Greetings!
Everyone has their own personal love style - Kineshetic (touch me), Auditory (tell me) or Visual (show me). You probably enjoy experiencing love in all these ways, yet one style will land more deeply with you than the others. That's true of your loved ones, too. They have their preferred way of receiving and expressing love. How can that play out in real life? Let's say Tony and Tina have been dating for a few months. They've gotten a little too comfortable with each other. The crackling chemistry between them has started to lose its zing. Tony loves Tina, so he tries to re-ignite things by giving her a glittering necklace she admired one day when he took her window-shopping. (Can you tell Tony is Mr. Visual? He likes sparkling objects and enjoys taking Tina to see new places.) Tina likes the necklace, yet it feels somehow impersonal to her. Though she appreciates Tony's gesture, what she would really like is for him to hold hands with her when they walk together. That would make her feel he truly cares about her. (Is Tina crazy? Nope. Just Kinesthetic.) Because she knows about Love Styles, Tina wears some se'xy, silky stuff the next time she and Tony get in*timate. Sparks fly all over the place! Tony feels loved and appreciated because Tina has given him - Mr. Visual - a feast for the eyes. Tina, Ms. Kinesthetic, enjoys the silky stuff because it feels good against her skin and inspires Tony to touch her in that special way she likes. Later, she may show Tony how much she loves it when he holds hands with her, so he knows a Kinesthetic way to please her in the future. And she'll go on dreaming up Visual ways to delight Tony. Everybody wins. * * *
Today's article will show you ways to use Personal Love Styles to delight your loved ones.
How much more harmonious will your relationships be when your loved ones feel truly loved by you?
Enjoy! With love and appreciation, Moira PS - Click here to listen to this article. Thank you! |