2011 Calendar
Date Host Presenter May 1 Michele Mixer July 10 Carol W Julie M.
Sep 18 Open Rona Renner Nov 6 Dee Ruth O'Hara
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2011 Programs
May 1 We're going to have a member mixer instead of a presenter. We'll have small group discussions and opportunities to get to know each other.
July 10 Author and grandmother Julie Matsushima will share the inspiring story of her granddaughter who was born with cerebral palsy. In her book, For the Love of Aimee, Julie writes about the disappointments, challenges, and amazing achievements Aimee and Julie experience as they embark on a journey to find a breakthrough for Aimee.
September 18 Rona Renner, RN, a nationally recognized parent educator and radio talk show host of Childhood Matters, will lead a discussion about learning differences, temperament, and family communication. "Nurse Rona" has four children and two grandchildren.
November 6 Dr. Ruth O'Hara, research professor at Stanford School of Medicine, will discuss some of her work on sleep issues and give us some suggestions for improving our sleep.
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April 12 Filoli Tour
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It's back by popular demand! A tour of the beautiful gardens at Filoli on April 12 at 10:00 am. We had such a great time at Filoli last April, we decided to do it again. Get your taxes done early and reward yourself with a morning going gaga in the gardens! We'll have our own private tour of the estate and gardens led by our own docent GGS members Judith, Betty, and Julia. The cost is $15 or $12, if you're over 65. After the tour, we'll gather in the cafe for lunch. To reserve your spot send me an email and let me know whether you'll be staying for lunch: donnedavis@gagasisterhood.com |
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Greetings!
Art and creativity are two topics that interest GaGas. At our March 6 meeting, thirty members showed up to listen to artist Nancy Wulff teach us some projects to encourage the budding artists in our lives. Many thanks go to our gracious host, Helena, who found chairs for everyone as well as a demonstration table for Nancy. Nancy has taught children's art at Pacific Art League in Palo Alto, the Triton Museum of Art in Santa Clara, and at Alum Rock School District. Currently, she teaches watercolor classes at Cupertino Community Center. She enjoys doing art with her 3 grandchildren, ages 3, 6, and l0. To give Nancy a sense of our art experience, we introduced ourselves by describing an art project we've done with our grandchildren. The variety was impressive: Decopage bird house, piñata, homemade playdoh, birthday cards, Jello cut outs, paper wedding dress, bird feeder from a milk carton, paper snowflakes, sand casting, finger painting, and painting small rocks and sand dollars. If you want more ideas for nurturing creativity in your grandchildren, I recommend Whitney Ferre's book, 33 Things to Know About Raising Creative Kids. |
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Enjoy Art With Your Grandchildren
Developmental Stages of Creativity
Nancy began by explaining the importance of knowing what is developmentally appropriate for your grandchild's age. When you're aware of the developmental stages of creativity, you'll be able to provide the appropriate art supplies and activities your grandchild needs to flourish. She gave us a handout by Viktor Lowenfeld that describes the Drawing Development in Children from ages 2 - 14 years. Here's a link to this graphic which describes each stage and shows an example of a child's drawing for that stage.
Provide Some Basic Art Supplies
To encourage art so that it becomes a natural activity rather than something intimidating, always keep a good supply of paper and markers available. It can be computer paper, a sketchbook, construction paper, or watercolor paper. The Dollar Store is a great place to find inexpensive art supplies.
Watercolor paint sets with a few different brushes are good for children ages four years and older. You'll need to show younger children how to dip the brush into water and clean it off to avoid ending up with a box of muddy colors. Personally, I just let my granddaughters have one set that they could get as messy as they wanted.
Be sure to put your grandchild's name and date on his art and definitely display it. When you display your grandchild's art, you are validating and celebrating his creativity. There are lots of different ways to display their creations. My daughter strings wires across her dining room walls and clips on the girls' art work. You can find picture frames that let you slide art into and out of for a rotating display. Bulletin boards and refrigerators have always made great galleries.
3 Art Activities
Drawing activity: Take a 12" piece of string and drop it onto a paper. Then trace around the string for an outline. See what animal or creature you can make from the lines. Fill it with shapes, dots, and lines. It's all about motivation and enthusiasm. Show your grandchild drawings by Van Gogh and talk about lines and wiggly marks. She'll get motivation and inspiration from looking at pictures.
Painting activity: Show some photos of birds and talk about their different parts: feathers, beak, eyes. Ask your grandchild to draw an outline of a bird on colored paper. Color in using pastels. Using black watercolor (best if made from tube), paint over the pastel drawing. The results give a marbled effect similar to a stained-glass window.
Craft activity: Make cards, bookmarks, or place mats using food coloring and newsprint. Fold a large piece of newsprint (One GaGa mentioned that IKEA has stacks of free newsprint on their checkout counters.) into an accordion fold. Then fold again in flag fold. The fold is not important. Fill 3 or 4 bowls with different food coloring. Dip one edge into each color. Then unfold and you'll have a Rorschach pattern on the paper. You can cut into strips and laminate them for bookmarks or make into cards. The large sheets can also be used for wrapping paper.
