Good ideas are everywhere, ready to be
gathered, stored, and shared.
But these ideas are often overlooked or brushed aside.
Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote this insightful thought:
"Look sharply after your thoughts, they come unlooked
for, like a new bird in your trees, and, if you turn to
your usual task, disappear."
As you go about your day with routine activities, many
good ideas may briefly appear. For example, in the shower,
or traveling to work. These ideas might be intuitive messages
that seem to come from nowhere; or thought associations triggered by a billboard or a comment on the radio. Or ideas you hear in a casual conversation with a friend of co-worker. Sometimes they are "nuts and bolts thoughts" about sending a birthday card to your sister; and sometimes they are an "Ah-hah!" thought that solves a big problem you've been working on. And everything in between.
Do you harvest them, then store them? If not, they'll fly away.
I'm a low-tech guy, so I use 3x5 cards I carry in my hip pocket
and in my car. When an interesting idea lands in my mental
trees, I write down a few words when I've stopped at a light
or when I'm involved in a house-holding task. Some people I
know text the thought into an electronic device. Still others
speak a few words into a micro recorder.
The relevance to conversation is this: As you stay open to
good ideas, many come rest long enough for you to notice,
then store them. Later you can share them with family, friends, and co-workers. You can put them to use.
Then it will never be true for you to say about yourself that
"I have nothing to talk about." In fact, you'll have many
good and interesting ideas.