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Sep 19   Carleen  Heidi Feldman 
Nov 7     Irene      Gabrielle Miller

September 19, 2010 Meeting

A Delicate Balance: Disciplining Your
Grandchildren


Have you ever disciplined your grandchild? How did you handle it? This issue has come up on our Big Tent discussion forum. Two "seasoned" grandmas, whose grandchildren visit often, offered some suggestions.

At our September 19 meeting, GaGa Heidi will lead a discussion on this topic. As Professor of Developmental and Behavioral Pediatrics at Stanford University School of Medicine, Heidi has led parent groups on strategies for disciplining children.

Bring a challenging discipline situation you've faced and tell us how you handled it, what went well, and what you wish you'd done differently. We'll brainstorm alternatives and discuss some of the issues that may impact the relationship with the parents of your grandchildren.

GaGa Carleen will host in Woodside, CA.
Future Meetings

November 7

Our speaker is Gabrielle Miller, the executive director of Raising a Reader, a national non-profit organization that offers families techniques for improving reading readiness in children ages 0-5 years.
 
The Art of Grandparenting

I still have a few copies left of The Art of Grandparenting. In the chapter I wrote, How to Become a Go-To Grandma, I offer seven strategies for building lasting bonds with your grandchildren. The most important lesson I've learned as a grandma is that getting time with your grandchildren requires building trust and respect with their parents. Trust is the foundation for having access to your grandchildren.

The anthology, subtitled Loving, Spoiling, Teaching and Playing with Your Grandkids, includes 20 chapters by "new" and "seasoned" grandparent authors. To order the book, click here.

You can also purchase copies at our September 19 meeting.

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Newsweek's July 10 issue had a fascinating article on America's "Creativity Crisis." Until 1990, creativity scores in U.S. children had been steadily rising, just like IQ scores. Since then, creativity scores have consistently inched downward.

"It's very clear, and the decrease is very significant," said Kyung Hee Kim, a researcher at the College of William and Mary. "It's the scores of younger children in America--from kindergarten through sixth grade--for whom the decline is most serious."

The article said it's too early to determine conclusively why U.S. creativity scores are declining. One likely culprit is the number of hours kids now spend in front of the TV and playing video games rather than engaging in creative activities. Another is the lack of creativity development in our schools. In effect, it's left to the luck of the draw who becomes creative: there's no concerted effort to nurture the creativity of all children. The article concluded that creativity can be taught.

And that's where we GaGas come in.

I've always known that we GaGas are an incredibly creative group of women and our July 11 proved it. Over the years you've shared many of your ideas with me. I finally decided it was time to devote a meeting to sharing some of our creative ideas with each other. I've grouped your projects by age level, and invite you to share them with your grandchildren as you continue nurturing their creativity.


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Nurturing Creativity in Your Grandchildren

Two Years and Under

Our gracious host, Judy, provided a beautiful space for us to share our projects. A former kindergarten teacher, Judy recently got out her old Teaching Montessori in the Home for inspiration with her granddaughter. She plans to do finger painting with chocolate or butterscotch pudding along with pouring and measuring water with her.


Leslie made a book on Shutterfly for her grandson. She missed his birth while traveling in Africa, so she used her photos of animals and created "African Tale: Nana's Adventure While Waiting For You." She gave it to him for his first Christmas. The back cover shows an elephant with the caption "African tail." She also shared the website for creating personalized books with your grandchild's name.


Jessie puts out markers for her grandson who loves to draw and pretends to sign his name. When Jessie babysits, she takes photos with her cell phone of whatever they're doing e.g., making pancakes. Then sends them to his parents at work. She clips photos from the newspaper and sends them to her grandson.

Heidi took her grandson and granddaughter on a tour of Harley Farms in Pescadero, CA to see goats and learn how goat cheese is made. She was inspired to make a book of their tour because her granddaughter always says 'member when we...?


Janet is a beader and helped her granddaughter make a simple necklace. She takes her to pre-school art class at Community School of Music and Arts in Mountain View, CA because she likes music and dance. Janet bought a dress-up box of costumes at an auction for make-believe play. (Carol F. suggested flowing scarves for the wardrobe box which can be found at Magic Cabin.)


