If you are someone who is single and looking to find fulfillment, freedom and ease in the dating world whether it's to date to have fun or to find your dream relationship, stop here! If you are ready to be the Source of your dating experience, keep reading.
If you are able to get clear about what you need in a relationship, clear about what fulfills you in a person AND yourself, you'll be pleasantly surprised how the dating and relationship process becomes much easier. Gosh, I wish I would have known these tools 25 years ago, it would have saved me a lot of wasted time and grief.
Let me give you a personal example. Several years ago, I'm sitting at my computer reading an email from guy I was dating ("was" is the key word) and thought to myself, "Why can't he just call me and tell me the things in his email? Am I too scary to talk too?" I asked him this when we spoke on the phone and he said, "Oh I just like to think and then formulate my thoughts and put them in an email." I responded, "Oh I get it." I explained to him, "I prefer live communication so I can connect with you and make sure you are heard."
He continued to email which was fine. Although I was still puzzled about why he couldn't just call and tell me. Though I was glad he was in communication. Over the 8 weeks we were dating I often found myself annoyed and frustrated, and started to judge him as I don't think email and text is the healthiest way to communicate.
Here's the good news, I didn't have to make it wrong anymore that he liked to communicate via email and text, that's what he prefers, and I realized that what I NEED is "live" communication more often than he does. When "I" realized this the lights went on and the level of freedom I experienced was unbelievable! I didn't have to be annoyed, I could stop comparing myself to others, I could stop judging men if they didn't like live communication, and the best part, I could stop doubting myself.
After this experience I started to look for someone who also believes in live communication and I found him! This may sound like a small example, however it gave me a sense of myself I never had. If we can celebrate our uniqueness and look for a partner that satisfies those "key" needs, like the one I shared above, you will start to notice your level of fulfillment skyrocket!
Real World Dating Dynamics is revolutionizing dating and communicating which allows people to find the person that's right for them, and have fun doing it! If you'd like to know more, please visit www.firstbaseandbeyond.com for workshop outcomes, dates, locations and costs. If you want to participate in a unique and unimaginable workshop, this is for you!
