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Serving the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Ally Community in Southwest Michigan
February 2010
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From the Director
I am often reminded that to celebrate history is to ensure
that we will learn from the past and move forward to build a better
future. As communities around the
country celebrate Black History Month, we would be remiss not to acknowledge a great
leader such as Bayard Rustin, who many consider to be the architect of the
civil rights movement. I encourage you
to read The Audible Snap by Santiago Lopez, below, to learn more about Bayard
Rustin and his contributions as an openly gay civil rights leader.
This month also holds another cultural celebration and one
of my favorite holidays, Chinese New Year.
Every year I look forward to embracing the rich cultural traditions of
my family and feasting on familiar New Years fare with people all around the
world. It is a time to reflect on the
past and the future and to spread cheer with strangers and family alike.
This year I am excited to ring in another year with my new
family and friends here in southwest Michigan with our Annual Report
presentation. Come join us in
celebration of another successful year and learn more about what you can look
forward to in the coming years as the OutCenter continues to serve the lesbian,
gay, bisexual and transgender community here in southwest Michigan.
Jennifer C. HsuExecutive Director |

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The Audible SnapBy Santiago N. Lopez  Many of you may already know that February is Black History
Month, but do you know anything about the life of Bayard Rustin, who many
people call the architect of the civil rights movement?
A full accounting of the life and times of Bayard Rustin can
be experienced through the film "Brother Outsider," ( http://rustin.org) while a more abbreviated
synopsis can be found in the POV section of the PBS website ( http://www.pbs.org/pov/brotheroutsider). What we learn from the PBS site is that
long before Martin Luther King, Jr. became a national figure, Bayard Rustin
routinely put his life on the line as a crusader for racial justice. Rustin's
commitment to pacifism and his Gandhian nonviolent beliefs made him a pioneer
in the 1940s, and captured King's imagination in the 1950s. In 1963, with more
than 20 years of organizing experience behind him, Rustin brought his unique
skills to the crowning glory of his civil rights career: his work organizing
the historic March on Washington, the biggest protest America had ever
witnessed. Rustin organized the 1963 March on Washington in just a few weeks
and successfully brought together a quarter of a million people from all over
the country to advocate for their rights (before the dawn of text messages,
emails, fax machines, and computers).
But Rustin was also seen as a political liability. He was
openly gay during the fiercely homophobic era of the 40s and 50s; as a result,
the very civil rights movement he helped create frequently shunned him.
Soon after the 63 March, Senator Strom Thurmond railed
against Rustin as a "Communist, draft-dodger, and homosexual" and
produced an FBI photograph of Rustin talking to Martin Luther King while King
was bathing, to imply that there was a sexual relationship between the two.
Both men denied the allegation of an affair, but, despite King's support, NAACP
chairman Roy Wilkins did not want Rustin to receive any public recognition for
his role in planning the march.
Though Rustin was polite enough not to speak publicly about
his homosexuality, he was personally open about it. He had an ease with himself
as a gay man that paralleled his self-confidence speaking to all audiences,
white and black. Then, in 1953, when Rustin was 40, he was arrested as a
"suspected sexual pervert" in a highly publicized case in
California. A lesser man might have been
silenced, but not Rustin. He went on and became a fierce advocate for Israel,
labor unions, nuclear disarmament, and against the war in Vietnam. In the early 1970's Rustin served as the
first Black trustee at the University of Notre Dame.
An obituary that appeared in the August 25, 1987 edition of
the New York Times reported, "Looking back at his career, Mr. Rustin, a
Quaker, once wrote: 'The principal factors which influenced my life are 1) nonviolent tactics; 2) constitutional means; 3) democratic procedures; 4)
respect for human personality; 5) a belief that all people are one.'"
"When an individual is
protesting society's refusal to acknowledge his dignity as a human being, his
very act of protest confers dignity on him." ...Bayard Rustin said with an audible snap!
