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Our facebook topic for August was on "Happiness",
"Goal Setting" in September and "Communication" this October.
These were the most popular posts voted on by our readers and are presented here to our supporters not connected to our facebook site.
Enjoy!
'Speak' more kindly to yourself.
Be aware of how your unhealthy thoughts may be contributing -and continuing- your unhappiness or depression.
Notice how your mood can shift with something as simple as a full breath and by physically standing straighter.
Goals: "Turn It Around!"Remember: We can only begin from where we currently are- Waiting until "things" get better before making improvements in our lives in unproductive. Recognize we have a choice. Know that what we believe about our current circumstances has a powerful effect on how we view our life, our health and our ability to reach our short and long term goals.
Be Aware and Move towards Shifting your Perspective!
"Oh, I see," said the Tin Woodsman. "But after all, brains are not the best things in the world." Have you any?" enquired the Scarecrow. "No, my head is quite empty,"answered the Woodsman; "but once I had brains and a heart also; so having tried them both, I should much rather have a heart."
"I shall take the heart. For brains do not make one happy, and happiness is the best thing in the world." L. Frank Baum, The Wonderful Wizard of OZ
Goals must meet 2 important criteria. Your goal should be stated or written in a way that is MEASURABLE - and it should have an attainable DATE attached to it. For example: "I want to lose weight" or " I will lose weight", is not as powerful as saying, " I will weigh 140 lbs by January 1st, 2013. "I would like to own my own business", is not as powerful as saying, "I will take my brokers license by May 3rd". "I will take better care of myself", is not as powerful as saying, " I will practice my mindful breathing ten minutes a day."
Communication:
Communicate your needs or desires clearly and realize it may not be possible for you to have this need met at this time or by this person.
Be willing to hear "No."
(or in this case - Nope, Never, Not in this lifetime, Big Boy!)
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