How Could This Be Handled? #3 
Resolving Conflict

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 ALD, Inc. Newsletter 

August 30, 2011

Greetings!

 

This edition's Leadership Problem:  Resolving Conflicts within the Team

 

How many types of conflict can a team leader have to deal with among team members?! At least as many as there are people on the team...and more!

 

Conflict can become a daily happening without warning, disputes flaring up unexpectedly and over things that will surprise you. Very often the conflicts seem trivial, based on nothing! But of course, they surface from somewhere don't they?

 

Maybe it's been a long-simmering-below-the-radar dispute between two team members, perhaps someone came into work that day with lingering issues on the home front, someone new has joined the group or assignments have altered - pick any topic, any situation and it has the potential to cause disruption among team members!

 

Consider these situations: 

 

Workload

  • Team Member (TM) Y says, "Team Member X isn't carrying his weight - I have to pick up all the slack."
  • TM X responds with, "I do everything I'm supposed to do - no one is going to give me extra work with the time I work now."

Vacation Schedules

  • TM A complains that, "TM B got to select vacation schedules first last year - I should get first shot at it this year."
  • TM B responds, "We've had reservations at a special resort for over a year now and we won't change the date."

Supplies and Resources to Do the Job

  • Team C: "We're short so many of the things we need to do this job that we've stockpiled stuff secretly so we'll be able to have what we need when we need it."
  • Team D: "That's so unfair - we're all short what we need - how are we supposed to provide customer service if supplies are hidden away?" 

On and on it can go: appropriate business attire, differing goals, so-called "status symbols", personality differences, competition; as many conflicts as there are team members.

 

So how does the team leader resolve differences, get people focused on the work and create successful outcomes? And the team leader does need to take responsibility for leading a process that will bring resolution. We all understand what failure to address the issue can mean: ongoing trouble, lingering resentments, loss of respect for the team leader, unproductive work results. No resolution becomes a contagion within the team - and it WILL spread!

 

Resolution will involve a conversation with the affected team members where the team leader is strong in:

  • Listening
  • Asking effective questions
  • Facilitating a conversation so everyone is heard
  • Creating an action plan
  • Follow-up

 

Solutions

 

Successful team leaders develop a process - simple but effective - for resolving conflicts - it becomes a tool in the bag that will get used frequently, so it has to work well.

 

You can learn a process for yourself through several resources:

 

1. Resolving Conflicts - an online or classroom course

  

Resolving Conflicts provides the tools needed to recognize conflict and deal with it quickly and effectively. By understanding the signs of conflict and by getting to the root cause, managers can eliminate the issue and minimize the impact. Facing these conflicts head-on allows the manager to preserve the integrity of the team and to demonstrate a commitment to individual performance and growth.

 

 

2.  ProStar Coach - study and apply the People Skills of Resolving Conflict, Creating an Action Plan, Listening, Solving Problems, Interacting with the Team, Encouraging Ideas and more to develop the necessary skills and strengths that makes others want to follow a leader.

 

Check out ProStar Coach for yourself - visit the site here and see what's available to develop the personal strength and people skills that can make any leader's job more effective.

 

You can also get a free 15 day pass to ProStar Coach and discover what I'm describing - you'll wonder how you ever got along with it! (Just click the appropriate button on the page to access your pass).

 

 

3. Everything DiSC Workplace Profile is designed to improve relationships through greater understanding of each others' priorities and why people tend to behave as they do. Relationships take work, but having a basis for understanding similarities and differences is an excellent foundation.
 

Participants learn to understand and appreciate the styles of the people they work with. The result is more effective and productive working relationships.

 

 

Real Leaders Never Stop Learning

 

As with each leadership dilemma we pose, there are multiple resources available to help an individual or an organization develop the abilities that will strengthen leadership.

 

Take action now and begin handling your conflicts more effectively:

 

1. Preview the Resoling Conflicts course
 

2. Use a 15 pass to explore ProStar Coach - your virtual gym for People Skills and Personal Strengths

 

3. Learn about the DiSC Workplace profile to understand the depth of behavior description about styles and how they can complement or conflict, then use the profile in a team building session.

  

Remember that effective leaders never stop learning. 

 

Looking out for your professional and personal development,

 

Christine Johnson
President

ALD, Inc. 

 

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