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Women Need More Sleep Than Men
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9 Ways to Reduce Stress by Simplifying Your Style
Water and Our Bodies
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WOMEN NEED MORE SLEEP THAN MEN
Two studies suggest that women really do need more sleep than men.
 
A study of 210 apparently healthy, middle-aged men and women without any history of sleep disorders, led by Edward Suarez at Duke University found that poor sleep is associated with greater psychological distress and higher levels of the biomarkers associated with elevated risk of heart disease and type 2 diabetes in women. Poor sleep patterns in the men did not result in the same distress and elevated biomarkers. None of the participants smoked or took regular daily medications and investigators excluded any women on hormone therapy, because some studies have shown hormone replacement to alter sleep patterns in some women. The study appeared in the online journal Brain, Behavior and Immunity.
 
In another study by researchers at the University of Warwick in 2007, it was found that women who slept five or less hours a night were twice as likely to suffer from hypertension than women who slept for seven or more hours. For men, there was no link between lack of sleep and hypertension. More than 6,000 people were studied in this trial.
5 PAINFUL FACTS YOU NEED TO KNOW
By Robert Roy Britt, LiveScience Managing Editor
 
Pain forces an estimated 36 million U.S. residents to miss work every year and results in roughly 70 million doctor visits. Studies find that exercise is in many cases one of the best remedies for chronic pain.
 
First off, let's set the record straight: Pain is normal. About 75 million U.S. residents endure chronic or recurrent pain. Migraines plague 25 million of us. One in six suffers arthritis.
The global pain industry peddles more than $50 billion in drugs a year. Yet for chronic pain sufferers, over-the-counter pills are typically little help, while morphine and other narcotics can be addictive sedatives.
 
An overview study published in the June 2008 Journal of General Internal Medicine looked at multiple studies of pain and found "researchers don't yet know how to determine which [treatment] is best for individual patients." From studies of drugs to surgeries and alternative medicines, "We have found that there are huge gaps in our knowledge base," said Dr. Matthew J. Bair, assistant professor of medicine at the Indiana University School of Medicine.
So what is pain and why do so many suffer so long?
 
Pain is felt when electrical signals are sent from nerve endings to your brain, which in turn can release painkillers called endorphins and generate reactions that range from instant and physical to long-term and emotional. Beyond that, scientific understanding gets painfully fuzzy. Here's what's known:
 
1. Scientist don't understand pain
 
When you're in pain, you know it. But if scientists could fully grasp how pain works and why, they might be able to help you more. The American Academy of Pain Medicine defines pain as "an unpleasant sensation and emotional response to that sensation." Some pain is the result of an obvious injury. Other times, it is caused by damaged nerves that are not so easy to pinpoint. "Pain is complex and defies our ability to establish a clear definition," says Kathryn Weiner, director of the American Academy of Pain Management. "Pain is far more than neural transmission and sensory transduction. Pain is a complex mixture of emotions, culture, experience, spirit and sensation."
 
2. Chronic pain shrinks brains
 
If you have chronic pain, you know how demoralizing and debilitating it can be, physically and mentally. It can prevent you from doing things and make you irritable for reasons nobody else understands. But that's only half the story. People with chronic backaches have brains as much as 11 percent smaller than those of non-sufferers, scientists reported in 2004. They don't know why. "It is possible it's just the stress of having to live with the condition," said study leader A. Vania Apkarian of Northwestern University. "The neurons become overactive or tired of the activity."
 
3. Migraines and sex go together
 
It may not eliminate the phrase "Not tonight, honey ..." but a 2006 study found that migraine sufferers had levels of sexual desire 20 percent higher than those suffering from tension headaches. The finding suggests sexual desire and migraines might be influenced by the same brain chemical, and getting a better handle on the link could lead to better treatments, at least for the pain portion of the equation.
 
4. Women feel more pain
 
Any man who has watched a woman having a baby without using drugs would swear that women can tolerate anything. But the truth is, guys, it hurts more than you can imagine. Women have more nerve receptors than men. As an example, women have 34 nerve fibers per square centimeter of facial skin, while men average just 17. And in a 2005 study, women were found to report more pain throughout their lifetimes and, compared to men, they feel pain in more areas of their body and for longer durations.
 
5. Some animals don't feel our pain
 
Animal research could offer clues to eventually relieve human suffering. Take the naked mole rat, a hairless and nearly blind subterranean creature. A study this year found it feels neither the pain of acid nor the sting of chili peppers. If researchers can figure out why, they might be on the road to new sorts of painkilling therapies for humans. In 2006, scientists found a pathway for the transmission of chronic pain in rats that they hope will translate into better understanding of human chronic pain. Lobsters feel no pain, even when boiled, scientists said in a 2005 report that is just one more salvo in a long-running debate.
 
