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December 2009 Chapter Flash
IN THIS ISSUE
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT
FACILITATOR TIP
CHILDREN'S PROGRAM TIP
OUTREACH TIP
RADIO SHOW
TESTIMONIAL
TRAINING
Children's Program Training on December 19th in Saint Paul.
 
Facilitation Skills and Children's Program Training on January 11th in Morris. 
 
Contact Priscilla at pbennett@pcamn.org to register.
GROUPS
Click here for a current list of groups in Minnesota.
CONTACT US
Please send feedback and suggestions for
future issues to:
 
 
Circle of ParentsŪ Statewide Office
Priscilla Bennett
Communications Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099
pbennett@pcamn.org
 
Our Regional Coordinators:
 
Metro Office
Alice Lynch
Metro Program Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099
alynch@pcamn.org
 
Northeast Regional Office
Joan Johnson
Northeast Program Coordinator
9057 Sunset Strip
Pequot Lakes, MN 56472
218-821-6429
jjohnson@pcamn.org  
 
Southeast Regional Office
Barb Sorum
Interim Director of Family Support Services
606 East 5th Street
Albert Lea, MN 56007
507-377-7665
bsorum@pcamn.org
 
Southwest Regional Office
Susan Thomes
Southwest Program Coordinator
PO Box 202
Silver Lake, MN  55381
218-308-1311
 
Western Regional Office
Mary Weaver
Western Program Coordinator
32662 Birchwood Shore Drive
Underwood, MN 56586
218-770-1385
mweaver@pcamn.org
Quick Links
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT 
Morrison CountyJoan Johnson, Northeast Program Coordinator 
Morrison County chartered as a Circle of ParentsŪ Chapter in January of 2007. Their progress and growth has been amazing ever since that first meeting. They started with one group, including a children's program, meeting at their Head Start facility in Little Falls. Their child protection team serves as the advisory team and the fiscal sponsor. A subcommittee applied for and received the child abuse prevention funding from the Children's Trust Fund to help get them started. The chapter has expanded several times. They expanded to two groups for fathers that meet in the county jail on two different days. Attendance is entirely voluntary, and the groups often have 15 or more attending.
 
FACILITATOR TIP
Susan Thomes, Southwest Program Coordinator

As we gear up for a new year, I would like to share some inspiration from geese.  This advice is adapted from the work of Dr. Robert McNeish.

 

Lessons from Geese

 

           Fact 1: A goose's flapping wings creates uplift for the bird following.  A flock adds 71% greater flying range in a "V" formation than flying alone.

Lesson 1: By sharing a common direction and sense of community, our Circles of ParentsŪ members are traveling on the thrust of one another.

            Fact 2: When a goose falls out of formation, it immediately feels drag and resistance  flying solo, quickly rejoining the formation to take advantage of the lifting power of the bird immediately in front.

Lesson 2: Members are encouraged to stay with others headed in the same direction, accepting help from and giving help to others in the group (mutual self help).

           Fact 3: When the lead goose gets tired, it rotates back into formation and another goose flies at the point position.

Lesson 3: As with geese, people are interdependent on each other, thus we focus on shared leadership.

            Fact 4:  The geese in formation honk from behind to encourage those up front to keep up their speed.

Lesson 4: Our honking from behind is encouraging (positive support).

            Fact 5: When a goose is sick, wounded, or shot down, two others drop out of formation to assist and protect, remaining until it is well or dies. 

Lesson 5: In Circle of ParentsŪ, we stand by each other in difficult times as well as when we are strong.

 

My wish is that all of our groups fly strong in 2010!

CHILDREN'S PROGRAM LEADER TIP 
Barb Sorum, Interim Director of Family Support Services  
 
Sparkling Beaded Snowflakesbeaded snowflake

Little fingers will find these sparkling ornaments 
easy and fun to make!
 
Supplies Needed
 
  • Scissors
  • Silver and/or blue tinsel pipe cleaners (two per snowflake)
  • Blue, white, silver plastic pony beads
 
  1. Cut the pipe cleaners in half so that you have four pieces.
  2. Make a cross with two pieces, twist and secure, then add the other two pieces, twist and secure.
  3. Add a few beads to each piece of pipe cleaner.
  4. Bend the ends of each piece just enough to prevent the beads from falling off.
  5. Add an ornament hanger or make a loop with the pipe cleaner for hanging.
 
You can find this and other fun craft ideas at www.amazingmoms.com.
OUTREACH TIP 
Mary Weaver, Western Minnesota Program Coordinator
 
Social Media: Unlimited Opportunities
 
"Social media" is the current buzzword for nearly any business or organization. Put simply, social media are typically websites that allow users to share content, media, etc. The appeal of social media - to organizations and to the public - is about listening and actively engaging the audience; social networking was invented to share opinions and ideas online.
 
Social media can take various forms, including Internet forums, web blogs, social blogs, wikis, videos, and pictures. Well known organizations such as United Way, the American Red Cross, and Prevent Child Abuse Minnesota are using Facebook and Twitter accounts to reach volunteers, donors, and simply keep people informed. The simplicity of setting up a blog, Facebook account, or Twitter page allows nearly anyone with computer access the ability to connect with like-minded people in a matter of minutes. There are no design fees, no web service fees. Simply establish a page and go!
 
ONLINE RADIO SHOW FOR PARENTS
Priscilla N. Bennett, Communications Coordinator  
"Real Parents. Real Solutions" with Toni Schutta on The VoiceAmerica™ Talk Radio Network

Toni Schutta has 15 years experience helping parents find solutions that work. Toni has worked with hundreds of families over the years as a Parent Coach, Family Therapist, and Child Psychologist and integrates real-life solutions with research-based options parents can try immediately. She's been featured in national publications such as Parents, Woman's World, and First for Women and has been a frequent guest on radio and TV shows. You can hear her radio show, Real Parents. Real Solutions, and access her archived radio shows online at http://www.modavox.com/voiceamerica/vshow.aspx?sid=1572.  

ONLINE RESOURCE OF THE MONTH
The Parenting Counts Center

The Parenting Counts Center has many features that make it one of the most informative and interactive parenting tools available online. For example, you could use the research-based Developmental Timeline to understand how your child thinks, feels, learns and grows. The Parenting Counts Center Developmental Timeline is a research-based parenting resource tool designed to help parents understand and track over 200 milestones that children commonly experience during the first five years of life. The milestones are organized by months from birth to age five as well as by category:

 

Social and Emotional Development
How children feel, act and relate to others.

 

Cognitive Development and Learning
How children learn and think.

 

Language and Communication
How children learn sounds, words and sentences and connect them to meaning and experience.

 

Physical Development
How the five senses and the ability to move develop in the first five years.

 

You can access a free online demo for this and other programs at www.parentingcounts.org.  

PARTICIPANT TESTIMONIALS 
A Parent Support Group Participant's Story
"The biggest thing I learned was that whatever the problem was and however big it was, there was always some way and somehow to find a solution. You might not get the answer that night, but somehow, no matter how big you think the problem is, you will get an answer. Someone says, 'Here's what you do.' You go home and try it, and it works!"
Our Mission 
The mission of Minnesota's Circle of Parents is to empower parents to create healthy and loving families through positive parenting and mutual self help.