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Under the Wire!
Hi Everyone!
I seem to be coming in right under the wire
on the newsletter, just so much going on! If
all goes according to plan you'll actually
see the February
newsletter in the middle of the month and
hopefully a couple bachelorette searches as
well.
Next weekend, February 7th, is the
4th Annual Rocky Mountain
Singles Summit. They have added Speed Dating
to this year's event and the evening is jam
packed with informational sessions, food,
drinks, music, keynote, and lock and key.
Early registration (for a lower cost) ends
Saturday the 6th. Check it out at www.rmsinglessummit.com
Our next Women's Informational Meeting is
on Thursday, February 12th at our DTC office.
These events are always free. Check out
thislink
for more information and to
pre-register.
Check out our latest ad in February's
5280 Magazine, pg. 76!! This is the Singles
in the City issue, pick up a copy today.
Ladies, a polite reminder. I know you are
probably nervous and ending a date can
sometimes be awkward but don't forget to
say thank you at the end of your date.
Especially for those of you who are clients
of Ignite, since the men are paying for the
dates. Yes, they expect to, but a heartfelt
thank you goes a long way.
As always, please let me know if you have any
questions about how Ignite works and how we
can save you time and energy in finding your
perfect match.
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Saying "I Love You"
This article is courtesy of my friends at www.YourDatingIQ.com
Thanks to Jeannine for letting us reprint it
here. Read on for some great advice to help you
through the tangled web that is saying I Love
You.
I am one of those people who says "I love
you" to all of my friends. When I say it, it
means that I really care! At the end of a
phone call, I will end it with an "I Love
You!" After we meet for lunch, I will give a
friend a hug and an "I Love You!" I am an "I
Love You" junkie, but I mean it! I really do
care!
The words "I Love You" mean different things
to different people. Some people rarely
heard those words from parents as they were
growing up and they seem foreign to say to
others. Other people feel comfortable
throwing the phrase around willy-nilly. But
when it comes to saying "I Love You!" to
someone you are dating, it can be quite
stressful!
When we are dating someone we really care
about, we want to hear those words. We
wonder if we should be the one to say them
first. What happens if we say "IT" and we
don't hear it back? Or worse, the person
breaks up with us because they don't feel the
same way!
Here are some simple guidelines to saying "I
Love You!"
- Never tell a woman or man you love them
until you are in an exclusive relationship.
- Don't say "IT" to try to get your partner
in bed. Mean it!
- Don't say it the first time during sex!
- Don't say "IT" to test where the
relationship is going.
- Don't say "I Love You!" because you feel
the other person isn't as into you as you are
into them and by saying "I Love You" it will
spark more feelings.
- Let the lust die down and get to know the
person before you blurt out an "I Love You!"
- Say it only if you mean it!
- If you have gotten into relationships too
quickly that fizzled out, wait to say "IT"
for at least three months.
As a way to pave the path to saying "I Love
You," start by telling your partner the
things you love about them. Here are some
examples:
- I love that you are thoughtful and call
me every day.
- I love how you ask me about my day and
really listen.
- I love when you surprise me with flowers.
- I love the way you treat your children.
- I love when you bring takeout and just
want to spend time together.
- I love to hear you talk about your work
and how much you enjoy it.
Using the words "I love" when giving your
partner a compliment will begin to pave the
path to saying the BIG "I love you!"
So what if you say it and you don't hear it
back! Sometimes, the words mean a great deal
to someone. They might have only spoken
these words to one or two people their whole
life. "I Love You!" can mean "I plan to
marry you!" to some people. So saying it
lightly or prematurely isn't going to happen.
If you say "I Love You" and you don't hear it
back, don't be alarmed. At a later date,
have a conversation about your feelings and
try to understand what the words "I Love You"
mean to your partner. This conversation can
build great intimacy between you. If you
learn that they don't care about you in the
same way, you at least have that information
and can make the decision to stay or leave
the relationship. Or you may learn that they
do love you and just have a hard time saying
those 3 little words.
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Fitness For Fun
This is Colorado, the land of outdoor
opportunity and plenty of other fitness
related activities. Why not see what your
date enjoys doing outside. Maybe you both
roller blade, hike, ski, golf, or love to
throw a frisbee. Hit the park, the course or
the slopes and get in a little bit of mild
exercise. Just take it easy, you don't want
to sweat too much on a first date! Then go
grab an ice cream, soda, or other drink after
to refresh.
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Single Professionals Networking
The first true merger between online dating
and real world networking has finally arrived
in Colorado. Single
Professionals Networking is a new online
dating service with networking events too.
This site is relatively new and is ideal for
those of you interested in a more selective
online dating experience. Membership requires
a background check, employment verification
and profile review. Plus $10 of every
membership fee goes toward a charity you
select. Membership rates are currently
$15-$30 per month.
Ignite Matchmaking registered clients who
join can take advantage of our Matchmaker
Customer membership, 1 year for only $99.
Just enter promo code MMCIgnite.
Other readers of this newsletter can take
advantage of our 1 year membership for our 6
month pricing. Select our six month package
and enter promo code MMC6for6Ignite.
The pricing is great as SPN builds their
clientele in the Denver market. Look forward
to networking events and discounts in the
Denver market soon!
Visit www.SingleProfessionalsNetworking.com
for more information.
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