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This Week's Issue:
November 20, 2009 |
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Hello again, subscriber friend!
And Happy Thanksgiving!
Because you share my interest in better conversation
and good human relationships, you have subscribed to
this newsletter. I hope you continue to find personal value to better your life with these ideas.
I believe that "better conversations make a better world." Please invite friends and co-workers to subscribe,www.conversationmatters.com
Loren Ekroth, publisher
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| This Week's Contents, November 20, 2009 |
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Words this issue: 854 Reading time: Est. 3 minutes
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Better Family Conversation Kit
Conversation Quotation
Better Conversation Week soon
Famous Words
Jest Words
Word-a-Week
Relocating
Changing Internet Services?
Article: Expressions of Gratitude |
1. Better Family Conversation Kit (new)
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To give you a complimentary sample of
the full kit, I have created a "mini-kit"
you may download at http://conversationmatters.com/pdfs/bck2.pdf
You can purchase the full enriched version
of the Better Family Conversation Kit
in the "conversation products" section of
my site, www.conversationmatters.com
The full kit has been wonderfully successful
at family gatherings and reunions to create
a meaningful time of sharing that goes far
beyond superficial chit-chat.
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| 2. Conversation Quotation |
"I think charm is the ability to be truly interested in other people."
-Richard Avedon, photographer |
3. Better Conversation Week, Nov. 23-29, 2009
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Coincides with Thanksgiving, a peak time for families
and friends to gather. I created the "Better Family
Conversation Kit" as a way for families to engage
in deeper and more meaningful conversation during
their time together. As my gift of thanks to you,
I offer a complimentary "mini" version of the kit.
Link www.conversationmatters.com
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| 4. Timely Fact |
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As President, on October 3, 1789, George Washington created the first Thanksgiving Day designated by the national government of the United
States of America. |
5. Famous quotations
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"I can no other answer make but thanks,
and thanks, and ever thanks."
Shakespeare, Twelfth Night, Act 3, Scene 3
"Ingratitude! thou marble-hearted fiend."
Shakespeare, King Lear, Act 1, Scene 4
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| 6. Jest Words |
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The only time to eat diet food is while you're waiting for the steak to cook."
- Julia Child, 1912 - 2004
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7. Word-a-Week: kleptocracy (noun)
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a political regime whose members make flagrantly dishonest use of their official position for personal gain. Examples:
Former Indonesian President Suharto ($15-$35 billion); Former Philippine President Ferdinand Marcos ($5-$10 billion)
"According to political analysts, the Karzai government of
Afghanistan also shows many signs of being a kleptocracy." |
| 9. Expressing Gratitude |
Article: Expressing Gratitude
I really enjoy thanking people. For all kinds of things: jobs well done, excellent service, helping me out, hosting me, being a good friend, plus many more. I feel uplifted by the simple gesture of saying "Thank you for your great service."
By way of example, I mention the clerks and reference librarians at my branch library, the Sahara West Library in Las Vegas. They really take good care of me as I do my research for this newsletter. We have become good friends over many years.
I recommend that you be generous, not stingy, with thanks. In most cases, "what goes around, comes around."
For example, as Dr. Robert Emmons has shown in his fine book, "Thanks: How Practicing Gratitude Can Make You Happier,"
●People who regularly practice grateful thinking (and expression) can increase their "set-point" for happiness by as much as 25 percent.
● A grateful heart is a healthy heart. That is, people who practice expressing gratitude have stronger hearts.
●As well, those who practice "an attitude of gratitude" live longer
● Those on the receiving end of your expressions of gratitude also benefit in many ways, among them gaining a heart-rhythm that supports good health and well-being.
One of my most satisfying experiences has been to phone a former teacher or boss to let them know how much I appreciated their help "back then." They are usually surprised because the call is coming "out of the blue."
Most of us have such unfinished business we can still take care of. If not with a phone call, then perhaps a written note of thanks. Even if much-belated, your expression will matter.
As we approach Thanksgiving week, who has been a person who helped you along the way of life? If the person is no longer alive, perhaps you can proclaim your gratitude at some Thanksgiving gathering with family or friends.
Be generous with your thanks. Dozens of opportunities happen each week when you encounter others. Which ones have you overlooked?
"I really appreciate your taking time to help me."
"You really listen to me carefully, and I thank you for that."
"Whenever I ask for a small favor, you quickly grant it. Many thanks."
Give thanks. They'll feel better, and you'll feel better.
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Loren Ekroth ©2009, all rights reserved
Loren Ekroth, Ph.D. is a specialist in human communication and a national expert on conversation for business and social life.
Contact at Loren@conversationmatters.com
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