UU News
Monthly Newsletter of
The Unitarian Universalist Church of Greensboro
An Intentional Liberal Religious Community December, 2011
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Greetings!
| Welcome to the December edition of our church Newsletter!
As we move into the darkest time of the year, I hope this newsletter can bring a little light into your month! There's lots to do and see this month - please get out your calendar as you read to mark them all down!
If you have any submissions for the newsletter or questions for the editor, please send them to commuucg@bellsouth.net.
Have have great December!
Katie
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Liberal Religious Community
| ALL ARE WELCOME IN THIS CHURCH
Distinctions of power, privilege, and estate, which apply outside these doors, do not apply within them. Women, men, and children; persons of any color, culture, age, ability, economic status, or affectional orientation; skeptics and those pursuing common or unorthodox religious paths...
All Are Welcome Here!
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Worship Services, Join us for Service each Sunday
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December 4th - "Understanding our Stories" -- Rev. Posa and the Transition team
December 11th - "Occupy Christmas" -- Rev. Posa
December 18th - "Would You Like to Hold the Baby" Pageant This service is a UU pageant/narrative about the cultural myths and stories we are attached to and the symbolic truths they carry.
December 24th - Candlelight Christmas Eve Service - Rev Posa - 6pm
December 25th - "The Work of Christmas" -- Rev. Posa
A new member signing will be held during the main service on Sunday, December 4. If you would like to become a member of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Greensboro on that day, please tell Rev. Eric Posa or the Membership Committee Chair Ann Dickinson at 674-2035 or ardpuppy2@aol.com. The next one will be held on January 8.
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Invitation to session after December 4th Service
| Throughout late October and early November, the UUCG Transition Team and I hosted a series of conversations on the history of our church, and its impact on us today. About 50 church members total participated in these sessions, which we called "Telling and Hearing Our Stories." While we began the process of sharing these stories in smaller groups, those groups were only the first step in this interim task of "coming to terms with our history." The second phase is for those of us initially gathered separately, to come together and hear our varying, sometimes divergent perspectives on the stories of our church's history. This work begins the first Sunday of December, Dec. 4. That morning, at the 11:00AM worship, I will share the pulpit with the members of our Transition Team, for a worship service I am calling "Understanding Our Stories." ("Understanding" has a dual meaning - "insight," but also "accepting" - and both meanings apply to how we seek to engage these stories.) We will focus on a few of the themes that bubbled up from our conversations, and consider what they might mean for us going forward. But that consideration cannot grow solely from a one-sided presentation from the pulpit. It must include dialogue, an exchange between us all. So we invite you to stay, following worship that Sunday, for a time of conversation. We will take some time to reflect in small groups on the content of what we have heard from the pulpit, then have a large-group conversation focused not on content, but on process. In other words, we will consider together how we, as a church, might move forward from this newly-shared understanding of our history. Snacks and childcare will be provided; we hope you will join us on Dec. 4.
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Expressions
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Expressions is a 25 minute service on Wednesday nights where the Music Committee helps us explore the connections between the arts and spirituality. Join us this month to enjoy the offerings by these friends and members:
On Dec 7 there will be Christmas music with Carol Michaelis and Marilyn Clayton.
On Dec 14 there will be flute music played by Ann Dickinson and accompanied by Carol Michaelis.
On Dec 21 there will a performance by the Ezermans and their wonderful stringed instruments.
On Dec 28 We will have the labyrinth set up in sanctuary. We do plan a potluck that night!
