Volume 1, Issue 2                                                     November 2009
Greetings!

 
We hope the upcoming holidays find you in good health and full of joy and peace.  If you're frantically shopping for holiday menus and gifts, take a few moments for yourself to remember the reason behind the season, and to remind yourself that you do this all for the joy of your loved ones!  
 
This issue we focus on LASIK refractive surgery, de-stressing tips for the holiday season, and getting to know our Clarkston staff.  We welcome your questions and feedback.  Is there something you'd like to hear about in the next issue?   Would you share your "Wilkinson Eye Center story" with us?  E-mail us at newsletter@wilkinsoneye.com
 
Sincerely,
The doctors and staff at Wilkinson Eye Center
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lasikLASIK
Clearly Seeing, Affordably 

Andy Dhaliwal, M.D.
Ophthalmologist and LASIK surgeon
 
Did you know LASIK qualifies for Flexible Spending Accounts (FSA)?
 
Laser Vision correction, often called LASIK or refractive surgery, is a safe and effective way toEye correct nearsightedness, astigmatism and in certain cases far sightedness and presbyopia.  Wilkinson Eye Center is now offering all laser LASIK, also known as Intralase.  This new technology eliminates the need for a blade, making the surgery safer than ever before.  Drs. Andy Dhaliwal, MD and Scott Wilkinson, MD are board certified ophthalmologists and as cornea specialists are two of only a select few LASIK surgeons in the area that have completed an extra year of training in corneal and refractive surgery (LASIK).  Both trained at the prestigious University of Michigan, Kellogg Eye Center in Ann Arbor, MI and are happy to provide world class treatment right here in North Oakland County.
 
If you have FSA money left over this year, why not use it on LASIK?  Please call our LASIK coordinators Debbie or Shawn (248-334-4931, Ext. 3) to arrange a free LASIK screening to determine if you are a candidate. Now is also a great time to help you determine if you want to set aside FSA money for next year.  We hope to hear from you!
gettoknowGet to Know...
Our Clarkston Staff
 
 
In 2005, Dr. Saul Rubenstein of the Clarkston Eye Clinic (6875 Dixie Highway, Clarkston, MI) made a life decision - he sold his practice and went into semi-retirement.  Ah, the good life in Florida for the winters!  Dr. Rubenstein chose the capable hands of Dr. Scott Wilkinson andclarkston group 2 the Wilkinson Eye Center to continue his practice and care for his patients. What a blessing for WEC!  Very shortly thereafter McCulloch Optical also joined with WEC, giving us an outstanding Optical department in each location.
 
Lovingly known as "the Cottage" (while the Pontiac office is jokingly referred to as "Corporate"), our Clarkston location has been a win-win situation.  Staffs were joined, preserving jobs, and patients were giving options for their convenience.  When Joan, Carol and Mary Jane joined the "front desk" staff it was with over 65 years combined experience.  Merging practices is not always easy, but this staff in Clarkston is exceptional and has willingly learned everything "Corporate" has thrown at them.  We've asked this strong staff to share a little.  Read on!
 
Q: Tell us a little about yourselves.
A: Carol: "I was born and raised in Detroit.  I've been married for 38 years with three children and one grandchild.  I went to Detroit Business Institute for a year then worked for Albert Kahn Architectural Engineers and later GM.  I then took a 12-year maternity leave.  I started working for Dr. Rubenstein when my youngest was in kindergarten.  It was a great job, close to home and all of my children's schools."
 
Joan: "I was born and raised in Lewiston (a small town in northern Michigan).  I attended Central Michigan University for two years - where I met my husband.  We have three children and six grandchildren.  I went back to school for two years at OCC, then came to work for Dr. Rubenstein in 1986 to put my children through college.  I love being with family at Christmas, especially watching my grandchildren's enjoyment of the season.  Now, at this stage in my life, I'm just hoping to keep everyone happy and healthy in my family!"
 
Mary Jane: "I was born in Detroit, started working right out of high school, married in 1976 and have two wonderful children.  My son lives in Denver and is single and my daughter lives in Berkley with her new husband (just married in September).  I started working for Dr. Rubenstein in 1988 when my daughter was just starting afternoon kindergarten (I  quit work when the kids were born).  Dr. Rubenstein needed someone to work two afternoons a week, so it was just perfect for me.  I was thrilled when I was able to keep my part-time job after merging with WEC!"
 
Denny & Kathleen: "I (Denny) grew up in Waterford as one of six children.  I (Kathleen) was born in Kansas and grew up in Fort Collins, CO, also one of six children. We have four children who now live coast-to-coast (LA, Chicago, Redford (MI) and Washington D.C.).  Denny's parents started McCulloch Optical in the early '40s.  I (Denny) worked there in summers as a messenger in downtown Pontiac.  I went to college, moved to Colorado and met Kathleen.  I (Kathleen) started computer classes at 15; I started working for an electric company at 17, who paid for IBM school.  I became a computer programmer at 19 and LOVED IT!!  We moved to Michigan in 1977 where we joined the McCulloch family business.  Mom & Dad retired and we bought the business in 1980 - the rest is History!
 
Q: What is the best thing about working at WEC?
A: Carol: "Meeting a lot of new people!" 
 
Joan: "Four years ago our little office became big ("Corporate") when merging with WEC.  It is a wonderful union and everyone is so friendly - the transition was made easy for us."
 
Mary Jane: "I love the huge staff with all the different personalities and I especially love working with the patients."
 
Denny: "The best part is the chance to help people, especially the older ones."
 
Kathleen: "I am very fortunate to have a job where everyday I meet new people and see people I have known for 30 years!"
 
