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May 2010 Chapter Flash
IN THIS ISSUE
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT
FACILITATOR TIP
CHILDREN'S PROGRAM TIP
OUTREACH TIP
MOVIE OF THE MONTH
VOLUNTEER WEEK
WHAT'S NEW
GROUPS
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CONTACT US
Please send feedback and suggestions for
future issues to:
 
 
Circle of ParentsŪ Statewide Office
Priscilla Bennett
Communications Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099
pbennett@pcamn.org
 
Our Regional Coordinators:
 
Metro Office
Alice Lynch
Metro Program Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099
alynch@pcamn.org
 
Northeast Regional Office
Joan Johnson
Northeast Program Coordinator
9057 Sunset Strip
Pequot Lakes, MN 56472
218-821-6429
jjohnson@pcamn.org  
 
Southeast Regional Office
Barb Sorum
Director of Family Support Services
606 East 5th Street
Albert Lea, MN 56007
507-377-7665
bsorum@pcamn.org
 
Southwest Regional Office
Susan Thomes
Southwest Program Coordinator
PO Box 202
Silver Lake, MN  55381
218-308-1311
 
Western Regional Office
Mary Weaver
Western Program Coordinator
32662 Birchwood Shore Drive
Underwood, MN 56586
218-770-1385
mweaver@pcamn.org
Quick Links
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT
Joan Johnson, Northeast Program Coordinator 
St. Cloud MapThe St. Cloud Chapter of Circle of ParentsŪ (Stearns, Benton, and Sherburne Counties) opened in September of 1996 and has been offering support and education to their community ever since. Their meeting site has changed several times with the most recent site being the St. Cloud YMCA. Some of their current activities are staffing a garage sale at the YMCA and a brat sale to be held at Cobourn's Market to raise funds for their Chapter. They keep their goals in front of the advisory team by listing them on each agenda before their monthly meeting. They also have the Prevent Child Abuse Minnesota mission on each agenda, thereby keeping "prevent child abuse and neglect by promoting positive parenting, healthy families, and supportive communities where children are respected and valued" in the forefront. (read more)
FACILITATOR TIP
Barb Sorum, Director of Family Support Services 
Circle of Parents Key Elements
Groups cannot succeed without certain key elements.
 
Trust:
Parents who come to support groups count on each other to listen openly, respond honestly, and always act with compassion. Parents know that all information shared in the support group is confidential and never discussed outside the group setting, within the limits of the law. All parents have the option of anonymity in the support group.
 
Reciprocity:
Parents provide non-judgmental support to one another. Parents are the experts about their own families and their own children. Together, parents learn from one another about ways to strengthen their families. (read more)
CHILDREN'S PROGRAM TIP
Sue Thomes, Southwest Program Coordinator 
Teaching Children Self-Soothing Behaviors
When parenting or caring for children, we may encounter temper tantrums, hurt feelings, even injury causing behaviors (biting, hitting, etc.). Adults need to understand they can't calm a child down, because that is something that must happen from within. They can, however, offer tools to teach self soothing. It is also important to understand that different children and different circumstances require different tools. The first step is to determine why a particular outburst happens with a particular child, then share tools with them to help them regain control. Remember, when dealing with outbursts, the adults must remain calm and collected, which will be the first step in de-escalating the behavior. (read more)
OUTREACH TIP
Priscilla Bennett, Communications Coordinator  
Date Night Out
Date NightThe Kansas Circle of ParentsŪ Statewide Support Group Network, along with Kansas Children's Service League, offered 14 families an opportunity to participate in a "Date Night Out". The "Date Night" informal respite care project provided caregivers a night out while their 29 children were cared for in a safe, healthy, and fun environment. Families participating were provided with a gift card to enjoy the evening out while their children engaged in activities such as Wii game competition, Bouncy Blow-up Jumping Center, face painting, Color Explosion Center, t-shirt painting center, and arts and crafts. Infants and toddlers were provided childcare services in the childcare center, which is equipped with many fun childcare toys and learning activities. (read more)
BOOK OF THE MONTH
Push BookcoverAlice O. Lynch, Metro Program Coordinator  
PUSH by Sapphire
PUSH is the painfully graphic story of a battered child named Clareece Precious Jones. She endures unbelievable hardships in her young life. Precious is abused by her mother and is raped by her father. She has her first child by her father at the age of 12 and again at 16. Suffering abuse by both parents and serving as a virtual slave to her apartment-bound, welfare-dependent mother. Precious grows up poor, angry, illiterate, overweight, unloved, and generally unnoticed. She lives in hopelessness in Harlem, until she enters an alternative school where she meets other troubled girls. Cheered on by a devoted teacher, Precious learns to write. What better way to learn about Precious than through her own troubled dialect. Written in the fractured vernacular of the sub-literate teenager, it gives the reader some insight into how she views life and what she wants from herself. It is hard to read because it is full of despair, hopelessness, and hurt.
 
Nonetheless, Precious' hard-luck story sings with poetic beauty and resonates with ugly truth. It's thrilling to see Precious test the wings of her newfound verbal powers, funny to decode her botched words, and sad to watch her revert to frustrated illiteracy when, progressing by leaps and bounds, she's thrown a tragic and unexpected curveball. Ultimately she is able to gain control of her life through her writing. PUSH is an intense story of adversity and what one young lady learns and the mechanisms she created to help her cope.
WEBSITE OF THE MONTH
www.HealthyKidsMN.org is a statewide resource that aims to connect families with uninsured children to non-profit agencies that can assist them with eligibility requirements and enrollment into state-sponsored health care coverage options. Visitors to HealthyKidsMN.org can find contact information for the agency serving their area by clicking their county on the "How We Can Help" page. The site also contains a wealth of easy-to-understand information, presented in English and Spanish, on Minnesota's various subsidized health coverage options.
ARTICLE OF INTEREST
Crookston Businesses Participate in Child Abuse Prevention Month
Crookston Daily Times
Children do not come with an instruction booklet, and too many parents face the challenge of raising their children without the knowledge and support they need and deserve. We all have opportunities to reach out to parents in our own way. During the month of April, businesses in Crookston were asked to reach out in their own way. The Polk County Child Abuse Prevention Council challenged them to create a display that showed the public what "1 Thing" they could do to make a child's life better. These displays were up from April 22-30. Our judges; Raymond Lee from KROX, Nickole Wurden from the Crookston Times, and Angie Zak from Polk County Social Services, spent the rainy morning visiting each participating business to determine our 2010 winners. We would like to acknowledge the following businesses for the effort by awarding the following categories:

Most Creative - Crookston National Bank "Splash Out Child Abuse - Talk A Child for a Walk in the Rain"

Best Use of the "1 Thing" Theme - Limited Addition Riverview Gift Shop "Plant My Garden with a Child"

Judge's Choice - Shots & Thoughts "Stomp Out Abuse"

We would like to thank all of the businesses/agencies that participated. When we all work together, our children's lives benefit.
Our Mission 
The mission of Minnesota's Circle of Parents is to empower parents to create healthy and loving families through positive parenting and mutual self help.