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| Cambodia Tomorrow Newsletter -- September 2006 |
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Dear Friends:
On June 30, 2006, Chim Naly closed the Women and
Children's Vocational Center (known to many of you
as Cham Chao orphanage). Cambodia Tomorrow had
been supporting the children living there for a
number of years with medical care, basic needs and
Future Hope preschool. We thank everyone for their
generous contributions to make this support possible.
My husband and I had been planning weeks, months for this trip. Our office was filled with gifts and letters from sponsors, and supplies that we thought they could use. The night before we had our hotel put together individual lunch bags for each child, which included a sandwich, cut into fours, one apple, one banana, water and a muffin. The following morning we began our journey to Kompong Speu. When our car turned into KS orphanage, we were graciously met by orphanage director Pol Sok Ly. We didn't expect such a warm and friendly welcome. She looked directly into my eyes, thanked us for coming and gave me a hug! Warm, sincere and genuine; that describes the Khmer people. The anticipation of seeing Pheary, the child I'm sponsoring, was beyond any feeling that I've experienced. One by one and in clusters, wide eyes and bright smiles, looks of uncertainty and curiosity greeted us. And then, there she was, holding one of the smaller children with two other little ones at her side. She looked at me-I gasped-I think I may have frightened her a bit, I spoke her name and she shyly smiled with the little one still in her arms and then the little one smiled also. I hardly remember how I got inside, I think Mrs. Pol escorted me inside and continued to thank us for coming and bringing the items. I wanted to connect with my sponsored child, yet I could see she was a little reserved. I decided that the best way to warm up to her was to have her help me distribute the elastic necklaces with a flower charm on each one to all of the girls. It was a good way to begin to connect to one another. We still needed some getting to know you time, so I decided to give them a sample of American tap dance. (I am a retired professional dancer, primarily musicals) What I didn't expect was their musical ability and how they began to rhythmically clap with my taps. They were a gracious audience and when I finished, they applauded and then the older boys began to play traditional Khmer music. It was a glorious exchange of cultures. Then the Cambodian dance performance began. I kept smiling at my sponsored child and she in return did the same. For the second dance I sat next to her and gave her a baggy of barrettes, hair twisties and butterfly clips. She immediately put two of the sparkly ones in her hair. She took my hand and in English she said, "You and me". I smiled at hearing her voice for the first time and repeated back, "Yes, you and me". She wanted to open more of the hair twisties. Not sure what to do with them, I showed her. She quickly began to put them in the other girls’ hair. After the performances, she showed me where she sleeps. Each home has a nanny to whom she introduced me. She shares a room with two other girls near her age. She took out a little box and inside was everything I had ever sent her, from the very first letter and gift to the most recent. She even had a photo album with pictures that I had sent her. She also had two framed pictures of our family members on her shared dresser area. I was relieved to see that she had received every item I had sent her. It confirmed my confidence in Cambodia Tomorrow and the efforts of Catherine, Scott and the Board. I was pleasantly taken off guard when she was able to read the books I gave her, recite the flash cards and recite some of her times tables. In addition, she correctly read a poem I gave her. I never expected her reading skills to be at the level they appeared to be.
She gave me a tour of the kitchen, where they wash
their clothes, where they play. They seemed to
enjoy cutting and pasting pictures of themselves into
scenic backgrounds like waterfalls and mountains.
Any educational books, or paper dolls seem to be
favored over toys. It's important not to overlook the
age of the child you’re sponsoring when sending over
items. Basic level phonic and reading books with
pictures are useful as many of them want to use
their English skills.
My sponsored child and I exchanged as much as you
can in such a short amount of time. I brought along
a letter she had written and showed it to her. She
was happy to see it and said something in Khmer.
We even exchanged earrings!
As I reflect on Kompong Speu and all the children of
Cambodia, I think about how much happiness they
spread to each other and to those they have never
met. Like all of us who sponsor them.
I am so grateful to have had this opportunity, and to
have found Cambodia Tomorrow. Thanks again to
Cathy, whose honesty and sincerity in the
documentary from Adoption Stories inspired me and
lead me to Cambodia Tomorrow. She was responsive
to my very first email inquiry. To Scott and all of the
board for the continued work that they are doing. In
the words from my sponsored child, "I wish you to
have good health, happiness, peacefulness and luck,
all of the time".
We are delighted to announce that Kim Srouch has
passed his government exam and will start his
university study in October. Srouch will study
business at the National University of Management.
He joins Prum Rim, Sok Neardey and Um Vanndeth
who will begin their sophomore year next month.
Kompong Speu orphanage director Pol Sok Ly expects to have 20 new children assigned to the orphan center this year. We at Cambodia Tomorrow are committed to finding sponsors for them all. If you know anyone in your family or circle of friends who would like to sponsor, please let us know – we’re compiling a list of potential sponsors so that we will be prepared for the new arrivals. Contact Catherine MacNeal at cmacneal@cambodiatomorrow.org and she’ll be happy to send out a brochure and newsletter to prospective sponsors. We have 60 children studying English and 12 students taking computer classes at Newtown School. In August, Cambodia Tomorrow funded an overnight beach trip for the orphanage. Our goal is to fund two field trips per year. This month we purchased new uniforms for all the students – the second set for the year. New Board member and sponsor Sheila Pompan visited Kompong Speu in June and wrote an account of her visit (in this newsletter) and meeting the child she sponsors. She and her husband took wonderful photos, carried over letters and gifts and brought letters back to the States from the children. Thank you Sheila and Gary. There will be more opportunities to write the child you sponsor. We have three sponsor families traveling to Cambodia this winter. We will be contacting you shortly to encourage you to write to your child. We will also circulate a list of needed items.
Cambodia Tomorrow is just one of the
organizations working to improve the lives of the
children at Kompong Speu. We would like to
acknowledge our fellow non-profits who play an
integral part in the operation of Kompong Speu
Orphan Center. They are:
We've had a few changes to the board this summer.
Tim von Hermann resigned his position due to
significant time restrictions. We are very grateful to
Tim and his family for their generous support of
Cambodia Tomorrow. Tiara Delgado also left the
Board to move to Cambodia to continue her
documentary film project. We wish her the best for
this exciting venture.
Kosal and Veth have been part of our English School
Project for the past three years- prior to that, they
attended English classes at the Palm Tree
Foundation. They are both outstanding students and
can converse and write well in English.
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