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October 2009 Chapter Flash
IN THIS ISSUE
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT
FACILITATOR TIP
CHILDREN'S PROGRAM TIP
CHAPTER OUTREACH TIP
BOOK OF THE MONTH
NEW CDC INFORMATION
TESTIMONIAL
TRAINING
Contact Priscilla at pbennett@pcamn.org to register.
GROUPS
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CONTACT US
Please send feedback and suggestions for
future issues to:
 
 
Circle of ParentsŪ Statewide Office
Priscilla Bennett
Communications Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099 ext. 111
pbennett@pcamn.org
 
Our Regional Coordinators:
 
Metro Office
Alice Lynch
Metro Program Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099
alynch@pcamn.org
 
Northeast Regional Office
Joan Johnson
Northeast Program Coordinator
9057 Sunset Strip
Pequot Lakes, MN 56472
218-821-6429
jjohnson@pcamn.org  
 
Southeast Regional Office
Barb Sorum
Interim Director of Family Support Services
606 East 5th Street
Albert Lea, MN 56007
507-377-7665
bsorum@pcamn.org
 
Southwest Regional Office
Susan Thomes
Southwest Program Coordinator
PO Box 202
Silver Lake, MN  55381
218-308-1311
 
Western Regional Office
Mary Weaver
Western Program Coordinator
32662 Birchwood Shore Drive
Underwood, MN 56586
218-770-1385
mweaver@pcamn.org
Quick Links
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT 
Joan Johnson, Northeast Program Coordinator
On September 12th, a dozen walkers gathered on the Paul Bunyan Trail in Pequot Lakes in Crow Wing County. The group of adults and children (plus one dog) walked to show their support of the annual Walk for Children & Family Fun Day that was being held in Saint Paul at Midway stadium. It was a beautiful Saturday, and the Paul Bunyan Trail was busy with walkers, bikers, and skateboarders. The Pequot Lakes group was able to spread some awareness about the value of supporting families in order to eliminate child abuse and neglect. They also raised money to be used within their Circle of ParentsŪ Chapter. After the Walk, the group enjoyed chocolate chip ice cream cones before deciding that they will promote the walk earlier next year in order to get more people involved.
 
Pequot Lakes
FACILITATOR TIP
Alice O. LynchCircle Art, Metro Program Coordinator
Closing Ceremonies 
Closing ceremonies help people shift too. A good closing ceremony allows people to digest the good that the Circle has achieved, honoring the wisdom, courage, and gifts of all participants. Closing ceremonies reaffirm the connectedness that has developed and express hope for the Circle's continued success. From the unique atmosphere of the Circle, closing rituals also help participants shift back to the regular pace of their lives.
The rituals used in the ceremonies can be simple or elaborate, short or long. What's most important in designing them is their capacity to:
· respect all participants;
· convey a sense of inclusiveness and connectedness;
· appeal to personal values and the need to be guided by them;
· open participant to their better selves; and
· establish the Circle as a place of safety and respect.
 
CHILDREN'S PROGRAM LEADER TIP 
spiderMary Weaver, Western Minnesota Program Coordinator  
Handprint Spider is Scary Fun!
Halloween is on its way and this creepy crawly Handprint Spider is waiting to join the fun.
Supplies
Black heavyweight paper, White cardstock or heavyweight paper, Scissors and Glue
Instructions
Print out spider head (click here) on white heavyweight paper and cut out. Trace around each hand on black heavyweight paper and cut out. Using the picture to the right as a sample, glue the spider head over the hands. Turn the ends of the fingers down to form the spider legs. Now turn your new little friend loose to scare the trick-or-treaters.
CHAPTER OUTREACH TIP 

Joan Johnson, Northeast Program Coordinator 

Many communities hold fall festivals and community Halloween celebrations in October. If you are able, see if you can collaborate to distribute a "Treat for Parents." The treat could consist of an inexpensive treat (mini candy bars, tea bags, hot cocoa packet, etc.) attached to one of our parenting tips bookmarks and the "real treat" - an invitation to join your free Circle of ParentsŪ meeting. October is also Domestic Violence Awareness month. Are there any community events in your area? If so, check to see if you can join them by distributing your Circle of ParentsŪ information. The issues surrounding and preventing domestic violence and child abuse often go hand in hand.
BOOK REVIEW OF THE MONTH 
Outside the Lines "Outside the Lines" by Karen Wussow 
In this powerful story, Karen describes her journey from poverty, neglect and abuse to her current position as a social worker in a county agency. Karen was removed from her alcoholic parents at age nine, and then placed in an orphanage and a succession of foster homes, where she was virtually abandoned by child protection services. Through sheer will and perseverance, Karen overcame huge barriers to reach her goal of becoming a social worker. Karen gives an incredible view into her journey as she describes her memories of a child living with alcoholic, violent parents, living with strangers, and what her safety nets were through it all. Against all odds, Karen keeps her dreams alive to become the self-supporting mother of three and grandmother of one. Karen's website is www.karenwussow.com.
CDC WEBSITE OFFERS INFORMATION TO FAMILIES 
Barb Sorum, Interim Director of Family Support Services 
We want to let you know about a new resource the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has available for parents. The CDC has created a Parent Portal (www.cdc.gov/parents) to help parents find information to give children healthier, safer lives. The CDC Parent Portal organizes and presents information for parents and provides resources from across CDC, all in one location, making it easier for parents to find what they are looking for. The Portal is a great source for credible, accurate information in helping parents raising healthy kids and providing a safe home and community. It also is a resource for diseases and conditions that can occur, and for developmental milestones and schedules. The Parent Portal also provides information on physical activity, diet, physical and mental health, injuries and violence, peer relationships, and a special section on risk behaviors geared for the parents of teens.
PARTICIPANT TESTIMONIALS 
A Parent Group Leader's Story
"Sometimes I feel like, oh, maybe I should just have answers. And I don't. And, yet, then I think, no, no, no. It's way better not to have answers because we draw upon the wisdom of the whole group. And sometimes there is no answer. Sometimes someone has a problem to which there really is no answer. It's just a matter of being there and saying we feel for you, we care about you, and we want to see you next week, and we're with you on this. Without saying you can solve it; there are a lot of things you can't solve."
Our Mission 
The mission of Minnesota's Circle of Parents is to empower parents to create healthy and loving families through positive parenting and mutual self help.