Three Years

Dee helped her granddaughter make a clock on a Styrofoam plate with cutout numbers from colored construction paper and hands that move. 2009allstarawardThey also made cute practical gifts of electric cord holders made from cardboard paper towel or toilet paper rolls, which they painted and coated with a spray seal.



Ricka made place mats with her twin grandsons by cutting out animal pictures from National Geographic and letting the boys glue on the pictures. Then they laminated them at Kinko's. Twice a week, Ricka uses Skype to "long distance babysit" her grandsons in Seattle and reads them stories for about 30 minutes. She buys books from the Friends of Palo Alto Library for fifty cents.


Four Years

Carol F. shared the recipe for a "cucumber crocodile" 2009allstarawardfrom Princess Tea that she made for her granddaughter to encourage her to eat healthy food. She said her five-year old grandson, who usually doesn't like green food, also ate it because it looked like a crocodile.


Carol T. bought a pink mailbox from Pottery Barn Kids and painted "Chloe's Mail" on one side. Her granddaughter, who lives in Boston, loves to receive Chloe's Mailboxmail. Carol decorated the sides with a castle, flowers, and ballerina dress. Carol writes twice a week and asks her daughter to put her letters in Chloe's mailbox by the front entry.


Five Years


Connie takes care of her granddaughter every week. They cook and sew together. She let Sofia pick out a pattern and fabric for a dress and then Connie sewed it.


Six Years


Marilyn does 'fantasy play' with her two grandchildren.  They all pretend they're different characters and do weird plays and have silly adventures. They talk about outer space and space ships and party dresses and castles. It's free and open-ended play and provides lots of funny conversation. She loves the laughing and hugging best.


Seven Years


Barbara made her granddaughter a picture book for her 7th birthday. On the first page she wrote: 7 is a powerful number and you are a powerful girl, so this year is going to be very special for you. This book describes some of the wonderful things about 7. The book included pictures of the 7 Wonders of the World, colors of the rainbow, the notes on a musical scale, chakras, days of the week, dwarfs, seas, and deadly sins, which she had to "clean up." She ended with 7th heaven, which she explained is an expression to mean great joy as in: Nana is in 7th heaven because she has such a wonderful granddaughter.

Diane bought a gingerbread house kit to assemble with her granddaughter. They also like to do jewelry projects together and string beads in patterns.


Carolyn bought accordion photo albums at Paper Source then created albums with themes, e.g., funny faces with captions. She found one of herself with the same funny face as her grandson. Her next one will be "Olivia in Motion."

 

Eight Years


Terry and her grandson painted large rocks and put felt on the bottom to make doorstops. They made up a poem to welcome people into their home. They also made bookmarks with his picture on them and used a laminating kit from Target.


Rita wanted to encourage her granddaughter to start a collection, which took off when she started making shapes from fuse beads. 2009allstarawardShe's made over 50 of them and collects them in a fish bowl. Each one has a story and she strings them on ribbons to decorate the walls of her bedroom.



Jan and her granddaughter enjoy designing costumes together from whatever materials they can find around Wedding Dressthe house. They recently created a wedding dress from a roll of white tablecloth paper. Jan wrapped her torso in paper and fashioned straps, then connected it all with clear packing tape. The paper was stiff and had a pattern embossed on the edges so it puffed out
perfectly and rustled and swished just right when she walked. She used some scrap paper left from the bodice of the dress to make a veil.


Ten Years


At Carol W's, Friday is "Grandma Day" for two of her granddaughters who "come early and stay late." They all made a decoupage birdhouse, purchased from Michael's which they decorated with wrapping paper and acrylic paints. Carol pre-selects the projects to insure the outcome will be a success for them. She teaches them skill building and they'll stay with it if the results are good.


strawberry diollThey've also made many projects together on Carol's sewing machine: a nightgown, sachets decorated with junk jewelry, pillows, place mats with matching napkins, a purse for great-grandma that has a Velcro pocket to hang on her walker, and a Strawberry Shortcake doll. Now Carol is helping them build a dollhouse because they're interested in interior design.


The GaGa Zone

Please continue sending me pictures and stories of you with your grandchildren for the GaGa Zone.

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GaGa Susana with Natalie Dune Jumping in Utah


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GaGa Carolyn with Olivia and Owen