Replace the Negative with the Positive
Our emotions, perceptions, and behaviors are shaped by our most dominant thoughts. Unfortunately, much of our thoughts or "self-talk" is negative talk. One way to reprogram your self-talk is by repeating positive affirmations until it becomes a habit. Frequent thoughts represent goals, which the subconscious mind strives to actualize. What we most often tell ourselves can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you want to explore the power of positive affirmations, follow these guidelines.
1. Personalize your affirmations with words like "I," "me," and "my." You can't control circumstances or other people, so make your affirmations about what you can control - yourself. Make your affirmations state your own goals, wants, and values - not someone else's.
2. Affirmations should be in the present tense; if affirmations are in future tense ("I will...") you may note feel urgency to act NOW. If you feel uncomfortable stating affirmations in the present tense ("I am exercising") then state them as a process ("Each day I am becoming healthier.")
3. Make your affirmations believable and realistic so that you can say them with sincerity. Begin with small, easily achievable goals, and work your way to bigger accomplishments.
4. State affirmations in the positive. To say "I don't eat fatty foods," only focuses your attention on the behavior you want to avoid. Instead say "I eat nutritious foods."
5. Make affirmations short and easy to remember. Catchy slogans stay with us longer than essays.
6. Repeat your positive affirmations often to help positive thinking become a routine.
§ To maintain positive self-talk, fill your mind with uplifting ideas.
§ Recognize your strengths.
§ Let your self-talk be like the soothing, supportive words of a counselor, friend, or mentor. Write them down and read them frequently.
§ Lasting accomplishments come when we change our behaviors as well as our thinking. |