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MOTHER'S DAY - MAY 9
FATHER'S DAY - JUNE 20
20 Ideas I Wish I was Taught at 20
10 Ways to Keep Life Simple and Organized
Why Massage Helps Stiff Achy Joints
5 Things That Will Make You Happier
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MOTHER'S DAY - May 9!!!
Don't forget Mom on her special day. Give her a gift that she will appreciate and truly enjoy. Here's the link to our Mother's Day Special page. You can order by phone at 480-215-9471 or 602-568-1531. You can also purchase an online Gift Certificate or schedule online.
FATHER'S DAY - June 20
This year we decided that we should have a special offer for Father's Day too. We're offering a Dad's "Lazy Day" Massage and a Dad's "Week-end Warrior" Massage. So whether dad is the active outdoor type or the proverbial "couch potato" we have a massage to fit his needs. Check out the Father's Day Specials here!
20 Ideas I Wish I was Taught
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part 1 of 2

by Dennis Harting

Success seems to be an elusive treasure for many. There are some many ways to attain it yet most of us get caught up trying to figure it all out ourselves. This leads to a great deal of lost time to gain the "experience" needed to be successful. Looking back, I wish someone had put together a list of hard facts that were true in life. Since it was not done for me, I would like to share my list of success "truths".

1. Success is easier with a team: Success is not created in a vacuum. It takes the efforts of many people to make one achieve anything great. The most successful people have partners, coaches, teammates, and co-workers who all have a hand in the final outcome. Also, our the level of success that is possible increase substantially when we enlist the abilities and efforts of others. As Marc Victor Hanson likes to say "one plus one is an eleven folding of talent". Create a team with the best people that you can.

2. Opportunities are everywhere: Everywhere there is a problem, there is an opportunity. The world is full of challenges that are waiting to be solved. As we proceed forward, now obstacles are created daily. Huge fortunes are being made by people taking the initiative to solve these problems. Society needs someone to build a better "mousetrap" and that person is you. Look for the opportunities in your life that are offered to you.

3. You get more in life by saying "yes" than by saying "no": This is one of Richard Branson's sayings. Fear is a powerful influence in life. It causes us to make decisions that are not always in our best interest. Often we turn down opportunities which will raise our lives to a new level. Saying "yes" to life allows us to engage in the wonders of it. There is more that is gained by going forward then by standing still. Certainly we will lose at times. But overcoming the fear of loss is what will set us free. Begin to say "yes" to the opportunities that are presented in your life.

4. Like attracts like: Physics talks about energy on the same frequency being attracted to similar energy. This is true for our outlook. Positive attitudes garner positive results. Negative attitudes create gets the same outcome. To get more positive results in life, spend more time with a positive attitude. This will attract the desired results into your life.

5. The path to success is already laid out:  Reinventing the wheel is a waste of time. Unlike we were taught in school, copying is a good thing. People have already paved the road to success. Simply learn the actions and procedures they took while following suit. Every industry has a model that sets the process for achievement. Life becomes much simpler when that is uncovered.

6. Have fun: It is easy to get caught up in all that we have to do. Responsibilities mount the more success we achieve. It is important to have fun at every stage of life. Too often people delay their joy until they arrive at a specific destination. Taking the time for ourselves is crucial as holistic selves. Lighten up and take things a little less seriously.

7. Work smarter, not harder: Digging ditches is hard work yet it is not a well compensated trade. The world pays more for mental power than it does physical. Try to determine ways to systematize the things you need to do to free up yourself. The nobility is in working smarter, not harder.

8. Things do not equal happiness: The richest are not always the happiest. The accumulation of things is wonderful. However, it is imperative that we keep in mind what is important. The happiness that "things" give us is temporary. Happiness is a state that comes from within us; it rarely comes from the outside.

9. Who cares about the Joneses:   How much time do we spend trying to "keep up with the Joneses"? Our egos are often tied to the opinion of others. Be your own person. Ignore what others think about you. It is best to pursue endeavors which fulfill us. Too many attend to those things that other people want them to. Live your life according to how you see fit.

10. There is always something to be grateful for:  No matter how bad things are in your life, there is always something to be grateful for. Gratitude is a wonderful tool for getting us out of the doldrums. Looking at the positive aspect of situations will always help bring the undesirable effects to an end quicker. Remember, there is always someone else who is worse off than you.

