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A program of Prevent Child Abuse Minnesota
   
September 2009 Chapter Flash
In This Issue
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT
CHILDREN'S PROGRAM TIP
FACILITATOR TIP
PARTICIPANT TESTIMONIALS
Upcoming Training 
Facilitation Skills and Children's Program Training on Friday, September 11 in Duluth
 
Children's Program Training on Saturday, September 26 in Windom 
 
Contact Priscilla at pbennett@pcamn.org to register.
List of Groups 
Click here for a current list of groups in Minnesota.
Contact Us
Please send feedback and suggestions for
future issues to:
 
 
Circle of ParentsŪ Statewide Office
Priscilla Bennett
Communications Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099 ext. 111
pbennett@pcamn.org
 
Our Regional Coordinators:
 
Metro Office
Alice Lynch
Metro Program Coordinator
1821 University Avenue, Suite 202-S
Saint Paul, MN 55104
651-523-0099
alynch@pcamn.org
 
Northeast Regional Office
Joan Johnson
Northeast Program Coordinator
9057 Sunset Strip
Pequot Lakes, MN 56472
218-821-6429
jjohnson@pcamn.org  
 
Southeast Regional Office
Barb Sorum
Interim Director of Family Support Services
606 East 5th Street
Albert Lea, MN 56007
507-377-7665
bsorum@pcamn.org
 
Southwest Regional Office
Susan Thomes
Southwest Program Coordinator
PO Box 202
Silver Lake, MN  55381
218-308-1311
 
Western Regional Office
Mary Weaver
Western Program Coordinator
32662 Birchwood Shore Drive
Underwood, MN 56586
218-770-1385
mweaver@pcamn.org
Quick Links
CHAPTER HIGHLIGHT 
Alice O. Lynch, Metro Program Coordinator
Roxy Foster, Director of Civic Parent Leadership for Prevent Child Abuse Minnesota, has been working for the past year with Neighborhood House in Saint Paul to sponsor the Family, Friends, and Neighbor (FFN) project. This project works with immigrants from Spanish, Somali, Oromo, and Amharic speaking countries who are providing child care for family members, neighbors, or friends. These individuals are not licensed child care providers, and the FFN project provided workshops that assisted them in understanding the protective factors and how they play out in the lives of the children in their care. The majority of the members of this project were very new to the United States, therefore making it necessary for us to utilize interpreters in the workshops.
 
The outcome of the work with the FFN project was that we would start Circle of ParentsŪ groups in these communities. With the support of St. Paul Network of Education Action Teams (NEAT) in May, we were able to sponsor three Adult Facilitation Skills Training - one for each cultural group in their own language.
CHILDREN'S PROGRAM LEADER TIP 
SneezeSue Thomes
Southwest Program Coordinator  
Cold and Flu Season is Coming!
With cold and flu season right around the corner, and the added worries about the spread of H1N1, it is important to employ a few tips for keeping germs at bay.
  • Hand washing, with soap and warm water, for at least twenty seconds is the first important defense. (Use of alcohol rubs is permissible in places where water access is restricted.) Use of disposable towels is best practice. Use a disposable towel to turn off faucets and open restroom doors after cleaning hands, as well.
  • Place tissue boxes in easily accessible places for children. Encourage them to dispose of immediately and wash their hands after every cough and sneeze. Teach them to sneeze/cough into elbows rather than hands if a tissue is not readily available.
  • Use disposable food preparation gloves or tongs to prepare and serve snacks. Never touch other people's food with your bare hands. If passing a snack plate, teach children the protocol of self serve (only touch your item, don't cough or sneeze on food, don't lick serving spoons, or stick fingers in someone else's food). Consider small individual cups for items such as dipping sauces.
  • Encourage children to label personal belongings and have a separate place for them to keep those items (individual hooks, cubbies, etc.) rather than lumping everything together in a pile.
  • Remind parents that sick children should be given adequate time to recuperate before attending any group sessions.
FACILITATOR TIP
Circle ArtAlice O. Lynch
Metro Program Coordinator
Opening Ceremonies 
Opening ceremonies help us make the transition from the hurly-burly world of working, dealing with the kids, stewing about things, or feeling separate and on our own to the reflective Circle space. They help us shift inwardly from head to heart. Through an opening ritual, we begin to connect with others and to cultivate a sense of community within the Circle. We also begin to connect with ourselves. We feel more centered and open to inner peace.
   
For Circle dialogues, inward centering is essential. Reconnecting within, we touch the place in ourselves that can connect more meaningfully with others. We shift our focus from outer concerns to thoughts of the unseen forces in our lives - our quests for meaning and higher values, from heart-to-heart relating, for the common good, for community, for relatedness to the earth and nature, as well as for a more universal sense of moving in the web of life, connected to all that is. On all levels, rituals open us to a spiritual experience of each other, so we can see beyond our outer forms and deeds to who we are and how we most want to be.
CHAPTER OUTREACH TIP 

SchoolJoan Johnson
Northeast Program Coordinator  

As school opens for another year for Minnesota families, we have some great opportunities to spread the word about Circle of ParentsŪ Support Groups.
  • Put information about your group in the school newsletter that goes home with students.
  • Set up a table at the orientation night at your local schools.
  • Ask if you can be on the agenda for the Teacher Workshops before school opens to inform the classroom teachers about Circle of ParentsŪ Support that is available.
  • Contact your local radio station to see if you can be included in their public service announcements.
  • Have a Fall kickoff meeting with additional publicity - have a speaker.
  • Since many of our groups meet in the late afternoon/early evening, consider how you might offer food and nutritious snacks. Perhaps group members would like to take turns bringing something and have a potluck once in a while. A few groups have started to offer ice cream at the end of each group for both parents and children. Ice cream is easy to keep, it doesn't spoil, and it provides a little social time at the end of the meeting.

Happy September!

PARTICIPANT TESTIMONIALS 
A Parent Group Participant
"With my group, the help is there all the time; we share phone numbers. I know I can pick up the phone and talk to someone to help me get through a real tough time. If your anger is boiling up, just knowing that you can pick up the phone and nothing will happen is a real good feeling. Someone on the other end of the phone will help calm you down and get you back."
Our Mission 
The mission of Minnesota's Circle of Parents is to empower parents to create healthy and loving families through positive parenting and mutual self help.