Living as He calls us to live -
Help from Fr. Dan Danielson and other sources
As CCOP parishioners our mission is "To know Christ better, to live as He calls us to live, and to make Him better known." As the year 2012 begins we can reflect on how we are living our lives and perhaps renew our commitment to living as He calls us to live.
Ideally each of us would have a job that fully utilized our talents and abilities and that served a purpose that we could be proud of serving. Ideally, too, we each would spend our time and our money in ways that best elevated human life and dignity. How can we come closer to reaching these ideals?
Fr. Dan Danielson:
"None of us exists alone. We exist in relationship with others. We are in fact defined by those relationships, first of all with our parents and birth family, then with our own family as we grow older and enter into those lifelong relationships of husband and wife and children. So the first place we have to look to find the will of God is in those contexts - our family.
"But we have a broader family as well and we must seek to treat all in our family with kindness and justice - always. Our lives affect theirs; their lives affect ours. We must not forget them when we seek God's will for ourselves. We are called to care for them in the same way that we care for those who live in our homes.
"'How are we to do that?' is where discernment comes in. This caring can and should take many forms - from defending my larger family against unjust treatment by legislation or budget cuts in this country to actually getting my hands dirty in serving food to the homeless and the poor. It can involve supporting those agencies which minister to some of the people that we cannot personally reach. It involves keeping our radar on, knowing what's going on that would affect our sisters and brothers (e.g. through the Catholic Legislative Network).
"I would argue that we are never going to be fully satisfied with how well we are doing God's will in our home family or with our broader family. After all, we remain weak and sinful human beings, totally dependent upon God's grace.
"But we must refuse to let go of either part of our vocation, our call to carry out God's will in the midst of the human community of which we are a part. The fact that we can't do it "all" does not free us from trying to do some things well.
"Whatsoever you do, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus and all will be well."
The Jesuit Guide to (Almost) Everything by Fr. James Martin, SJ
Fr. Martin is the author of The Jesuit Guide to (Almost) Everything (available from the Pleasanton Public Library). The book has the subtitle A Spirituality for Real Life. It describes and illustrates a spirituality having four components:
- Finding God in all things
- Being a "contemplative in action": being active in the world and aware of what is happening around us but being guided largely by our moments of contemplation
- Experiencing "Incarnational Spirituality": seeing God in Jesus, in every person everywhere, and in the everyday events of our lives
- Seeking freedom and detachment
The next to last chapter is about our work, our life, and who we are. Our work, our job, and our career should all be seen in the larger context of our vocation. We all have a general vocation or calling to be holy people. Each of us has a specific vocation which encompasses the kind of person we hope to become. Our vocation is what we are called to do and who we are called to be.
We discover our vocation by seeing what kind of work we are drawn to, our desires for accomplishment. Many are drawn to marriage by a combination of physical, emotional, and spiritual desires. In a similar way, accountants, teachers, artists, and electricians discover an attraction for their work. Martin is saying on the one hand that we need to pay attention to our lasting desires, our deepest satisfactions. We also need to believe in our own worth without being grandiose and without belittling ourselves. Throughout the book Martin emphasizes the need for contemplation, for thinking things over, noticing our own reactions and the reactions of others.