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 Recession Proof Your Gift Giving
DAY 7
The holidays can be challenging, please make sure you are pacing yourself. This time of the year is especially difficult for those who have lost loved ones. My mother died eight years ago and when the holidays come around I begin to feel sad, especially when I hear certain songs or when I look at cards that are for mothers. It reminds me that I no longer have her with me to buy her a card. Once our parents are gone there can be a void and grief may last a long time, holidays can ignite those losses.
This is the final day of Holiday Gift Ideas. Thank you for sharing your ideas and gratitude. Our friends and family are invaluable and can be the best gift we have, treasure them. That being said I leave you with these gifts: (Submitted by Mildred T. Thank You-edited and revised by Lorraine Edey)
Ten Priceless Gifts For Christmas Or Other Occasions
1) The gift of listening-Stay present and listen with all your heart.
2) The gift of affection-Be generous with your hugs, kisses, a gentle touch. Let these tiny actions demonstrate the love you have for that person
3) The gift of a note-It can be as simple as "I love you" or as creative as a "sonnet".
4) The gift of laughter-Laughter is good medicine for the soul.
5) The gift of a compliment-A simple "what a nice color that is on you" or "you look handsome with in that shirt".
6) The gift of favor-Be willing to give of yourself. Run an errand, pick up the dry cleaning, or help with the dishes.
7) The gift of time-Understand that others my need time alone. Giving someone space to just be without any interruptions is an invaluable gift.
8) The gift of a positive attitude-Being positive can be contagious, other people will want to be around us, especially those we love.
9) The gift of play-Fun brings joy to those involved. Lorraine Edey says "a family that plays together stays together".
10) The gift of prayer-Pray for your loved ones and for the world, it will bring peace to you and to the world.
Thank you for the opportunity to serve you.
If you have any comments you would like to share, I would enjoy hearing from you. In the meantime have a wonderful Holi-Day.
© Lorraine Edey 2005-2008. Feel free to include this article in your ezine or on your website or distribute it to others, provided you include the copyright statement and the bio information tag line found at the end of this article.
Happy Holidays
Lorraine Edey, LCSW, PhD, ACC
Money and Relationship Coach
Coaching Inspirations
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