Contour Drawing
Nancy teaches contour drawing to elementary school children. It teaches children to carefully observe and draw what they see by training the eye to look at edges. Contour drawing can help children break through barriers as they experiment and discover lines. These drawings can be done quickly and often have surprising results. A student's drawing ability can be greatly improved by learning how to do contour drawings.
In her book, The New Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain, Betty Edwards teaches the technique of using a pen and not lifting it off the paper as you look at an object. It's not about perfection but paying attention and looking at objects as you draw them.
Find objects children relate to and try these techniques:
Blind contour: Don't look at paper while you draw object (for 9 years old) Peek-a-boo: Look at object and then go back and look at paper but don't lift pen Lift pen: Continuous line but you can lift pen to go to other side
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Mother-Daughter Retreat
My daughter, Deborah, and I are co-leading a mother-daughter communication retreat with yoga teacher Jackie Long, MFT, Saturday, June 11 from 9 am - 8 pm at Stillheart Retreat Center, Woodside, CA.
 | | Stillheart Retreat Center | The daylong retreat will consist of gentle yoga, communication seminars, and interpersonal exercises to explore and nurture the mother-daughter relationship. There will also be time for self-care. Participants will have the option to soak in the hot tub, take a dip in the pool, hike in the Redwoods, curl up on the couch, and/or read a book in the library. This retreat is open to all women interested in exploring their mother-daughter or mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship. You can attend alone or with your mother or adult daughter.
While developing the content for the workshop, I wrote a post on my blog: 10 Tips for Improving Mother-Daughter Communication
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GaGas Go To College
On March 7 GaGas Beverly Nadine, Jan Kuersten, Kathleen Knott, and I spoke to a De Anza College psychology class about life as an "older" woman in today's society. The invitation came from Professor Mary Fraser who teaches psychology of gender. Mary and I met at Kepler's bookstore. When I told her about the GaGa Sisterhood, she asked me if I would come and talk to her students because they think life ends after 40!
The students prepared a list of interesting questions in advance that covered work, leisure, health, relationships, and attitudes about aging. Mary opened the discussion by explaining that the media portrays older women as "irrelevant" and to be valid you have to be younger. But that erases a majority of resources in our culture, since 78% of the older population is female.
The four of us each gave a short introduction and then we spent two hours engaged in a lively conversation about the joys and challenges of aging. The students sat for two hours listening and asking questions. When the class ended, we GaGas were on such a high. We felt we made a positive impact on their biased perceptions about aging.
Mary followed up by telling us her class was abuzz with positive feedback. The students appreciated our honesty and thought we were inspiring and very energetic. She wants us to come back for another series next quarter. For me one of the best parts was getting to hear each others' stories about how we've arrived at this stage in our lives and what we've learned along the way.
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GaGazine Receives 2010 All Star Award The GaGazine has been selected to receive Constant Contact's 2010 All Star Award. This is the second year in a row that we've received this distinction. The award is given in recognition of effective use of email marketing and continued commitment to following best practices. But really, it's because of you, dear GaGas, that we've earned this distinction. Thanks for opening and reading the GaGazine.
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Cheese Cookies Recipe
One of our new GaGas, Barbara Coster, brought these delicious "cookies" to our meeting. I was glad I snagged a few to bring home before they disappeared. She shared her recipe with us.
2 C flour
½ lb. sharp or very sharp cheddar cheese
½ lb. salted butter
Pecan halves
Salt (not coarse)
1 hand-beaten egg white

Preheat oven to 425 degrees.
1. If you have a Cuisinart, this goes pretty fast. In your Cuisinart, insert the shredding blade and shred the cheese. Leave the cheese in the bowl, remove the shredding blade, and insert the standard metal blade. Add the flour and butter to the cheese and pulse until a rough ball is formed (will not be dry).
(If you don't have a Cuisinart, or prefer to do it the traditional way, grate the cheese first and set aside, work the butter and flour, add the cheese, and knead lightly just to mix. Go on to making the small balls in your hands as described next.)
2. Take the dough out of the Cuisinart. Make small balls (about the size between a walnut and a ping-pong ball, or use Martha Stewart's method of using a small ice cream scoop to get consistently sized balls) of the dough by hand and place on an ungreased nonstick cookie sheet (or a regular cookie sheet sprayed with Pam). Balls should be about 1" apart.
3. Flatten each ball with a drinking glass that's been lightly dipped in flour.
4. Brush the egg white over each flattened ball, sprinkle with salt, and top with a whole pecan.
5. Bake at 425 degrees for 10 minutes and check. Edges and top should be lightly browned (be careful in convection ovens not to burn the pecans). The cookies will be about 2½ inches in diameter, but you can make them any size you wish.
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The GaGa Zone
Please continue sending me pictures and stories of you with your grandchildren for the GaGa Zone. | | GaGa Judy with twin grandsons, Jake Dolan and Liam Ford |
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