D is for "Deserving"

You're already worthy! 

Why is a fine person like you still struggling financially, when mean moguls who plunder pension funds live large?

Is it because the Universe is unfair?
Or is it possible those mean moguls believe they deserve abundance - and you believe you do not?

In each case, the Universe does unto us as we believe. What could be fairer than that?

What keeps you from believing you deserve abundant money, love, freedom and all that other great stuff?

As long as you operate from the premise that deserving (and therefore abundance) must be earned, you will never be abundant because your mind will always move the "Deserving" goalpost farther down the playing field, so whatever you do - it's never enough.

You can never win because the object of this mind game is not to win. It's to stay in the game.

When you realize your deservingness is the field itself, the basis upon which you play ... you start winning.

What do you need to realize or release for you to be your own cheerleader ... your own champion ... your own victory dancer?

D is for "Detachment" 
Stop the suffering

If, as the Buddha suggests, attachment is the root of all suffering, it follows that suffering can be relieved by cultivating detachment.

Detachment means letting go of your attachment to people behaving in a certain way, situations turning out in a certain way, or your day going in a certain way. 

In short, you resign your post as General Director of the Universe.

How much more peaceful will you feel when you let go of the fantasy that you can control anything or anyone outside yourself?

Many empathic, sensitive people - perhaps even you? - resist detachment because they believe it means they have to stop caring about other people, animals, the rain forest - whatever.

Nothing could be further from the truth. 

Detachment gives you and others the dignity of living life on our own terms.

This is where and how Abundance begins. 

How much more abundant will you feel when you realize the Universe wants even more for you than you do?

Try this at home for "Detachment" 

To create more abundance today

Click here to listen to me walk you through this exercise

Here's a way to start detaching those tendrils of attachment, while still being the loving and caring person you are, and attracting more abundance along the way. How cool is that? 

Find a private place to sit
Close your eyes and breathe in and out three times, as deeply and comfortably as you can. Call to mind a person whose behavior distresses you, or a situation that's got you tied up in knots. Notice how your body feels when you think about what's distressing you.

1. Ask yourself, "Am I willing to accept the person/situation?" Whether the answer is yes or no, it's okay.
2. Ask yourself, "Am I willing to forgive the person/situation?" Whether the answer is yes or no, it's okay.
3. Say, "I now ask my Higher Power to bless the person/situation" and imagine your Higher Power showering blessings over the person or situation.

Call again to mind the person or situation you've been focusing on in this exercise. Notice how your body feels when you think about them now. 

If you still feel distress, repeat the exercise until you feel neutral or peaceful about the person or situation. 

If you feel okay about the matter now, repeat this exercise as needed with anything else bothering you. 

This helps you effortlessly bless your way to Abundance.