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PFA - Who is Eligible?
Pay It Forward
We Believe You
Cell Phones Save Lives
Teen News For Parents
 
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Protection From Abuse Order  (PFA)

 

STOP for PFA 

 

WHO IS ELIGIBLE? 

An adult who is being physically abused or threatened with harm by someone related by blood or a current or former sexual or intimate partner.

 

A parent or guardian must file on behalf of a minor. Child abuse or sexual assault of a child are eligibilities for a minor victim.

 

Temporary PFA:
A temporary PFA is obtained by going to the courthouse - a CS Advocate will be
called.  The attorney whose number is provided on the temporary PFA will need to be called by the person requesting the PFA.  This visit could involve an extended period of time depending on the Judge's schedule.

 

Final PFA:
The person requesting the PFA should report to the courthouse at 8:30 AM.  Victims and abusers will be in separate sections of the courthouse.  The person requesting the PFA should dress appropriately and children (except those who are the plaintiff) are not permitted in court.

 

Emergency PFA:

These PFA's are granted from 3:00  PM on Friday until 8:00 AM on Monday and on holidays.

 

Call LEOC at 724-656-9300 or the CS at 724-652-9036.  Emergency PFA's expire at 8:00 AM on the first day court is open.

 

PFAs cannot be filed against neighbors, friends, employers, etc.  These are cases for law enforcement. 

A SUCCESS STORY | Pay It Forward 

Stephanie Mastropietro, a therapist at Cray Youth Services and an extraordinary young woman, was instrumental in initiating an amazing "Pay It Forward" project that benefited the Crisis Shelter

 

David Copper, Executive Director of Cray Youth and Family Services, offered each staff member at Cray $200.00 to be used to help better him or herself.  This money could be used for a  fitness membership, purchase of exercise equipment, a class or any other wellness item.  Stephanie asked if she might use her money as a Pay It Forward Project, which in turn would help better her spiritually. Mr. Copper agreed so Stephanie asked each of the eight girls in the Mullen group home to write proposals for local agencies to receive the $200.00, with Cray staff choosing the winner anonymously

 

The young women researched local agencies, spoke to people within that agency about their needs and wrote the most heartfelt proposals.  These essays were so moving that other staff at Cray Youth and  Family were complelled to offer their $200.00 so each young woman's agency would receive a monetary donation.  There are moments in life that bring you to your knees, sometimes bad, sometimes good.  This was one of those good moments for Stephanie.  What had started as her teaching a lesson in gratitude to these young women turned into a lesson in humility for Stephanie.  The two young women who chose the Crisis  Shelter to write about each had benefited in some way from Crisis Shelter services. 

 

One would think that the blessings afforded in this Pay It Forward project were abundant at this point.   However, the greatest blessing came December 1, 2010 when each girl, now all discharged from the program, were invited back to Cray for a Pay It Forward dinner in honor of their hard work. 

 

During dinner, the thank you letters from local agencies were read.  The young women were told that their essays had been so touching that it planted a seed within the agency and, and because of them, that seed had bloomed into another Pay It Forward.  Two staff members at the Crisis Shelter were so encouraged by these women's stories that they also Paid It Forward and two additional charities benefited from their generosity.  

  

Stephanie and the entire Cray staff were again humbled by these phenomenal young women, some who are excelling, some of whom are still struggling and in need of the agencies that they wrote essays for, but each who expressed gratitude. 

                 

One of the young women who wrote an essay for the Crisis Shelter asked to speak at the dinner.  She simply said of the Crisis Shelter, "Thank you, when I am there it feels like home."  

 

There is no greater praise we can receive;  it is our goal to create an atmosphere where our residents and clients feel safe and comfortable - where healing can begin and hope can be restored.

Believe Me When I Tellbmwit yard sign

    During the month of April, Child Abuse Awareness Month, residents of Lawrence County came together to demonstrate a coordinated community response to violence and abuse.  

    Shining a light on child sexual assault, nearly 3000 "We Believe You When You Tell" yard signs were displayed telling children that we will believe them when they tell. 

 

 

Unused Cell Phones Can Save Lives

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    What do you do with those old cell phones that you just replaced?  Donate them to a worthy cause. 

    The Crisis Shelter collects unused cell phones and gives them to women in crisis who can use them in an emergency to make 911 calls only.  The phones that the Crisis Shelter can't use are sent to a collection center to be refurbished and sent on to other shelters turning the project into a fund-raiser.  If your school, church or business would like to be a collection site, please call the Crisis Shelter at 724-652-9206 x105.

Teen News for Parents 
    Cyberbulling...40% of teens with Internet access have reported being bullied online.  Cyberbullling is when a child, preteen or teen is tormented, threatened, harassed, humiliated, embarrassed or otherwise targeted by another child, preteen or teen using the internet, interactive and digital technologies or mobile phones.  Cyberbulling must have a minor on both sides of the interaction.
What can you do?

 

Upcoming Events:

 

5K Run/Walk - October 8th

http://crisisshelter.org/2011/05/10/5k-race

Pearson Park, Neshannock Township

New Castle, PA 16105

 

Dining For Good Living - November 18th - if you would like to receive an invitation please email  info@crisisshelter.org with your name and address 

http://crisisshelter.org/2011/09/11/dining-for-good-living/ 

Villa Banquet Center

New Castle, PA 16101    

 

 

 

Contact Info
Barb Clingensmith
Office Manager/Editor

724-652-9206 x123

info@crisisshelter.org

 
 
  
The Crisis Shelter of Lawrence County empowers and advocates for those affected by domestic violence, sexual assault and other violent crimes.  We inspire and educate citizens to create safer communities and break the cycle of violence.