To watch a segment about Bayard Rustin from the documentary "Out of the Past" - 400 Years of Lesbian
and Gay History in America
go to: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SO5EaN2phd4 |
Outfilm Movie Review Straight But Not Narrow - A Different POV on LGBT Films By Gretchen and Lynn Davis
During the Christmas and New Year's holidays both Lynn and I were intently looking for films to watch that were a bit "outside or comfort range" - we found a few, but that's for another review - and we were looking for a film with a winter holiday theme to review for the OutCenter's newsletter. We stumbled across Make the Yuletide Gay, an enjoyable, independent film released in 2009, with a silly, simple plot. It was just what we were looking for, all wrapped-up for the holidays! The Plot: The film is set in the Midwest. It centers around Olaf Gunnunderson (Keith Jordan) known as "Gunn" to his family, and his boyfriend Nathan (Adamo Ruggiero). Gunn is a college senior, who kisses his boyfriend goodbye, and heads home (by himself) to be with his parents over the holidays. Nathan's plan to rendezvous with his parents is cancelled at the last minute, so he decides to follow Gunn "home". Nathan's idea is to share the holiday with Gunn, and his parents. The problem? Nathan does not know Gunn is not out to his parents! Mom (Kelly Keaston) is Gunn's bosomy, giggly mother, who has a penchant for bedazzled holiday sweaters. Gunn's father (Derek Long) is a college professor, and a 40-year stoner with well-baked grey-matter. During the holidays, the parents try to set Gunn up with his high school girlfriend, Abby. When his Nathan shows up on their doorstep, it is the start of all kinds of awkward and amusing situations. Nathan is forced to be just "a good friend". In the end Gunn must finally decide to embrace who he is, who Nathan is, and tell his parents the truth. With pressure mounting from all sides, will Gunn come out before the truth does? Does Nathan leave him because he is living a lie? Will Gunn's parents accept his news? Our review: Director Rob Williams has written and directed a series of LGBT themed films, but in Make the Yuletide Gay, Williams has written and delivered a script with depth, laughter, and a great deal of heart. He has managed to provide a vehicle which centers around one of the most difficult situations an LGBT individual will ever have to put themselves in - coming out to "the parents". The movie's problems: It sometimes seems full of over-the-top characters, plot clichés, and bad jokes about who gets to sleep on the top or bottom bunk. It suffers from low production values, and was obviously made on a micro-budget. Unfortunately, the budget shortcomings show in everything production-related from the lighting, to areas of film quality and editing.
Some things that work: Keith Jordan is charming as Gunn, although his presence is sometimes so low-key that he almost disappears into the scene. Adamo Ruggiero has a definite impish appeal as the more flamboyant half of a cute gay couple. Fortunately writer/director Rob Williams found two talented leading men who possess great comic timing. For me this adorable duo make the movie worth seeing. The movie also has a great theme song played over the closing credits.
Our Recommendation: Make the Yuletide Gay is an ultra-light comedy with two charming lead performances by Keith Jordan and Adam Ruggiero. We hope to see them both again on-screen in the near future. We would recommend this movie to anyone looking for a "feel-good" pick-me-up. It is a kindhearted tale, and at times the story could use a bit more drama, but it was enjoyable time spent in watching. We both gave the film a thumbs-up. I enjoyed the characters and theme, and would recommend it to others, even with its shortfalls. The two main characters are credible and endearing, and the coming of age/coming out story, set during the holidays was heartwarming. Lynn thought the plot is pretty predicable, and the humor and puns were groan-worthy at times, but still enjoyed the film. He came away from our screening feeling it was a happy, silly movie with a heartwarming ending also.
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OutCenter Events and Programs
ALIVE Youth Group
Each Sunday, 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. at the OutCenter www.facebook.com/aliveyouthOur youth group meetings provide youth 14-20 years old a space in which to meet
other lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning peers in a safe
environment. Meetings are facilitated by trained volunteers and are held every
Sunday. Meet new people and have fun without even
trying, drop-ins always welcome! HIV/AIDS Testing
Wednesday, February 17, 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. at the OutCenter
The OutCenter and CARES are
partnering to offer free and confidential HIV counseling and needle-free testing. No appointment required. Out Girls
Saturday, February 20, 12:30 p.m. Special Luncheon Event at Chan's Garden, 310 State Street in downtown Saint Joseph
Out Girls began
as an offshoot of our women's support group, designed to be a relaxed,
social gathering that is open to all lesbian, bisexual, transgender,
and allied women of our community. Gloria Weberg, Out
Girls moderator, is happy to announce that the January 2010 Out Girls
will be meeting at a special day and time for lunch at Chan's Gardenat
12:30 pm.
