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September 2008

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Welcome Autumn!

Hi Everyone! Hard to believe that September is already on it's way out! Cooler weather, leaves changing, and a great time to get in some final outdoor activities before (gasp!) the snow and cold arrive.
We did our first ever Bachelorette Search event in August and it was a big success. These events are for women only and give us a chance to meet a bunch of fabulous women. We had great women attend, learned a lot and will do some more of these in the near future, look for information on our next one in an upcoming newsletter.
We are launching a new ad campaign this month, check out our newest ad in September's 5280 Magazine and let us know what you think. Our ad is in the Dining Guide.
Our next Women's Informational Meeting is on Wednesday, October 8th. This event is always free. Check out our Women's Events Page for more information and to register.
As always, please let me know if you have any questions about how Ignite works and how we can save you time and stress!!

Sheryl Williams
Professional Matchmaker
303-929-7304
http://www.ignitematchmaking.com

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Updates from the Annual Matchmaker's Conference

For those of you that were around this time last year, you'll remember the updates from the annual Matchmaker's Conference in NYC. So here you go with some more fun information to share at that next cocktail party!

The Stats:
As usual the conference kicked off with Online Dating and Social Networking information guru, Mark Brooks from Online Personals Watch and Social Networking Watch.

Ever wonder what the top internet dating site in the U.S. is? Well, it's Singlesnet.com. Eharmony and Match don't even make the top 5.

Some more interesting data -

  1. Match.com's traffic is down 20% over last year.
  2. All those "casual" adult dating sites such as AdultFriendFinder.com run at a ratio of 30:1 men to women.
  3. 24% of women would rather give up sex for 1 month than their cell phones.
  4. 30% of men will answer their cell phone during sex.
  5. Greatest online dating spoof website - PoorMatch.com - hysterically funny!
  6. Check out PoisonPen.com for cards that communicate your true feelings!
  7. WealthyMen.com is the only "millionaire" website that actually verifies income levels of it's members.
  8. Within the next 5 years it's expected that online dating sites will offer matchmaking packages through local matchmakers in your area. So skip over the online folks and go direct!

Big Debates:
In honor of the upcoming Presidential Debates we had an official debate of our own. Each person debating had to pick a side, whether they agreed with it or not, and argue their point. We then picked a winner of each debate. Some of the topics and the winners:

  1. When to Have Sex: Passion vs. Rules. Passion won this one, so as Nike says "Just Do It."
  2. Older Men for Younger Women: Right or Wrong. The Wrongs won this one. Sorry guys but typically she only dates you for the money or she has a daddy complex.
  3. Dating Your Client: Boundary or Opportunity. This one was tough to call, but seems the Boundaries won, clients are off limits for the single matchmakers out there.

The Keynote:
We got a great lesson from Susan Rabin, Director of the School of Flirting in NYC. Some tips from Susan:

  1. Be generous with sincere compliments
  2. Make him/her feel like he/she is the only one in the room.
  3. Your body is speaking - send a positive message.
  4. Improve your conversational skills.
  5. Talking too much is a sure sign you aren't listening.
  6. Use those flirting eyes - make eye contact, but don't stare!
  7. Smile, Smile, Smile!!

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Dance Lessons

Believe it or not, there are many great options in Denver for taking dance lessons. Whether it's a Country Western line dance, Salsa, Tango or Ballroom you can find it most any night of the week. And what a great opportunity to get closer to your date! Laugh, have some fun and don't take it too seriously! Just watch out for each other's toes. Let us know if you want some suggested locations!

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Solution to the Doggie Doldrums

This month I'd like to introduce you to Aubrey Schwenk owner of The Pet Valet, Inc.. I've known Aubrey for a while now and let me tell you, she is passionate about what she does and would love to take care of your furry friend! Check them out on the web at www.thepetvalet.biz or contact them at #303-832-1985. They look forward to meeting you and your pets!

Aubrey has provided 5 Tips on How to Find a Reliable Pet Care Provider. She's not shy, so feel free to check her out!

  1. Ask friends, family members, groomers, and your vet for a recommendation. You can also go online to petsit.com and find a sitter in your immediate area by typing in your zip code.
  2. Be sure your sitter is bonded and insured and offers references.
  3. Sitter should offer a consultation visit so you are able to meet with him/her before leaving your pet in their care.
  4. Sitter should have a backup plan if he/she is unable to care for your pet in your absence.
  5. Sitter should also have a client contract that states their exact terms of service and expected payment.

The Pet Valet, Inc. currently serves the Central Denver areas of Cherry Creek, Hilltop, Downtown, Highlands, Capitol Hill, Congress Park, Washington Park, Bonnie Brae, and Park Hill. They are now also in Stapleton and Lowry.

The Pet Valet

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Single Mingle 5K Run & Evening mixer
$10October 11th - 9:00 a.m. & 7:00 p.m., City Park
Oktoberfest
September 26-28 - Larimer between 20th & 22nd
Boulder Farmers' Market
Saturdays Thru October 1st - Meet Like Minded People
The Great American Beer Festival
$20 - $50October 9-11 - Convention Center
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