in their group |
Social Action Update
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UUCG social action teams are involved with many different civic events across our region. Here is an update on some of their latest activities as well as notice of upcoming community events that our Social Action Teams invite you to participate in.
Shepherd Center News, From Janet Plumber and Chellie Mason (UUCG Reps in the Sponsors Council)
Shepherd's Center celebrates its silver anniversary celebration Monday, Oct. 8 from 9:30 to noon at Friendly Avenue Baptist Church at 4800 West Friendly Ave. The celebration recognizes the Pioneers that helped launch SCG in 1987 as a vital community resource for older adults in Greensboro. The Pillars that donated their time and skills during the initial 10 years and the 2012 Volunteer of the Year will also be recognized. Lee Kinard, longtime local television personality, will be the Master of Ceremonies. Glen Burleigh Concert Choir will be the morning's highlight. Thanks to the financial support from the Blue Bell Foundation there is no charge for this special event. Pre-registration is required by Mon., Oct. 1. Registration for is on page 2 of the newsletter or e-mail your registration to info@shepctrg.org.
UUCG's Green Sanctuary team would like you to know about two upcoming meetings that directly involve our care of the interdependent web of life, One on what congregations can do to reduce energy consumption while the second will help introduce and coordinate local environmental initiatives and projects.
emPOWERed:
a Comprehensive Energy Program for Congregations being held on Thursday, October 11, 6:30-8:30. Presented by North Carolina Interfaith Power & Light, Temple Emanuel, & Environmental Stewardship Greensboro, Allison Reeves Jolley of NCIP&L will give a presentation on how congregations can reduce energy consumption and greenhouse gas emissions, install solar panels, advocate for public policy, and help low income households weatherize their homes. Temple Emanuel is a leader in solar energy production in Greensboro. Temple Emanuel, 1129 Jefferson Rd. Please RSVP: allison@ncipl.org
More info: Annette Green (annettezg@hotmail.com)
The Transition Movement: Making Our Community More Resilient in Uncertain Times
Friday, October 12, 6:30-8:30Presented by Transition Greensboro Don Hall, executive director of Transition Sarasota, will discuss an international movement to address economic and environmental crises by building local resilience and self-sufficiency through positive, proactive, grassroots community projects, from time banks and local currencies to eat local campaigns and community gardens. He has a background in environmental leadership and has worked with Transition initiatives
around the country. Greensboro Cultural Center, 200 N. Davie St. More info: Tom Guthrie (tguthrie@guilford.edu)
Feeding the Poor
13 stalwart volunteers from our church and Hinshaw Memorial Methodist Church served a well appreciated chili dinner to 100 residents of Weaver House on September 3. Come out and join us on October 1.
UUCG's Collection for the Servant Center
We collected $233.00 for the Servant Center on August 26. The Servant Center provides housing for disabled Veterans and food for the needy. The Servant Center is the only local source of free food for undocumented immigrants in the area.
Thank you for your generosity.
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Summary of the September 18 UUCG Board Meeting
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The board approved the nomination of Nelson Stover as chair of the ACT campaign
The board approved setting aside money for long term maintenance of the building each year from a portion of the bank lease money.
The board approved moving the Staff Support Committee to the ministry pillar as the Staff Support Team.
The board recommends that the church go with a developmental minister starting in the summer 2013.
The board approved that the congregation be asked at the October 21, 2012 congregational meeting to affirm the board's recommendation for a developmental ministry.
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Birthdays this month
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 Holly Dupree, Cindy Williams, Michael Clayton, Wendell Putney, Karen Madrone, Kim Freundt, Charlene Collins, Myra Anne Dean, Bolling Lowrey, Judy Gecinger, Carol Michaelis, Mike Stoller, Mary Alice Knight, Linda Davis, Theodosia Swain, Catherine Cox-Carter, Jeffrey Mark Stoller, Anthony Rector, Angela Rector, Dan Kelly, Rebecca Tatzel, Lilly Wynn, Hunter Poole, Brieanna Wilson, Christian Wilson
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Attendance and Collection
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Worship Counts -
August 26 100 Adults Collection $2,232.31 September 2 103Adults Collection $1,928.62 September 9 102 Adults Collection $2,060.00 September 16 104 Adults Collection $1,839.00
Children counts will be available next month.
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UUCG Covenant
| We, the members of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Greensboro, do covenant to:
- Promote a search for personal meaning, respecting individual truth in a community process of quest
- Speak and act with caring, courtesy and love thereby maintaining emotional, physical, and spiritual safety for all
- Support UUCG and denominational efforts with our resources
- Combat injustice while promoting equality
- Nurture our children on their spiritual journeys
- Hold ourselves to this covenant, especially during times of conflict and disagreement
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UUCG OFFICERS
| Charlotte Hamlin, President chamlin1@triad.rr.com
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TRUSTEES
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Michelle Lee (2015) nc.dogwood@yahoo.com
Stephanie Blake (2014) cicciblake@triad.rr.com
Myra Anne Geese Dean (2014) myraannegesse@yahoo.com Steve Andrews (2013) sand3420@aol.com
Suzanne Deering (2015) zanned@earthlink.net
Katja Brown (2013) sabrown@ieee.org
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UUCG STAFF
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Reverend Eric Posa, Interim MinisterOffice Hours: Please call church office for appointments Office Phone: 856-0330, Cell: 508-7568 E-mail: uucgminister@bellsouth.netJulie Hamilton, Congregational AdministratorOffice Hours: Please call church office for appointments
Office Phone: 856-0330, Fax: 856-0384 E-mail: uucgadmin@bellsouth.netMark Freundt, Director of MusicOffice Hours: Please call church office for appointments Office Phone: 856-0330, Cell: 908-1103 E-mail: uucgdirmu@bellsouth.net Cindy Dillard, RE Coordinator Office Hours: Please call church office for appointments Office Phone: 856-0330 E-mail: uucgre@att.net
Walter McCorey, SextonTuesday, Thursday & Friday (times vary based on needs). Cell Phone: 414-0163 (in case of building emergencies)
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Congregational Contacts
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Building and Grounds Merrit Wyatt
Care Team Suzanne Andrews & Joy Hamlin Communications Katie Klod & Vance Archer Newsletter Vance Archer (Editor) - Katie Klod (Associate Editor)
Website Mariella Perez-Simons Congregational Culture Taskforce Laura Graham Coordinating Council Karen Madrone
Denominational Affairs Steve Pearsoll Endowment Fund Dennis Hands Fellowship Cindy Williams & Karen Madrone
Finance Cabaret Auction Lauren Houck & Katie Klod Governance Task Force Hope McLean & Sharin Francis Labyrinth Steve Pearsall & Ken Williams Lay Pastoral Care Associates Janet Eley & Liz Harrell Lifespan Religious Education (RE) Laura Graham Membership Vance Archer & Marie Houck Music Sue Sherwood & Marilyn Clayton Nominating Sue Cole & Betsy Lindsey Policies and Procedures Michelle Lee Social Action Green Sanctuary Sue Cole, Elaine Stover GLBTQ Karen Madrone Worship Barbara Hands
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