Next issue we'll have Dennis' final 10 ideas for success, happiness, productivity and freedom.
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Dennis Harting is one of the leading authorities on success, motivation, and overcoming procrastination. For the past 15 years he has studied some of the most comprehensive techniques used in personal development. All his programs can be found at http://www.yourrichlifeinc.com. He is also responsible for starting one of the most powerful free forums dealing with success on the Internet. Successful individuals can share their ideas while learning from others at http://www.freesuccessforum.com.

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April 2010

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Dan O'Clair & Roxie Reimer
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PO Box 3070
Apache Junction, AZ 85119

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Well, last month I mentioned how wet and rainy the weather had been and the rain stopped. I can't wait until it gets really hot this summer to see if I can get the heat to stop too! (LOL!!).

Since our last visit the taxes have been filed, refunds have been received and we've been staying busy helping many of you manage your stress and/or pain. Many of our "snowbird" friends have returned to cooler climes (even though I explained that it's a dry heat and everything is air-conditioned).

In addition to massage Roxie has been busy with her hobby by showing two horses at several horse shows. My hobby is reading and studying and lately I've been learning several new techniques (which of course I share with Roxie) that have greatly added to what we are offering in the area of pain relief.

We just accepted an invitation to the Family Day Event at Bella Via community (Signal Butte Rd south of Warner Rd). We'll be promoting in-home massage and enjoying the sunshine Saturday, April 17 from 2:00PM until 5:00PM. If you know anyone in this community let them know we'll be there!
10 Ways to Keep Life Simple and Organized

1. File it:
Create a filing system that is properly labeled for everything: receipts, invoices, bills to pay, bills paid, client information, leads, marketing materials, ideas, marketing plans, etc.

 

2. Clean out the trash:
Empty your wallet, purse, car and pockets everyday and put all your papers in the right file.

 

3. Make a date:
Choose a time of day to spend 10 minutes getting your papers organized.

 

4. Book an appointment:
Take half an hour on Sunday to plan out your week's priorities.

 

5. Schedule it:
Use your planner (paper or electronic) to block time for all the things you need to get done during the week.

 

6. Itemize your list of things to do:
Work, family, home, health/exercise, education, personal time, charity etc. By identifying on a weekly basis each area of your life, you will find the time to take care of everything.

 

7. Prioritize:
It's too easy to be 'busy' with things that are not important. Prioritize the 'must do' list and make sure you don't get off track.

 

8. Your planner is your best friend:
Friends help us. Religiously using your planner will ensure you stay on track. This is a habit worth developing.

 

9. Enjoy your Kingdom:
Your workspace needs to be a supportive environment to help you stay focused. Keeping it organized, comfortable and away from family life helps you avoid the pitfalls of distraction.

 

10. Internet pit:
Hours are lost checking for email, answering emails that are not important at that moment, logging into Facebook, surfing the internet etc. I challenge you to time how much of your day is wasted on the Internet and on keeping busy with non-productive work. This is valuable time that could be put to better use for personal growth.

 

Staying on task is not easy, it takes a lot of self-discipline.

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adapted from ChairMassageBiz.com, Carrie Mudrick Rubel, Director

BOOK YOUR APPOINTMENT ONLINE!
Of course we love to hear your voice on the phone when you call for an appointment but we realize that sometimes late at night you think, "I really need to schedule a massage." You look at the clock and realize it's 2:00 AM and you decide it's a little late (or early) to give us a call. But you know that tomorrow your day is so full you'll never get around to calling to make an appointment... so what do you do? No, you don't forget about it! You go to your computer and pull up ahealingtouchmassage. Click on the "booknow" icon and you can schedule your own appointments 24 hours a day 7 days a week. The easy to follow process takes just a few minutes to complete and we are instantly (not in the middle of the night but when we get up) notified of your appointment. Online appointments must be booked a minimum of 48 hours in advance.

Why Massage Helps Stiff Achy Joints

Many people have problems with joints that are stiff and achy.  Even worse is when movement of those joints causes pain.  You know that massage is wonderful for reducing stress, but did you know it is also a powerful weapon to have in your arsenal for pain relief? 

 

Here's a quick crash-course lesson in anatomy, physiology, kinesiology and biomechanics. Muscles cross joints. That's it. That's all you need to know. It really is that simple, let me explain.