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From Rev. Eric Posa
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What does it mean for the Unitarian Universalist Church of Greensboro to be a Unitarian Universalist church? There is no single answer to that question. Unitarian Universalism is a complex, multi-faceted religious tradition, with a particular history and a sometimes ambiguous role in the larger community of faith. What does it mean for us to be a church of covenant, not creed - and to be a (theologically) liberal religious congregation? What is our relationship to the Christian religious tradition? (Some say that any statement, which attempts to describe the relationship between UUism and Christianity...will be debated. I've seen much evidence to support that claim.) Here in Greensboro, we are not the only liberal religious presence - there are Friends ("Quaker") meetings, Reform synagogues, United Church of Christ (UCC) churches, and some Episcopal, Presbyterian, Baha'i, and other congregations with a strong liberal bent, both theologically and socially. Plus, there is now a second UU congregation in Greensboro. How does NOT being the only liberal religious presence in Greensboro affect how we express our theological liberalism, and our commitment to social justice? As a UU congregation located in the South, in a medium-sized city, how are we similar to (and different from) UU churches in New England or the Pacific Northwest? From urban or rural UU congregations? As a mid-sized congregation, what do we have in common w/ large UU churches, or small ones?
These last couple of months, in these newsletter columns, I have explored the various developmental tasks that congregations face during interim times. The above questions relate closely to two of these tasks. One of them, discovering a new identity, I will explore next month. These questions also relate to the task of renewing denominational linkages. As my colleague in UU interim ministry, Rev. Larry Smith, notes, this renewal of ties to the UUA, or (in our case) to the Southeast District, "is not just for the benefit of the denomination, or even to reconnect in preparation for the ministerial search process, but for the congregation's greater good. Sometimes I have observed that members and committees of [a UU congregation] do not know that denominational resources exist to help the congregation through an issue.... Attending the district conference [and other UU events] is a way to remedy that. Besides, being in the room with hundreds of Unitarian Universalists...gives one perspective and the feeling that we are not isolated."
Indeed, we are not isolated, but one of over 1,000 congregations in covenant with one another as members of the Unitarian Universalist Association, and of over 70 congregations in the Southeast District. The services each of these religious bodies offer are important for us to note: from the Southern UU Leadership Experience (SUULE) taking place February 19-24 in Orlando, to the UUA Ministerial Settlement System which will help this congregation select its next called minister, to General Assembly (GA), the annual meeting of the UUA which takes place in late June of every year. This coming GA will be in Phoenix, and will have a special focus on justice issues involving immigration. Over the coming months, we will make a conscious effort to alert the congregation, especially any relevant lay leaders, of upcoming district and UUA events and programs, to equip our members to engage the ministry of this church, consistent with our mission, during this interim time and in the years to follow.
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From the Board President Jim Kalinowski
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Our Chosen Faith
This month I would like to explore, with you, the faith journey we are taking together. Not too long ago, I shared with you my experience of moving from the faith of my birth to our shared UU faith. I titled that presentation: Confession of a Secular Catholic ( A Journey from Faith to Faith). I know that my faith journey is not unique, for us UUs it is actually quite common. Based on the data I've found, it appears that 90 percent of us have come to Unitarian Universalism from some other religion. This is indeed our chosen faith. Apparently 4 times as many people identify as Unitarians as belong to a congregation. This represents an obvious opportunity for us to reach out to other seekers of liberal religion and invite them to join us. The UUA (Unitarian Universalist Association) has this information in an interesting article reprinted (with permission) from the Christian Century Foundation. Rather than repeat it, I am sharing the link for those who are interested in how we appear to an outside group: http://archive.uua.org/news/011205.html The question I would like you to consider is this. Now that you have made that journey and arrived at this destination, what are you going to do now that you are here? Do you want to close the door because you have found your "home", or are you ready to open that door and invite others into your found home? Each Sunday we welcome visitors in the service. But, how welcoming are we after the service? How welcoming are we on the other 6 days of the week? When we do meet visitors do we tell them our story or do we listen to their story? We see visitors that come once or twice and then aren't seen again. We see long time friends drift away. Are we failing to let them know how important they are to us as a community? We need to find a way to reach our to those 3 out of 4 UUs that have not found their home. We need to find a way to make visitors want to return again and again. We need to find a way to stop the pain that causes some, even long time friends, to drift away. We can do this. We must do this together. In covenant, Jim Kalinowski
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From the Director of Faith Development
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As the days get shorter, the nights get longer, and darkness seems so close, I always seem to spend a lot of time thinking about light in December. I have a feeling I'm not alone.
Here is what religious traditions from around the world do in December in honor of light: - Jews celebrate the "festival of lights", or Hanukkah, (Dec.20-28).
