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Greetings!
Most of us have experienced the joy that comes when we truly live our gifts. Whether our gift be teaching or listening, cooking or healing, writing poetry or planting a garden, creating a quilt or guiding an organization, raising a child or raising global awareness: using our talent in the world feels good and generates joy. Perhaps you have also experienced times when you were not free to live your gifts. Maybe a relationship hemmed you in, or a time of self-doubt hobbled you, or a supervisor cramped your style at work. We know how that feels, too. Opportunity lost. Energies sapped. A certain weariness settling in. In South Sudan most women cannot yet live their gifts. They do not go to school. They never learn to read. They are not encouraged to develop their talents. And though it remains very true that in Africa, women still "hold up more than half the sky," it saddens me to see so much untapped potential. That's why our education projects in Sudan are so wonderful. As more and more girls matriculate through school, we literally see the girls blossoming and growing in self-confidence. Your gifts to MBB are helping them to develop their gifts.
Thank you, 
Sister Marilyn Lacey |
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Events
This Flowing Toward Me book signings with Marilyn Lacey, founder of MBB
Oct 2: Mercy Center, 2300 Adeline Drive, Burlingame, CA
Nov 8: Los Gatos Presbyterian Church, Los Gatos, CA Carnival Cruise for MBB Nov 9-12: 4 Day Baja Mexico Cruise from San Diego. Book with Anne Johnson at 650-697-1341 or email mytravelcove@yahoo.com.
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There is no minimum age for marriage in Sudan. In Southern Sudanese cultures, girls are valued by the dowry of cows at the time of marriage, often to men 20-30 years their senior.
$50 buys a goat; milk from 10 goats feed the entire student body a hearty meal. |
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Mercy Beyond Borders blog provides a weekly commentary from MBB's founder, Marilyn Lacey, rsm, on MBB activities at home and abroad.
Mercy in Sudan blog chronicles the experiences of Kathleen Connolly, rsm, who moved to Africa in Jan 2009. She is living at St Bakhita School in Sudan. |
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Ambassador Of The Month
JoMarie Guastello of Kansas City is a veritable wellspring of energy and creativity. Besides running her own printing business (JMGPrintables.com), she loves gardening and jogging and has a real knack for organizing people and events that build community. JoMarie has already donated $1,000 to MBB. Now she is orchestrating a Sep 18th -20th art auction, block party and fun run in Kansas City for MBB. Join the fun if you live in the area; all proceeds will benefit our projects with displaced women and girls in Sudan. THANK YOU, Jo Marie, for your irrepressible enthusiasm!
Ambassadors of MBB volunteer to raise $1,000 each year for Mercy Beyond Borders. To become an ambassador, contact Sr. Marilyn Lacey. |
Archived Newsletters
You can find previous issues of this newsletter in the below links.
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What's So Strange About This Picture?
Take a careful look at this picture of girls playing soccer on a dusty field beside St Bakhita Girls' School in Southern Sudan this July. It may appear to be an unremarkable scene--but I can assure you that it is in fact a most extraordinary one. In fact, it is both strange and wonderful. In my half-dozen visits to South Sudan over the past 17 years, and in my various travels by car and by foot to many villages there, I have never seen girls playing. I'm not referring only to soccer; I'm referring to the normal childhood experience of PLAY. Whereas boys in Sudan play every day, girls do not have that luxury. Their workload and their low place in the culture guarantee that they have neither leisure nor opportunity for play.
That's one reason that St Bakhita Girls' School is so unique. Besides offering a formal education, it encourages its students to play! Girls jump rope, loft volleyballs, engage in versions of jacks or mancala, and chase soccer balls with abandon in the fading light of dusk. Yes, they are exercising their growing bodies and learning teamwork across tribal divisions, but they are also simply reveling in the joy of PLAY. They are being given permission to enjoy life. What a gift!
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Miracle in Narus
Bishop Paride Taban started St Bakhita Girls Primary School in 1997 with 27 girls beneath a tree. At that time, civil war raged around them: there were one million displaced people in his diocese and the whole region was being aerially bombed. The Bishop later told me, "We'd been educating boys for 50 years in Sudan, and all we got was war. I knew we needed to educate the girls!" The war that displaced those girls had one silver lining: it opened up this chance for their education. Today that tree stands taller and so do the 830 girls who now fill to capacity the cinder block classrooms that replaced the corrugated iron shipping containers that replaced the rough-hewn benches in the shade of the tree. It's nearly impossible to convey to most Americans the staggering importance of the breakthrough represented by this school: The transformation of the girls that occurs through formal education. The self-confidence that fills them. The dreams that arise. The world that literally opens up for them. This summer the 8th grade girls debated the 8th grade boys from a neighboring school, and the girls more than held their own with critical thinking skills and well-articulated arguments. Imagine! These girls, taught from infancy that they were "lower than cattle," energetically facing off with their male counterparts as equals! This would have been unthinkable without single-gender schooling. Certainly, huge obstacles remain. There are pressures from family and culture to marry early. There are school fees impossible for many to pay. There is the ever-looming specter of serious conflict breaking out again as Southern Sudan sorts out its post-war future and votes in 2011 on the question of seceding to become its own sovereign nation. But today, 830 girls are studying and learning and enjoying being in school. That miracle deserves to be celebrated!
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You're receiving this email because of your interest in MERCY BEYOND BORDERS. MBB was founded in 2008 by three colleagues-- a Sister of Mercy, a university professor, and a medical doctor--determined to improve the lives of displaced women and children living in extreme poverty. We are a 501(c)(3) registered in California and committed to linking U.S. resources with displaced women & children overseas. We are currently targeting Southern Sudan, which has one-quarter of the world's displaced peoples.
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Sincerely,
Sister Marilyn Lacey
Executive Director
Donations to support the work of Mercy Beyond Borders can be made online by clicking on the button above or sent to Mercy Beyond Borders, 1885 De La Cruz Blvd #101, Santa Clara CA 95050-3000. |
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