 

Let's take the knee which is a simple hinge joint.  If we want to move the door that's hanging on a hinge we apply a force to the door to push or pull it open.  But let's take a door with an automatic closer on it.  One end is attached to the door while the other end is attached to the door jamb on the other side of the hinge.  Muscles are comparable to the automatic closer.  When contracted they supply the force that moves the joint. With the knee, the hamstrings muscle group (on the back of the thigh) attach below the knee while the gastrocnemius (largest muscle of the calf) attaches above the knee. When contracted these muscles cause the knee joint to bend bringing the foot up toward the buttock. Likewise, on the front of the thigh is the powerful quadriceps muscle group which attaches below the knee and on contraction straightens the knee.  Simply biomechanics; but wait, there's more. 

 

Sometimes due to trauma, overuse, or even lack of use, those muscles become chronically shortened.  Now we have a problem.  The muscles that are supposed to create the movement of the joint now begin to restrict it.  The bursae (fluid filled sacs that cushion and reduce friction between bones and tendons) may become inflamed, which is the condition known as bursitis.


Increased joint pressure caused by muscle tightness creates a kind of mortar and pestle effect on the cartilage (the gristle that the bones move on) which causes it to wear out prematurely.  This is called osteoarthritis.  As the condition worsens and bone begins to rub on bone, boney outgrowths (osteophytes) will develop which further destroy the cartilage. 

 

Massage cannot fix osteoarthritis.  It cannot fix bursitis.  But, massage CAN loosen tight, restricted muscles thereby easing the pressure and freeing the joint structure to move in the way it was intended!

 

The next time you have stiff achy joints remember this: muscles cross joints.  Your body is telling you it's time for a massage.

5 Things That Will Make You Happier

Clara Moskowitz, LiveScience Senior Writer  


SAN DIEGO - The pursuit of happiness is sometimes easier said than done.

 

Some scientists have argued that happiness is largely determined by genetics, health and other factors mostly outside of our control. But recent research suggests people actually can take charge of their own happiness and boost it through certain practices.

 

"The billion-dollar question is, is it possible to become happier?" said psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky of the University of California, Riverside. "Despite the finding that happiness is partially genetically determined, and despite the finding that life situations have a smaller influence on our happiness than we think they do, we argue that still a large portion of happiness is in our power to change."

 

Lyubomirsky spoke here Saturday at the annual meeting of the American Association for the Advancement of Science. She and colleagues last year reviewed 51 studies that tested attempts to increase happiness through different types of positive thinking, and found that these practices can significantly enhance well-being. The results were published in the Journal of Clinical Psychology.

 

Here are five things that research has shown can improve happiness:

 

1. Be grateful -Some study participants were asked to write letters of gratitude to people who had helped them in some way. The study found that these people reported a lasting increase in happiness - over weeks and even months - after implementing the habit. What's even more surprising: Sending the letter is not necessary. Even when people wrote letters but never delivered them to the addressee, they still reported feeling better afterwards.

 

2. Be optimistic - Another practice that seems to help is optimistic thinking. Study participants were asked to visualize an ideal future - for example, living with a loving and supportive partner, or finding a job that was fulfilling - and describe the image in a journal entry. After doing this for a few weeks, these people too reported increased feelings of well-being.

 

3. Count your blessings - People who practice writing down three good things that have happened to them every week show significant boosts in happiness, studies have found. It seems the act of focusing on the positive helps people remember reasons to be glad.

 

4. Use your strengths - Another study asked people to identify their greatest strengths, and then to try to use these strengths in new ways. For example, someone who says they have a good sense of humor could try telling jokes to lighten up business meetings or cheer up sad friends. This habit, too, seems to heighten happiness.

 

5. Commit acts of kindness - It turns out helping others also helps ourselves. People who donate time or money to charity, or who altruistically assist people in need, report improvements in their own happiness.


Lyubomirsky has also created a free iPhone application, called Live Happy, to help people boost their well-being.

We hope you enjoyed this issue of Staying In-Touch. We look forward to hearing from you!

Until next month...yours for better health,
 
 
 
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The water may still be to cool to enjoy being in your pool but the air is warming enough that it's time to start thinking about poolside massage. This is a fantastic way for you and your sweetie to enjoy an afternoon or early evening listening to your favorite water feature and "hangin' by the pool."

For every poolside couples' massage that is scheduled between now and April 30 we'll give you two $10.00 coupons to be redeemed on your next massage or shared with a friend (one coupon per person per massage).
 
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