- Pagans celebrate Yule, a welcoming back of the light on the solstice (Dec.21).
- Buddhists celebrate enlightenment on Bodhi Day (Dec.8).
- Christians celebrate the birth of Christ, or the "Light of the World" (Dec.25).
- The Ancient Inkas celebrated the Sun God on Dec.21.
I wonder, what light is in your life? How will you celebrate it this year?
UUCG's Youth Group spent the month of November pondering the meaning and symbolism of the flaming chalice. The results of this exploration can be found on the art wall in the Sanctuary. These chalice paintings are up for auction (starting bids $20) with proceeds going to the Youth Group. Winning bidders may take their paintings with them following worship on Dec. 18.
EVENTS: Saturday, December 3 (7-10pm) Annual Children and Youth Paper Chain-a-thon with Rev. Posa
Sunday, December 4 (12:15-2pm) Pageant Rehearsal (Lunch will be provided)
Sunday, December 11 (12:15-2pm) Pageant Rehearsal (Lunch will be provided)
Saturday, December 17 (9am-1pm) Pageant DRESS REHEARSAL
Sunday, December 18 (11am) Pageant Sunday
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Annual Pageant - more volunteers welcome!
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UUCG's annual pageant "Would You Like to Hold the Baby" will be held Sunday, December 18 at 11am.
If you are interested in being a part of the pageant (as cast or crew) rehearsals will be:
Dec. 4th 12:15-2:00pm Dec. 11th 12:15-2:00pm Saturday, Dec. 17th 9:00am-1:00pm. Lunch will be provided at each rehearsal. We hope you'll join us in creating a meaningful worship experience for all! Thank you!
Dan Kelly, Lauren Houck, Kay Radebaugh, Beth Walden, & Mark Freundt |
Annual Poinsettia Sale
| The season for cheerful decorations will soon be upon us and you can be a part of it!
Each year, the Music Committee offers our congregants the opportunity to donate a poinsettia in honor or memory of a loved one.
The foliage is used to decorate the sanctuary and foyer during the month of December.
For $15 (four for $50) you can honor someone while bring color and cheer to our church for the holidays.
Please fill out the order form, available in the church foyer, and give it with your check to a member of the Music Committee - Marilyn Clayton, Sue Sherwook, Beth Baker, Joyce Allen, Steve Andrews, Carol Michaelis, and Mark Freundt.
The poinsettia is yours to take with you after the Christmas Eve service.
The funds collected from this effort will be used to subsidize future choir retreats, which can only mean better music for all! It's a win-win situation. Let's see if we can make it to 40+ poinsettias this year!
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Regular Events
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UUCG Book Group
The UUCG Book Group will be discussing How Pakistan Negotiates with the United States by Howard B. Schaffer and Teresita C. Schaffer on January 16th, Martin Luther King Day, at 7:00 p.m. at the Wellspring Retirement Community. All members of the UUCG community are welcome to attend. For more information, contact Mike Stoller, mastoller@triad.rr.com or 643-0973.
Feeding the Hungry at Urban Ministries
On the first Monday of each month a group of volunteers from our church shop for and cook a meal for the homeless at Urban Ministries. We are in the process of building a new team to carry out this important project. If you would like to be part of the action, contact Ken Knight at oldpeacenik@gmail.com or at 288-0103.
Men's Night Out, Monday, December 12th
Join us at our next at Men's Night Out beginning at 6:00 p.m. at Ham's Restaurant on Wendover and Hwy 68 (5840 Samet Drive).
Ladies' Night Out
Ladies Night Out will not meet in December. We will resume meetin at the Saigon on Monday, January 30th, 2012.
Men's Night Out 2, Monday, December 26th
A second Men's Night Out is held the last Monday of each month. We will meet at the Applebees at 3200 Battleground Ave at 6 p.m. for dinner and fellowship.
