Can I Attract a Specific Person Using Law of Attraction?
Interview of Michael J. Losier
by Lauren N. Mitchell
This is a question I've answered a few times, and it has actually cost me a friend on Facebook when they heard my answer. It's true! So if you are ready to hear what I believe about whether or not you can attract someone specific, then read on. Law of Attraction doesn't know who your friend Betty is, or that cute guy, Paul, who you saw at the coffee shop. So you can tell Law of Attraction that you want to attract Paul, or that you want to attract Betty, all you want. Law of Attraction doesn't know names; it matches vibrations. So for you to attract someone -- or anyone -- you need to be sending the vibration for Law of Attraction to match. How about when you saw that cute guy or that cute girl twice? You may say to yourself, "Ahhh, this is the second time I've seen him/her. Law of Attraction must be sending me a message that I'm meant to be with him/her. Well, that's not true. In your enthusiasm from seeing them the first time, you caused the unfolding and orchestration of bringing them to you the second time. Law of Attraction is responding to whatever you are giving your energy, attention and focus to. It doesn't mean that it's a "sign"; it just means that you gave them attention twice. Then, when they show up the third time, a lot of people say, "That's it! This is the third time I've seen them. It must be meant-to-be!" or "Third time is the charm!" Well, that's not right, either. They showed up the third time because of the attention, energy and focus you gave to them the first and second time. It doesn't mean that you are meant to be with that person; it just means that you gave them attention, energy and focus. That is what Law of Attraction is matching. Law of Attraction doesn't know how to count, it doesn't know names or places, it doesn't have a brain. Law of Attraction is very obedient; it matches the vibration that you are sending. Remember, for you to attract someone you need to be sending the vibration for Law of Attraction to match. Even if you run into them three or four or five times, it doesn't mean you are meant to have them. It just means that you gave attention, energy and focus to them beforehand. So figure out what is important to you -- not a specific person, but whatever you want for your ideal relationship. You know the rule: Law of Attraction matches whatever you give your attention, energy, and focus to, NOT a specific person. When you talk about your ideal mate, or your ideal boss, or your ideal boyfriend or girlfriend, you are giving it lots of attention just by talking about it. You get excited about it and you start to send the vibration of it. When you say, "Oh, I love feeling love," or "I love being cared for," or whatever makes you feel the vibration of what you want in an ideal personal relationship, Law of Attraction will respond to those feelings or vibrations and match them. Let go of the idea of a specific person and let Law of Attraction figure it out! Start daydreaming, imagining, talking about it --- start having fun with it-- and watch what happens! | 