We are
concerned for everyone's safe travel during the winter weather, so we
have chosen to hold the February gathering at lunch time when the roads
should be cleared and salted, and we might see a bit of winter sunshine
that will hopefully improve driving conditions.
Chan's Garden
has been a main stay in downtown Saint Joseph for over 25 years. Chan's
provides a friendly atmosphere, with a beautiful, oriental-inspired
dining area. The menu features a great assortment of Chinese favorites
and specialty dishes, including appetizers, combination plates, and
lunch selections. All lesbian, bi, queer, transgender, and allied
women are invited to attend this social gathering.
OutCenter Annual ReportSaturday, February 27, 3:00 to 5:00 p.m. at the Citadel Music Center, 204 Water Street in Benton Harbor
Join the OutCenter for appetizers and refreshments as we meet with our supporters for our annual report which will include an overview of the past year, plans for the coming year, a review of our financial health, and an opportunity for you to meet with staff and members of the OutCenter Board of Directors. RSVP by February 22 to info@outcenter.org or (269) 925-8330.
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Support Groups
OutCenter Adult Support Group
Each Monday, from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. at the OutCenter. The adult support group is professionally facilitated and provides participants with a safe, therapeutic, and LGBT-affirming environment to share their experiences.
PFLAG St. Joseph/Berrien County
Sunday, Feburary 14, from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. the local PFLAG chapter meets at the Berrien Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, 4340 Lincoln Avenue, Saint Joseph. On February 14, the time for sharing will be followed by viewing and discussion of excerpts from the Antonio David Garcia documentary FENCES. For the chapter web page, click PFLAG. |
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Community Events
Lake Michigan College Gay Pride Week - February 8-12
Monday, February 8, 1 p.m., at The Gathering Spot Seminar: I am Transgender with LMC student Dee
Wednesday, February 10, 1 p.m. at The Gathering Spot Seminar: LGBT and the Church: Supportive Viewpoints, featuring
Rev. Kevin J. McLemore
Thursday, February 11Gender Switch Day: support transgender persons by bending your gender; see if you can
"be" the other gender for a day
Friday, February 12, 8 p.m. Drag Show: The Velvet Crush, a Drag King and Drag Queen Performance Hanson Theatre, Lake Michigan College Mendel Center Tickets $10/$5 for students. Advance tickets available at the OutCenter
Live the Rainbow Colors all Week Friday: wear blue or purple
Southwest Michigan Symphony Orchestra - AroundTown Series
Friday, February 9, 7:30 p.m. Southwest Michigan Symphony Orchestra presents Selections from "Rent" at the Livery (190 5th Street Cast members from Chicago-based NightBlue Performing Arts Company will sing selections from their upcoming performance of Rent, opening in Chicago on February 26, 2010. Known for depth and an innovative approach to performance, NightBlue promises a fresh look on a Broadway classic. Tickets available online
G2H2 - Guys & Gals Happy Hour
Wednesday, February 10, 5:30-9:00 p.m. at Establishment Supper Club
(311 West Market, Benton Harbor, Michigan). G2H2 is a community social
event that provides an LGBT-friendly venue in which all people are
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Old Lesbian Herstory Project
The
Old Lesbian Oral Herstory Project seeks to find and document the lives
of old lesbians who were born in the early years of the last century.
The lives that they led were difficult and in many ways difficult for
us, today, to understand. There were no LGBT publications, institutions
or even personal examples to help guide their lives. They had to make
it up as they went along. We seek to record their oral histories, known
here as their herstories, to preserve what will soon be lost when they
are all gone.
You can access more information
about the OLOHP at our website, www.olohp.org
Thanks,
Arden
Eversmeyer Director of the Old Lesbian Oral Herstory Project | |
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Volunteer Orientation
OutCenter was started in 2003 through the hardwork of passionate and committed volunteers. Today, we rely on the contributions of active volunteers to make our work possible. Volunteers serve as group facilitators, front-office greeters, part-time librarians, event organizers, committee members and more.
Interested in volunteering? Come join us for a one-hour orientation to learn how you can get more involved with the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and ally community in southwest Michigan.
We will be offering volunteer orientations the first Saturday of each month at noon here at the OutCenter. RSVP required to info@outcenter.org
The next volunteer orientation will be taking place at noon, March 6 at the OutCenter. | |
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