Healing Touch Circle
A new group calling itself the "Healing Touch Circle" will offer energy healing at the church on the first and fourth Wednesday's of each month for all who wish it. We will be available from 5:00 pm until 7:00pm. All are welcome. Please contact Bill Haney, facilitator for an appointment. Morning Yoga with Phoenix Harmony Beginning October 16th. 9:45am for 7 weeks Tone the body, calm the nervers, free the mind, fred the soull -- all in a half hour of Level I YOGA. Meet in the 6/7 RE rooms (Emerson). Dress to move and bring a yoga mat. Space is limited to 7. Signing up commits you to all 7 weeks. Look for the sign up sheet on the church bulletin board. Phoenix Harmony, CYT 855-8018
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Celebrating the Season - 3 events on Dec 3rd!
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5:00-6:00pm "Bending Towards the Light: a Jazz Nativity" at West Market Street United Methodist Church (302 West Market Street) The UUCG Choir invites you to experience the "Jazz Nativity." This annual, standing-room-only, community collaboration is a unique telling of the Christmas Story showcasing a combined choir of 70-80 voices, a 10-piece jazz band, singing shepherds, swinging instrumental arrangements of Christmas melodies, dancing spirits of Mary and Joseph, a narrator, a tender child soprano soloist and 3 wisemen who tap dance, play timbale drums and play trumpet. It is a joyous and engaging 1 hour production that weaves larger themes of the season (i.e. UU friendly) with contemporary styles of music along with costumes, dance and theatre. It is free, though an offering is collected. Beginning this year the Fellowship Committee has moved the start time of the Progressive Dinner to 7:00pm to better accommodate attendance of the "Jazz Nativity." 7:00-9:00pm Progressive Dinners in the homes of UUCG members and friends The progressive dinners are a wonderful opportunity to get to know other members of the congregation. Participants sign up to either host or attend a dinner and the host organizes the dinner. You will be contacted by the host to let you know what you need to bring to share for dinner. Please sign up in the foyer. 9:00ish pm Hanging of the Greens Gathering at UUCG  After the dinners , we will all gather back at the church for a Dessert buffet, a Festive carol sing-a-long led by Mark Freundt, and Café style entertainment sponsored by the Music Committee. You don't have to attend a dinner to come to the Hanging of the Greens. A fun time will be had by all! Article written by Karen Madrone and Cindy Williams, Fellowship Committee and Mark Freundt, Director of Music |
Winter Solstice Play
| Celebrate Winter Solstice at the Carolina Theatre on Friday, December 23rd at 8:00 for the wonderful production of Awake the White & Wintry Queen.
A holiday performance conceived of and created here in the Triad with ethereally beautiful music by local composer Scott Fray. A large and talented cast of musicians and dancers brings forth the story of the seasons turning on Winter Solstice; the longest night of the year that brings us to the return of the light. As the Autumn Queen realizes her reign is at an end, fairy character Luna is charged with the mission to find and awaken the Winter Queen, meeting a diverse cast of characters along the way.
Join us for dinner and the 8:00 show. For more information see Karen Madrone or Cindy Williams
We do have discount tickets available!

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mUUsically Speaking
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Someone asked me a very interesting question recently-- "Do Pagans sing Christmas carols?" Well, friends, we're an independent lot. I can't really speak for all Pagans, but I can speak for one (myself).
Yes, I do sing Christmas carols, and I sing them with the traditional lyrics. Why? Because they create joy. That's frequently in short supply, and it's a mitzvah in anyone's tradition to make more of it and spread it around. Another reason-- these songs reconnect me to my past. I come from a Christian family. I've outlived a lot of the relatives I grew up with, and I'm estranged from a number of the rest. When I sing these songs, I am reminded of the many people, gone from me now, who loved me even before I was born.
And a final reason--the Christians who celebrate Christmas are celebrating the same thing as we Pagans who celebrate Yule, or Winter Solstice, the rebirth of the Sun. Many of the customs around the holiday have pre-Christian roots, including the timing. When the Christians took over Rome, they decided to celebrate Jesus' arrival at the same time as the festival of the Sun God Mithras' birth. That was --surprise!-- at the winter solstice. Since people are going to celebrate this time of the year, the early Christians said to themselves, they might as well celebrate Jesus' birth now. And so it has been since.