What you can do
 
Meanwhile, exercise is a useful remedy for many types of chronic pain.
In an Italian study detailed in the May issue of the journal Cephalalgia, office workers did relaxation and posture exercises every two to three hours. Over an eight-month period, they kept diaries, which were then compared to those of a control group that did not change habits. In the end, the group that exercised reported that headaches and neck and shoulder pain decreased by more than 40 per cent, and their use of painkillers was cut in half.
 
"Physical activity is actually a natural pain reliever for most people suffering from arthritis," concludes another study published in the Arthritis Care and Research journal in April. "Even minor lifestyle changes like taking a 10-minute walk three times a day can reduce the impact of arthritis on a person's daily activities and help to prevent developing more painful arthritis," said Dr. Patience White, chief public health officer of the Arthritis Foundation. "Physical activity can actually reduce pain naturally and decrease dependence on pain medications."
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Happy New Year!


I can hardly believe it's already past the fifteenth of the first month of the year. Seems like it was just yesterday that I made that resolution that I was going to get the newsletter out before the fifteenth!

I hope you're doing better on your resolutions than I am on this one. In my defense (or maybe I'm just trying to justify my lateness) I have been busy. The schedule this month has been staying quite full. (Don't worry, we'll still make room for you!) In addition though I've been busy fixing leaking water lines (yes more, but not the ones I fixed this past summer) and getting electrical lines run and lights installed in the stalls for the horses.

Over the holidays we got a chance to catch up with friends it seems we only see at Christmas and New Year's parties. We hope that you shared good times with family or friends as well.

9 Ways to Reduce Stress by Simplifying Your Style
By  Brad Paul
 
The desire to reduce stress is a common goal for most people. We are so entrenched in our routines, habits, and ways of doing things we rarely stop and consider new ways of dealing with the stresses of daily living.

By simplifying your style, you are setting up how you are going to respond to stress creating events in advance. In other words, you are making a decision based on your desire to reduce stress in your life.

Your goal is to set up new ways of handling issues that bring about stress because of the negative emotions that they create. Here are 9 areas where you can simplify your style and in doing so reduce stress.

1. Stop Arguing

Arguing is a waste of time. No one ever wins. If you win an argument, the other person feels slighted and annoyed by you. If you lose, you feel this way about them.

Simplify your style into being a person who does not argue. You do this because you recognize the senselessness of arguing and your desire to reduce stress in your life.

2. Stop Giving Your Unsolicited Opinion

Closely related to arguing is the compulsion to give your opinion when you haven't been asked for it. People instantly become resistant and defensive when someone gives their unsolicited opinion.

There's a fine line between giving your opinion and offering a suggestion in a situation where some serious damage might occur. In these situations, I have found that asking carefully worded questions about the issue of concern works best.

Simplify your style into being a person who doesn't give your opinion unless you're asked for it emphatically. You do this to improve your relationships and reduce stress in your body.

3. Stop Reacting When Others Speak Angrily

When people talk angrily about something, our tenancy is to react to their anger by getting tight, defensive, and stressed. Unless the anger is directed at us, there is no logical reason to react this way.

You are not responsible for the other person's anger, and no one else is responsible for causing or getting rid of your anger. If someone insists on vocalizing their anger about something, don't allow yourself to be drawn into it.

Modify your style into being a person who does not react to another person's anger. You do this because you know that it will reduce stress in your body and protect your health.

4. Stop Requiring Perfection of Yourself & Others

Perfection is an impossible objective. In reality, the drive for perfection gets in the way of creativity.

Giving up the need for perfection is a clear-cut way to reduce stress. Simplify your style into being a person who doesn't require perfection by knowing that it's a fool's quest.

5. Stop Trying to Please Everyone

Trying to please everyone is insanity. If you consider all the variations of personalities and likes and dislikes of people, it should be obvious that trying to please everyone is impossible and a waste of time.

If you were to just focus on pleasing yourself, the other people around you would reap the benefits because you'd be more fun to be around. If you are constantly in a frenzy trying to please everyone around you, it's unlikely that you'll be in good spirits.

Modify your style into being a person who does not try to please everyone. You do this because you know it will lift the weight of the world off your shoulders and reduce stress in many areas of your social life.

6. Stop Trying to Make Everyone Like You

Do you like everyone you meet? No one does. Knowing this, why should you expect everyone to like you?

Many of us have the most trouble with this when it comes to family and friends. The hard truth is that sometimes your relationship will certain individuals will never be as close as you want or need. What's the answer? Find other people to achieve the closest you desire.

When we join a group that participates in an area that we identify with strongly we expect to have an easier time of getting along with the members. In many respects, you will, but personality differences will still be factor. If you join an organization with broader objectives like a fitness club as opposed to a vegetarian group, you may find more people that you get along with well.

