You'd hoped it was just a phase, but now there's no getting around it: your pup is sensitive, shy... and ok, maybe even a little needy.
Don't worry - you're not the first person to fall in love with the timid shelter dog or the bashful littermate. That doesn't mean, however, your dog can't - or shouldn't - develop a genuine sense of self-confidence. While it's your job to protect and keep him safe, don't for a minute think you're doing him any favors by shielding him from people, dogs, or the world at large.
Sure,
instilling self-confidence requires some effort on your part. But the reasons to raise a dog who's self-assured around humans, comfortable with other canines, and at ease when
home alone, are innumerable. To name just a few:
· You want to be able to take your pup to the dog park without him getting bullied - or worse: physically attacked.
· Anxiety around strangers may ultimately translate to food guarding, territorial barking, or even fear aggression and biting.
· Discomfort when he's home alone can lead your dog to destructive behaviors, like chewing and scratching, or to serious separation anxiety.
The bottom line: When you know your dog is happy and relaxed, you can feel happy and relaxed too.