Or as I have said to many friends over the years, "Tell the beautiful story again: of the God, born at Midwinter, Who comes to bring life, and warmth, and Light back to His people. It is a very old story. We tell it, too."
Blessings of the Light on us all, friends, now and evermore.
Joyce Allen (tenor)
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Adult RE
| Adult Religious Education Winter\Spring Offerings
We have a number of opportunities to participate in Adult RE starting this Winter. Here are a few of them:
Here I Stand; Nelson Stover's adaptation of Building Your Own Theology, will run on Sunday afternoons for 10 weeks.
Compassionate Communication; we will hold another round of classes based on the work of Marshall Rosenberg. There is also a practice group starting for those who already took the class. Date/Time still to be determined.
Harvest the Power; this is a Leadership Development curriculum developed by the UUA as part of the Tapestry of Faith program. There will be three all day Saturday sessions offered. The first will be in late January or early February with the others to follow every couple of months.
There will be other opportunities as well. If you are interested in any of these, or if you have an idea for a class, please contact Steve Pearsall, Laura Graham, or Sue Beck.
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Lowe's Foods Gift Card Fundraiser
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As an ongoing fundraiser we are selling Lowes Foods Gift Cards. These gift cards come in denominations of $25, $50, or $100. They spend like debit cards, you don't have to spend it all at one time. The church receives 6% of your purchases. If you shop at Lowes, even occasionally, this is an easy way to help out UUCG. They also make great gifts. Look for Suzanne Deering to purchase yours.  |
Seeking nominations for 4th & 5th Sunday Collections
| The Social Action Committee seeks nominations for organizations for 4th and 5th Sunday collections in 2012.
The Social Action Committee decides on the organizations that our church donates to on the 4th and 5th Sundays of each year. At our December 11, 2011 meeting, we will make our selections for 2012. We support only organizations that benefit residents of Guilford County.
Please send Ken Knight at oldpeacenik@gmail.com your nomination for support, along with a brief description of why we should support your organization.
It will help if you come to the December 11 meeting to make a personal pitch.
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Workshop on Depression in January
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Save the date for a workshop on Depression scheduled for Tuesday, January 24th from 7:00-9:00 PM, with refreshments served at 6:30 PM. This workshop, sponsored by the UUCG Lay Pastoral Care Associates and led by Sara Bobo of the Mental Health Association, will be held in the UUCG sanctuary.
Learn the symptoms of Depression so that you can help friends, family members and yourself to recognize these and know what to do to help.
A sign-up sheet is located on the LPCA Bulletin Board in the hall across from the kitchen door. Please register by signing the posted sheet or contacting Janet or Liz by January 22nd.
Janet Eley eleyjanet@yahoo.com or Liz Harrell lizbd99@earthlink.net
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Thanks!
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Soles4Souls (Chellie Mason)
UUCG donated 103 pairs of shoes toward the Soles4Souls campaign. Churches in the area raised over 3,100 pairs. Some of the shoes will go to Greensboro Urban Ministry and the rest will be distributed around the world. Many of the persons receiving the shoes have never owned a pair. Thanks to all who contributed toward this cause.
Blood Drive (Chellie Mason)
UUCG slightly exceeded its goal of 28 productive donors at the blood drive on 11/14/2011 - we had 29, including two first time donors! Thanks to everyone who donated blood and even those who tried to donate. There were six persons whose iron content was too low to donate. We're going to work to get that count up before the next drive. Eat more beans!
And, a sincere thanks to all the others behind the scenes who made the drive possible - setting up the facilities, manning the registration table, donating snacks, and providing snacks and drinks to donors and staff.
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Donations needed for Auction!
|  The Cabaret Auction date is set! Mark your calendars for Saturday, March 10th, 2012. To make this fundraiser a success, we need your help! Please consider donating something to this fun-raising and fund-raising event. Here are some suggestions for you think about: - Host an event - dinner at your house, outing to a museum or vineyard, a games night
- New or very gently used items of good quality and good value - jewelry, electronics, decorative items
- Handmade items - paintings, woodwork, jewelry, knitting, baked goods
- Services - lawncare, babysitting, dog-walking, car washing, tutoring
- Large items (this is a new category) - furniture, sports equipment
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Last Month's Board Activities
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A motion was passed to "approve the fund raising event by the UU youth." The funds will be used to replenish their budget.