Q: What is the biggest challenge about working at WEC?
A: Carol: "Trying to keep these insurances straight!" 
 
Joan: "The 'ever-changing' insurance problems (which is just as challenging for our patients).  I'm afraid it's not going to change."
 
Mary Jane: "Keeping up with all the insurance changes with seem to be daily!"
 
Denny: "Trying to help Doctor and Jill [practice administrator] keep this business going.  With the environment we live in nothing - business-wise - is guaranteed.  We all must 'maximize' every day."
 
Kathleen: "Every day WEC employees provide the best eye care possible for each patient.  It is a challenge and a blessing and I am glad to be a part of it."
 
Q: What's the funniest story you remember happening at the Clarkston office?
A: Denny: "We had a patient run over his glasses with his AIRPLANE!  We still kid him about that every time he comes in." 
 
Q: What's the most touching story you remember?
A: Kathleen: "McCulloch Optical had been making eyeglasses for a patient with multiple birth defects.  The patient received her first pair of eyeglasses at 9 months old.  At ages 6 and 7, her mother carried her in as she was small and still unable to walk.  At 8 she walked into our office, walked across the room, hugged Denny and said 'Look, I can walk!  I need Big Girl Glasses.'  We cried for joy!  We still meet this family for dinner twice a year."
 
And that, my friends, is what it's all about.
destressYour Health in Focus:
De-stress Your Holidays

Ah, the holidays.  Thanksgiving!  Christmas!  Hanukkah!  New Year's!  It's a crazy time of year.  Certainly every holiday throughout the year, whatever the religious or secular origins, is a timeChristmas Stress for celebration and perhaps a little stress.  "The Holidays", however, bring a special state of insanity to us in the Western hemisphere.  Gift shopping (worries over budget), holiday parties (trying to fit into that dress), playing host (did we make enough hor'dourves?), sending cards (hand cramps), family (family)... the list goes on!  While we all know that a holiday ("holy day") is meant for celebration and remembrance it is a sad truth that in our commercialized culture we seem to have lost that focus.  We love to give (good!) and be with family and friends (even better!) but have we put so many demands and expectations on these things that we've lost the joy they are supposed to bring? 
Christmas Stress 
Perhaps it's time we take a step back.  Stress during the holidays is no more beneficial for your health - physical or mental! - than at any other time of year.  Of course we recognize this fact: we spend a lot of time and a lot of money on books to teach us to relax, massages, vacations, yoga classes, etc.  Why not make it a priority to de-stress your holidays, too?  Shop, party, and be with loved ones but make boundaries.  Do you do what you do because you love to do it, or because you feel an obligation?  Maybe it's time to send a few less Christmas cards.  Spend less on gifts but make them more meaningful.  Plan ahead.  Eat with restraint but enjoy every bite.  Be with family and friends but skip some of the trimmings - they remember time with you, not the extra baubles on the mantelpiece.  We asked the staff here at WEC how they de-stress their holidays, and here are their responses:
  • Keep the focus of the real meaning of CHRIST in Christmas.
  • Spread the shopping and preparation throughout the year, remembering it's better to give than receive.
  • My favorite way to combat stress during Christmas is to make some awesome hot chocolate, light some candles, put on a some mellow Christmas music and count my blessings!
  • The Peace and Joy that fills my heart at Christmas comes from continuing to focus on the real reason for this celebration, JESUS!
  • I take time to relax, to just "chill" and be with family and friends.
  • Shop!  It's therapy.  I love the sights, sounds, and smells of Thanksgiving and Christmas in all the stores.
  • While the world goes on about its business outside, I sit inside (curled up with my cat), by just the light of my 3' Christmas tree and its very sparkly white lights, enjoying every peaceful minute, and revel in the true joy of the season: celebrating Jesus' birth.
  • Keeping the real reason for the season in mind at all times.  Jesus is the reason for the season and with him all things are possible.
  • I always make time to watch A Christmas Story.
  • It is sometimes difficult not to get caught up in the craziness of the holidays.  I try to remind myself what we are truly celebrating and stress this importance to my kids.
  • I try to get as much preparation - baking, shopping and things - by the end of November.  Then I can take my time and relax!
  • From the time we had our first child, my husband and I committed to just one gift for each of our children for Christmas. Santa also brought each child one gift that magically appeared - unwrapped - on Christmas morning. This not only eliminated the financial stress of buying many toys and gifts, but also the time shopping. Each year I give careful thought to the one gift each family member will receive, make a list, and accomplish all my shopping in one day. I stick to the list and don't wander around the mall being tempted to spend what I don't have! It also keeps the focus on the true meaning of Christmas - and not the gifts.
  • I focus on the real, true meaning of Christmas - Christ.
  • I sit back and unwind a little bit.  I don't stress!
  • I LOVE Christmas.  I love to shop and know what I can and can't spend, so I don't stress.
  • Spiked eggnog. (Editor's note: use this tip with caution!)
  • I focus on the reason for the season; also, my family and I give back to the community by filling shoeboxes with basic essentials and distribute them to the homeless.
  • I don't send Christmas cards, that helps.  I listen to music and dance!
  • Step outside and get some fresh air, build a snowman, take a walk - good cold air flushes the body of stress.  And remember: it's not about presents and more stuff!!
  • Stay organized!  Decorate early, shop early!
Whatever holidays you celebrate, we hope they find you blessed and joyful... and stress free!   Happiest of Holidays, Merry Christmas,
 
The doctors and staff at WEC
   
We truly appreciate you!  Let us know how we can serve you better.  E-mail us at newsletter@wilkinsoneye.com
 
Sincerely,
 

Wilkinson Eye Center