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Greetings!

By now you have probably been to Back to School Night and even received the first interim report from your child's school. The first report card of the year is only five weeks away.

If this concerns you or your child, provide them with the help they need to succeed before they fall behind and announce "I can't do it!"

Sign on to Blackboard, talk to a teacher or guidance counselor, or call us - be proactive. You may be surprised by how much your child can manage the homework/studying drama if they have the tools they need.

In this issue, we suggest a resource for parents of high school students and the value of taking a proactive posture.
Tutoring: Taking a Proactive Posture

"Mom, leave me alone!"... "Sally, you do not seem to get it. You are a junior and this year is critical! What are you going to do next year when your friends are all applying to college?"... "I don't care! Just leave me alone!"

Sound familiar? This all too often confrontation can be avoided through some simple proactive steps. Hiring a tutor may be the first step and is tantamount to purchasing life insurance. Sounds strange? By hiring a tutor, you have transferred the responsibility, burden, and risk to a third party - kind of like insurance, right?

The truth is that a third party will derive much more efficient and effective results than most parents can achieve. If you and your spouse work full-time and come home after a long day at the office, does it not make more sense to enjoy the time you have with your child rather than engage in the nightly "battle of the books?" If your child is a junior in high school, you have two very valuable years left to enjoy them for what they truly are and should be - your children.

Even if you both have doctoral degrees in subject areas in which your child is struggling, you are still Mom and Dad to your child. Their perception of you is not that of an educator. They view you as either a provider or an adult role model, not as an educator.

So, do yourself and your spouse a huge favor and call us.  Take a proactive approach to this vexing problem. We have been at this for more than 15 years. We are here to help you bridge the inevitable gap that develops between you and your child as he or she enters the teen years.

Upcoming Exam Dates


Standardized examinations for high school- and college-bound students have already begun. Here are some dates to keep in mind:

  • Thomas Jefferson High School for Science and Technology Admissions Test: December 4, 2010
  • SAT: October 9, November 6, December 4, 2010
  • ACT: October 23, December 11, 2010
Resource for Parents: New Book by Two Virginia Principals

The Insider's Guide to High School
A Parent's Handbook for the Ninth Grade Year
by Tim Healey and Alex Carter

Check out this Parent's Handbook written by two principals, both of whom have served large high schools in Virginia. They point out that while we all know that the ninth grade is difficult for students, it is  also a critical and difficult period for parents, as they must learn to approach their children as teenagers - while still maintaining the necessary control and guidance to ensure their teenager's directed growth and success.

The two veteran principals provide parents with an insider's view on how to best prepare, support, and coach their rising ninth graders. They lay out the basic steps parents should take to prepare their ninth grade student for success in today's high school classroom. Using these steps, the book helps parents and their teenager develop a plan for success, improve communication, and learn to work together for a common goal.

The companion volume by the same authors, The Insider's Guide for High School Students: A Handbook for the Ninth Grade Year is appropriate for eighth and ninth grade readers.

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Dr. Ralph G. Perrino

Dr. Ralph G. Perrino, Director of Northern Virginia Tutoring Service, has been appointed to the Board of The Fairfax Partnership for Youth, a youth-advocacy community organization.

We are pleased to add Denise Perrino to the office staff. Denise is freshly retired from a 34 year career in FCPS and brings a wealth of knowledge and teaching experience to NVTS. Have you ever wanted to ask the teacher? Now you can!

Have a question you'd like to discuss with other parents? Want an informed opinion from Dr. Perrino? Share your questions with the NVTS group on Facebook!
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We are here to help you and your children. Now that the school year is underway, please do not hesitate to ask if you need our assistance or to simply seek our advice.


Sincerely,
 

Dr. Ralph G. Perrino
Northern Virginia Tutoring Service
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