Simplify your style into being a person who does not try to make everyone like you, but rather a person who relies on just being yourself. You do this because you understand the impossibility of making everyone like you and to reduce stress in your social activities.

7. Stop Grieving About Past Mistakes

Grieving about mistakes you've made in the past is a clear waste of time. The only possible outcome is that you'll feel depressed in the present! And when you feel depressed, you greatly reduce your ability to take constructive action today that will improve your future.

If we hope to make the most of the present, we must be in the best possible state of mind. To do that we must keep our focus in the moment and on what we want to experience. When we think about the things we want, we bring about positive feelings that will energize us rather than depress us.

Adjust your style into being a person who doesn't grieve about mistakes in the past but rather rejoices in what you have today and what you intend to manifest in the future. You do this because you know that by not grieving about past mistakes you reduce stress and increase the likelihood of positive results in the future.

8. Stop Worrying About What Might Happen in the Future

By worrying about what might happen in the future, we actually create the conditions for manifesting it. Most things we worry about never come true. According to the Law of Attraction, it takes a lot more negative thoughts to bring about bad results than it does to manifest positive outcomes. This explains for me why most of what we worry about never comes true. Worry is a waste of time. It's also very damaging to your physical and mental health.

Simplify your style into being a person who doesn't worry about what might happen in the future, but rather a person who imagines living the future that they desire in the present. You do this because you know that according to the Law of Attraction, you bring about what you think about and it will reduce stress in your body and life.

9. Stop Researching & Analyzing So Much and Start Doing

Researching and analyzing things in order to make the best possible decision is a good practice if it leads to a timely decision to act! If the research and analysis goes too far and decisions are postponed, this is a stress-producing problem.

The person who does no research makes decisions blindly, so little courage is required. The person who researches and analyzes things to nth degree usually lacks the courage to make decisions. The person who does a predetermined amount of research and analysis, makes timely decisions based the information at hand and their gut feelings, which requires considerable courage. The best practice then is to model your style after the people in the center of the continuum.

Modify your style in being a person who does a predetermined amount of research and analysis and then makes a timely decision based on the information gathered, gut feelings, and courage! You do this because you know that it will reduce stress and improve your productivity.

If you think about the people in your life you admire, many of them probably have the style that I am encouraging. This style will reduce stress, enhance your health, and earn respect from others. 

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About the Author:
 
Brad Paul is the founder of http://www.GuruHabits.com, which provides self improvement and lifestyle enhancement resources.
Brad left home at 15, lived in a boy's home, graduated college with honors, headed a marketing group responsible for $400 million in annual sales, started a non-profit social services organization, wrote 3 books, and now works on projects that improve people's lives.
Copyright (C) 2009 by Self Improvement Online, Inc. Reprinted by permission.

Water and Our Bodies
What is the most obvious characteristic of water?  That's right--it's fluid; water moves!  Trickling in streams, rushing in rivers, slowly moving through lakes and even moving in currents and tides in our oceans and seas.  Heated it dissipates in the air as steam and frozen it ever so slowly creeps across the mountainous landscape as glaciers.  It is water's nature to move.  When it doesn't move it is stagnate and becomes a breeding ground for disease spreading organisms. 
 
The human body is composed of between 55 and 65 percent water.  (The variation is due to the amount of adipose [fat] tissue.  More adipose equals less water.)  Due to this large percentage of water comprising our bodies, there is a valid parallel we can draw: if healthy water is fluid (i.e. moving), then a moving human body will be healthier than a sedentary one.  Basic human anatomy confirms this.  Our bodies are designed to be erect and in motion. Exercise physiology also bears this out.  When we move enough (adequate exercise) our muscles remain strong and supple.  When we don't move (or we don't move enough) our muscles begin to atrophy and lose tone making movement more difficult creating a downward spiral of more inactivity. 
 
While we are designed to be erect and in motion most of us find ourselves sitting for long periods of time at our desks at work and in front of the computer or TV at home.  Stress also factors into this equation.  Since stress causes constriction of tissue it too results in less ability to move.  Stress creates tension headaches, tight muscles and stiff joints-all lack of movement issues! 
 
What must we do?  Become more like our primary component-water.  Learn to move and move freely.  You don't have to go to the gym to exercise or become a triathlete; walk, dance, stretch, play.  Get up from the couch, the desk, the table, and move!
 
If it's been awhile since you were active your body will resist this "new concept of movement."  But keep going, just as water doesn't have a channel to run in the first time it flows over new terrain (but it quickly creates one), with continued effort movement becomes easier, more natural and more comfortable.  You will soon begin to feel the freedom of movement that we see in children.
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May you find peace, tranquility, harmony and hope as you journey through this new year.
 
Yours for better health,
 
 
 
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