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December 2006

Greetings!

Welcome, including fourteen new subscribers this month, to the December 2006 issue of Tony's Coaching Tip.

It only seems a few days ago that I wrote and sent out the November coaching tip. Consequently there is no Bits and pieces section, simply because I haven't finished reading any books in the past three weeks. However, I am in the middle of a couple of good ones that I hope to tell you about at the end of January.

Once again apologies are in order to those deck chair sports fans and the "Am I bovvered about sport at all?" contingent. My coaching tip has been inspired by my running for the second straight month, but I say blame it on the organisers of the London Marathon who sent me confirmation of my place in the 2007 marathon, a few days after I sent out last month's tip.

I hope you enjoy the tip this month and, if you do, forward it on to friends and colleagues and tell them to subscribe too.

in this issue
  • Quote of the month
  • It's nearly here!
  • Feature: The fun factor

  • It's nearly here!
    Here comes Christmas

    I can't believe it's nearly Christmas and a brand new year again. With our Christmas tree still in the back garden and a bathroom that is approximately 30 percent functional, to say that I'm not fully prepared yet is an understatement.

    In last month's coaching tip, I made passing reference to my tip from last December in which I introduced the concept of a New Year's intention as an alternative to the usual resolutions. For those of you who have not been subscribers for a year and would like to receive a copy of last year's tip, just send me an email and I'll get a copy out to you.


    Feature: The fun factor
    Fun running in the sea

    After the initial excitement of receiving my marathon place, I thought about where I went wrong last year and wondered how I was going to be able to get to the appropriate level of fitness in time for next April, without falling into the same trap of overtraining. I then thought about the coaching tip that I had so recently written.

    Suddenly the excitement evaporated as I remembered that marathon training programmes are invariably about hard work and just getting through what you need to do. What will happen to my new found fun and the sheer pleasure of running just for the sake of running? Can marathon training and fun coexist side by side?

    I knew for certain that I didn’t want to commit to a training program that I found stifling, restrictive and fundamentally unenjoyable. So I made a decision there and then that my goal for the marathon and for all of my training leading up to it, is to have fun and enjoy every moment of it more than I have enjoyed any of my previous 3 marathons. That's it, I am going to completely resist aiming for any time-oriented goal.

    Now I know that the words enjoy and marathon don’t usually appear in the same sentence in most people’s vocabulary, even that of seasoned marathon runners (remember those pictures of Paula Radcliffe sitting at the side of the road at the 2004 Olympic Marathon in Athens). The marathon, more than most other sporting events, has a definite link to the old “no pain, no gain” philosophy and the concept of suffering in order to gain and feel the achievement.

    I’m being rather radical here but I don’t believe it has to be that way.

    So, I have made a commitment to resist the pressures on me, which I know will be many. External pressure from other runners and even non-runners, whose usual question is always along the lines of “how long do you hope to run it in?”, as that seems to be the only way most of us can measure how well someone has done in a marathon. And I have to be honest, I know there will also be internal pressure from myself at times when I think “if I just train a bit harder I might be able to beat my previous time”.

    In actual fact, I believe that anyone who takes part in a marathon, whether they complete it or not, whether they walk the whole thing or not, deserves to feel proud and also a huge sense of achievement.

    The next thought that entered my head was “how am I going to measure how well I do against my goal of having fun?” Most of you are probably aware of the SMART acronym that applies to goal setting. SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable (or Agreed depending on who you talk to), Realistic and Timed. Now while I believe that my goal of having fun in, and leading up to, the marathon is achievable, realistic and timed, it does rather fall down on the specific and measurable fronts.

    How can you measure fun? How much fun is enough? Well, obviously it will have to be personal to me. But what I’ve come up with is a fun factor, which can be anything from 0 (as in no fun at all) to 10 (the most fun you can have with your clothes on). I have started thinking about how much fun I’m having on every training run, and I intend to do it on marathon day as well. If it is below 7 out of 10, my task is to change something there and then to make it a 7 or higher.

    I have never been a fan of keeping a training log but I have also started recording each run in my diary with how long I ran, my fun factor score and why I gave it that score. That is all I’m recording. I see this as an excellent way of also understanding what is really important to me (both in my running and in my life).

    So, after my initial excitement at receiving my race entry confirmation and then the concern that I wouldn’t be able to maintain the fun in my running and train for a marathon, I’m now more excited than ever.

    I have also adapted the same fun factor concept to my working days. Once again, anything below 7 out of 10 requires my immediate intervention and a change.

    My challenge for you is to try the same fun factor scoring to your own life. What about that for a New Year’s resolution, to take on responsibility for keeping your own fun factor above 7 out of 10?

    And when you don’t succeed, congratulate yourself on your failure and take action to get to 7 or above again. Let me know what you discover from the exercise. I’m already up and running, so to speak.


    Thanks for reading. Next issue will be on the 31st of January.

    Until next time,

    Tony

    Tony's Coaching Tip is published on the last Wednesday of each month to challenge, stimulate and inspire people who want to unlock their own possibilities and learn in the process. It is written by Tony Phillips, who coaches dynamic individuals and teams to swing out and play a bigger game. Worldwide.

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    Quote of the month
    Tony (cropped)

    “Prosperity is a way of living and thinking, and not just money or things. Poverty is a way of living and thinking, and not just a lack of money or things.”

    – Eric Butterworth



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