The board approved Nick Divitci as the Human Resources committee chair.
Rev. Posa stated that about 55 members have attended one of the "telling our stories" sessions. Further work will merge the separate stores into a full congregational vision.
At their October meeting, the board approved the nomination of Suzanne Deering to fill a vacant position on the board.
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Birthdays this month
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Suzanne Andrews
Anita Campitelli
Sharin Francis
Joy Hamlin
Betsy Lindsey
Dean Perez-Simons
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Attendance and Collection
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Adults Youth Collection
10/23/11 No Counts 20 $1,902.00 10/31/11 129 19 $5,824.50 11/6/11 163 18 $8,418.12 11/13/11 126 20 $1,578.00 11/20/11 149 30 $1,960.12
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UUCG Covenant
| We, the members of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Greensboro, do covenant to:
- Promote a search for personal meaning, respecting individual truth in a community process of quest
- Speak and act with caring, courtesy and love thereby maintaining emotional, physical, and spiritual safety for all
- Support UUCG and denominational efforts with our resources
- Combat injustice while promoting equality
- Nurture our children on their spiritual journeys
- Hold ourselves to this covenant, especially during times of conflict and disagreement
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TRUSTEES
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Michelle Lee (2012) nc.dogwood@yahoo.com Breeze Dunham (2012) breeze1770@gmail.com
Stephanie Blake (2014) cicciblake@triad.rr.com
Myra Anne Geese Dean (2014) myraannegeese@yahoo.com Steve Andrews (2013) sand3420@aol.com Charlotte Hamlin (2013) chamlin1@triad.rr.com
Suzanne Deering (2012)
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UUCG STAFF
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Reverend Eric Posa, Interim MinisterOffice Hours: Please call church office for appointments Office Phone: 856-0330, Cell: 508-7568 E-mail: uucgminister@bellsouth.netJulie Hamilton, Congregational AdministratorOffice Hours: Please call church office for appointments
Office Phone: 856-0330, Fax: 856-0384 E-mail: uucgadmin@bellsouth.netBeth Walden, Director of Faith Development Office Hours: Please call church office for appointments
Office Phone: 856-0330, Fax: 856-0384 E-mail: dreuucg@bellsouth.net
Mark Freundt, Director of MusicOffice Hours: Please call church office for appointments Office Phone: 856-0330, Cell: 908-1103 E-mail: uucgdirmu@bellsouth.net Walter McCorey, SextonTuesday, Thursday, Saturday & Sunday (times vary based on needs). Cell Phone: 414-0163 (in case of building emergencies)
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Congregational Contacts
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Building and Grounds Merrit Wyatt
Care Team Suzanne Andrews & Joy Hamlin Communications Committee Katie Klod Newsletter Katie Klod Website Mariella Perez-Simons Congregational Culture Taskforce Laura Graham Council of Committees Vance Archer
Denominational Affairs Chellie Mason Endowment Fund Rob Cary Fellowship Karen Madrone & Cindy Williams
Finance Committee Steve Pearsall & Mike Stoller Annual Commitment Time (ACT) Vance Archer Fundraising Charlotte Hamlin Cabaret Auction Kay Radebaugh & Katie Klod Governance Task Force Charlotte Hamlin Labyrinth Steve Pearsall & Ken Williams Lay Pastoral Care Associates Janet Eley & Liz Harrell Lifespan Religious Education (RE) Laura Graham Membership Ann Dickinson Music Committee Sue Sherwood & Marilyn Clayton Nominating Committee Sue Cole & Betsy Lindsey Policies and Procedures Michelle Lee Social Action Committee Ken Knight Green Sanctuary Sue Cole, Elaine Stover GLBTQ Karen Madrone Worship Committee Barbara Hands
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